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Daily Mirror
01-08-2025
- Business
- Daily Mirror
Weekend Wishlist: 10 must-have shopping finds from Charlotte Tilbury, New Look and more
Our fashion and beauty team has pulled together their favourite buys to kick off Friday in style Payday weekend is finally here, and our team of fashion and beauty experts are finally thinking about hitting the checkout button on some of our favourite buys from our (rather full) shopping carts. From a smocked white H&M mini dress that's perfect for everyday wear to a fancy diary to keep us organised, our shopping team has rounded up our favourite buys for payday weekend. Whether you fancy a new candle for a self-care treat or you've got a new dress or beauty buy on the brain, there are plenty of picks to choose from. So, without further ado, here are all the gorgeous buys we're coveting this week. Bethan's picks Papier Foiled Academic Year Diary - £30 My favourite thing about 'back to school' season was always getting a new academic diary, and even now I still favour the August-to-July format. My go-to brand for notebooks, planners, and diaries, both for myself and for gifting, is Papier, and for anyone looking for something to keep them organised post-holidays, then this is it. There are plenty of designs to choose from, but I like this vibrant 'B' design with foiled accents. The hardback diary contains an 'about me' page, as well as space for timetables, deadlines, weekly overviews, goals, to-dos, key dates and notes of gratitude. Others have also praised the diary, commenting on the product: "Stunning diary. Same format as the one I got previously, and I'm really glad about that because it's a great layout. Will purchase each academic year." "It's even more beautiful than I imagined it to be," another wrote. "I'm starting a new job and hoping this planner will keep me organised, looks very useful anyhow." A third added: "This is great, but I wish this could be combined more with the daily planner." By comparison, the daily planner offers 365 undated daily pages, including space to write down your to-do lists and priorities. Elsewhere, on Amazon, there's this Busy B A5 Mid-Year Academic Diary for £14.99, where shoppers can schedule their week on one side and jot down notes on the other. The design is ideal for professionals, students, or anyone looking to stay organised throughout the year. Pink And Red Striped Starlight Midi Dress - £75.65 from £89 The starlight design is one of Nobody's Child's number one best-selling silhouettes, and after finally bagging one for myself, it's not difficult to see why it's so universally loved. This particular version of the dress, currently available in 17 patterns and colours, is the red and pink stripe, designed with puff sleeves and the brand's signature cinched waist that flatters the figure. The v-neck isn't too low, the skirt is suitably swishy and perhaps the most exciting thing is that it has side seam pockets, perfect for popping your phone in without it looking bulky. Usually £89, the retailer currently has a code, TREAT15, where shoppers can save 15% off on the new-in piece, taking the price down to £75.65. Commenting on the dress, one shopper said how it garners compliments, but she wishes the brand offered more plus sizes. They wrote: 'I love love love the starlight dresses. They fit beautifully, and I always receive lots of compliments. I would love for all of the dresses to be available in the plus size range, as I would buy so many more, but I'm limited on which ones are accessible.' Boots x Love Island Beauty Box - worth £290, now £55 Whether you've been keeping up to date with the latest season of Love Island or not, one thing related to the ITV dating show that shouldn't be missed is the Boots x Love Island beauty box. Brimming with makeup, skincare, fragrances and haircare products favoured by the villa contestants, the haul is worth more than £290, but is priced at £55 - a saving of more than 80% on the RRP. Inside, there are 17 products, of which 13 are full-sized from renowned brands such as Milk, Kayali, Iconic London and Sol de Janeiro. And, what's more, some of the products are brand new launches from 2025, including the Huda Beauty Easy Bake Setting Spray and the trending No7 Good Intent Water Cream. Shoppers looking for alternatives to the Boots X Summer Love Island Beauty Box are in luck, as there are other beauty boxes available that offer significant savings on beauty essentials. The OK! Beauty Box is available monthly, with this month's box valued at over £90 but priced at £8.99. LookFantastic currently offers four different travel-inspired beauty boxes, each priced at £45. These boxes focus on either skincare or haircare, perfect for your holiday needs. Lauren's picks: By Rae's Selina Hoops and Heart Necklace - £35.20 and £22.40 It's safe to say I'm a sucker for jewellery. From Hey Harper's tarnish-free wares to Abbott Lyon's personalised charms, my collection is constantly growing - and recently, I've added By Rae to the roster. A female-founded brand that prioritises quality, By Rae uses stainless steel and PVD gold plating, meaning none of that unsightly green tinge you often get with cheaper pieces. I was instantly intrigued and snapped up the Selina Hoops and the Heart Necklace, and after two months of solid wear, I can officially say: I'm obsessed. These pieces have seen me through various festivals, a sun-soaked holiday to Madrid, and more than a few full-day outings, and they've stayed looking brand new - no tarnish or fading, just compliments. The necklace is dainty and perfect for layering, while the Selina hoops bring that cool-girl polish to literally any outfit. It's an understated, effortless style without the upkeep. By Rae is one to watch if you're after everyday jewellery that actually lasts. But for more options, I still love Hey Harper - I've had a few designs for almost two years now, and they look as good as the day I bought them. Rodial Glass Powder - £45 When I discovered that Rodial's Glass Powder - a product that has sold out six times and is said to fly off the shelves at a rate of three units per minute - was finally back in stock, I knew I had to see what all the hype was about. This ultra-fine finishing powder has gained popularity in the beauty world for its ability to blur pores, reduce shine, and leave behind a soft-focus, almost airbrushed finish. It amassed a 5,000-person waiting list, and fans claim it gives skin that elusive 'glass skin' glow without any shimmer or cakiness. Upon trying it, the results were immediate. My pores appeared blurred, my skin tone more even, and the finish was natural, not too matte and not too overly dewy. It felt lightweight, didn't cling to any dry patches and gave me a soft, filtered glow. My only complaint is the packaging, which features a sifter top with tiny holes designed to prevent the powder from spilling everywhere. While I appreciated that it didn't make a mess, I found it tough to extract enough powder for my entire face. Joanie's Pipette Gingham High-Waist Shorts - £27.50 from £55 Finding a pair of shorts that comfortably fit both my waist and hips has been akin to an Olympic challenge, one at which I've been failing spectacularly. So when I spotted the Pipette Gingham High-Waist Shorts from Joanie in the sale, I quickly grabbed them, albeit with little hope. I've been disappointed before, having returned pairs from Stradivarius and Nobody's Child. However, much to my surprise and joy, the organic cotton shorts from Joanie actually fit well. They're high-waisted and slightly structured, with a silhouette that flatters all the right areas. There's ample room at the waistband for comfort (even on a bloated day), and they don't dig into my thighs or ride up when I sit or walk. They're snug without being constricting, and as someone who's never favoured oversized or baggy shorts, I was relieved not to have to sacrifice style. Saying that, they aren't perfect They crease easily - a common trait of cotton - but the gingham print does a fair job of masking it, so it doesn't bother me loads. And considering the confidence boost they give me, it's a minor inconvenience I'm willing to overlook. WoodWick Terra Haze Candle - £24.99 to £34.99 OK, I know it's still technically summer, but the rain is starting to come down with a vengeance (get your brollies ready for the weekend). And while I'll be mourning the sunshine, I'm also excited to lean into the cosy vibes: a good book, face mask and a cosy candle flicking in the background. The candle in question is WoodWick's Terra Haze, which is inspired by petrichor - that nostalgic, earthy scent that rises when rain hits soil. It's calming, grounding and instantly evokes that post-rain freshness that makes everything feel more peaceful. Terra Haze also features notes of mossy earth and cedarwood, which gives it a deep, woody richness that makes my space feel like a cosy cabin in the woods. Plus, I'm a big fan of WoodWick's signature crackling wick, which sounds just like a fireplace. I'm also forever obsessed with Neom for its spa-like candles that feature essential oil blends. They're ideal for self-care moments. Charlotte Tilbury Unreal Blush Healthy Glow Stick - £30 I can't wait to try the new Charlotte Tilbury Unreal Blush Healthy Glow Sticks. I think I have 'blusher blindness' daily, but these sticks look easy to swipe on and give a glowy finish that's perfect for summer. They've even been spotted on Made In Chelsea star Millie Mackintosh's Instagram so I know I'll be in good company. One drawback for me is that I'd likely get the blush filthy with foundation if I applied it straight from the applicator, so I'd have to use a brush to apply it. That being said, I'm currently eyeing the peachy and rosy glow shades that would look beautiful on holiday. H&M Smocked Dress - £22.99 I don't think you can beat a little white dress in the summer, and I love this smocked one from H&M. I like how simple it is, and I reckon it'll be pretty versatile too, as it could be dressed up or down. Personally, I'd team it with strappy sandals, an oversized jacket, and a slouchy suede bag for an effortlessly cool daytime outfit. In the evening, I'd add some gold jewellery and thong heels for a look that wouldn't feel out of place on a city break. It's also made from 100% cotton, so it'll be super breathable on hotter days. One slight reservation I have about the dress is that reviewers say it's oversized, so I think I'd have to size down once or twice to get the fit I'm after. New Look Tan Faux Suede Panelled Shoulder Bag - £25.99 I'm really into pieces that will see me through the rest of summer and well into autumn, and this New Look bag is no exception. Styled with denim shorts and cowboy boots, it now gives festival vibes. However, when paired with wide-leg trousers and a chunky knit, it adds texture and interest to a staple outfit as autumn approaches. The £25 price point is decent, as I think it looks more expensive than it actually is. One New Look shopper said it's got 'plenty of room inside' which I also love because it means I can shove my makeup, a hairbrush and other essentials inside without it spilling over. One drawback for me is that I prefer bags with zips, but this one has a popper closure. Although it lacks the functionality of a zip, it certainly makes up for it in style.
Buzz Feed
31-07-2025
- Entertainment
- Buzz Feed
29 Barnes & Noble Gifts For Book-Lovers In Your Life
A bookshelf mouse pad so even when they are made to click their way through full inboxes, they can be thinking about the TBR they're going to run back to as soon as it's time to clock out. Price: $16 A romantasy sticker book stuffed to the brim with references to some of their fave series. Perfect for the sticker collector, the tech decorator, and the die-hard romantasy fan who thinks life is better in general with a touch of dragons. Price: $15.99 A hot sauce bookmark for the readers who love when authors ~add a little spice to it~. If you want even MORE super cute bookmarks, they have a raccoon in a trashcan for those self-proclaimed three-raccoons-in-a-trench-coat reading friends, sushi and chopsticks, and even a cat $6.50 A Really Loud Librarians game that can be played with two players or in a big group — like their next book club gathering! — and is *basically* a way to show off that stellar vocabulary in the most hilariously boisterous way possible. Easy to play and even easier to learn, there are no staggering rule books here, so the reader in your life can save all their energy for the *real* books, not for thousands of pages of playing instructions. Price: $19.99 A tote bag with, well, books on it to help them schlep around their keys, wallet, and current read (duh) in the cutest way possible. Promising review: "This is a sturdy, well-made bag. The bottom actually expands to accommodate a wider flat bottom for books. The straps are broad and the canvas is tight, not loose and flimsy. The design is classic and it is pretty! I love this bag!" —Mom in NYPrice: $19.50 A Papier quilted daydream lined notebook if you want to gift them the PERFECT place to keep all their bookish thoughts. Or maybe they'll finally start jotting down some ideas for their own novel (and maybe then they'll dedicate said first novel to you since you bought them this notebook!!) — the possibilities abound. I LOVE Papier because the quality is always stunning whether you're getting a specialized journal (like a wellness journal or a spiral recipe journal!) a blank notebook, or a planner. I feel like a paper queen anytime I get a new paper good from them!Price: $26 A hardcover collector's edition of The Love Hypothesis (with sprayed edges!) to make that one friend who keeps sending you TikTok videos about the new movie casting declare you the best gift giver of all. If they've watched this Tiktok vid announcing the movie casting a Healthy Number of Times™, they're gonna LOVE this review: "It was such a good slow burn, and when it hit a certain part of the book, it was fantastic 🌶️🌶️🌶️" — $30 (originally $35) A kitty eyeglass stand so they can stop hunting for their glasses and get to reading. Promising review: "This looks so cool." —StewatoPrice: $29.99 A strand of book-shaped fairy lights that'll take their Bookstagram posts to the next level. Whether they wind the lights around a bed frame, bookcase, or dangle over a reading nook, these are sure to ~DE-LIGHT💡~ any reading human in your life. Promising reviews: "These lights are made extremely well and look so adorable!" —@thebookpear"I got these for Christmas and love how they look on my bedroom bookshelf. Easy to manipulate." —EBGoldstPrice: $9.99 A pair of planter bookends the bookworm plant parent you know is going to be absolutely FERAL about, because what's more perfect than plants helping hold up your books? NOTHING!! The coolest part? They are ACTUALLY functional. When the plants get thirsty, simply slide the pot up from the metal base for mess-free watering. Truly a plant book genius made $19.99 A World of Shakespeare jigsaw puzzle they'll love for alll the references they'll spot as they ~puzzle~ out their new fave wall decor. This "World of" puzzle series is one of my FAVES. They also have Gatsby, a Jane Austen version, Dracula, and plenty more!Promising review: "One of my favorite puzzles I've ever done. High quality pieces, and the artwork is so intricate. This is a puzzle you could do every year and never tire of it!" —NWMommaPrice: $21.99 A B&N exclusive Sherlock Holmes Lego book nook because the game is afoot, and so is their joy at getting both a fun evening of piecing together Baker Street and having a new piece of shelf decor when they're done. Price: $129.99 A limited edition Wicked Moleskine journal if they're counting down the days until Wicked: For Good is released to the world and need a place to record all their "😱🫠😍💀🪄🧙🏼♂️" emotions while they wait. Don't forget to throw in a collector's edition of the novel that started it all!Price: $30 A book-and-kitty lap desk (with a cupholder!) to give them the cushiest support no matter where they curl up to work, eat, or read. Promising review: "This is too cute and is just what I've been wanting. The pattern on the top is just an added bonus. Need it when addressing Greeting Cards, for my laptop and great for my tablet too." —Meg's MomPrice: $29.99 A candle warming lamp — any bookish human will tell you the best reading sesh involves ✨immaculate vibes✨ and you can help them get there by giving them this dreamy candle warmer that will help them enjoy their candles *and* make them last longer by not burning the wick. And don't forget to snag a candle to go with it so they *really* ~feel the love~. Price: $34.99 A bookshelf pouch so they can stop leaving their pens, highlighters, and bookmarks all over the place like a well-read Hansel and Gretel. Price: $12.99 An Out of Print Wingleader hat because I promise you that if they've ever heard them mumbling "A dragon without its rider is a tragedy. A rider without their dragon is dead," they're gonna want this hat on their head like *yesterday*. Also applies to if you've seen them cry into their cereal with any Rebecca Yarros books nearby, $27.99 A Check Your Shelf literary trivia card game, which features 100 entertaining and conversation-sparking questions from the world of literature, so they can have a game night *and* add some books to their TBR as they play. Price: $19.99 A Mockingjay enamel pin they can stick on their lapel, their backpack, or anywhere else where they might need a reminder of their favorite Girl on Fire and to give them a little oomph in fighting for what they believe in. Price: $9.99 A Nook frost blue Lenovo tablet so no matter where they are in the world, they can feel like they're strolling through their fave local Barnes & Noble and have books instantly at their fingertips. Pair with a B&N gift card to get them started on their e-book collecting journey!Promising review: "I cannot recommend this tablet enough. I got it in February as a bday gift from my fiancé and I've read 20 books on it so far in May. I had wanted a Kindle paperwhite for years, simply because of the cute size and accessories and honestly the hype, but after using the Kindle app for a bit and doing research on Nook products I changed my tune. Wow am I glad I did! I use it 90% for reading, 9% for Pinterest, and 1% for googling life's random questions when my phone is too far away to reach and I don't want to get up lol. If you're considering what e-reader to get between Nook and Kindle, just pull the trigger on this one because you won't regret it! There are even clear case options so you can decorate your own with stickers like ppl do for Kindle, I plan to do that myself to personalize it in the future." —KailahOPrice: $149.99 (also available in silver) A "Pride Not Prejudice" tote bag if they need a colorful serotonin-boosting hand in carrying their Barnes & Noble loot out of the store. Price: $19.99 A purple book fan because whether they're ~fans~ of regency books or not, sometimes you need an aesthetic fan to flutter at suitors, frenemies, or just to help cool off in an aesthetic way during this dang summer heat. Promising review: "Hands down favorite! Love the little details like the gold embossing and gold silk ribbon bookmark. Once you open the fan there is text and pictures from the book, The Scouts of the Valley-by Joseph A. Altsheter." —Louie13Price: $6.99 (also available in red) A set of four Papier mini highlighters to give them the gift of pristine, colorful annotations as they mark up their fave passages so they can revisit them whenever they'd like. Price: $14 A checkered picnic blanket with an elastic closure that any outdoor cat reader will appreciate as a soft place to land while they work their way through their TBR in the sunshine. Price: $39.99 Some cookbook bookends that will hold their utensils, their recipes, and all those delicious cookbooks they're going to work from all year long. Maybe the best gift all along was just offering yourself up as a selfless taste-tester. Promising reviews: "Great addition to our kitchen. Would highly recommend." — bought this item yesterday for gifting. Really like the design concept. Highly recommend this this for gift under $50." —AnilBPrice: $40 And a Tolkien-inspired cookbook to ensure they have enough recipes to cover all six mealtimes: breakfast, second breakfast, elevenses, luncheon, afternoon tea, and dinner. The same author also has a Jane Austen version, a Brothers Grimm collection, and an Elven Tolkien cookbook. Promising review: "This is far more than a mere cookbook. This is a visual tribute to the world of Tolkien, with stunning illustrations scattered throughout the book, making it a suitable tome for a coffee table display rather than a book to cram into the cooking collection. It is also an excellent collection of Tolkien trivia about Hobbits, Elves, Wizards, and Men, and the worlds they inhabit. The book is an excellent gift for any Tolkien fan, whether they are cooks or not." —K YoungPrice: $19.99 A retro Book Man enamel keychain if they need some retro Schoolhouse Rock vibes to brighten up their keyring. Price: $9.06 (originally $12.95) A set of postcards from bookstores around the world so they can have the cutest, most worldwide-bookish correspondence around. Price: $24.95 And finally, a Papier guided reading journal to help them keep track of all the books they want to read, buy, and review in the cutest journal possible. Price: $32
IOL News
28-07-2025
- Health
- IOL News
Never too old to learn: From school dropout to matric ball star at 43
Hayley Papier glammed up for her matric ball. Hayley Papier, 43, from Lavender Hill, is living proof that you are never too old to learn. Papier was one of more than 400 adult "Night Schoolers" who celebrated their matric ball and valedictory on Friday. The mom of two dropped out of school in Grade 11 but thanks to Hopeful Leaders Night School, she was able to complete her National Senior Certificate. 'I failed Grade 11. A few years back I would never have admitted that giving priority to having nice times and parties and not making time for school work and studying was the reason," Papier said. 'It led to me failing a grade for the first time in my school career.' She said she found out about Hopeful Leaders Night School through Facebook and classes started in September 2024. 'The journey has been a hell of a ride. After registration I was so excited to start with Hopeful Leaders as this was a dream come true. 'In November my mom was admitted to hospital. On my birthday, November 7, my sister had a slight heart attack and to top it all my husband was admitted to hospital the following week. 'Mom and sister recovered fully. Husband has been in and out of hospital ever since. Since he fell ill, I have been taking care of him as unfortunately at that moment he was unable to walk and then the next challenge was even worse because now my husband could not work and I'm unemployed so financially I was unable to pay my fees. 'But a Good Samaritan paid my fees in full and this was also the person who motivated and pushed me to complete this journey,' Papier said. She said that she plans to apply for tertiary education in hopes to become a doctor. She said she felt like a queen walking the red carpet at her matric ball on Friday, adding: 'I had a lot of mixed emotions. Having to admit my husband once again to Groote Schuur Hospital a day after his 50th birthday and two days before my matric ball was definitely not something I expected. But this ball was the highlight of all the sacrifices, late nights, extra classes and hospital visits.' Video Player is loading. Play Video Play Unmute Current Time 0:00 / Duration -:- Loaded : 0% Stream Type LIVE Seek to live, currently behind live LIVE Remaining Time - 0:00 This is a modal window. Beginning of dialog window. Escape will cancel and close the window. Text Color White Black Red Green Blue Yellow Magenta Cyan Transparency Opaque Semi-Transparent Background Color Black White Red Green Blue Yellow Magenta Cyan Transparency Opaque Semi-Transparent Transparent Window Color Black White Red Green Blue Yellow Magenta Cyan Transparency Transparent Semi-Transparent Opaque Font Size 50% 75% 100% 125% 150% 175% 200% 300% 400% Text Edge Style None Raised Depressed Uniform Dropshadow Font Family Proportional Sans-Serif Monospace Sans-Serif Proportional Serif Monospace Serif Casual Script Small Caps Reset restore all settings to the default values Done Close Modal Dialog End of dialog window. Advertisement Video Player is loading. Play Video Play Unmute Current Time 0:00 / Duration -:- Loaded : 0% Stream Type LIVE Seek to live, currently behind live LIVE Remaining Time - 0:00 This is a modal window. Beginning of dialog window. Escape will cancel and close the window. Text Color White Black Red Green Blue Yellow Magenta Cyan Transparency Opaque Semi-Transparent Background Color Black White Red Green Blue Yellow Magenta Cyan Transparency Opaque Semi-Transparent Transparent Window Color Black White Red Green Blue Yellow Magenta Cyan Transparency Transparent Semi-Transparent Opaque Font Size 50% 75% 100% 125% 150% 175% 200% 300% 400% Text Edge Style None Raised Depressed Uniform Dropshadow Font Family Proportional Sans-Serif Monospace Sans-Serif Proportional Serif Monospace Serif Casual Script Small Caps Reset restore all settings to the default values Done Close Modal Dialog End of dialog window. Next Stay Close ✕ Founder of Hopeful Leaders Night School, Yumna Alexander, said the school was established in 2020 in Manenberg with 278 adult candidates and now has nine night schools across the Cape Flats including Ravensmead, Hanover Park, Mitchell's Plain and Bishop Lavis with 1 787 candidates registered. Alexander explains: 'We have successful pass rates. This initiative is for our communities and about letting the people experience what happens when you obtain your matric and when you goal for tertiary education because the goal is higher education and matric is the key to get us there. She said that classes are Monday to Thursday and R15 per class, six subjects get you to pass your matric.' Get your news on the go, click here to join the Cape Argus News WhatsApp channel. Cape Argus
Yahoo
25-07-2025
- Lifestyle
- Yahoo
Only Child Energy: Why Growing Up Solo Creates a Unique Type of Adult
How Growing Up Solo Shapes One-of-a-Kind Adults (and the Tools That Totally Get Them) When you think of an only child, what comes to mind? Maybe you picture someone independent, self-assured, a little reserved—or maybe even a touch spoiled. But in truth, only child energy is complex, dynamic, and deeply shaped by growing up without siblings. Unlike children raised with brothers and sisters, only children navigate childhood as the sole center of their parents' attention—and expectations. This creates a unique kind of adult: one who's independent yet introspective, confident yet cautious, self-reliant yet sometimes misunderstood. In this post, we'll break down what makes only child energy so distinct, how it shows up in adulthood, and which products perfectly complement their one-of-a-kind personality. What Is 'Only Child Energy'? 'Only child energy' refers to the personality traits and behavioral patterns that tend to develop when someone is raised without siblings. Of course, no two only children are the same—but research and anecdotal evidence suggest some common threads: High independence and maturity Strong connection with adults and authority figures Deep focus and creativity Discomfort with conflict or collaboration Preference for solitude Tendency toward perfectionism Because they often spent more time in adult conversations and fewer in sibling squabbles, only children are known for emotional depth, intellectual curiosity, and internal motivation. How Only Child Energy Shows Up in Adulthood Whether it's at work, in relationships, or during moments of personal growth, people with only child energy often stand out. Here's how that solo upbringing shapes adult life: Fiercely Independent Only children are often self-starters. They don't wait for permission or approval—they just go. This makes them excellent leaders, entrepreneurs, and creatives who are comfortable making decisions and trusting their gut. But there's a downside: they may struggle to ask for help or collaborate easily, often preferring to do everything on their own terms. Tool for Success: A Luxurious Day Planner (like Papier or Erin Condren) – Only children love planning their own path. A beautiful planner keeps them on track in their own highly personalized way. Emotionally Self-Sufficient—but Guarded Growing up without siblings often means learning to handle emotions internally. Only children may have close relationships with parents, but they usually process things alone and may resist vulnerability in adult relationships. They're not cold—they just operate from a deep internal world that outsiders rarely access. Tool for Success: A Guided Journal (like 'The Self-Love Workbook' or 'The Five Minute Journal') – These allow only children to channel their inner thoughts in a structured, meaningful way. Introspective and Thoughtful With more alone time in childhood, only children often develop rich imaginations, strong reading habits, and creative hobbies. They tend to be introspective and mindful, often preferring deep conversations over small talk. They're also highly observant, noticing details others miss—and they often value aesthetics and environments that appeal to the senses more than most. Tool for Relaxation: A Scent Diffuser for Home (like The Aroma Haus Suite Diffuser) – This product satisfies their need for a peaceful, sensory-rich environment where they can recharge alone. Preference for Quality Over Quantity In relationships and friendships, only children tend to go deep, not wide. They may have a small circle of close friends but value loyalty, consistency, and meaningful conversations. Because they didn't grow up navigating sibling dynamics, they may not tolerate emotional chaos well—and are drawn to balanced, emotionally intelligent partners. Tools for the Relationship: Love Lingual Couples Card Game – This helps only children open up emotionally and deepen bonds through intentional conversation. Confidence + Pressure Combo Only children often grow up with high expectations. With no one to share the spotlight—or the pressure—they may grow up with a strong sense of identity and competence, but also a fear of failure or intense perfectionism. This drive often leads to impressive achievements, but burnout is a real risk. Product for Success: Weighted Blanket or Aromatherapy Eye Mask – Perfect for soothing nervous energy and encouraging restorative downtime. Busting the Myths: Not All Only Children Are Spoiled or Lonely There's a long-standing myth that only children are lonely, selfish, or socially awkward—but research shows that's far from the truth. In fact, only children often develop advanced social skills, particularly with adults, and form deep friendships that are just as enriching as sibling bonds. Many only children say they've simply learned to value solitude—not because they're antisocial, but because they know how to enjoy their own company. How to Embrace Your Only Child Energy as an Adult Whether you're an only child yourself or raising one, here are a few takeaways to help channel that solo energy into strength: Lean into your independence—but don't be afraid to ask for help. Create quiet moments in your daily routine to reflect and recharge. Surround yourself with people who respect your space and your depth. Work on softening perfectionism by celebrating progress—not just results. Invest in tools and rituals that support your solo lifestyle—intentionally. Only Child Energy Is a Quiet Superpower Growing up without siblings doesn't mean missing out—it means becoming your own closest companion, advocate, and guide. Only child energy is often misunderstood, but it's a quiet kind of superpower: rich in independence, depth, and intentionality. With the right awareness—and a few hand-picked products to enhance your natural strengths—you can embrace your only child energy and thrive in your own beautifully unique way.
Yahoo
24-07-2025
- Lifestyle
- Yahoo
Only Child Energy: Why Growing Up Solo Creates a Unique Type of Adult
How Growing Up Solo Shapes One-of-a-Kind Adults (and the Tools That Totally Get Them) When you think of an only child, what comes to mind? Maybe you picture someone independent, self-assured, a little reserved—or maybe even a touch spoiled. But in truth, only child energy is complex, dynamic, and deeply shaped by growing up without siblings. Unlike children raised with brothers and sisters, only children navigate childhood as the sole center of their parents' attention—and expectations. This creates a unique kind of adult: one who's independent yet introspective, confident yet cautious, self-reliant yet sometimes misunderstood. In this post, we'll break down what makes only child energy so distinct, how it shows up in adulthood, and which products perfectly complement their one-of-a-kind personality. What Is 'Only Child Energy'? 'Only child energy' refers to the personality traits and behavioral patterns that tend to develop when someone is raised without siblings. Of course, no two only children are the same—but research and anecdotal evidence suggest some common threads: High independence and maturity Strong connection with adults and authority figures Deep focus and creativity Discomfort with conflict or collaboration Preference for solitude Tendency toward perfectionism Because they often spent more time in adult conversations and fewer in sibling squabbles, only children are known for emotional depth, intellectual curiosity, and internal motivation. How Only Child Energy Shows Up in Adulthood Whether it's at work, in relationships, or during moments of personal growth, people with only child energy often stand out. Here's how that solo upbringing shapes adult life: Fiercely Independent Only children are often self-starters. They don't wait for permission or approval—they just go. This makes them excellent leaders, entrepreneurs, and creatives who are comfortable making decisions and trusting their gut. But there's a downside: they may struggle to ask for help or collaborate easily, often preferring to do everything on their own terms. Tool for Success: A Luxurious Day Planner (like Papier or Erin Condren) – Only children love planning their own path. A beautiful planner keeps them on track in their own highly personalized way. Emotionally Self-Sufficient—but Guarded Growing up without siblings often means learning to handle emotions internally. Only children may have close relationships with parents, but they usually process things alone and may resist vulnerability in adult relationships. They're not cold—they just operate from a deep internal world that outsiders rarely access. Tool for Success: A Guided Journal (like 'The Self-Love Workbook' or 'The Five Minute Journal') – These allow only children to channel their inner thoughts in a structured, meaningful way. Introspective and Thoughtful With more alone time in childhood, only children often develop rich imaginations, strong reading habits, and creative hobbies. They tend to be introspective and mindful, often preferring deep conversations over small talk. They're also highly observant, noticing details others miss—and they often value aesthetics and environments that appeal to the senses more than most. Tool for Relaxation: A Scent Diffuser for Home (like The Aroma Haus Suite Diffuser) – This product satisfies their need for a peaceful, sensory-rich environment where they can recharge alone. Preference for Quality Over Quantity In relationships and friendships, only children tend to go deep, not wide. They may have a small circle of close friends but value loyalty, consistency, and meaningful conversations. Because they didn't grow up navigating sibling dynamics, they may not tolerate emotional chaos well—and are drawn to balanced, emotionally intelligent partners. Tools for the Relationship: Love Lingual Couples Card Game – This helps only children open up emotionally and deepen bonds through intentional conversation. Confidence + Pressure Combo Only children often grow up with high expectations. With no one to share the spotlight—or the pressure—they may grow up with a strong sense of identity and competence, but also a fear of failure or intense perfectionism. This drive often leads to impressive achievements, but burnout is a real risk. Product for Success: Weighted Blanket or Aromatherapy Eye Mask – Perfect for soothing nervous energy and encouraging restorative downtime. Busting the Myths: Not All Only Children Are Spoiled or Lonely There's a long-standing myth that only children are lonely, selfish, or socially awkward—but research shows that's far from the truth. In fact, only children often develop advanced social skills, particularly with adults, and form deep friendships that are just as enriching as sibling bonds. Many only children say they've simply learned to value solitude—not because they're antisocial, but because they know how to enjoy their own company. How to Embrace Your Only Child Energy as an Adult Whether you're an only child yourself or raising one, here are a few takeaways to help channel that solo energy into strength: Lean into your independence—but don't be afraid to ask for help. Create quiet moments in your daily routine to reflect and recharge. Surround yourself with people who respect your space and your depth. Work on softening perfectionism by celebrating progress—not just results. Invest in tools and rituals that support your solo lifestyle—intentionally. Only Child Energy Is a Quiet Superpower Growing up without siblings doesn't mean missing out—it means becoming your own closest companion, advocate, and guide. Only child energy is often misunderstood, but it's a quiet kind of superpower: rich in independence, depth, and intentionality. With the right awareness—and a few hand-picked products to enhance your natural strengths—you can embrace your only child energy and thrive in your own beautifully unique way.
