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The Citizen
3 days ago
- Entertainment
- The Citizen
'It's a toxic cycle that wears me down' Nonku Quits
Nonku Williams, from reality television show Showmax Real Housewives of Durban, has announced her departure from the show after several seasons filled with drama and confrontations. After several seasons of wine-tossing, eyebrow-raising confrontations, and more drama than a telenovela on fast-forward, Showmax Real Housewives of Durban (RHOD) OG Nonku Williams has officially left the chat, and this time, she's doing it with grace, a heavy heart, and a very long Instagram post. Nonku Williams. Picture: Supplied In a powerful and deeply personal statement shared to her followers, Nonku announced her exit from the hit reality series, confirming she won't be returning for the next season or even attending the reunion special (where, let's be honest, most of the tea is usually spilled). 'I'm compelled to share my truth' 'As I take a moment to reflect on my journey with The Real Housewives of Durban, I'm compelled to share my truth with you,' she began. That opening line alone tells you — this is no publicity stunt, no cleverly worded public relations tease. She continues, 'After much reflection, I've made the difficult decision not to return to the show and to distance myself from the reunion.' And with that, the reality TV veteran drops a bombshell that many fans were almost expecting, especially given her more subdued tone in recent appearances. 'I don't recognise the woman I see on screen.' One of the most striking parts of Nonku's statement is her emotional honesty about the disconnect between who she is and who she sees on TV. 'Watching myself on screen – I'm confronted with a reality that's hard to accept. The woman I see isn't someone I recognise or respect,' she admits. 'I've played a role in shaping this narrative, but I'm also a product of the show's dynamics.' In an industry where denial is practically part of the dress code, Nonku's candour is refreshing. She doesn't sugarcoat her involvement in the drama; she owns it, but also acknowledges the show's relentless need for conflict. 'The relentless pursuit of drama, the pitting of women against each other, the gossip, and the put-downs — it's a toxic cycle that wears me down. Choosing purpose over petty Nonku's departure isn't just about escaping shade-throwing co-stars or dodging the next wine glass. She's stepping away to protect something deeper: her values. 'As I look to the future, I'm reminded of my responsibilities – to myself, my children, my faith, and the community,' she wrote. 'I want to make a difference, to leave a positive mark on the world. But this show, with its destructive tendencies, isn't the platform for that.' In a bold move not often seen in reality TV exits, Nonku lists her priorities loud and clear: well-being, mental health, family, and faith. No subtext, no cryptic emojis, just an unapologetic declaration of self-preservation. 'I have a responsibility to myself to prioritise my well-being, to protect my mental health, and to surround myself with positivity,' she explained. 'I have a responsibility to my children to be a good role model and to show them the importance of kindness, empathy, and compassion.' She didn't stop there. 'I have a responsibility to my faith to uphold the values that are important to me, to be a light in the darkness, and to spread love and kindness.' 'And I have a responsibility to the community to be a force for good, to uplift and inspire others, and to make a positive impact.' Whew. If reality TV had a conscience, this would be its open letter. From Housewife to heroine Nonku isn't claiming sainthood — she acknowledges her part in the 'chaos,' and doesn't pretend the show didn't shape her story. But her message is clear: she's choosing peace over petty, purpose over performance. 'I'm choosing to break free from this cycle, to seek a path that uplifts and inspires. I'm choosing to use my platform to spread love, kindness, and positivity.' In the world of reality TV, where self-reflection is usually served with a side of shade, her graceful exit reads almost like a redemption arc one she's writing for herself, not the cameras. 'I'm choosing to prioritise my well-being and to take care of myself. I'm choosing to be authentic, to be true to myself, and to live a life that reflects my values.' 'As I close this chapter, I hope my story can serve as a testament to the power of self-awareness, courage, and redemption.' Curtain call, not cancellation RHOD fans might miss Nonku's fiery comebacks and iconic one-liners, but it's clear her next season won't involve catfights or confessionals. As for the reunion? Well, there's always next season's new cast to stir the pot. For now, it seems, Nonku is choosing peace.
The South African
3 days ago
- Entertainment
- The South African
Nonku Williams leaves 'The Real Housewives of Durban'
In a shocking and unexpected announcement, Nonku Williams, the longest-serving housewife in Africa, has exited ' The Real Housewives of Durban (RHOD) .' The reality star rose to fame through the show after joining its first season, quickly becoming a household name with a loyal fan base. After entertaining fans for five seasons on the Showmax hit The Real Housewives of Durban, Nonku Williams has officially left the show. She announced her exit in an emotional and detailed post on her Instagram account. The reality star shared that she is stepping away from the franchise to prioritise her mental health, well-being, and personal growth. She also revealed that she won't be attending the reunion, disappointing many viewers who were expecting her to show up. They wanted her to take accountability for her actions this season and address questions about her character. Nonku has stirred controversy this season, with many viewers expressing disappointment in her behaviour. While some still believe she's reality TV gold, bringing the sass and drama that helped make the show a success, it seems she didn't win many hearts this time. The mother of two revealed that after watching herself on TV, she has realised that the woman she sees is not someone she recognises or respects. 'After much reflection, I've made the difficult decision not to return to the show and to distance myself from the reunion. It's not an easy choice, but it's one I must make. Watching myself on screen, I'm confronted with a reality that's hard to accept. The woman I see isn't someone I recognise or respect.' Reflecting on her journey with the show, she shared that the toxic cycle of women being pitted against each other, constant negativity, conflict, and drama no longer aligns with who she wants to be. She said it's time to choose peace and personal growth. 'I've played a role in shaping this narrative, but I'm also a product of the show's dynamics. The relentless pursuit of drama, the pitting of women against each other, the gossip, and the put-downs – it's a toxic cycle that wears me down,' she wrote. Nonku further opened up about her decision to walk away from the show, sharing: 'As I look to the future, I'm reminded of my responsibilities – to myself, my children, my faith, and the community. I want to make a difference, to leave a positive mark on the world. But this show, with its destructive tendencies, isn't the platform for that. I've come to realise that I have a responsibility to myself to prioritise my well-being, to protect my mental health, and to surround myself with positivity.' She further said that she chooses this to be a better role model for her kids and to positively impact her community. 'To those who've supported me throughout this journey, I'm grateful. I acknowledge my part in the chaos, but I also recognise the show's role in shaping our narratives. I'm choosing to break free from this cycle, to seek a path that uplifts and inspires. She further said, 'I'm choosing to use my platform to spread love, kindness, and positivity. I'm choosing to be a role model for my children and for others who may be watching. I'm choosing to prioritise my well-being and to take care of myself,' she said. ARE YOU GOING TO MISS NONKU ON RHODURBAN? Let us know by leaving a comment below, or send a WhatsApp to 060 011 021 1 . Subscribe to The South African website's newsletters and follow us on WhatsApp, Facebook, X and Bluesky for the latest news.
IOL News
6 days ago
- Entertainment
- IOL News
Lo and behold: Nonku's holier-than-thou attitude runs riot in 'The Real Housewives of Durban' season 5
The cast of 'The Real Housewives of Durban' season 5. Image: Supplied Before I delve into the drama of the fifth season of 'The Real Housewives of Durban' (RHOD), I would like to clarify some common misconceptions about reality shows. Yes, they have become the holy grail for TV networks and streaming platforms, propelling the content into trending territory and, in doing so, pushing up the viewership/ streams. Hence, the deluge of content available at any given time and the renewals of popular shows. Of course, the juiciest storylines make the final cut - hence some characters cry foul after finding themselves pegged as villains. With RHOD and shows of a similar ilk, the wardrobe and make-up are always a talking point. The main characters always look cover-ready. I can't imagine how many outfits they go through in one episode, let alone a whole season, including the reunion episodes. And I highly doubt that the bill is footed by the production house. My rambles are going somewhere, I promise, so please bear with me. I was looking forward to the new season of RHOD. After a lacklustre first season, it got progressively better in entertaining streamers. I have been a fan - the drama was de-stressing, for sure, especially in season four, where the divide among the cliques was like the parting of the Red Sea. Some made it to the new season, others didn't. OGs Sorisha Naidoo and Nonku Williams are back alongside season 2's Jojo Robinson and season 4's Angel Ndlela. They are joined by Kwanele Kubheka (aka Fafa), Lo Sithole and Ayanda Mthembu. Minenhle "Minnie" Ntuli and Precious Udoye are brought in as friends of friends but end up taking up a chunk of the screentime. New faces are brought in to shake up the dynamics and elevate the drama. After all, it's about being a fly-on-the-wall in the lives of the rich and famous. Even when talking about wealth, there are levels and, on this show, Sorisha is in a league of her own, which is probably why Nonku was riled up so much throughout this season. How can she compare with a billionaire status when a R10 million lawsuit threat puts the fear of God into her (pun intended)? Video Player is loading. Play Video Play Unmute Current Time 0:00 / Duration -:- Loaded : 0% Stream Type LIVE Seek to live, currently behind live LIVE Remaining Time - 0:00 This is a modal window. Beginning of dialog window. Escape will cancel and close the window. 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Furthermore, her request for a royal guest to pass the chicken was considered gauche. Nonku brushed it off as her simply being fashionable late and defended her Robert Cavalli outfit, which cost R150k, as her interpretation. Since then, the two have been going for the jugular. If pettiness were a person, Nonku's picture would be right next to it. She seized every opportunity to take a dig at Lo and was determined to expose her for lying about not drinking. Lo was no pushover, though, even though Nonku made it clear that she is the OG and newcomers must stay in their lane. Lo stood her ground. She likened Nonku's outfit to something off Shein. But she didn't stop there, she took it further by making comparisons between it and a Checkers Shoprite packet. Ouch. Then the supporting characters briefly became the main ones when Minnie exposed Precious, who runs a hair business, for being a toxic boss. This conversation got heated several times before Precious removed herself from the group. Sorisha was her usual zen self after mending fences with Jojo, who also channelled a similar disposition. However, she did get in a few low blows. However, she wasn't popular for her feedback on the Minnie-Precious situation. And Minnie called her out about showing her privilege in her retort about people having the option to leave if they are unhappy. Her comment about Nonku and Lo finding middle ground at a Checkers near them was below the belt, even if it was said in jest. Sorisha also stirs things by bringing a surprise guest to the girls' trip, but I won't say more. Oh, and Somizi Mhlongo makes a cameo at her event. Ayanda, who had her twin sister join her on the show, is sweet-natured. I know she's got daddy issues and childhood trauma from bullying. But that's about it. Aside from having a bone to pick with Lo, Nonku also took a few potshots at Fafa over her marital woes. Now, if memory serves me correctly, didn't Nonku have a child with a married man (as revealed in season one)? Talk about the pot calling the kettle black. Nonku Williams foot-in-mouth syndrome is on another level in season five of 'The Real Housewives of Durban'. Image: Supplied
The Citizen
07-05-2025
- Entertainment
- The Citizen
WATCH: JoJo and Calven Robinson's Love Journey
Forget the haters—JoJo Robinson and her 'Boo Bear' Calven just rewrote the fairy tale. When JoJo Robinson first said 'I do' to millionaire businessman and former SA kickboxing champ Calven Robinson in 2014, it was a love story worthy of a TV screen. It was, quite literally, broadcast on SABC's Top Billing. A decade later, the couple proved that their love has only grown stronger, renewing their vows in a castle fit for royalty, under a rainbow no less. The Real Housewives of Durban star, known for her unfiltered humour and bold fashion, kept things lighthearted at the ceremony. With her signature wit, JoJo joked about the doubters who called her a gold digger and claimed the marriage wouldn't last. 'Well, here we are 10 years later,' she quipped, raising a toast to her forever love, affectionately known as 'Boo Bear.' JoJo and Calven's love story began the modern way, through social media. After meeting online in 2012, Calven popped the question just seven months later, prompting JoJo to leave Gauteng behind and start a new life with him in KwaZulu-Natal. Their original wedding in the Midlands was dripping in opulence, and this vow renewal was no different. 'I wanted a princess reception,' JoJo shared online, 'and that's exactly what I got.' The couple pulled out all the stops with a dream team of vendors. Guests were spoiled with elegant catering by @bleuberricatering, edible art from @sugardinc, and flawless event planning by @partyprincess__, who's been behind every JoJo event- even those on RHOD. And then there was the dress. JoJo stunned in a custom lace gown by @ while Calven kept things suave in a tan and white suit that showed off his athletic build. The couple looked as smitten and stunning as they did on their wedding day ten years ago. ALSO READ: Ayanda Thabethe gets her MBA The celebration wasn't just about glitz and glam. It was a heartfelt tribute to partnership, laughter, and unwavering support. JoJo, also a talented artist, often shares moments of Calven supporting her creative ventures and starring in her cheeky Instagram Reels. The two are known for their playful dynamic and lavish lifestyle, recently adding a 'dream home' and a sleek Mustang to their shared milestones. ALSO READ: Stars shine for Darren Scott: A benefit concert to honour South Africa's beloved broadcaster The millionaire businessman Beyond his nickname, 'The Butcher' from his fighting days, Calven is a sharp businessman. He owns the popular Bluff Meat Supply franchise and reportedly has interests in property and government tenders, with an estimated net worth of R995 million. Love triumphs in reality Together, JoJo and Calven share a young son and a life full of travel, love, and luxury. Their fans, ever loyal, flooded social media with congratulatory messages and heart emojis. Ten years down, forever to go. And, yes, complete with castles, cake, and rainbows.
