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Yahoo
08-07-2025
- Yahoo
Look out for these cheating apps on your partner's phone
Not to be the bearers of bad news, but unfortunately, suspicions that your partner is cheating can't always be chalked up to simple paranoia or anxiety. According to a survey done by the Survey Center on American Life in 2023, 46% of women and 34% of men reported that they've been cheated on by their partner or spouse. Another Institute for Family Studies found that 11% of married people under 40 are still active on dating apps. And let's just say smartphones don't exactly make cheating harder. Of course, not every hunch is reality, and having faith in your partner is a super healthy thing to hold on to. If the vibes do seem off, though, finding any of these cheating apps on your significant other's phone can be a huge red flag — or at the very least, the start of a very serious conversation. PeopleWin profiles the most concerning apps. From highway directions to counting steps to grabbing takeout, there are few things in life that apps don't make easier. While legit dating apps — you know, the kind designed for single people or those in consensually open relationships — make finding a romantic match easier, too, the internet infidelity rabbit hole goes a whole lot deeper. In 2024, some of the most popular dating apps include eHarmony, Bumble, Tinder, Hinge, Happn, and Coffee Meets Bagel. Any of these showing up on your committed partner's phone should give you pause, but even more concerning are straight-up, purpose-made cheating apps. These sketchy apps are more specifically designed for prowling partners to find illicit affairs, so seeing any one of them installed on your boo's phone should set off alarm bells. Perhaps the biggest name in cheating apps with one of the biggest user bases, Ashley Madison boasts 75 million member accounts and ushers in 15,000 new users daily. Ashley's main goal is to facilitate extramarital sex, and it says so right on the tin. The app allows users to digitally hide their faces in photos, and it lets women browse for free while men have to pay, so you know what's going on here. Seeking is a tricky one. It's kind of like a cheating app with plausible deniability. Seeking originally started as SeekingArrangement in 2006, where that 'arrangement' was understood to be between a young, attractive girlfriend or boyfriend and a wealthy benefactor — a.k.a., a 'sugar baby' setup. Seeking now has sleeker branding that focuses on 'hypergamy,' which is essentially the practice of dating upward, which can very much translate to hooking up with a sugar daddy or sugar mama. Features like income verification and advertising over one million millionaires on the platform are dead giveaways for what's going down. While these services don't have dedicated cheating apps for Android or iOS, they do facilitate infidelity the old-fashioned way: in a browser window. If any of these websites come up in your other half's browser or search history, you might have a little talking to do. Victoria Milan. Why are two of these sketchy dating services just fancy-sounding women's names? Anyway, this site is the number one browser-based service for 'married and attached dating,' with anonymity features, high-security standards, over 20,000 daily matches, and a ratio of 53% women to 47% men, making it a little more gender-balanced than its competitors. Adult Friend Finder. It may position itself as a regular dating site, but we all know what's up with Adult Friend Finder. A) We don't call our SOs our 'adult friends,' and B) those membership prices are just a little too scandalous. As Cleveland Scene puts it, 'An affair is waiting for you there. Look at AFF as a sexual affair jungle with daters waiting for prey.' While finding any kind of dating app on your partner's phone can definitely be sus, dating-focused apps such as Hinge, Badoo, Clover, and Bumble do actually have options for matching with platonic friends and even business partners. These racy options, on the other hand, aren't necessarily cheating apps, but they're dating apps that have a reputation for mostly facilitating casual hookups. Very few people are looking for 'friends' on these apps, unless those friends happen to have benefits: Grindr positions itself as the number one free dating app for the LGBTQ+ community, but it most definitely has a rep as a hookup app. Straight from the horse's mouth, Grindr 'is an indispensable tool for LGBTQ travelers,' which certainly seems to emphasize a quick fling more so than a committed relationship. Feeld's pitch is a 'dating app for the curious,' focusing on open-minded, nontraditional romantic encounters. Nothing wrong with that on its own, but Feeld's appeal to 'anyone looking for an exciting, new type of dating experience' may appeal to unfaithful lovers, too. Sometimes, online infidelity happens without any sort of cheating app at all. While these secret texting apps don't have any of the romantic sheen of dating or hookup apps and often have a legit place in sectors that call for more security, they certainly can be and certainly are used by cheaters to carry on clandestine conversations. Some of the most common secret texting apps include: Signal: A messaging app with a focus on encryption that keeps texts, voice messages, videos, and pics private, so they're only accessible to the senders and recipients — even Signal's own team can't access them. Not a sure sign of cheating, but you can definitely see the allure here. Perhaps a little more obscure and a lot more sneaky, some cheaters use apps that aren't explicitly focused on chatting, but that do offer direct message features — such as mobile games — to obfuscate their online convos. By no means does this mean that the games and apps on your partner's phone are hidden cheating app icons, but if you already have reason to investigate, be aware that friendly-looking game-like apps such as Hago, Plato, RecRoom, and AmongChat are just some options with low-key chat features. Much more devious, Calculator Pro+ can fairly be considered a hidden cheating app icon — it's a functioning calculator with a calculator-themed icon that hides a fully featured secret texting app. You know your partner better than anyone, so you'll know when any of these cheating apps — or just slightly eyebrow-raising apps — call for further action, whether it's a quick 'hey, what's the deal with that app?' or a difficult, face-to-face sit down. At the end of the day, trust is the cornerstone of any strong relationship — but if something doesn't sit right, it's okay to look into it. While apps can sometimes raise red flags, behavior matters even more. If you're noticing other warning signs and feel the need to dig a little deeper, a quick people search might give you the clarity you need to make informed decisions about your relationship. This story was produced by PeopleWin and reviewed and distributed by Stacker.
Yahoo
30-05-2025
- Lifestyle
- Yahoo
How to tell if a profile is fake
Between scammers, artificial intelligence, and dead internet theory, most online interactions these days should be met with a level of skepticism as to whether or not the person behind the profile is who they say they are (or if there even is a real person involved). While bot accounts are annoying and definitely degrade overall user experience, fake accounts on social media and dating platforms are much more of an immediate threat, as scammers have found plenty of success duping unsuspecting victims with made-up profiles. Because so much of our current social and dating lives are built around the internet, simply staying away likely isn't an option for people. So, the next best thing you can do is know how to spot a fake profile on Facebook, Instagram, Tinder, or any other platform that scammers like to prey on. PeopleWin explains how to spot fake profiles and potentially uncover who is actually behind them. Since 2019, Facebook alone has deleted approximately 2.2 billion fake accounts from their platform. So, if you're wondering how to tell if a Facebook profile is fake, or any social media account for that matter, there are a few clues and giveaways you'll always want to look for. Scammers love a fake profile picture, after all, they certainly aren't using their own—and the nicer looking the photo, the more likely they are to trick someone. If you're a bit suspicious about someone you meet online or someone who has reached out to you on social media, doing a reverse image search on their profile picture should be the first thing you do. If the picture shows up across multiple accounts, odds are you're talking to a scammer. There's a small chance they are the original poster (spoiler alert—99.99% of the time they aren't), but you'll want to proceed with extreme caution and look for additional signs. Worth noting, the rise of AI images has allowed scammers to make pictures that appear unique and are becoming increasingly realistic. So don't be fooled if a reverse search comes up with nothing. Another red flag to look for is how long the account has existed. Brand-new accounts aren't necessarily a dead giveaway of a fake account, but they can be a sign. While it's totally viable that someone just recently joined social media or had to make a new account after being hacked, new accounts with an explosion of activity are telling indicators when it comes to identifying a fake profile. Because fake accounts have unfortunately been so fruitful for scammers, they've actually picked up on ways to get around using new accounts, either by hacking real but inactive accounts (abandoned accounts that people won't realize have been compromised) or by setting up account farms where they slowly grow accounts to look legitimate. All that to say, just because there is a history of activity doesn't mean you're in the clear. Normal users usually post in ways that align with their personalities, sharing content that is either personal to them, or in some way related. If an account is full of generic content or reposts, it's likely due to automated activity meant to make the account look real. Furthermore, accounts with a lot of comments or posts that are essentially spamming the same message, or are just promotional content, are also likely not run by authentic users. While a lack of posting activity could just be due to a general lack of social media use, accounts that only like or reshare content (especially if it's seemingly random content) are another reason to be suspicious. If you go through who you're following and who's following you, odds are you know most, if not all, of the people you see. Fake accounts, on the other hand, have following/follower lists made up of completely random accounts with no interconnection (likely just other fake accounts). If an account's followers list doesn't seem to have people they are connected to and is primarily composed of similarly suspicious accounts, it's a telltale sign that you've found a fake profile. Perhaps the most telling sign that an account is fake is if it doesn't have any content that seems unique or identifiable to the person supposedly posting it. In a way, it's related to point three above, but is worth a stand-alone highlight, as normal social media users post for the people they know rather than at random. The internet is infested with fake accounts; some are bots set up for some obscure purpose, and some are criminals looking to take advantage of others on social media. The problem is that a lot of people find genuine and meaningful relationships via the Internet, and that is likely to continue into the future. So, why does this all matter? Because to keep taking advantage of the wonderful powers of connection the internet has to offer, people need to be aware when they are having a genuine interaction, and when they are actually interacting with a fake profile attempting to scam them. By now you almost certainly know what a catfish is—and for those who don't, it's not about the literal fish, so check out the link to learn all about that. Despite the widespread success of the show sharing the same name ("Catfish: The TV Show"), catfishing is still a popular way for scammers to successfully conduct romance scams. While most of the points in the section above can also be applied to fake dating profiles, there are some additional flags to look out for. Nobody wants to be taken advantage of when it comes to being vulnerable in a relationship, so here's how to tell if a Tinder profile is fake (or any other dating site/app profile). No digital footprint: When it comes to modern dating, there's a good chance your name is going to get Googled. If you search a potential match and literally nothing comes up, you're possibly dealing with a fake profile. Lots of excuses (and lies): Scamming people on dating apps comes with lots of lying and lots of excuses. If your match has an excuse for everything (i.e., can't meet up because they live far away, can't video call because their phone is almost dead, etc.), it's probably because they aren't who they say they are. Likewise, if their story is ever-changing, it's likely because they are lying. Picture perfect: There are certainly very real people on dating apps that can be a perfect match for you, but scammers like to use particularly attractive photos to lure in victims. If the profile pictures all look professional, or the profile just has a single, model-esque photo, it might be the work of a scammer. They ask for things: It's not abnormal to get someone you're seeing a gift, but if you've never actually seen them (whether in person or in a video call), no matter how much of a connection you feel, you can't be certain they are who they say they are. This specifically becomes a problem if that person begins asking for gifts or money under the guise of a relationship, often attaching guilt trips about whether or not you care about them. It's easy to brush off little red flags when you feel like potential love is involved, but scammers prey on that very fact, making fake dating profiles a goldmine for moralless criminals. If you encounter any of the signs above or have some suspicions based on other things, it's time to either cut bait or do some digging. If you're dead set on figuring out if an account is fake, it might be time to do some digging to find out who is actually behind a specific profile. We mentioned it earlier, but the show "Catfish" is based on this exact premise. People become suspicious of an online relationship, and the show comes in to uncover the truth. We didn't mention, however, that the show uses people search tools. With certain search tools you can use the information you have (even if it's just a name) to begin a search that provides all kinds of info, including public social media profiles. This can help identify if you're dealing with the real person or someone using that person's details on a fake account. If you are able to gain insight as to the email registered to an account, you can also use that to find links to other accounts or people. Your biggest concern when dealing with a potentially fake account is simply verifying who it is you're talking to. With the right search tools, it becomes much easier to find out if your connection is authentic, allowing you to continue in peace or quickly shut down any attempts at scamming you. Like our parents used to say growing up, use your best judgment and be cautious of strangers. This story was produced by PeopleWin and reviewed and distributed by Stacker.