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7 Books That Will Understand You Better Than People
7 Books That Will Understand You Better Than People

India.com

time27-07-2025

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  • India.com

7 Books That Will Understand You Better Than People

photoDetails english Sometimes life feels overwhelming, and the then right words arrive in the form of a book. These seven books are like quiet companions, some through heartfelt stories, others through thoughtful insights that will talk to you when you need it most. These books don't just tell a story, they listen, and they remind you that you're not alone. Scroll down to check the list. Updated:Jul 27, 2025, 04:53 PM IST Introduction 1 / 8 Do you ever feel like no one really gets you? Sometimes, the right book can feel like a heart-to-heart conversation with someone who just gets it. These seven books do exactly that, they hold up a mirror to your thoughts, sit with you in your hardest moments, and gently remind you that healing and hope are possible. Welcome To The Hyunam-dong Bookshop by Hwang Bo-reum 2 / 8 If you've ever wanted to press pause on life and figure out what truly matters, this book whispers exactly quiet, heartfelt Korean novel is like a cozy hug, it follows the story of a group of friends in a bookshop finding healing and friendship. The Midnight Library by Matt Haig 3 / 8 Imagine a library where every book shows you a life you could have lived and the decision you could have made. Matt takes that regret, and second chances, and turns them into a tender, magical journey. It feels like someone gently telling you that you're enough however you are. What Happened to You? by Oprah Winfrey And Dr. Bruce Perry 4 / 8 This amazing read is a non-fiction book that delves deep into how our pasts shape up and how we can heal from it. Reading it feels like a deep, patient conversation that makes sense of your pain. The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown 5 / 8 In this staggering book, Brown helps you drop the weight of 'I should be' and embrace being yourself. After reading this book, you feel okay to be messy, brave and human, just the way you are. The Book Of Joy by Dalai Lama & Desmond Tutu 6 / 8 In this non-fiction book, two spiritual giants sit together and talk about how to find joy even in hard times. It's full of laughter, warmth, and gentle wisdom that makes life feel a little lighter. This book will leave you end up smiling, even while thinking about things that hurt. Lessons in Chemistry by Bonnie Garmus 7 / 8 This amazing book follows the story of a brilliant woman named Elizabeth Zott who refuses to live according to society. The book explores the themes of sexism, female empowerment and it's funny, sharp, and quietly inspiring, It's Kind of a Funny Story by Ned Vizzini 8 / 8 This book is a semi-autobiography and this novel will take you into the mind of a teen struggling with depression. It's raw and sometimes dark, but also unexpectedly funny and hopeful. By the last page, you feel like you've been understood better than ever. (All photos credit: Freepik & Amazon) (This article is meant for informational purposes only and must not be considered a substitute for advice provided by qualified professionals.)

Feeling Low: 10 Soul Soothing Mental Health Books For Tough Days
Feeling Low: 10 Soul Soothing Mental Health Books For Tough Days

India.com

time04-07-2025

  • Health
  • India.com

Feeling Low: 10 Soul Soothing Mental Health Books For Tough Days

photoDetails english 2926659 When you're feeling low, the right book can offer comfort, guidance, and a sense of hope. This list of 10 soul-soothing mental health books is perfect for tough days, offering insight, healing, and emotional support. Whether you're battling anxiety, grief, or simply feeling overwhelmed, these 10 thoughtfully selected reads provide practical advice, uplifting stories, and powerful reminders that you're not alone. Ideal for moments of reflection, each book is a gentle companion on the path to emotional well-being. Updated:Jul 04, 2025, 05:02 PM IST The Comfort Book by Matt Haig 1 / 10 The Comfort Book by Matt Haig It is a collection of short, soothing reflections, lists, quotes, and stories designed to offer comfort during tough times. Easy to read in small bites, making it perfect for days when your focus feels scattered. Gentle reminders of hope, resilience, and self-compassion. Personal insights from the author's struggles with depression and anxiety. It is best for moments when you need reassurance and gentle encouragement without pressure. Reasons to Stay Alive by Matt Haig 2 / 10 Reasons to Stay Alive by Matt Haig It is a powerful memoir about Haig's experience with depression and anxiety. Honest, relatable, and ultimately uplifting. Practical coping strategies blended with personal reflections. Proof that recovery, even from the darkest moments, is possible. It is best for anyone looking for a heartfelt, non-clinical voice of hope and survival. The Art of Happiness by Dalai Lama & Howard Cutler 3 / 10 The Art of Happiness by Dalai Lama & Howard Cutler A combination of Tibetan Buddhist wisdom and Western psychology and it offers timeless teachings on how to cultivate inner peace and joy. Insights on managing anxiety, suffering, and everyday stress, and practical exercises for shifting your mindset toward happiness. This is best for those looking for a spiritual and philosophical approach to mental wellness. Maybe You Should Talk to Someone by Lori Gottlieb 4 / 10 Maybe You Should Talk to Someone by Lori Gottlieb A memoir by a therapist who becomes a therapy patient herself. Witty, heartwarming, and deeply human. It offers a behind-the-scenes look at therapy from both sides of the couch. Comfort in knowing that even professionals struggle and grow. It is best for anyone curious about therapy or seeking reassurance that growth is messy but worth it. Lost Connections: Uncovering the Real Causes of Depression – and the Unexpected Solutions by Johann 5 / 10 Lost Connections: Uncovering the Real Causes of Depression – and the Unexpected Solutions by Johann Hari Challenges common beliefs about depression and anxiety, and it focuses on the root causes, such as disconnection and loneliness. It offers practical, research-based suggestions for reconnecting with yourself, others, and meaningful activities. An empowering message that healing often comes from restoring lost connections. It is best for readers interested in deeper social and psychological insights beyond just medication. The Happiness Trap by Dr. Russ Harris 6 / 10 The Happiness Trap by Dr. Russ Harris It is a practical guide based on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and focuses on accepting emotions rather than avoiding them. This book offers tools for reducing anxiety, depression, and self-doubt by changing your relationship with difficult thoughts. Easy-to-follow exercises and strategies for daily practice. It is best for people who tend to overthink or struggle with emotional avoidance. How to Do the Work by Dr. Nicole LePera (The Holistic Psychologist) 7 / 10 How to Do the Work by Dr. Nicole LePera (The Holistic Psychologist) It combines psychology, neuroscience, and holistic healing practices and focuses on self-healing and breaking toxic patterns. It offers actionable advice for reprogramming your subconscious mind and healing childhood wounds. Exercises for journaling, boundary-setting, and self-reflection. This is best for readers ready to dive into deep inner work and long-term healing. Radical Acceptance by Dr. Tara Brach 8 / 10 Radical Acceptance by Dr. Tara Brach A compassionate guide to overcoming self-judgment and embracing yourself fully. Draws from Buddhist mindfulness teachings. It tells and suggests tools to recognize and release self-criticism, shame, and emotional pain. Guided meditations and personal stories for reflection. It is best for anyone struggling with low self-worth, perfectionism, or emotional overwhelm. Untamed by Glennon Doyle 9 / 10 Untamed by Glennon Doyle You can read it as it is a bold, personal manifesto on self-liberation and emotional truth. Honest, humorous, and raw storytelling about mental health, love, and identity. This offers encouragement to listen to your inner voice and break free from societal expectations. Themes of empowerment, self-acceptance, and authenticity. It is best for readers who love memoirs with a strong, empowering voice. You Are Here: Discovering the Magic of the Present Moment by Thich Nhat Hanh 10 / 10 You Are Here: Discovering the Magic of the Present Moment by Thich Nhat Hanh It is a peaceful, simple guide to mindfulness from a world-renowned Zen master. This focuses on using the present moment to ease suffering. It offers gentle mindfulness techniques to calm your mind and connect with yourself. Wisdom on handling negative emotions with kindness and awareness. It is best for anyone seeking a calming, spiritual guide for emotional balance.

Let Music Fill My World Expands Music Education at Parmelee Avenue Elementary School with New Teacher Hire
Let Music Fill My World Expands Music Education at Parmelee Avenue Elementary School with New Teacher Hire

Miami Herald

time04-06-2025

  • General
  • Miami Herald

Let Music Fill My World Expands Music Education at Parmelee Avenue Elementary School with New Teacher Hire

LOS ANGELES, CA AND CHICAGO, IL / ACCESS Newswire / June 3, 2025 / Let Music Fill My World, a nonprofit dedicated to enriching children's lives through music education, is proud to announce its partnership with Parmelee Avenue Elementary School to expand the school's music program. Through this collaboration, Let Music Fill My World has funded the hiring of a dedicated music teacher starting full-time in July for a three-year period, ensuring that students receive consistent, quality music instruction and opportunities to develop their musical talents. Let Music Fill My World was introduced to Parmelee Elementary through a referral from last year's individual winner of the Music Matters Challenge, Jesse Robitalle, who identified the school as being in need of musical support. This connection enabled the nonprofit to bring meaningful musical resources to a deserving community. Music education has long been underfunded in schools, leaving many students without access to the creative and developmental benefits of learning music. Studies have shown that music education enhances cognitive abilities, improves academic performance, and fosters social and emotional growth. Music education is also correlated with a range of 21st-century skills, such as critical thinking, creativity, innovation and collaboration. Unfortunately, budget constraints have led to the reduction or elimination of music programs in many schools, particularly in under-resourced communities. Let Music Fill My World is actively working to change this reality. By partnering with schools like Parmelee Avenue Elementary and hosting the Music Matters Challenge, they are ensuring that students receive the music education they deserve. The newly hired music teacher will help students imagine what is possible through the imagination and creative thinking sparked in the classroom. In his recent book The Life Impossible, Matt Haig spotlighted music: "She explained her love of music to me. 'It makes the world bigger, she said […] 'I feel like I am trapped in a box sometimes and when I am playing piano or singing, I break out of that box for a while. Music to me is like a friend that comes in just when you need it." According to Cayley Tull, co-founder of Let Music Fill My World and president of the Tullman Family Office, music education unlocks more than meaningful connection. "Academic and technical skills alone are not enough to prepare our youth for the demands of the 21st-century workplace. Regular access to high-quality music and arts education expands the tools students need to succeed in school, work and life." "Feeling music is a powerful force that allows you to dream. A full-time music teacher will empower our Parmelee Scholars to believe, achieve and set goals for the future," says Principal Ferguson, Principal of Parmelee. "I had the chance to sing for the students at Parmelee last Christmas, and their energy and spirit were unforgettable," says Jesse Robitaille, the 2024 winner of the Music Matters Challenge. "As an under-resourced school, every child there deserves the chance to grow through music, and I'm honored this grant will help make that possible. Thank you, LMFMW, for investing in their future." The expansion of Parmelee Avenue Elementary's music program is just one of many initiatives Let Music Fill My World is undertaking to bring the magic of music to more students. The nonprofit continues to seek new partnerships and funding opportunities to support music education in schools across the country. For more information about Let Music Fill My World and its initiatives, please visit ### ABOUT LET MUSIC FILL MY WORLD: "Let Music Fill My World" was born in 2023 when Tullman Family Office (TFO) teamed up with Grammy-nominated artist John Ondrasik of Five For Fighting to empower students at Farragut Career Academy in Chicago. Ondrasik and eight students co-wrote the song, with the students contributing the lyrics, passionately expressing their personal connection to music. Despite evidence showing that music programs boost test scores, reduce disciplinary issues, and improve graduation rates, arts education continues to face cuts in lower-income urban schools, often being the first to go during budget constraints. "Let Music Fill My World" is on a mission to change that, supporting sustainable music funding and changing lives in the process. ABOUT FIVE FOR FIGHTING / JOHN ONDRASIK: In the two decades since Five for Fighting's first major single, "Superman (It's Not Easy)," hit the stratosphere, Five For Fighting (aka John Ondrasik), has released six studio LPs, including the platinum-certified "America Town'' and "The Battle for Everything;" and the top-10 charting "Two Lights," along with an EP and live albums. A post 9-11 anthem, Ondrasik performed "Superman (It's Not Easy)," at the 2001 Concert for New York, a benefit show at Madison Square Garden that honored first responders and the fallen about a month after the tragic September 11th attacks. Ondrasik has penned major hits, including the chart-topping "100 Years," "The Riddle," "Chances," "World," and "Easy Tonight," which have earned tens of millions of streams and placed him as a top-10 Hot Adult Contemporary artist for the 2000s. The reflective "100 Years" has joined "Superman (It's Not Easy)" as part of the American Songbook and continues to stand the test of time. Five For Fighting's music has also been featured in more than 350 films, television shows, and commercials, including the Oscar-winning "The Blind Side," "Hawaii Five-O," "The Sopranos," and the CBS drama, "Code Black." For more information visit: ABOUT THE TULLMAN FAMILY OFFICE: The Tullman Family Office (TFO) directs the Chicago-based Tullman family's philanthropy, political advocacy, business investments focused on social impact, and community engagement initiatives. We partner with visionary leaders, grassroots organizations, and creative thinkers to move beyond incremental progress - reimagining resources, accelerating impact, and activating collective solutions that advance equity and opportunity for all. For more information about TFO's philanthropic work, visit: PUBLICITY CONTACTS Cassie Zebisch-Schienle | cassie@ Kovacevich | abbey@ SOURCE: Let Music Fill My World

Matt Haig: ‘It's impossible to wee next to a Beatle'
Matt Haig: ‘It's impossible to wee next to a Beatle'

Telegraph

time15-03-2025

  • Entertainment
  • Telegraph

Matt Haig: ‘It's impossible to wee next to a Beatle'

Born in Sheffield in 1975, Matt Haig studied English and history at the University of Hull. Following a mental breakdown in Ibiza in his early 20s, he wrote Reasons to Stay Alive, which became an international bestseller. He's since published a further eight novels including The Midnight Library and The Radleys, which have been adapted for television and film. He has two children with his wife, Andrea Semple, and lives in Brighton. Best childhood memory? I remember a holiday to California in 1983, to visit my uncle, who had been a hippy back in the Sixties. He'd settled down with a Mexican woman called Donna, and I'll never forget a day learning Mexican cookery with her. For someone who grew up in Newark-on-Trent in Nottinghamshire, it felt incredibly exotic to be spending the day making tacos, enchiladas and spicy food outside in the July sun. It was the first time in my life I'd done any proper cooking. Best day of your life? One day in 2004 I'd been really struggling in all kinds of ways. I was still quite mentally ill after a breakdown, and I'd been agoraphobic for a while. I'd failed to get a normal office job, and I felt generally useless, but for years I'd been writing a silly first novel, The Last Family in England, told by a Labrador. I'd sent it off and had had at least 40 rejection letters, and had little faith in my agent at that time, but then it got accepted. It was at a point where I had very low self-esteem and was depressed and felt a burden to my partner, Andrea, so to get a response, and acceptance, from the publisher felt like the first time I'd achieved something of any real worth. It felt like a huge achievement and a massive relief, even though that publisher dropped me three books down the line, and I had to start all over again. Best thing about having been diagnosed with autism and ADHD? My diagnosis made sense of a lot of things. I was told at school in certain subjects I was special needs because I'd sit there with my mouth open, I'd be the classic daydreamer, and I was incredibly messy. Getting the diagnosis didn't change my identity, but it allowed me to be more compassionate about certain points in my past that I've been hard on myself about. If I'd known why I was different back then rather than just feeling different, that would have been helpful. Best celebrity encounter? I was someone's plus one to the Baftas and I remember having a wee next to Paul McCartney. I'm a nervous wee-er anyway and I always struggle if I'm right next to someone in a urinal, but when I realised it was Paul McCartney I ended up having to go into one of the cubicles to finish the wee off, because I couldn't go, because how can you urinate next to a Beatle? It's simply impossible. Best thing about your personality? I'm a good listener. I'm genuinely interested in people and I'm always trying to understand people. If you're a writer, you have to do that. I ask people lots of questions, I like to know their stories and I like to understand people. Best decision you ever made? Deciding not to kill myself in Ibiza when I was 24 years old. I was on a cliff a short distance away from the villa where we lived, and I fantasised about it and very nearly did take my own life. For a short while after that I wished I had, because I was in such a deep state of depression that I could see no future. I was genuinely convinced I wouldn't see 25 years of age, but the thing that brought me back from the brink at that moment on the cliff was thinking about my partner and my parents back in England, and just knowing that if I did do it, the pain would spread out. It was a decision that led to so many other things, including writing How to Stay Alive and the books that followed, but ultimately it made me just appreciate being alive and realise that the only guarantee in life is that nothing stays the same. Best advice you ever received? Jeanette Winterson was very generous to me when I contacted her back in 2001 or 2002, when I was very depressed. I asked her would it be OK if I gave her a 500-word sample of my writing to look at, to see where I was going wrong. She had a look at this extract from what would become my first novel and instantly spotted a pretentious line about someone talking about their epiphanic moment. And she said, 'Just write, 'moment of epiphany. Don't write epiphanic.'' And that has always stuck with me whenever I get a bit lofty or try to be highbrow or pretentious. The trick is, don't show off. Keep it simple. Worst childhood memory? My nan dying was very impactful for me, as she had lived with us. She was someone I could tell things that I couldn't tell anyone else, and she died quite a slow death from breast cancer when I was about 16, which was when I was going through issues with shoplifting. I spent three hours in a police cell after getting arrested for stealing wet-look hair gel and a Crunchie bar from Boots, and it wasn't the first time I'd done it. I got a big telling off, and it was the first time I realised things had consequences. I didn't do it again. Worst moment of your life? When you've had suicidal depression for a long time, it's hard to pin-point a single day, because every day felt like the worst day, but the Christmas of 1999 was probably the nadir. I was no longer suicidal, but my existence just felt like hell, and I remember walking to Morrisons to get some stuff for my mum for the Christmas dinner and there were lots of drunk people in town laughing, and that just felt so haunting to me. Even worse, though, was last year when my son Lucas got an extreme post-Covid flu – he didn't sleep for almost a month and went into a delusional state of paranoia for about a week. It just felt like we'd lost him. He was given melatonin to help him sleep and eventually recovered, but that sense of helplessness was worse than feeling suicidally depressed. Worst trolling experience? Someone in the United States claimed that she had written The Midnight Library and that I had plagiarised her. Eventually, the American publisher had to call the lawyers in, as she was continuing to lie about me, and it soon became clear that her claims were ridiculous, a letter was sent and she eventually backed off. Probably the worst thing ever said to me online, though, was after Reasons to Stay Alive was published, and someone wrote on Twitter that I'd failed at suicide and that I wasn't really depressed because I was depressed in the Mediterranean. For a while I became a lightning rod for anyone who had an issue with mental health treatment or advice, simply because I'd written my own account of having mental health issues. Worst celebrity encounter? I was on an ill-advised American book tour in 2007 when Andrea and I decided to get married in Las Vegas. After the tour, we had a honeymoon week in LA and ended up doing a little bit of work in the business centre of the Beverly Hills Hotel, when in walked [the rapper] 50 Cent, with a massive entourage. He didn't recognise me but had a huge smile on his face and asked us how we were doing, and then I said the most embarrassingly mundane thing imaginable to him. Excruciatingly, all I could come up with was, 'We just sent an email'. Not my finest moment. Worst personality trait? I'm very insecure and too bothered about external opinions. I've searched my own name way too many times, and I've had a hard time becoming myself. I used to get jealous of other young writers, but I genuinely want the best for people now and I spend more time trying to boost people up. Worst decision you ever made? On my 21st birthday in Ibiza, I made the mistake of trying cocaine in the toilets at a party. A local dealer gave me a line and it was a really bad drug for me, which totally played into my addictive tendencies. I only ever took it to enable myself to stay out drinking, but it did get to a point where I wanted it every night, which was extremely bad for my nervous system and my ego. As soon as I had my breakdown I gave it up, along with everything else. I just became petrified of anything that could potentially make me feel even worse. The silver lining, though, is that I've been clear with my kids, who are very sensitive, that if their brains are anything like my brain, it will not end well, so it's been positive that I've been able to give them that advice based on my lived experience.

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