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Scottish Sun
4 days ago
- Scottish Sun
My mum is having a dirty affair with our neighbour… and I've seen the videos of them having sex – do I tell Dad?
Every Saturday read our new, even racier, Dear Deidre advice column only in Sun Club... DEIDRE AFTER DARK My mum is having a dirty affair with our neighbour… and I've seen the videos of them having sex – do I tell Dad? Click to share on X/Twitter (Opens in new window) Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window) 1 DEAR DEIDRE: MY mum has been having an affair with our neighbour and I can't unsee the evidence. I've seen naked selfies - of both of them - but the worst has to be the video I stumbled across of them having sex. Sign up for Scottish Sun newsletter Sign up I'm so upset with her. She's lied repeatedly to my face and put me in the worst position possible. My dad absolutely adores her. This will shatter him. I'm an only child and 23, Mum is 52 and Dad is 55. This neighbour has always seemed pretty sleazy to me. He's always creeping around women, giving them sickly compliments. I've always avoided him like the plague. One year ago, when I saw mum had sent him a topless pic, I was really upset. Confronting her was so awkward but she explained it away saying it had meant to be for Dad but she'd sent it to the wrong number in haste. She told me the neighbour had been very 'understanding' and had deleted the image in front of her 'which had put her mind at ease'. But just a few days ago I borrowed her iPad to watch films on a long train ride. I couldn't believe it when I settled down to watch my downloaded films and spotted a folder marked with this neighbour's name. I mean how brazen is that - using his name. Heart pumping I opened up to see more nude selfies than I could count and the worst a home filmed video of them having sex. Dear Deidre: Spotting the signs your partner is cheating She'd lied to me! Clearly they'd been having a full blown affair and even after I stumbled across that first picture, Mum had continued. This feels like such a huge betrayal - not just for Dad, but for me also. I mean what woman continues with such reckless behaviour even after their child has uncovered their cheating? Mum was my idol. I wanted to be like her when I grew up - stylish, creative and kind. Now I feel so lost. I realise I need to let her - or Dad - know, but I'm dreading it. Nothing will be the same once those words leave my lips. What should I do? DEIDRE SAYS: Everything changed the moment you saw that folder and understood your mum had been lying to you for over a year already. It's entirely natural to feel abandoned when learning that a parent has had an affair. But in your case the sense of betrayal will be even more keen. Not only did your mum lie to you when you discovered the first naked selfie, but she continued her reckless behaviour, putting her own needs before yours. Lending you her iPad - the very device where these incriminating pics and videos were stored seems belligerent even. Did she perhaps want to be discovered? You're right and I'm afraid and you do need to speak to your mum again. Let her know how hurt you feel, that she has seriously damaged your relationship and tell her she needs to work on her marriage. If she doesn't come clean with your dad, you will have no choice but to tell him what she has done. Your mum's behaviour is worrying and you'll need support to work through the deep sense of being let down by the main person who ought to be looking out for you. Please do think about seeing a counsellor either on your own, or even a family therapist, with your mum. My support pack How Counselling Can Help explains where to find reputable practitioners. Dear Deidre's Sexting Stories From flirty DMs to full-blown emotional affairs, sexting has become a recurring theme in Deidre's mailbag. One woman confessed to sexting a younger male colleague behind her husband's back. Another reader was left reeling after discovering her husband's explicit messages to a woman at work. And different subscriber feared her relationship was doomed after catching her partner having flirty online exchanges with a gay pal. SEXTING: DOS & DON'TS Sexting can be a thrilling way to flirt, build tension, and keep things spicy from a distance. But if you're not careful, what starts as a playful way to connect with a partner can quickly become uncomfortable or risky. Here's how to enjoy it without regrets: THE DOs Do check consent Start by feeling out whether they're into it. A simple 'you in the mood for something cheeky?' can set the tone without pressure. Do build slowly Treat it like foreplay — tease, flirt, escalate. Jumping straight into graphic details can feel jarring. Do match their energy If they're sending poetic lines or emojis, don't drop a crude pic out of nowhere. Mirror the vibe. Do keep it playful Humour and imagination go a long way. Sexy doesn't have to mean serious. Do protect your privacy Use apps with disappearing messages or consider cropping out identifying features if you're sending photos. THE DON'Ts Don't assume it's wanted Unsolicited nudes are never sexy. Ask first — always. Don't over-rely on visuals Words can be just as arousing. Use descriptions, fantasies, or voice notes to keep things engaging. Don't sext under pressure If you're not feeling it, say so. A good partner will respect your boundaries. Don't ignore tone shifts If replies become slow, dry, or disengaged, back off. Consent is ongoing. Don't forget the risk Even in trusted relationships, things can change. Screenshots can sometimes last longer than the spark.
The Irish Sun
5 days ago
- General
- The Irish Sun
Want free lavender plants? How to take cuttings in 5 steps & fill your garden with flowers & fragrance in a few weeks
WOULD you like free lavender plants to brighten up your outside space? Well, luckily for you, a gardening guru has shared how to take Advertisement 4 Do you want a garden that's full of stunning lavender? Well, you've come to the right place and will need to follow these five simple steps Credit: Getty 4 Simon Akeroyd has shared a step-by-step tutorial to ensure lavender blooms in your garden Credit: Facebook/Simon Akeroyd 4 First, you'll need to cut non-flowering shoots and strip the leaves Credit: Facebook/Simon Akeroyd 4 Next, you can grab some pots and gritty compost, and insert your cuttings around the edge Credit: Getty Thanks to these five quick and easy steps, you'll be able to fill your Posting on social media, Simon Akeroyd, a gardening enthusiast from the UK, shared Sharing his top tips online, Simon confirmed that there's no time like the present to get started, as now is the best time to propagate First things first, you'll need to look and cut for non-flowering young shoots which are turning woody at the base. Advertisement Read more gardening stories Once you've cut these shoots, the second step is to strip the lower leaves and cut just below a bud at the base. It's important that you take a few cuttings, as this will increase your success rate. For the third step, you'll need to grab some pots and gritty compost, and insert your cuttings around the edge. According to Simon, after just 'a few weeks,' your lavender 'will have started to grow.' Advertisement Most read in Fabulous Exclusive Once each cutting has formed roots, you can then move onto the fourth step, which involves potting them individually. With Simon's fifth step, it's very important that you keep the lavender plants well watered. Cheap and easy ways to transform your garden including painting fences black After following these steps, Simon confirmed: 'Next year they will become beautiful flowering lavenders.' Simon's Facebook reel has clearly impressed many, as it has quickly racked up 50,000 views, 1,800 likes and 52 comments. Advertisement Gardening tips and hacks How to transform your garden on a How to preserve your favourite flowers at home - Which plants should I be When is the When should I start How What colour of Will my Beginner One person said: 'Thank you so much.' Thank you for showing an ignoramus like me how to do something good in the garden Facebook user Another added: 'We have a lavender hedge in our front A third commented: 'Thank you. Going to try this.' Advertisement Meanwhile, someone else beamed: 'Your videos are always interesting, Simon. Thanks for sharing, I will definitely do this.' Not only this, but another wrote: 'Your videos are fantastic! Thank you for showing an ignoramus like me how to do something good in the garden.' Unlock even more award-winning articles as The Sun launches brand new membership programme - Sun Club Top gardening trends of 2025 Gardening experts at Matrix planting It seems that a top planting trend for this year is going to be Matrix Planting. In essence, planting in groups or blocks to give an effect of being wild whilst actually being carefully managed. Selection of the plants is essential, to give year-round interest either with flowers, seed heads or frosted/snowy spent flower heads. Some recommend using plants that seed around, but this could make managing your matrix planting harder to keep under control. Chrysanthemum comeback I hope that the humble Chrysanthemum makes as much of a comeback this year as Dahlias have over recent years, because the simple single flowered types, such as 'Innocence' and 'Cottage Apricot' would be spectacular within a matrix scheme. The hardy varieties are so easy to grow in a sunny spot and give such a valuable burst of late summer and autumn colour that would lift any dull- looking border. Blended borders For some time now we have been promoting the growing of veg within ornamental borders and I think this could really take off this year. The choice of ornamental-looking varieties available in seed catalogues is phenomenal and, if managed correctly, visitors to your garden will not even realise that you have veg growing! Must-have tool My secret is out. I discovered the Hori Hori a couple of years ago and now it seems so is everyone else. It is such a well-made, adaptable tool that can be used as a trowel or weeding tool in the garden that and everyone I speak to who have used it absolutely would not now be without it. Enough said!
Scottish Sun
6 days ago
- Entertainment
- Scottish Sun
Mums share easy ways to ‘survive' the stressful summer holidays for those dreading the six-week stretch
From movie marathons to having Wednesdays off, and only one spend day a week, TikTok mums have shared their ideas... SCHOOL'S OUT Mums share easy ways to 'survive' the stressful summer holidays for those dreading the six-week stretch WITH the school term winding down and the six-week holidays looming, panic is setting in for mums across the country. How on earth are mums supposed to entertain the kids for 42 solid days without losing our minds, our patience or half our bank balance? 2 Surviving the summer holidays can be a difficult job for parents 2 A mum took to Tiktok to gather the best summer holiday tips Credit: Tiktok/ Ohcaroline That's exactly what one frazzled mum asked on TikTok, and boy, did other parents come through. In a now-viral video, @_ohcaroline put out a heartfelt plea: 'Mums, what do you do to survive the six-week school holiday? I want tried and tested, genius ideas.' And the TikTok tribe didn't disappoint. Mums from all over shared their best hacks, tips and tricks, from free days out to clever routines that keep things ticking over and stop everyone climbing the walls. We've pulled together the top ideas to help you actually enjoy the holidays this year. Free activities Don't assume you have to spend big to keep them happy. Loads of mums raved about the sheer amount of free activities available if you know where to look. One genius suggestion was to apply for a Blue Peter badge. Earning one is a fun project in itself, and once they've got it, kids get free entry to hundreds of UK attractions including zoos, theme parks and museums. It's also worth checking your local council or community centre, where there are often free summer schemes, drop-in sessions or local events for families. Three new family-friendly summer events that kids will love from Disney hunt to walking tour And if you want a ready-made list of freebies, check out the Sun Club's ultimate UK guide to everything you can do for free with the kids this summer. Wednesday's off One mum swears by getting dad, or any extra adult, to take a regular day off midweek. She explained: 'We got my partner to take every Wednesday off for a family day. It doesn't have to be fancy, just a park trip, pond-dipping, or a picnic. "It broke the week up and made a huge difference.' It doesn't have to be dad - grandparents, aunties, or another mum friend could do the trick. And teaming up with another family means the kids get playmates and you get backup. Everyone wins! Big spend day Another mum's golden rule was to only have one 'big spend' day a week. That means just one outing to a paid attraction like a zoo or soft play. The rest of the time it's walks, baking, movie days, maybe a cheeky coffee shop trip or a playdate if you're feeling social. Sdhe added: 'My kids are used to it and honestly they're really chilled. We've always done it this way.' Simple, low-cost days keep expectations, and budgets, in check and make that one treat day even more exciting. Movie marathon If screen time's a worry, turn it into a full-blown themed movie marathon. One mum shared how they started at Snow White and worked their way through every Disney film in order of release, with themed dinners and snacks to match. For Alice in Wonderland, they threw a tea party. For Princess and the Frog, they made jambalaya. And the best bit is the kids rated each film afterwards, turning it into a fun activity the whole family looked forward to. She planned the meals, so it wasn't pricey, just creative. She said: 'We did about three films a week and it lasted months." Themed days A few mums use themed days to give the week some structure and help avoid the dreaded 'what are we doing today?' chaos. Think Walking Wednesdays where you explore a new park or trail, Arty Fridays for crafts and painting, or Simple Sundays where you all crash out with a film or build a den in the living room. It gives the week rhythm without becoming rigid, and gives kids something to look forward to. Invite friends over Sometimes, the best entertainment is old school. 'My four love just having friends over to play or even just playing outside on the road,' said one mum. She keeps it manageable by only having a couple of friends over at a time, but says it makes a huge difference. And in summer, when there's no homework or packed lunches to stress over, it's the perfect time to let them socialise. Tips for keeping organised during the summer holidays IF you aren't sure how to keep organised during the summer holidays, then you've come to the right place. Senior Fabulous Writer, Sarah Bull, has shared her top tips... FOOD: One thing I find difficult is keeping on top of my kids' constant requests for snacks. Despite the fact they have one break time at school and then lunch, their demands for food during school holidays seem to be 24/7. To make things easier, I've decided to bring in snack baskets for them. They each have a certain amount of food (the same so that there's no arguments) and once it's gone, it's gone. Not only does it make my life easier, it teaches them that they have to spread things out - and to maybe see if the 'hunger signals' are actually ones of hunger or thirst. ACTIVITIES: It can be hard to keep your kids entertained - and six weeks can feel like an awfully long time. One thing to take advantage of is having an outside space. If you have a garden, you can put bikes or scooters in there, or even a trampoline. It keeps them entertained and also makes sure they're doing some kind of physical activity every day. If you don't have the space for a climbing frame or added activities, why not give the kids a bucket of chalk and get them to draw on the paving slabs? Or another one I did was to give the kids a 'magic solution' I needed painted on the wall (it was just water and washing up liquid) to protect it. They spent a good hour doing that! CLOTHES: One thing I've used from when my daughter, now six, started school is to use clothing drawers for her and my son, who's 10. On a Sunday, I put all of their clothes, underwear, socks etc in the corresponding drawer for the week. Usually it's uniform, but I still use the drawers during the holiday too. It just makes things easier, more organised and less stressful - for all of us. Rainy days Every good survival guide needs a Plan B for rainy days. Mums recommend prepping a few go-to indoor activities. Think baking, LEGO builds, movie afternoons, crafts, museum trips or indoor play centres. The key is to plan ahead. Having a few ideas ready means less panic when the heavens open and less temptation to fork out £30 for a soft play session out of desperation. Ultimately, the mums of TikTok agree, the summer holidays don't need to be perfect or packed with entertainment. With a little planning, some cheap or free ideas, and realistic expectations, you can survive the six weeks and maybe even enjoy them.
Scottish Sun
09-07-2025
- Business
- Scottish Sun
Ex-Manchester United star's clothing firm struck off after failing to file accounts on time
The firm was served a closure order in April FASHION FAIL Ex-Manchester United star's clothing firm struck off after failing to file accounts on time FORMER Manchester United striker Jesse Lingard's clothing firm has been struck off by Companies House for failing to file accounts on time. Be Yourself Clothing Ltd, which has not submitted any since 2023, was fined £750 for the omission. 1 Jesse Lingard's clothing firm has been struck off by Companies House for failing to file accounts on time Credit: AFP The firm was served a closure order in April. Its last financial details, for the year ending January 31, 2023, show it owed £53,953, had £4,772 banked, £25,126 of unsold stock and was owed £339. Lingard, 32, who played 32 times for England, scoring six, placed his fashion brand, JLingz Ltd, into voluntary liquidation in January after piling up a £276,000 debt. He now plays for South Korean club FC Seoul. Lingard spent eight months without a side after leaving the City Ground, before penning a two-year deal in the Korean capital. The former Manchester United star has scored four goals in 16 league matches for Seoul this season, who sit seventh in the K League 1. He has said "life's good" in Korea and believes he has rapidly adapted to the different style of football. The United academy star also admitted to scoffing McDonalds and Papa Johns since moving to Korea. Jesse Lingard reels off FIVE different celebrations after ex-Man Utd star scores bizarre goal in South Korea Unlock even more award-winning articles as The Sun launches brand new membership programme - Sun Club.
The Irish Sun
08-07-2025
- The Irish Sun
All the gross Boomer holiday habits my Gen Z friends and I would never do – especially all-inclusive buffets and bingo
AS a child, I spent my holidays crammed in a campervan while in rainy Wales, or at a budget kids club at a Spanish resort. But as an adult, I've realised that everything my parents loved about holidays, are nothing like my trips now as a grown up Gen Z. Advertisement 8 Kids clubs and pool games made hotel resorts seem exciting as a kid. But now I'm in my twenties, I avoid at all costs Credit: AFP 8 You'll find me at a local restaurant over a buffet hotel Credit: Jenna Stevens That the all-inclusive life is suddenly not so appealing, the buffet food becomes same-y, you're bored out of your mind at bingo, and actually that kids pool looks quite grimy. Now we've gotten old enough to plan our own travels, Gen-Z are choosing holidays nothing like those loved by our parents. Adrenaline over All-Inclusives My Grandad's favourite thing to do is help himself to a buffet-style breakfast in But Gen-Z travellers like me are ditching the plastic wristbands and relaxing resorts for Advertisement Read more on Sun Club I prefer I remember getting strapped into my harness on the edge of a mountain in the Swiss Alps. My heart was hammering, as I waited for the wind to pick up so I could run off the cliff edge. When I texted my Dad a pic of me dangling 6,500 feet in the air, I think he nearly passed out. Advertisement Most read in News Travel But after years of travelling, I've gotten used to lounging by the pool - I need something exhilarating . And it turns out I'm not alone - 78 per cent of I survived flying down a hill on the world's longest zipline 8 Geared up and ready to run off the edge of a cliff! Credit: Jenna Stevens 8 The views over Lake Thun in Switzerland were stunning at 6,500 feet Credit: Jenna Stevens Advertisement 'I remember getting catapulted across a waterfall in Canada ," says fellow Gen-Z Sun Travel Reporter, Cyann Fielding. "At first my parents couldn't believe I did stuff like this - but now they've had to get used to it!" Hostels over Hotels One hot, stuffy room. Twenty creaky bunkbeds. One guy snoring so loud it shakes the entire building. I've had my stuff stolen, showered with a frog, and shared a room with a woman in L.A. who smuggled in her Advertisement Sounds like a holiday from hell to my parents - but I'll always pick a hostel bed over a Why? Because always the start of a crazy story. They make unforgettable memories. My Mum still thinks hostels are dirty, dingy and full of weirdos. But you just don't get those One survey showed that 75 per cent of Gen-Z and young millennials have stayed in Advertisement So I know I'm not the only one who thinks it's worth trading comfort for chaos. 8 Samesun Ocean Beach is one of the coolest hostels I've stayed in - they even run beach yoga classes and rent out snorkel gear Credit: Jenna Stevens 8 I'd take a bunk bed over a king-size any day Credit: Jenna Stevens Double beds, Advertisement I've met people from all over the world in hostel kitchens, bonded over instant noodles at 3am, and ended up on spontaneous trips I never planned. And if you haven't brushed your teeth in a bathroom next to a stranger being sick - have you even been travelling? Plus, you can actually get some really My favourite London hostel Clink261 costs me as little as £18 a night, plus I've stayed in the centre of Paris for just £20 with Advertisement TikTok advice over Tours My parents' idea of the perfect holiday is ticking off the sights from a tour bus, and eating at the top-reviewed restaurants on TripAdvisor. I couldn't think of anything worse. Tour buses and tourist traps are a nightmare. I couldn't imagine queuing for hours just to climb the TikTok gives you all the best free spots to admire it from! Advertisement 8 I learned the best spots to view the tower from on TikTok Credit: Jenna Stevens Similarly, I didn't care for the top-rated restaurants in Rome. I paid half the price of the fancy restaurant bill to make my own Why follow an old guidebook when social media is packed with real people sharing their favourite finds? Advertisement That's how I found the pasta class - it was half the price of a meal out for two, and way more fun. In fact, 97 per cent of Gen-Z use So ditch the travel agents and package holidays - try chasing the chaos and culture you can't find in a brochure. 8 Learning to make fettuccine turned dinner into its own activity Credit: Jenna Stevens Advertisement
