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The Irish Sun
13 hours ago
- Automotive
- The Irish Sun
Two in 5 drivers have strict rules for passengers from no smoking to no feet on the dashboard dashboard, survey shows
TWO in five motorists enforce a strict set of rules on their passengers when driving, according to research. A poll of 2000 drivers found that Advertisement 3 Car owners say that they treat their car like a baby Credit: SWNS 3 Some admitted that cleaning it is even therapeutic Credit: SWNS The poll also found 35 per cent admit to treating their vehicle 'like a baby' – banning the slamming of doors, muddy clothes and shoes. Some just have an outright ban for fast food, but others draw the line at bringing food in the Meanwhile, others won't even allow passengers to open It also emerged that 48 per cent lovingly wash their Advertisement Read More on Car News One in five want their This research was commissioned by Turtle Wax's to launch its You Are How You Car campaign, which aims to highlight how you treat your car represents how you show up in the world. Matthew Chapman, director of global portfolio for the car care company, said: 'Drivers set rules because they care – not just about cleanliness, but about protecting something that's a reflection of themselves. 'For many people, a Advertisement Most read in Motors Latest 'Whether it's keeping the paintwork pristine, upgrading the tech or splashing out on premium fuel, the emotional connection we have with our vehicles often drives us to spend far more than we realise. 'From Just days until August 1 'left lane' law will throw drivers in PRISON for 'driving just one mph under the speed limit' Other ways drivers keep their motors looking flawless include parking away from other vehicles (21 per cent) and never letting anyone else behind the wheel (19 per cent). And for 41 per cent, cleaning the car even doubles up as a form of stress relief or therapy. Advertisement When their pride and joy is gleaming, 17 per cent feel relaxed, 14 per cent proud – and 10 per cent even say it boosts their confidence. Jo Hemmings, behavioural psychologist, said: 'Our cars, like our homes, are an extension of our own identity. "If we like to look our best when socialising for example – or even just a trip to the shops – then the chances are, it's the same people who present their car with an equal level of high standards. 'As with our homes, showcasing it to reflect our pleasure in living in it, as well as representing our personality, the same can be said about the condition and appearance of our cars. Advertisement "It's also about impression management - a pristine car says something about the way that we live and what we'd like others to think about us. "It speaks of efficiency, organisation, enjoyment and self-respect.' TOP 10 'CAR RULES' The top 10 rules that drivers enforce in their cars have been revealed. The rules include: No smoking No rubbish left behind No feet on the dashboard Everyone must buckle up before moving No slamming the doors No muddy clothing No food or drink in the car No eating fast food No opening fizzy drinks Wipe shoes before getting in To pamper their car further, 23 per cent have taken photos of it, while 19 per cent have given theirs a nickname, according to the findings conducted by And 19 per cent admit they've avoided giving someone a lift – purely to prevent their car from getting grubby. Advertisement Matthew Chapman from Turtle Wax added: 'It's not just about protecting the car's appearance – it's also about safeguarding its value. 'Whether it's paying extra for ceramic coating, refusing to eat or drink in the car, or insisting that passengers 'mind the doors', these little rituals all add up to a clear message: this car matters as it is a reflection of me. 'Ultimately, it's about more than just paintwork and polish. 'The lengths people go to in order to protect their cars reveal a sense of pride, identity and emotional investment that's hard to match.' Advertisement WHAT YOUR CAR SAYS ABOUT YOU ACCORDING TO BEHAVIOURAL PSYCHOLOGIST JO HEMMINGS Behavioural psychologist Jo Hemmings has revealed what your car habits say about you. A Pristine Interior - a need for control and calm If your car is spotless inside - no crumbs, no clutter, even the dashboard gleams - it often signals someone who yearns for control, order and mental clarity. You'll likely find a clean environment calming and use that to deal with external stress. It can also indicate conscientiousness and pride in personal standards. Firm Passenger Rules - strong boundaries and assertive If you ask people to clean their shoes, ban food and drink and are strict about no door slamming for example, you are likely to be assertive, self-aware and value respect for your space. You take ownership of your environment, whether that's your home, your workspace or your car. A Messy Car Interior - a creative, free-spirited mindset If your car is chaotic and you're totally fine with that, it suggests a personality that leans toward spontaneity, creativity and maybe a disorganised approach to life. You often value experiences over aesthetics and may prioritise emotional connection over outward appearances. A Gleaming Exterior - image-conscious and socially aware If your car is always washed and waxed with spotless windows, you're likely to be image-conscious and attentive to how you're perceived. You value first (and subsequent) impressions and see your car as an extension of your personal identity. You may also have a competitive or status-aware streak. No Rules at All – easy-going, possibly reckless If your passengers can eat, drink, play loud music and travel in muddy clothes, you probably prioritise comfort and connection over control. You might be open and flexible, but there's a chance that your slapdash approach might spill over into carelessness. 3 Smoking was the most banned behaviour in cars Credit: SWNS
Scottish Sun
13 hours ago
- Automotive
- Scottish Sun
Two in 5 drivers have strict rules for passengers from no smoking to no feet on the dashboard dashboard, survey shows
Click to share on X/Twitter (Opens in new window) Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window) TWO in five motorists enforce a strict set of rules on their passengers when driving, according to research. A poll of 2000 drivers found that motorists banned everything from smoking, littering and feet on the dashboard when driving. Sign up for Scottish Sun newsletter Sign up 3 Car owners say that they treat their car like a baby Credit: SWNS 3 Some admitted that cleaning it is even therapeutic Credit: SWNS The poll also found 35 per cent admit to treating their vehicle 'like a baby' – banning the slamming of doors, muddy clothes and shoes. Some just have an outright ban for fast food, but others draw the line at bringing food in the car altogether. Meanwhile, others won't even allow passengers to open fizzy drinks while the vehicle is moving. It also emerged that 48 per cent lovingly wash their car regularly, with 22 per cent going a step further by waxing or polishing it. One in five want their motor to look spotless every time they back it out of the driveway – both inside and out. This research was commissioned by Turtle Wax's to launch its You Are How You Car campaign, which aims to highlight how you treat your car represents how you show up in the world. Matthew Chapman, director of global portfolio for the car care company, said: 'Drivers set rules because they care – not just about cleanliness, but about protecting something that's a reflection of themselves. 'For many people, a car is so much more than just a way to get from A to B – it's a passion, a project and a point of pride. 'Whether it's keeping the paintwork pristine, upgrading the tech or splashing out on premium fuel, the emotional connection we have with our vehicles often drives us to spend far more than we realise. 'From personalised number plates to professional-level detailing, it's clear Brits love treating their cars to the very best.' Just days until August 1 'left lane' law will throw drivers in PRISON for 'driving just one mph under the speed limit' Other ways drivers keep their motors looking flawless include parking away from other vehicles (21 per cent) and never letting anyone else behind the wheel (19 per cent). And for 41 per cent, cleaning the car even doubles up as a form of stress relief or therapy. When their pride and joy is gleaming, 17 per cent feel relaxed, 14 per cent proud – and 10 per cent even say it boosts their confidence. Jo Hemmings, behavioural psychologist, said: 'Our cars, like our homes, are an extension of our own identity. "If we like to look our best when socialising for example – or even just a trip to the shops – then the chances are, it's the same people who present their car with an equal level of high standards. 'As with our homes, showcasing it to reflect our pleasure in living in it, as well as representing our personality, the same can be said about the condition and appearance of our cars. "It's also about impression management - a pristine car says something about the way that we live and what we'd like others to think about us. "It speaks of efficiency, organisation, enjoyment and self-respect.' TOP 10 'CAR RULES' The top 10 rules that drivers enforce in their cars have been revealed. The rules include: No smoking No rubbish left behind No feet on the dashboard Everyone must buckle up before moving No slamming the doors No muddy clothing No food or drink in the car No eating fast food No opening fizzy drinks Wipe shoes before getting in To pamper their car further, 23 per cent have taken photos of it, while 19 per cent have given theirs a nickname, according to the findings conducted by And 19 per cent admit they've avoided giving someone a lift – purely to prevent their car from getting grubby. Matthew Chapman from Turtle Wax added: 'It's not just about protecting the car's appearance – it's also about safeguarding its value. 'Whether it's paying extra for ceramic coating, refusing to eat or drink in the car, or insisting that passengers 'mind the doors', these little rituals all add up to a clear message: this car matters as it is a reflection of me. 'Ultimately, it's about more than just paintwork and polish. 'The lengths people go to in order to protect their cars reveal a sense of pride, identity and emotional investment that's hard to match.' WHAT YOUR CAR SAYS ABOUT YOU ACCORDING TO BEHAVIOURAL PSYCHOLOGIST JO HEMMINGS Behavioural psychologist Jo Hemmings has revealed what your car habits say about you. A Pristine Interior - a need for control and calm If your car is spotless inside - no crumbs, no clutter, even the dashboard gleams - it often signals someone who yearns for control, order and mental clarity. You'll likely find a clean environment calming and use that to deal with external stress. It can also indicate conscientiousness and pride in personal standards. Firm Passenger Rules - strong boundaries and assertive If you ask people to clean their shoes, ban food and drink and are strict about no door slamming for example, you are likely to be assertive, self-aware and value respect for your space. You take ownership of your environment, whether that's your home, your workspace or your car. A Messy Car Interior - a creative, free-spirited mindset If your car is chaotic and you're totally fine with that, it suggests a personality that leans toward spontaneity, creativity and maybe a disorganised approach to life. You often value experiences over aesthetics and may prioritise emotional connection over outward appearances. A Gleaming Exterior - image-conscious and socially aware If your car is always washed and waxed with spotless windows, you're likely to be image-conscious and attentive to how you're perceived. You value first (and subsequent) impressions and see your car as an extension of your personal identity. You may also have a competitive or status-aware streak. No Rules at All – easy-going, possibly reckless If your passengers can eat, drink, play loud music and travel in muddy clothes, you probably prioritise comfort and connection over control. You might be open and flexible, but there's a chance that your slapdash approach might spill over into carelessness.
The Sun
21-07-2025
- General
- The Sun
Psychologist who worked with the Radfords reveals early trauma led to brood of 22… & how it became their secret weapon
WITH 22 kids the biggest question many people want to ask the Radfords is, 'why?' The huge brood is an eye-watering thought for most, but Sue and Noel, who were childhood sweethearts, were determined to have as big a family as possible. 10 10 10 And, in a rare twist, both were adopted as babies, leading many to wonder if that was the reasoning behind their decision to create Britain's biggest brood. The couple have always denied that their own adoptions had anything to do with their wish to have two football teams of children. But psychologist Jo Hemmings, who worked with the family on their show 22 Kids and Counting, says that there could be deep-rooted reasons linked to their adoption journeys that may have had a subconscious influence. She says people who have been adopted often feel a great sense of comfort when they have a child of their own, to finally have a connection with a blood relative. 'That is quite important,' she explains. 'Because they are both adopted I think that sense of having their own children together would have had much more significance, but not necessarily 22 of them. 'There isn't any science to back it up and say that either one or both parents that come from adoptive families are more likely each to have more birth children of their own. 'What there is some evidence of is that adopted children tend to be brought up in better socio-economic circumstances by their adoptive parents, so they are given a really stable upbringing, perhaps better education. "A lot is put into their upbringing partly because their parents have chosen them rather than given birth to them. 'So there is something in that. If they both grew up in good, stable adoptive families, they feel they have got as much to give back as they had in their own childhoods.' Despite this, Noel, 54, dismissed links between their adoptions and their huge brood in the couple's book, The Radfords: Making Life Count. Mum-of-22 Sue Radford says she'll NEVER meet her birth mum & it's caused 'disagreements' with Noel, who's also adopted He wrote in one chapter: "A lot of amateur psychologists may think the reason me and Sue have had lots of kids must be linked to the fact we were both adopted, but I don't think there is any connection. "Unless someone comes along and sticks some electrodes on our heads, and says after doing some tests, 'Oh, this is why you've got so many kids,' we're just not going to believe any of those theories.' And wife Sue, 50, agreed, saying: 'No, there is nothing in that - because I don't even think about my birth parents. I don't give the fact that I was adopted any thought at all, and never have.' While Sue has always said she has no desire to find her birth parents, Noel met his birth mother earlier this year, with their reunion televised in the latest series of their TV show. Sense of connection 10 10 Noel and Sue are childhood sweethearts, having met when she was just seven and he was 11. Sue fell pregnant with first child Christopher when she was 13 years old. The couple married three years later and then the children kept on coming. Jo says the couple share a deep bond and work together as a team. 'When you speak to them, they say no it is nothing to do with the psychology of us being adopted, it absolutely is because we felt we have a lot to give, we adore children - Sue especially adores babies," she says. "I don't think their intention was to have so many children, but it worked out for them. 'When I have talked to them one thing that comes across is how incredibly gentle and calm they are. You don't see that in many parents who have three, four or five kids, never mind 22 of them. 'There is just that feeling that they had so much to give, they love bringing up children. "They don't claim benefits. They have made money over the years with Noel's successful bakery business and because their TV series have become so successful they have become influencers, in a way. 'I just think they are a remarkable family who have this presence about them. I'm sure there is chaos at times, but when you see them with their children, you don't see it. "They are good, solid, stable, parents, which is amazing. 'They are very straight-talking, they are very resilient. So when there have been problems, you feel that they are a very strong couple together. "Also they are talkers. They sit down and say, 'What are we going to do about this?' They are very open and candid with their children and will talk everything over with them. "They always bounce back and they have this lovely soft energy about them which makes them work brilliantly together as parents.' Driving force Jo believes the Radfords' incredible parenting skills stem from their own upbringings in their loving, adoptive families. She says: 'Sue was very young when she had her first child. I think their driving force is that they badly wanted to be parents. "I know they are at pains to deny that it is anything to do with the adoptions, and I don't want to go against what they say, but knowing that you can give a large number of children a very stable, productive and healthy upbringing would probably have come from the upbringings they had. 'Often adoptive parents put the extra mile in, they over-compensate for the sadness that they didn't grow up with their birth families. "I think a lot of it comes from the happiness and security that they had when they were growing up.' For years, both Noel and Sue had been adamant that they didn't want to trace their birth families, saying they regarded their adoptive parents as their mums and dads and had idyllic upbringings. But Jo says their background of both being adopted will have made them kindred spirits. 'I don't know how rare it is for two adopted people to get married, but it would have been one of the early conversations they had when they first met,' she explains. 'It would have been one of those bonding things, those shared values, that make relationships solid. "I think having that in common would have been a really important thing for them as they both knew implicitly how the other one might have felt growing up. "I think they were very similar in their views. I think they had all agreed at the time that they had both had such wonderful childhoods, there was no need or drive to seek where they were from.' Meet the Radford children Christopher, 36 The oldest Radford child, Chris works as a glazier and is married to Nicole Spencer. They have three children: Maise-Paige, eight, Jacob, five, and Oakland, three. Sophie Rose, 31 Sophie has her own cleaning company, Time for Sparkle, and shares three children with husband Joseph Bradley: Daisy, 12, Ayprill, 10, and Leo, nine. Chloe Anne, 29 Chloe's a make-up artist and is mum to daughter Milla, two, and son Bodhi, three months, with her boyfriend, Jake Wallace. Jack Richard, 28 Publicity-shy Jack prefers to stay out of the limelight, and hasn't publicly shared his relationship status or career. Daniel Leon, 26 After training to be in the RAF, Daniel had a near-fatal car crash in Bristol, which played out on his parents' TV show. He overcame his subsequent fear of driving in order to emigrate to Australia. Luke James, 24 Luke came out to his parents as bisexual in 2021 - warming viewers' hearts after Sue and Noel attended a Pride festival with him that summer. He works for the family's pie business. Millie Jo, 23 Millie is married to Harley Passmore and is mum to three children: Ophelia, four (from a previous relationship), and Chester, three, and Elodie, one (whom she shares with Harley). Katie Louise, 22 Katie works at a nursery and shares one nine-month-old son, Ronnie, with her boyfriend Connor Carter. James Edward, 21 James is busy working in the family's pie shop and hopes to run it someday. Ellie May, 20 Ellie's training to be a hairdresser, and has also worked part-time in a hotel housekeeping job. Aimee Elizabeth, 19 Aimee's also qualified to be a hairstylist and has famously practised her skills on family members in video clips. Josh Benjamin, 18 According to his parents, Josh was a 'nightmare' at school and he didn't commit to his studies - but that all changed when he found his passion as a sports coach. Max Joseph, 16 Max was diagnosed with autism in 2021, and has since struggled with socialising. Working in the pie shop has apparently helped him. Tillie May, 15 One of Tillie's legs stopped growing when she was just 18 months old, due to an infection. In 2019, she was fitted with a frame to help strengthen the limb, but - last year - it was revealed she'd need further treatment and potential surgery. Oscar Will, 13 Oscar has been described as having 'incredible initiative' at school. Casper Theo, 12 Casper always dreamt of being a footballer, but was gutted on his family's show when he didn't make it into a Premier League club's youth team. Alfie Thomas Alfie would have been the Radfords' 17th child, but he was tragically stillborn at three months. The Radfords refer to him as their 'missing heartbeat'. Hallie Alphia Beau, 10 Hallie's middle name was given in tribute to her late brother, who died just a year before her birth. Phoebe Willow, eight Phoebe has been awarded prizes at school for her achievements, much to her parents' pride. Archie Rowan, seven As the 20th Radford baby, Archie was expected to be the last - marking 'a nice, even number' in Sue's words. Bonnie Raye, six Again, Bonnie was expected to 'finish' the brood, but plans changed. Heidie Rose, five The youngest Radford child, mum Sue has since insisted: 'No, that's it now!' Tragic discovery Things changed for Noel in 2023 when the couple's teenage daughter Ellie was found to have the hereditary liver disorder Gilbert's Syndrome. The couple were tested and Noel was found to be a carrier. He said at the time: 'It's got me thinking, we're both adopted and we know absolutely nothing about our medical history at all. 'I'd quite like to find out more about my family, where I'm from, just anything about myself. 'It might tell me a bit more about who I am, where I'm from, possibly my birth parents. Now, as I'm getting older, I do think about it a bit more often.' Fighting back tears he added: 'I don't even know why I don't like talking about it. I just don't like it. "I have a lot of respect for my mum and dad.' In the opening episode of the latest series of 22 Kids and Counting, Noel reveals he met his birth mother for the first time - and she was shocked by the news of his huge family. He told The Sun: 'It was emotional meeting her and I was nervous beforehand. "You don't know what she is going to look or sound like, and how she will react. "A lot was going through my head, but she was so lovely and so glad to see me. We were with each other for a couple of hours.' His mum, who chose to stay anonymous in the show, told him she was forced to give him up at 17 after she split from his birth father. He added: 'As I have got older, I have been curious to find her,' Noel explains. 'I'm only ever going to have one chance and I've got no regrets that I have.' 10 10 10
North Wales Live
04-07-2025
- Health
- North Wales Live
Quarter of men experience same health problem but won't talk about it
Laughter really is the best medicine, according to a psychologist, as 70% of men say use humour to talk about health concerns. A study by TENA Men revealed that almost half of men who experience bladder leaks believe humour helps lighten the conversation around a serious health issue. Almost two-fifths of men who've at least once experienced light incontinence and bladder weakness, say humour helps them feel more comfortable opening up as more than half said they worried about bladder weakness more than erectile dysfunction going bald. The conditions they joked about most were having a beer belly, hair loss, erectile dysfunction, ageing and bladder weakness. Psychologist Jo Hemmings said men often use humour as a social coping mechanism to navigate serious issues, including health. The survey found two-thirds of men don't feel comfortable speaking about their bladder weakness with a partner and 77% don't feel confident confiding in any friends or family. 46% feel uncomfortable listening to other men talk about their health issues too. With 25% of men over the age of 40 experiencing bladder leaks, TENA is urging men to break the taboo and speak to people about any changes they notice and seek advice from a healthcare professional. Mark Geddes, Brand Manager at TENA Men, said: "Bladder weakness affects many men over 40, but social stigma often prevents them from seeking help. "It was shocking to see that urine incontinence is the condition men worry about the most over conditions such as weight gain, erectile dysfunction and hair loss, when there's so much that can be done to help manage and improve symptoms. We hope to inspire men to take control of their bladder health and open up the conversation." Jo Hemmings said: "Men often use humour as a social coping mechanism to navigate conversations around serious issues including their health. When discussing topics that may carry embarrassment or stigma, such as bladder weakness, humour allows them to approach the topic without feeling emasculated or seeming vulnerable." The Dry Hour launches on TENA Men's social channels including Facebook, YouTube and Instagram. Hosted by presenter and actor Justin Moorehouse, guests will include adaptive athlete Jamie Gane, Behavioural Psychologist Jo Hemmings and Prostate Cancer UK volunteer, Aldred Fagan.
Wales Online
04-07-2025
- Health
- Wales Online
Quarter of men experience same health problem but won't talk about it
Our community members are treated to special offers, promotions and adverts from us and our partners. You can check out at any time. More info Laughter really is the best medicine, according to a psychologist, as 70% of men say use humour to talk about health concerns. A study by TENA Men revealed that almost half of men who experience bladder leaks believe humour helps lighten the conversation around a serious health issue. Almost two-fifths of men who've at least once experienced light incontinence and bladder weakness, say humour helps them feel more comfortable opening up as more than half said they worried about bladder weakness more than erectile dysfunction going bald. The conditions they joked about most were having a beer belly, hair loss, erectile dysfunction, ageing and bladder weakness. Psychologist Jo Hemmings said men often use humour as a social coping mechanism to navigate serious issues, including health. The survey found two-thirds of men don't feel comfortable speaking about their bladder weakness with a partner and 77% don't feel confident confiding in any friends or family. 46% feel uncomfortable listening to other men talk about their health issues too. With 25% of men over the age of 40 experiencing bladder leaks, TENA is urging men to break the taboo and speak to people about any changes they notice and seek advice from a healthcare professional. Mark Geddes, Brand Manager at TENA Men, said: "Bladder weakness affects many men over 40, but social stigma often prevents them from seeking help. "It was shocking to see that urine incontinence is the condition men worry about the most over conditions such as weight gain, erectile dysfunction and hair loss, when there's so much that can be done to help manage and improve symptoms. We hope to inspire men to take control of their bladder health and open up the conversation." Jo Hemmings said: "Men often use humour as a social coping mechanism to navigate conversations around serious issues including their health. When discussing topics that may carry embarrassment or stigma, such as bladder weakness, humour allows them to approach the topic without feeling emasculated or seeming vulnerable." The Dry Hour launches on TENA Men's social channels including Facebook, YouTube and Instagram. Hosted by presenter and actor Justin Moorehouse, guests will include adaptive athlete Jamie Gane, Behavioural Psychologist Jo Hemmings and Prostate Cancer UK volunteer, Aldred Fagan.
