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Daily Mirror
a day ago
- Entertainment
- Daily Mirror
Brits pull bogus sickies to stay at home and have sex, shock research reveals
Brits are going to great lengths to have sex with their partner when they're both in the mood, even calling in sick to slip between the sheets when the moment arises New research reveals a quarter of Brits have admitted pulling a sickie to get it on with their lover — while 31% manage to find time for intimacy during the working day. And more than one in 10 (15%) confessed they've unknowingly called their partner for virtual sex while they were on a work Zoom call. While 10pm may traditionally be the UK's sexiest time, the new findings from sexual wellness brand LELO shows that 12.5million adults admit to getting intimate during the standard 9-to-5 working day. In fact, 44% confessed they've considered being late to work to squeeze a steamy session in with their partner. Timing is a challenge for many couples, with 48% saying they're often not in sync with their partner's libido. This has led many to get creative — from pencilling intimacy into their work calendars to finding spontaneous moments to connect. Nearly half (49%) of those surveyed say they've scheduled sex with their partner, and 41% do so multiple times a week. Developing tech in sex will be the key to couples enhancing their connection in the future, as predicted in LELO's 2025 Futurist Report, which explores the trends shaping the sexual wellness industry. With long distance love on the rise, this suggests that being physically together won't be a blocker to getting any action. Currently 68% of millennials and 59% of Gen Z feel comfortable using technology to enhance their sex lives. But this openness isn't just limited to younger generations, as 52% of Gen X and 33% of baby boomers feel the same, highlighting a cross-generational shift in attitudes toward sex tech. A third of people polled are sexting (32%), 23% are using video calls, 22% watch porn together, 15% share voice notes, and 10% are using remote control sex toys to bridge the physical gap. Still, long-distance lovers face unique challenges — 57% cite timing mismatches as the biggest hurdle, followed by feeling emotionally disconnected through a screen (41%), camera shyness (38%), and even unreliable internet connections (35%). This isn't surprising given 12% of long-distance lovers are navigating relationships spanning up to 9,999 miles – the rough distance between Britain and Australia. Dishing out top tips for couples to find their ultimate 'pleasure hour' no matter the distance, work timetable or life demands, LELO's psychosexual therapist Kate Moyle said: 'The reality is that most couples are not perfectly sexually aligned when they want sex, what they desire, or their sexual preferences, so it is always something that is developed and adapted between partners. 'Scheduling time to be intimate together is a way of offering intention and attention, which are both important for maintaining a sex life, particularly in a long-term relationship. Many people note being tired, stressed, parental responsibilities and work distractions, alongside not feeling in the mood as reasons for not having sex. 'But for most, those reasons aren't going to change, so scheduling time can be a productive buffer and a way of ensuring that their sex life doesn't unintentionally disappear off the priority list. 'As we see from the Futurist Report sex tech is playing a huge role for those in long distance relationships, never before have we done more of our communicating and connecting through devices than in-person. 'Technology offers opportunities to share, connect and experience in simultaneous ways, even if they are countries apart. The physical distance between people doesn't have to diminish their sex lives, adapting how they 'do sex' can still feel just as satisfying and valid, even if it's not an in-person experience.' Kate Moyle's top tips: Be realistic If you have young children, mornings before work are unlikely to be the ideal time for intimacy - especially if you already find time pressure stressful. Disrupting your usual morning routine just to squeeze in sex may end up creating more anxiety than sexual charge. You may need to think about changing your routine. For example, if evenings used to work well but you now find the best uninterrupted time is lunch when you're both working from home, then give it a try. Just the act of putting the time aside for each other and your relationship is the priority. You don't have to schedule what you do during this time. Set ground rules There are important conversations to be had around what feels good and what doesn't, especially in a long-distance relationship. Ground rules could include how you send photos or videos, and how content is stored. Discuss if it should be in a password protected album, and make sure that you are not connected to any other device sharing. If you're sharing lots with each other online then feeling safe doing it will allow you to be more curious, comfortable and confident. Be tech curious We have embraced tech in every other area of our lives, and for many the most reliable, consistent and arguably intimate relationships can be with our devices. When trying something new the focus should be on how it can enhance your sexual experiences and feelings of togetherness. Treat it with curiosity and talk about it in advance – then choose something together so that you both get excited. As with anything new, try it without pressure and see what feels good and what works for you - introducing something different might not work perfectly the first time, but you can have fun trying. Give intimacy attention Most couples have some level of misaligned schedules – balancing work, home and everything in between. It's important to remember that intimacy won't look after itself – nothing else in life does. Don't measure your sex life solely by having sex. It's also about feeling desire, connecting moments that build sexual charge between you, and physical contact – not always sexual – at times other than as a pre-cursor to sex. Many couples go through phases where they are having less regular sex, but they still feel that their sexual connection is strong. This is due to all the other factors which play a role in that intimate relationship. Embrace change How we consider sex is changing and couples in long-distance relationships report having high levels of sexual satisfaction because sex is more expansive for them than a particular act. The use of technology, either as an assistant or vehicle to sexual experiences, changes how they look, but for many it adds a different element to how they feel. As we see with LELO's report, people are adapting their sex lives to work with busy lifestyles, which make finding time more challenging, and these adaptations are a positive thing. Sex lives are adaptable, rather than being fixed or limited, allowing people to fit intimacy into their lives in whatever way works best for them. Most importantly - whatever the type of sex or how people are having sex - is that it works for them. Everything else in life is changing, so why wouldn't our sex lives evolve too?
New York Post
10-07-2025
- Entertainment
- New York Post
Cut prices, not pleasure, with the best Prime Day sex toy and lubricant deals
New York Post may be compensated and/or receive an affiliate commission if you click or buy through our links. Featured pricing is subject to change. Prime Day isn't just for smart TVs and bulk toilet paper. It's also your annual excuse to stock up on bedroom accessories without anyone batting an eye. Whether you're shopping solo or looking to introduce some more fun with a partner, some of the best deals this July 8–12 are hiding in plain sight. And trust me, a vibrating ring or bottle of silicone lube can be just as exciting as an air fryer (yes, I also write about kitchen deals as a private chef). Amazon's Prime Day sex toy sales cover everything from bestselling vibrators and discreet massagers to lubes, arousal oils, and even couples kits that are far less intimidating than they sound. You do need a Prime membership to snag these discounts, but that also means two-day shipping, which might just beat the foreplay. If you've been curious, now's the time to try it without paying full price (or leaving the house). As someone who's spent a good chunk of their adult life shopping for work, I can confirm that the best sexual wellness finds are often the ones you never knew you needed. So let this be your official permission slip: Save 40% on that toy you keep hovering over in your cart. Get the bougie bottle of lube. Invest in your own damn pleasure. It's Prime Day, and we're all adults here. Best Vibrator and Toy Deals | Best Suction Deals | Best Lubricant Deals Best Vibrator and Toy Deals Experience the ultimate in luxury pleasure with the LELO SORAYA Wave, a dual-stimulation vibrator that moves like the tides. Its unique WaveMotion technology delivers deep, satisfying sensations for a truly mind-blowing experience. The IntimateRose Pelvic Wand is designed for targeted pelvic floor muscle relief, featuring a unique ergonomic shape for effective trigger point release. Made from smooth, medical-grade silicone, it offers a comfortable and precise solution for alleviating pelvic pain and discomfort. Get twice the pleasure with the plusOne Dual Rabbit Vibrator, featuring dual motors for simultaneous internal and external stimulation. With multiple vibration settings and a body-safe silicone design, it's your ticket to endless exploration and satisfaction. The LELO TOR 2 Intimate Vibrating Cock Ring is the perfect addition to your intimate play, offering powerful vibrations for both partners. Its smooth silicone and easy-to-use controls make it a luxurious and exciting enhancement to any encounter. Turn any door into a playground of pleasure with the Hgpolper BDSM Door Sex Swing with Seat. This easy-to-install swing offers endless positions and support for adventurous couples. Dive into a world of fun with this versatile and thrilling addition to your playtime. 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New York Post
17-06-2025
- Lifestyle
- New York Post
Nearly a quarter of Americans want a break from sex — a new study shows why
A quarter of Americans want a break from sex (24%), according to new research. A survey explored how 2,000 adults are viewing intimacy in today's day and age, finding that some of the reasons they gave for wanting a break being 'to learn other forms of intimacy,' 'give the body and mind a chance to catch up' or because they 'want emotional closeness more.' Advertisement Even beyond their personal goals, nearly a third sadly believe romance is dead (30%), believing that real love and romantic gestures are no longer valued today. These ideas have played a role in half of respondents previously taking an extended break from having sex (52%) for an average of six months. 7 New research revealed that 24% of Americans want a break from sex. Louis Beauchet – Conducted by Talker Research in partnership with LELO, the survey found that of those who took a sex sabbatical, 53% said that it made them miss and appreciate it more, while just 11% said it had the opposite effect on them. Advertisement Many have found themselves enjoying singledom, with 69% of those who aren't in relationships content with being single and only 21% actively looking for a relationship. 7 Most believe that believing that real love and romantic gestures are no longer valued today. SWNY Those who aren't looking for relationships said it's because they are 'very comfortable with [my] life at the moment, ' 'waiting for the right one to come to me' or simply because they are 'satisfied with [my] single life.' With that in mind, 55% of singles would rather fall in love with life than with someone else next. Advertisement Respondents are also looking to be grounded more often, as 47% of single Americans agree that relationships tend to be too focused on the far future instead of the now. It doesn't help that half of those surveyed have been in a relationship that was 'ruined' by expectations for what it 'should' be like (49%). 7 For most people, distance makes the heart grow fonder. SWNY 7 Sadly a third of Americans believe romance is dead. SWNY Advertisement As a result, a majority of singles said that a relationship is not what they need right now (59%). 'Slowing down and taking a break from sex can be a healthy and beneficial approach in various situations, whether for personal growth, relationship issues or addressing specific issues,' said Luka Matutinovic, chief marketing officer at LELO. 'A sex break can allow for a reassessment of sexual desires and needs. Moreover, taking a break from the pressure and focus of sex can reset your relationship and facilitate honesty with yourself and each other.' But sex isn't everything: The average person says that just 37% of intimacy has to do with sex, and 57% instead has to do with understanding each other on a personal level. Wanting more than just physicality, three in four express intimacy to their partner in alternate ways (76%). 7 To some, sex isn't everything. SWNY Some of their favorite ways to do so are 'holding hands,' 'kissing and touching' and appreciating small moments together like 'brushing his hair.' Further, four times the percentage of respondents agree that they'd rather have a partner that meets their emotional intimacy needs than their physical intimacy needs. 7 While 47% believe that taking a break from sex is healthy for couples, 44% of those in relationships said that theirs wouldn't last a year without sex. SWNY Advertisement Still, half of Americans acknowledge that sex is necessary for bringing two people closer romantically (54%). While 47% believe that taking a break from sex is healthy for couples, 44% of those in relationships said that theirs wouldn't last a year without sex. The average person believes that couples should have sex three times a week in order to have a 'healthy sex life.' 7 On average, Americans admit they can't go more than five months without kissing or cuddling, and six months with no sex. SWNY Advertisement And when it comes to themselves, on average, Americans admit they can't go more than five months without kissing or cuddling, and six months with no sex. 'Sex and intimacy are distinct, and while they can coexist, they don't need to be synonymous,' said Matutinovic. 'Taking breaks from sex or focusing on other forms of physical intimacy can actually enhance a sex life by reducing pressure and fostering exploration, as well as introducing new additions to your routine, like sex toys, thus bolstering emotional intimacy.' NON-SEXUAL WAYS RESPONDENTS ARE INTIMATE 'Compliments.' ''Cuddling.' 'Giving them a shoulder massage.' 'Kissing and touching.' 'Having uplifting words and encouragement.' 'Cook for them.' 'Buying gifts.' 'Holding hands.' 'Deep spiritual conversation.' 'Brushing his hair.' Advertisement Survey methodology: Talker Research surveyed 2,000 general population Americans; the survey was commissioned by LELO and administered and conducted online by Talker Research between May 23 and May 27, 2025.
Miami Herald
17-06-2025
- General
- Miami Herald
Is romance dead? Nearly a third say real love is a thing of the past
A quarter of Americans want a break from sex (24%), according to new research. A survey explored how 2,000 adults are viewing intimacy in today's day and age, finding that some of the reasons they gave for wanting a break being "to learn other forms of intimacy," "give the body and mind a chance to catch up" or because they "want emotional closeness more." Even beyond their personal goals, nearly a third sadly believe romance is dead (30%), believing that real love and romantic gestures are no longer valued today. These ideas have played a role in half of respondents previously taking an extended break from having sex (52%) for an average of six months. Conducted by Talker Research in partnership with LELO, the survey found that of those who took a sex sabbatical, 53% said that it made them miss and appreciate it more, while just 11% said it had the opposite effect on them. Many have found themselves enjoying singledom, with 69% of those who aren't in relationships content with being single and only 21% actively looking for a relationship. Those who aren't looking for relationships said it's because they are "very comfortable with [my] life at the moment, " "waiting for the right one to come to me" or simply because they are "satisfied with [my] single life." With that in mind, 55% of singles would rather fall in love with life than with someone else next. Respondents are also looking to be grounded more often, as 47% of single Americans agree that relationships tend to be too focused on the far future instead of the now. It doesn't help that half of those surveyed have been in a relationship that was "ruined" by expectations for what it "should" be like (49%). As a result, a majority of singles said that a relationship is not what they need right now (59%). "Slowing down and taking a break from sex can be a healthy and beneficial approach in various situations, whether for personal growth, relationship issues or addressing specific issues," said Luka Matutinovic, chief marketing officer at LELO. "A sex break can allow for a reassessment of sexual desires and needs. Moreover, taking a break from the pressure and focus of sex can reset your relationship and facilitate honesty with yourself and each other." But sex isn't everything: The average person says that just 37% of intimacy has to do with sex, and 57% instead has to do with understanding each other on a personal level. Wanting more than just physicality, three in four express intimacy to their partner in alternate ways (76%). Some of their favorite ways to do so are "holding hands," "kissing and touching" and appreciating small moments together like "brushing his hair." Further, four times the percentage of respondents agree that they'd rather have a partner that meets their emotional intimacy needs than their physical intimacy needs. Still, half of Americans acknowledge that sex is necessary for bringing two people closer romantically (54%). While 47% believe that taking a break from sex is healthy for couples, 44% of those in relationships said that theirs wouldn't last a year without sex. The average person believes that couples should have sex three times a week in order to have a "healthy sex life." And when it comes to themselves, on average, Americans admit they can't go more than five months without kissing or cuddling, and six months with no sex. "Sex and intimacy are distinct, and while they can coexist, they don't need to be synonymous," said Matutinovic. "Taking breaks from sex or focusing on other forms of physical intimacy can actually enhance a sex life by reducing pressure and fostering exploration, as well as introducing new additions to your routine, like sex toys, thus bolstering emotional intimacy." NON-SEXUAL WAYS RESPONDENTS ARE INTIMATE "Compliments.""'Cuddling.""Giving them a shoulder massage.""Kissing and touching.""Having uplifting words and encouragement.""Cook for them.""Buying gifts.""Holding hands.""Deep spiritual conversation.""Brushing his hair." Survey methodology: Talker Research surveyed 2,000 general population Americans; the survey was commissioned by LELO and administered and conducted online by Talker Research between May 23 and May 27, 2025. We are sourcing from a non-probability frame and the two main sources we use are: Traditional online access panels - where respondents opt-in to take part in online market research for an incentiveProgrammatic - where respondents are online and are given the option to take part in a survey to receive a virtual incentive usually related to the online activity they are engaging in Those who did not fit the specified sample were terminated from the survey. As the survey is fielded, dynamic online sampling is used, adjusting targeting to achieve the quotas specified as part of the sampling plan. Regardless of which sources a respondent came from, they were directed to an Online Survey, where the survey was conducted in English; a link to the questionnaire can be shared upon request. Respondents were awarded points for completing the survey. These points have a small cash-equivalent monetary value. Cells are only reported on for analysis if they have a minimum of 80 respondents, and statistical significance is calculated at the 95% level. Data is not weighted, but quotas and other parameters are put in place to reach the desired sample. Interviews are excluded from the final analysis if they failed quality-checking measures. This includes: Speeders: Respondents who complete the survey in a time that is quicker than one-third of the median length of interview are disqualified as speedersOpen ends: All verbatim responses (full open-ended questions as well as other please specify options) are checked for inappropriate or irrelevant textBots: Captcha is enabled on surveys, which allows the research team to identify and disqualify botsDuplicates: Survey software has "deduping" based on digital fingerprinting, which ensures nobody is allowed to take the survey more than once It is worth noting that this survey was only available to individuals with internet access, and the results may not be generalizable to those without internet access. The post Is romance dead? Nearly a third say real love is a thing of the past appeared first on Talker. Copyright Talker News. All Rights Reserved.
Yahoo
05-06-2025
- Entertainment
- Yahoo
‘Shallowing' is a popular bedroom trend that men and women across the country are trying — and loving
'Shallowing' is a popular sex trend that has taken off — and gotten women off — within the last year. It's nicknamed 'outercourse' because it involves light sexual play of the entrance to the vagina and slightly inside — without deeper penetration. Shallowing was only formally named a few years ago, and it's become increasingly popular — especially since sexual wellness brand LELO listed it as one of the top sex trends for 2024. And it seems to still be going strong. This sexual fun is not just a spicy trend people are taking part in — solo or with a partner — a survey has proven it to be pleasurable for most women. In a 2021 survey of over 4,000 women conducted by the Indiana University School of Medicine and OMGYES, it was discovered that almost 84% of US women between the ages of 18 and 93 found increased pleasure from this outercourse play. While some people are having some shallow fun — others are curious about experimenting with different sex positions to spice things up in the bedroom. A team of FetishFinder researchers looked at Google search patterns to uncover which sex positions people are most intrigued by. And it seems missionary is a snooze fest these days because the 'bear hug' position took the cake as the most searched. This position involves doing the deed while hugging each other like a bear standing up. It certainly caught people's attention because it saw a 623% spike in searches within the last year. Other highly searched positions included the 'filthy Sanchez' — which is more on the crude side of things, as it involves smearing bodily fluids on a person's upper lip. The third most Google-searched position is the 'anvil' — which requires one partner to lie on their back, legs lifted overhead, while the other person and kneeling, does what you'd imagine they'd be doing during frisky time. The anvil saw a 275% increase in searches. And it seems when people aren't searching for new ways to position their bodies in the bedroom — they're also turning to Chat GPT to inquire about health, sex and pleasure. 'It's important that anyone with questions about sex and pleasure can receive answers from trusted sources,' said Verena Singmann, spokesperson for We-Vibe, a sexual pleasure brand. 'Technology can be a helpful tool when it comes to sex and pleasure, but AI doesn't always know best when it comes to our sexual health and wellbeing.'
