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Daily Mail
06-08-2025
- Entertainment
- Daily Mail
Geordie Shore star Aaron Chalmers's ex Talia Oatway reveals their son Oakley, three, may need a wheelchair and admits she is often in tears over his Apert Syndrome
Aaron Chalmers ' ex-girlfriend Talia Oatway has shared another health update on their son. The ex Geordie Shore star, 38, and Talia welcomed baby Oakley in the spring of 2022 and the couple initially kept the news that he had been born Apert Syndrome to themselves. Following his birth Aaron and Talia, 33, revealed their 'little soldier' would be 'in and out of surgery for 18-24 months', with his mother staying by his side. Aaron and Talia split four months after the birth. The NHS describes Apert Syndrome as 'a type of complex craniosynostosis that effects the skull, hands and feet,' with bones fusing together before birth. This week Talia took part in an Instagram Q&A where she revealed their son may need a wheelchair soon and told how she often cries over his condition. One fan wrote to her: 'You are a great woman, a strong, very strong, woman.', to which she replied: 'Thank you, I honestly don't think I'm strong. I am very emotional at times. 'I cry a lot especially in situations where I can't get my point across or when I'm overwhelmed. 'I have tried to hold my emotions in as much as I can especially when the kids are around.' One fan then told how Oakley was doing 'amazing' as he walked on his own in a recent social media post. She then replied saying: 'Ah thank you, he will only walk outside for a very very short time (like a few minutes) at home he walks more. 'The bones on the bottom of his feet are becoming more prominent, which is where I need to keep an eye on. 'A lot of Apert children require feet surgery and depend on wheelchairs at times. 'This is due to the bones on the bottom of their feet causing pain up to their backs. He really is doing amazing.' In May 2023 Talia shared the first photos of their son Oakley as she discussed his rare genetic syndrome and detailed the tot's strength. The couple, who share two other children together, announced their split the previous December, four months after their youngest was born with serious health issues. After keeping his diagnosis private, Talia explained that Oakley, then just seven months, was born with Apert Syndrome, in a heartbreaking post. In a brave caption, the influencer detailed the 'toughest seven months of her life' and praised her son for his bravery and determination, after finally 'coming to terms with everything.' The NHS describes Apert Syndrome as 'a type of complex craniosynostosis that effects the skull, hands and feet,' with bones fusing together before birth. 'The facial bones are also affected, as the cheekbones and upper jaw do not grow in proportion to the rest of the skull. The bones around the eyes are wider spaced and shallower than usual, causing the eyes to bulge outwards.' Sharing a series of photos from the hospital, Talia cradled Oakley in her arms, another sweet snap showed him smiling widely with a stuffed toy monkey. She penned: 'This is OAKLEY. It has been the toughest 7 months of my entire life. I have been thrown into a medical world, with no forewarning, no time to prepare. 'Only now I feel like I'm coming to terms everything, finally coping with how I'm feeling, embracing our new normal. 'This is my beautiful son Oakley Bleu, he was born with a rare genetic syndrome called Apert Syndrome. 'Apert Syndrome causes the premature fusion of sutures in the skull, causing a different head shape. Syndactyly - fusion of the bones in the hands & feet). Cleft of the hard palate causing difficulties with feed and speech. 'Choanal stenosis (narrowing of the airway) causing breathing difficulties. Apert Syndrome often causes a global developmental and learning delay. (Oakley sleeps on a vent mask) and uses oxygen.' Talia continued: 'Oakley has a long road ahead, this is a lifelong journey and it isn't going to be easy. But my boy, you have shown me how strong you are! 'You are brave and determined and I love you more than you'll ever know. I hope that by sharing our journey I can raise awareness and support other medical families. 'I'm so proud of this boy, he has shown me nothing in this world matters but health and love. It has taken me a long time to get where I am but finally I'm starting to feel happy again. 'Son, you have two amazing brothers and an amazing big sister behind you. We have absolutely everything we need. Let's do this,' she concluded.
The Sun
05-08-2025
- Entertainment
- The Sun
Aaron Chalmers' ex Talia says their son may need a wheelchair and reveals she cries over heartbreaking health condition
GEORDIE Shore star Aaron Chalmers' ex has heartbreakingly revealed their son may need a wheelchair as she gave an emotional update on his progress. Talia Oatway admitted she "cries a lot" and feels "overwhelmed" over son Oakley 's Apert Syndrome, a genetic disorder that causes fusion of the skull, hands, and feet bones. 6 6 6 Recently, the 33-year-old told how the three-year-old tot had undergone a gruelling seven hour surgery on his hand. Initially, she sparked concern after revealing their son couldn't stop being sick ahead of his crucial operation. She also previously took to Instagram to post a proud video of her son taking his first steps and shared an update with her followers. Now Talia has laid bare her emotions in a new question and answer session on Instagram, where one fan mused: "You are a great woman, a strong, very strong, woman." She replied and put: "Thank you, I honestly don't think I'm strong. "I am very emotional at times. "I cry a lot especially in situations where I can't get my point across or when I'm overwhelmed. "I have tried to hold my emotions in as much as I can especially when the kids are around." One fan then told how Oakley was doing "amazing" as he walked on his own. Watch emotional moment Geordie Shore star Aaron Chalmers' son Oakley walks for the first time after gruelling health battle Revealing his exact situation Talia, who found fame thanks to her relationship with MTV reality star turned MMA fighter Aaron, wrote: "Ah thank you, he will only walk outside for a very very short time (like a few minutes) at home he walks more. "The bones on the bottom of his feet are becoming more prominent, which is where I need to keep an eye on. "A lot of Apert children require feet surgery and depend on wheelchairs at times. "This is due to the bones on the bottom of their feet causing pain up to their backs. What is Apert Syndrome? APERT syndrome, also known as acrocephalosyndactyly, is a rare disorder that is named after the doctor who first discovered it in the early 20th century. It is a genetic condition and is caused by a mutation of the FGFR2 gene. This affects how cells in the body - namely bone cells - grow, divide and die. Children born with Apert syndrome have a characteristic appearance, which is caused by the bones in the skull and face fusing and not growing in proportion, according to Great Ormond Street Hospital. It can increase a child's risk of hydrocephalus, which results in pressure building on the brain, and it can also cause Chiari malformation, where the base of the brain is squeezed. Other complications include breathing difficulties and heart problems, which require life-long monitoring. The condition is said to occurs in one in every 65,000 to 88,000 births and a child's outlook can vary greatly depending on the severity of symptoms. "He really is doing amazing." In June last year Oakley underwent emergency surgery after a hole was found in his skull, causing brain fluid to leak out. He was forced to stay in hospital for more than five weeks and Talia later revealed the surgery had suffered complications. FAMILY SITUATION Aaron and Talia welcomed Oakley into the world in February 2022. The former couple also share Romeo, four, and Maddox, three. They got together in 2017 but split just months after Oakley's birth. The broke up in December 2022 after five years together following a series of rows. Talia has since been documenting Oakley's medical journey on social media, receiving a host of well-wishes and support from followers. 6 6 6
The Sun
11-07-2025
- Entertainment
- The Sun
Geordie Shore star Aaron Chalmers' ex Talia reveals health update on son Oakley after gruelling seven hour surgery
GEORDIE Shore star Aaron Chalmers' ex Talia Oatway has given fans a health update on son Oakley after he underwent another surgery. Their son Oakley has Apert Syndrome, a genetic disorder that causes fusion of the skull, hands, and feet bones. 3 3 MTV star Talia opened up about her three-year-old son's gruelling seven hour hand surgery on social media, but the difficult they experienced when trying to fit a cannula. On an Instagram Q&A, she told fans: "The operation for the hand went really well and the skin grafts went really well but getting Oakley to sleep and trying to put a canula in was quite a lot. "The anesthetist came to see me the next day and said she understands why I don't want people on a ward trying to put a canula into Oakley because his veins are pretty much impossible. "She basically said that she nearly had to cannulate on his head, which they've always avoided. "Eventually they did get it in on his feet, he's got quite a lot of marks on his arms and feet. "This happens with children and adults, when you've had surgery after surgery... your veins sort of become broken and very difficult to cannulate, which can be shocking in an emergency situation. "She basically said I need to ask a consultant anesthetist to put a cannula in him and not a doctor on a ward." One fans asked if Oakley would have more operations. Talia replied and listed the surgeries that her little boy may need. She said: "I honestly couldn't tell you as he's had a lot of emergency ones. "From the top of my head will be - another hand surgery, fundo surgery, upper end endoscopy, cleft pallet, mid face surgery, teeth removed (this happen before midface surgery), a surgery for the skill which got removed last year due to infection and feet surgery." Earlier this week, taking to her Instagram story, Talia posted a sweet image of Oakley and penned: "Today was a really hard experience with trying to get Oakley to sleep. (In theatre) "He started to lash out at me which is understandable as he doesn't understand why we are here or what is about to happen at the time. "We both got really upset and especially when the sleepy gas mask was on, he was fighting against me and the staff. "I know he's getting older and more aware. With Oakley having autism it makes situations more difficult. "Next time he will need a pre-med as it was far too much for me and him to deal with. "He is a trooper today and is resting. Waiting for antibiotics through his canula." Aaron and Talia welcomed Oakley into the world in February 2022. Last week, Talia sparked concern after revealing their son couldn't stop being sick ahead of his crucial surgery. She also previously took to Instagram to post a proud video of her son taking his first steps and shared an update with her followers. Alongside the clip, she wrote: "Oakley has been using a walking frame for a few months now. "He's had some shoes made for him as it's impossible to get shoes that fit his feet." Fans rushed to comment on the upload, with one writing: "He's a legend. Well done Oakley." Another said: "So emotional, what a little beauty, well done Oakley and to mummy!" The former couple also share Romeo, four, and Maddox, three. They got together in 2017 but split just months after Oakley's birth. What is Apert Syndrome? APERT syndrome, also known as acrocephalosyndactyly, is a rare disorder that is named after the doctor who first discovered it in the early 20th century. It is a genetic condition and is caused by a mutation of the FGFR2 gene. This affects how cells in the body - namely bone cells - grow, divide and die. Children born with Apert syndrome have a characteristic appearance, which is caused by the bones in the skull and face fusing and not growing in proportion, according to Great Ormond Street Hospital. It can increase a child's risk of hydrocephalus, which results in pressure building on the brain, and it can also cause Chiari malformation, where the base of the brain is squeezed. Other complications include breathing difficulties and heart problems, which require life-long monitoring. The condition is said to occurs in one in every 65,000 to 88,000 births and a child's outlook can vary greatly depending on the severity of symptoms 3
The Sun
09-07-2025
- Entertainment
- The Sun
Geordie Shore star Aaron Chalmers' ‘distressed' son Oakley back in hospital as his mum shares heartbreaking update
GEORDIE Shore star Aaron Chalmers' 'distressed' son Oakley is back in hospital as his mum shared a heart-breaking update. Influencer, Talia Oatway MTV reality star turned MMA fighter Aaron - and the pair share a son together. 5 5 5 Their son Oakley has Apert Syndrome, a genetic disorder that causes fusion of the skull, hands, and feet bones. Taking to her Instagram story, Talia posted a sweet image of Oakley and penned: "Today was a really hard experience with trying to get Oakley to sleep. (In theatre) "He started to lash out at me which is understandable as he doesn't understand why we are here or what is about to happen at the time. "We both got really upset and especially when the sleepy gas mask was on, he was fighting against me and the staff. "I know he's getting older and more aware. With Oakley having autism it makes situations more difficult. "Next time he will need a pre-med as it was far too much for me and him to deal with. "He is a trooper today and is resting. Waiting for antibiotics through his canula." Aaron and Talia welcomed Oakley into the world in February 2022. Just a few days ago, Talia sparked concern after revealing their son couldn't stop being sick ahead of his crucial surgery. She also previously took to Instagram to post a proud video of her son taking his first steps and shared an update with her followers. Watch emotional moment Geordie Shore star Aaron Chalmers' son Oakley walks for the first time after gruelling health battle Alongside the clip, she wrote: "Oakley has been using a walking frame for a few months now. "He's had some shoes made for him as it's impossible to get shoes that fit his feet." Fans rushed to comment on the upload, with one writing: "He's a legend. Well done Oakley." Another said: "So emotional, what a little beauty, well done Oakley and to mummy!" What is Apert Syndrome? APERT syndrome, also known as acrocephalosyndactyly, is a rare disorder that is named after the doctor who first discovered it in the early 20th century. It is a genetic condition and is caused by a mutation of the FGFR2 gene. This affects how cells in the body - namely bone cells - grow, divide and die. Children born with Apert syndrome have a characteristic appearance, which is caused by the bones in the skull and face fusing and not growing in proportion, according to Great Ormond Street Hospital. It can increase a child's risk of hydrocephalus, which results in pressure building on the brain, and it can also cause Chiari malformation, where the base of the brain is squeezed. Other complications include breathing difficulties and heart problems, which require life-long monitoring. The condition is said to occurs in one in every 65,000 to 88,000 births and a child's outlook can vary greatly depending on the severity of symptoms And a third added: "What an inspiration you both are." The former couple also share Romeo, four, and Maddox, three. They got together in 2017 but split just months after Oakley's birth. 5 5
The Sun
01-07-2025
- Entertainment
- The Sun
Aaron Chalmers' ex Talia Oatway sparks concern as she reveals disabled son Oakley can't stop being sick ahead of surgery
TALIA Oatway sparked concern after revealing her and Aaron Chalmers' son Oakley can't stop being sick ahead of crucical surgery. She found fame thanks to her relationship with MTV reality star turned MMA fighter Aaron - but the pair split shortly after welcoming their third child. 3 3 Their son Oakley has Apert Syndrome, a genetic disorder that causes fusion of the skull, hands, and feet bones. Taking to her Instagram story, Talia penned: "Oakley had the worst sickness last night, from 11ish till about 5am. "Bath after bath, bed change after bed change. "I feel so sorry for him. The fundo surgery he's due to have soon (after his hands) is so needed. "It will stop him being sick completely. Currently on a meds run for him." Proud mum Talia previously took to Instagram to post a video of her son taking his first steps and shared an update with her followers. Alongside the clip, she wrote: "Oakley has been using a walking frame for a few months now. "He's had some shoes made for him as it's impossible to get shoes that fit his feet. "Which is common with Apert syndrome. "Today we tried the shoes for the first time. We also had physio at home which we are doing every week.# Geordie Shore star Aaron Chalmers' ex Talia shares heartbreaking update as son Oakley has another emergency surgery Talia added: "Using an object to hold on so Oakley feels safe. I'm so proud of how far he's come." Fans rushed to comment on the upload, with one writing: "He's a legend. Well done Oakley." Another said: "So emotional, what a little beauty, well done Oakley and to mummy!" And a third added: "What an inspiration you both are." Aaron and Talia welcomed Oakley into the world in February 2022. They also share Romeo, four, and Maddox, three. The former couple got together in 2017 but split just months after Oakley's birth. What is Apert syndrome? APERT syndrome, also known as acrocephalosyndactyly, is a rare disorder that is named after the doctor who first discovered it in the early 20th century. It is a genetic condition and is caused by a mutation of the FGFR2 gene. This affects how cells in the body - namely bone cells - grow, divide and die. Children born with Apert syndrome have a characteristic appearance, which is caused by the bones in the skull and face fusing and not growing in proportion, according to Great Ormond Street Hospital. It can increase a child's risk of hydrocephalus, which results in pressure building on the brain, and it can also cause Chiari malformation, where the base of the brain is squeezed. Other complications include breathing difficulties and heart problems, which require life-long monitoring. The condition is said to occurs in one in every 65,000 to 88,000 births and a child's outlook can vary greatly depending on the severity of symptoms
