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New York Post
8 hours ago
- Entertainment
- New York Post
I opened my relationship so I could sleep with other people — now I help my boyfriend find dates, too
It takes two … to fine number three. Model Cami Strella and her partner, Lev Lieben, were in a long-term monogamous relationship, but after two years together, Strella suggested they begin to experiment with other partners. 'I wanted to have my cake and eat it, too,' said Strella. She explained that she valued the intimate, emotional connection she had with Lieben, but felt it was important to explore other sexual experiences as well. 4 'We just realised this is how we operate – but it's not for everybody,' Strella admitted. Jam Press/@camistrella 'We basically dove headfirst into non-monogamy.' She was excited about exploring her sexuality with others at first — Strella even vacationed in Thailand with one partner — but although it was her idea, she admitted she was apprehensive about sharing her fiancé with other women. 'I struggled quite a bit with letting go of the concept of ownership because sex with Lev had been so intimate for me,' she revealed. 'But I wanted to explore sex with other men and women, and it was only fair that he got to do the same.' As with any relationship, there have been some bumps in the road, and it took the pair a while to get the hang of their new dynamic. 'There were a lot of misunderstandings in the beginning, and we had a lot of rules,' Strella recalled. 'It was a bit weird.' 'It's very normal to feel a bit awkward at first, but once you unbridle yourself from the concept of monogamy, it's really freeing.' 4 'It is a level of intimacy very few people will ever understand,' Strella explained. Jam Press/@camistrella However, the model and influencer explained that honesty was key to making it work. The West Coast-based influencer has 410,000 followers on her Instagram account, @camistrella, and makes up to $220,000 a month sharing racy photos and videos online. Prior to her current career, Strella was enrolled in a graduate school program studying occupational therapy and neurology, but ended up leaving when her classes went online during the COVID-19 pandemic. The pair met while Strella was pursuing her master's degree and Lieben was serving in the army. 4 'There was nothing wrong with our relationship,' Strella clarified. Jam Press/@36neex She said that both she and Lieben are 'completely transparent' about other sexual partners. 'Funnily enough, now I really enjoy helping Lev find dates or hearing about his sex life with others. 'A few times, when he's told me a particular woman was 'great' in bed, I've even reached out to them myself – and ended up having sex with them,' she admitted. Strella also believes that opening up their relationship has tested the strength of their bond. 4 'We have a deep connection that has only gotten stronger with time.' Jam Press/@36neex After two years of enjoying an open relationship, Strella says she hasn't regretted her decision. 'Since opening up to each other about our concerns and sharing our desires, it has turned into something really great.' The couple enjoys complete sexual freedom, which could make some people feel uncomfortable — especially at the prospect of literally sharing a partner with strangers — but Strella says she doesn't mind at all. 'I like sharing Lev because he's an amazing person and I like the idea of other people recognising this.' She also maintains that their bond as a couple, especially given that they've been together four years total and currently live together, is 'incredibly fulfilling.' 'The sex that Lev and I have is very different to the sex I have with anyone else,' Strella said. 'A lot of people don't realise that this is a way of life or that it's an option they could try, which is why I feel it's important to share our experience.'
New York Post
10-05-2025
- Entertainment
- New York Post
I'm on a mission to stop virgin men joining angry incel communities — here's how I'm performing this public service
She's making a sell to stop incels. A model says she's planning to have sex with virgin men to give them a 'great first experience' and stop them from joining angry incel forums. Cami Strella, who makes $220,000 a month on OnlyFans, says she's been inspired to help inexperienced youngsters after watching the Netflix crime drama 'Adolescence' which centers around the dangers of the incel community. Advertisement 'I consider this a form of public service,' the bombshell told Jam Press. 'I want to help those who have never had sex before avoid going down a bad path.' 5 'I consider this a form of public service,' the bombshell told Jam Press. 'I want to help those who have never had sex before avoid going down a bad path.' Jam Press/@camistrella 5 Strella, who is a former neuroscience student, says many young men simply want to be seen and validated. Jam Press/@camistrella Advertisement All the virgins will be aged 18 and over, with Strella looking to help men who may struggle socially or lack confidence. 'People have a desperate need for connection,' she explained. 'But we live in a world that offers instant gratification through things like dating apps, without providing a deeper bond.' 'I want to show them [the men] what real connection can look like – even when it's with a sex worker,' the content creator further proclaimed. 'In my opinion, that kind of connection can feel validating and, when it's done right, it can actually be therapeutic. 5 All the virgins will be aged 18 and over, with Strella looking to help men who may struggle socially or lack confidence. Jam Press/@camistrella Advertisement 5 For those who might raise their eyebrows about fellas forking out cash to get into bed with her, the beauty says it's better than the alternative. Jam Press/@camistrella Strella, who is a former neuroscience student, says many young men simply want to be seen and validated. And for those who might raise their eyebrows about fellas forking out cash to get into bed with her, the beauty says it's better than the alternative. 'I definitely believe that engaging with a sex worker is a much healthier thing to do than going on an incel forum,' Strella said. 'They [incles] are following people that they think are thought-leaders but those men don't know anything about masculinity.' Advertisement 5 'People have a desperate need for connection,' she explained. 'But we live in a world that offers instant gratification through things like dating apps, without providing a deeper bond.' Jam Press/@camistrella 'If I can give someone a safe, judgement-free space to explore, I'd love to do that,' she declared.
