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Yahoo
11-07-2025
- Entertainment
- Yahoo
A New TikTok Trend Has Women Sharing How Men Talk To Them, And If You're A Woman, It Likely Won't Surprise You
A TikTok trend has women sharing screenshots and voice notes that call men out for their bad behavior to a new Lorde song — ironically captioning them "#ManOfTheYear." Related: But what's supposed to be an empowering trend for women to stand up against emotional abuse and mistreatment has been overshadowed by the 'good men' of the internet who are utterly shocked by the stories they're hearing. Content creator Jordan Johnson, who goes by @Swifieinkc on TikTok, created a stitch response to one male content creator's post. In the video, a male content creator questioned the participants by asking them where they were finding these awful men: 'I don't know a single guy in my life who would text a woman like that,' said the male creator in the stitch. 'Where are you finding these dudes'? 'Yes, you do,' Jordan responded. 'In fact, statistics show that probably most of the men in your life have treated at least one woman like that at some point. They just don't tell you how they treat women.' 'I had seen so many men in comment sections surprised by a lot of the texts displayed in this trend,' Johnson told HuffPost, explaining why she created this video. 'But as a woman, while a lot of the messages in the trend were jarring and scary, none of them were surprising.' Let's Hear It For #ManOfTheYear Related: The #ManOfTheYear trend started shortly after Lorde released her song 'Man of the Year' on May 29, 2025. While the song is about Lorde's experience with gender fluidity, listeners found the irony between the lyric 'Let's hear it for the man of the year,' and their personal relationships with men. 'For so long, emotional abuse, manipulation and gaslighting have thrived in silence,' said Jenny Maenpaa, a licensed clinical social worker (LCSW) and founder of the New York City Psychotherapy Collective.'This trend uses irony and satire to shine a light on behaviors that women were previously told to 'get over' or 'stop exaggerating.'' Related: Currently, there are over 83K TikToks of women sharing conversations, voicemails and voice notes, text messages and other stories of men cheating, verbally abusing their partners or demonstrating other horrible behaviors. The trend grew so popular that even Lorde posted her own TikTok commenting on these videos. For Maenpaa, this trend shows how powerful it can be for women to speak up: 'What we're seeing is collective validation — a moment where women are saying, 'You're not crazy. This happened to me, too, ' she said. That kind of public witnessing can be incredibly healing.' Suzannah Weiss, marriage and family therapist and resident sexologist for Biird, also said she finds these videos to be incredibly empowering, allowing women to redefine what is acceptable male behavior. 'It is empowering for women to set the rules for what male behavior is acceptable and what isn't, especially in a world where men have traditionally called the shots and gotten away with behavior they never should have,' Weiss said. Yet, Men Are Still Doing A Lot Of Talking (Over Women) Related: Not only are many men dumbfounded by the bad behavior in these videos, but they are also going as far as blaming women for seeking these partners out in the first place. For Maenpaa, she believes that when men respond with 'Well, you're just picking the wrong guys,' or 'I don't know anyone like that,' they're really saying, 'I'm uncomfortable with this reality, so I'm going to distance myself from it.' The actual truth? 'If you're a man and you don't know any men who behave like this, you either aren't paying attention, or you're the one people are protecting,' Maenpaa said. In her video, Johnson also pointed out how many women probably aren't participating in this trend because they are still in abusive relationships or because they fear their feelings will get dismissed. It already takes a great deal of courage to get online and be vulnerable. So, when men go online and say, 'Actually, you might be the problem,' she said it can actually encourage more women to stay silent. How Men Can Ditch The Bystander Effect And Become Allies Both Weiss and Maenpaa agree that the first step towards allyship is for men to start listening to women's stories — without inserting themselves or trying to defend other men. 'Educate yourself on gender dynamics, consent and emotional labor without relying on the women in your life to be your teachers,' Maenpaa said. Maenpaa also adds that it's important for men to continue championing women even beyond this trend. 'Men can play a role in amplifying women's perspectives — whether that means crediting their ideas, sharing their stories, or stepping back to make space for their leadership.' Another obvious way men can be better allies is to hold their male friends accountable for their actions, according to Weiss. 'Men might be surprised by how many of their friends do mistreat women behind closed doors,' Weiss said, 'and it's essential that they speak up for women.' For Maenpaa, accountability doesn't have to look like confrontation, but it does require courage. 'If your friend makes a sexist joke, say, 'That's not funny!' If you hear someone bragging about behavior that crosses a line, you don't have to laugh along. You can say, 'That actually sounds pretty messed up.' Silence is complicity. And if you truly value women, your values have to show up when women aren't in the room.' Lastly, understand that allyship isn't a one-and-done thing. It's about constantly showing up, even if it feels uncomfortable, unpopular and inconvenient, Maepenaa said. 'That's where real change begins.'This article originally appeared on HuffPost. Also in Internet Finds: Also in Internet Finds: Also in Internet Finds:
Buzz Feed
10-07-2025
- Entertainment
- Buzz Feed
Viral TikTok Shows How Men Really Talk To Women
A TikTok trend has women sharing screenshots and voice notes that call men out for their bad behavior to a new Lorde song — ironically captioning them " #ManOfTheYear." But what's supposed to be an empowering trend for women to stand up against emotional abuse and mistreatment has been overshadowed by the 'good men' of the internet who are utterly shocked by the stories they're hearing. Content creator Jordan Johnson, who goes by @Swifieinkc on TikTok, created a stitch response to one male content creator's post. In the video, a male content creator questioned the participants by asking them where they were finding these awful men: 'I don't know a single guy in my life who would text a woman like that,' said the male creator in the stitch. 'Where are you finding these dudes'? 'Yes, you do,' Jordan responded. 'In fact, statistics show that probably most of the men in your life have treated at least one woman like that at some point. They just don't tell you how they treat women.' 'I had seen so many men in comment sections surprised by a lot of the texts displayed in this trend,' Johnson told HuffPost, explaining why she created this video. 'But as a woman, while a lot of the messages in the trend were jarring and scary, none of them were surprising.' The #ManOfTheYear trend started shortly after Lorde released her song 'Man of the Year' on May 29, 2025. While the song is about Lorde's experience with gender fluidity, listeners found the irony between the lyric 'Let's hear it for the man of the year,' and their personal relationships with men. 'For so long, emotional abuse, manipulation and gaslighting have thrived in silence,' said Jenny Maenpaa, a licensed clinical social worker (LCSW) and founder of the New York City Psychotherapy Collective.'This trend uses irony and satire to shine a light on behaviors that women were previously told to 'get over' or 'stop exaggerating.'' Currently, there are over 83K TikToks of women sharing conversations, voicemails and voice notes, text messages and other stories of men cheating, verbally abusing their partners or demonstrating other horrible behaviors. The trend grew so popular that even Lorde posted her own TikTok commenting on these videos. For Maenpaa, this trend shows how powerful it can be for women to speak up: 'What we're seeing is collective validation — a moment where women are saying, 'You're not crazy. This happened to me, too, ' she said. That kind of public witnessing can be incredibly healing.' Suzannah Weiss, marriage and family therapist and resident sexologist for Biird, also said she finds these videos to be incredibly empowering, allowing women to redefine what is acceptable male behavior. 'It is empowering for women to set the rules for what male behavior is acceptable and what isn't, especially in a world where men have traditionally called the shots and gotten away with behavior they never should have,' Weiss said. Not only are many men dumbfounded by the bad behavior in these videos, but they are also going as far as blaming women for seeking these partners out in the first place. For Maenpaa, she believes that when men respond with 'Well, you're just picking the wrong guys,' or 'I don't know anyone like that,' they're really saying, 'I'm uncomfortable with this reality, so I'm going to distance myself from it.' The actual truth? 'If you're a man and you don't know any men who behave like this, you either aren't paying attention, or you're the one people are protecting,' Maenpaa said. In her video, Johnson also pointed out how many women probably aren't participating in this trend because they are still in abusive relationships or because they fear their feelings will get dismissed. It already takes a great deal of courage to get online and be vulnerable. So, when men go online and say, 'Actually, you might be the problem,' she said it can actually encourage more women to stay silent. Both Weiss and Maenpaa agree that the first step towards allyship is for men to start listening to women's stories — without inserting themselves or trying to defend other men. 'Educate yourself on gender dynamics, consent and emotional labor without relying on the women in your life to be your teachers,' Maenpaa said. Maenpaa also adds that it's important for men to continue championing women even beyond this trend. 'Men can play a role in amplifying women's perspectives — whether that means crediting their ideas, sharing their stories, or stepping back to make space for their leadership.' Another obvious way men can be better allies is to hold their male friends accountable for their actions, according to Weiss. 'Men might be surprised by how many of their friends do mistreat women behind closed doors,' Weiss said, 'and it's essential that they speak up for women.' For Maenpaa, accountability doesn't have to look like confrontation, but it does require courage. 'If your friend makes a sexist joke, say, 'That's not funny!' If you hear someone bragging about behavior that crosses a line, you don't have to laugh along. You can say, 'That actually sounds pretty messed up.' Silence is complicity. And if you truly value women, your values have to show up when women aren't in the room.' Lastly, understand that allyship isn't a one-and-done thing. It's about constantly showing up, even if it feels uncomfortable, unpopular and inconvenient, Maepenaa said. 'That's where real change begins.' HuffPost.
Yahoo
03-06-2025
- General
- Yahoo
Augusta Commissioner Jordan Johnson lets us know what's happening at city hall and around the area
AUGUSTA, Ga (WJBF) These are busy times for Augusta's leaders. We welcome District 1 Commissioner Jordan Johnson to The Means Report. He talks about help for the homeless, the arena naming, and other hot topics in Richmond County. Watch our interview and be sure to join us for The Means Report. We are on Monday afternoon at 12:30 on NewsChannel 6. Copyright 2025 Nexstar Media, Inc. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten, or redistributed.
Yahoo
15-05-2025
- General
- Yahoo
Augusta seeks community input to update zoning ordinance
AUGUSTA, Ga. (WJBF)- The Augusta Planning & Development Department wants your input on the current zoning ordinance. It dates back to the 1960's and sections have been amended over the years. But now a complete update is underway. This zoning survey is more important than you might think. It is designed for you to help create a thriving city. The ordinance is outdated, and some city leaders say a new one would help design the garden city of the future. They want to hear from you. You are being asked to fill out an online survey. First just click on Augusta Ga Dot Gov. Then scroll down to Zoning Ordinance Update-Your voice matters and click on Take the Survey. Answer eleven questions then submit. It's that simple.. I asked Commissioner Jordan Johnson why this survey is important. 'We want to get your input on how you want to see your communities from a greenspace perspective. From infrastructure and sidewalks to how do you want your downtown and how do you want your river walk? We want to get your opinion about what you feel Augusta should look like moving forward again. We always talk about the future of Augusta, but it's important for us to understand that the future is here.' To take part in that survey head to Last day is June 1st. Copyright 2025 Nexstar Media, Inc. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten, or redistributed.
Yahoo
14-03-2025
- Climate
- Yahoo
Final day for debris pickup in Grovetown is St. Patrick's Day
GROVETOWN, Ga. (WJBF) – It's been almost six months since Hurricane Helene hit the CSRA. Crews have been working around the clock since then to pick up debris, and it's the home stretch for the city of Grovetown. If you drive around roads and streets in Grovetown, you won't find much debris left—part of the reason why is because the deadline for residents is this coming Monday, March 17th. Despite the setbacks, city leaders have been pleased with the progress. 'The debris recovery efforts since Hurricane Helene have been trying. It has been a long and arduous process, but we're pretty happy with how things have turned out,' said PIO Jordan Johnson. Contractors have picked up over 54,000 cubic yards of debris across the city. They will be going around to get remaining debris piles between now and 5 PM Monday to make sure everyone is accounted for. 'We've gone around and checked to see that folks have put their debris roadside, and we've checked to see that if they still need pickup, we're communicating that with our contractors. We'll be doing that again shortly after the deadline on Monday at 5 PM, just to make sure that the folks that have their stuff out by that time will receive the pickup the contractor will be providing,' Johnson said. Michael Krecskay's family lives in the area, and says work crews have been efficient. 'I think so, around this area it looks pretty good—other than obvious huge trees that are laying everywhere, but that's different. The side of the road cleanup looks pretty good, especially compared to where I live out in Richmond County,' said Krecskay. 'We're just encouraging folks to get those debris piles out by the side of the road, that way the contractors can come and get them. Hopefully, like I said, we can move on from this historic storm,' Johnson added. Johnson is also reminding the community to only put vegetative debris on the curb for contractors to pick up. He says if other debris is mixed in, homeowners will have to hire a private sector to get any remaining debris. For more information about the deadline or any questions about debris pickup, visit the city of Grovetown Facebook page. Copyright 2025 Nexstar Media, Inc. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten, or redistributed.
