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08-05-2025
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Presented by GOOD MORNING. Happy Thursday from Beverly Hills where the Milken Institute Global Conference wrapped up last night. Drop us a line at dgardiner@ and mmason@ or on X — @DustinGardiner and @melmason. For the latest on other Golden State political news, don't miss this afternoon's edition of California Playbook PM. LA-LA LAND'S CLOSE-UP — To paraphrase the late Tip O'Neill, all multi-day global issues conferences are local. Okay, maybe that's a stretch. But many of the discussions on the final day of the Milken Institute confab were distinctly rooted in its host city — to the palpable relief of prominent Angelenos in attendance. 'I'm just so enthused by the amount of people that are in this room, and especially people that aren't from Los Angeles,' said Cinny Kennard, executive director of the Annenberg Foundation, who was clearly pleased that conference-goers cared enough about the city's wildfire recovery efforts to fill one of the venue's large ballrooms. No one would call Los Angeles an overlooked backwater. But in this oversaturated news environment — and, let's face it, the national media's distinct East Coast bias — the city harbors a bit of an inferiority complex when it comes to the power broker crowd. For the politicians repping the city, however, the attention at Milken required a delicate dance: Celebrating the successes they've had in the months after the fires without sounding tone-deaf about the considerable challenges that remain. GLASS HALF FULL: Los Angeles Mayor Karen Bass told Playbook the No. 1 message she hoped to convey was that 'LA is doing okay. The entire city was not on fire. … We want the world to know that we are open for business.' Bass and others appeared at an afternoon panel where an upbeat mood was established early — shoutout to whoever on the Milken team picked 'This Is How We Do It,' by LA's own Montell Jordan as the walk-on music. Elected officials were quick to emphasize the speed of the recovery effort so far. One representative boast from LA County Supervisor Lindsey P. Horvath: 'We have led the fastest debris removal process in history, which has been a wild success.' The Annenberg Foundation's Kennard touted the considerable philanthropic heft that's been amassed: $800 million raised so far. And while the state is still waiting to see if President Donald Trump will approve the supplemental spending for wildfire recovery Gov. Gavin Newsom has requested, Bass praised the White House for keeping the funding spigot open. 'The message is, 'Thank you.' Listen — credit where credit's due,' Bass said. BUT BUT BUT: Panel moderator Elex Michaelson, a news anchor for the local Fox affiliate, did an admirable job pressing officials for more specifics, such as whether permits were being issued too slowly or whether — two and a half months after Bass sacked the city's fire chief — more heads would roll. 'There are a number of people that should be held accountable, and we're in the process of doing that,' Bass said, although she specified that potential firings would likely be months away, pending investigations into the city's fire response. POLITICAL UNDERCURRENTS: One person who remains unimpressed is Rick Caruso, Bass' former rival for the mayorship who has been fiercely critical of the mayor's fire response. The billionaire developer had been flitting around Milken for the past two days but was not in the audience for the discussion, which he initially had been slated to participate in. Caruso told Playbook he pulled out when he saw he'd be alongside Bass on stage, saying he feared the conversation would be a 'campaign stop.' Caruso did see fit to publish an essay on the website of his rebuilding nonprofit, Steadfast LA, Wednesday morning in advance of the panel re-upping his blistering critiques — and yes, the timing was purposeful. 'I didn't want to look argumentative, but I did want to get my point of view out,' he said. Caruso, who is widely seen as weighing another mayoral run or even a bid for governor, denied that his remarks should be read through a political lens, but rather from the vantage point of 'a guy that lost three homes, had a business completely shut down and expects better from its government.' Bass, meanwhile, shrugged off Caruso's rebuke and the broader missives from her detractors. 'There's a lot of different motives,' she said. 'There are motives from different news channels who are very critical of any Democratic-run city. But my job is to not get mired in division and get mired in politics, but to stay focused on making sure the people in the Palisades get home as fast as possible.' And speaking of politics, Playbook asked Horvath, whose name has been floated as a potential mayoral contender, if she had her eye on City Hall. She waved off that speculation — but only after noting that her supervisorial district just happens to overlap with nine LA city council districts. 'I've opened my committee to run for county supervisor. I'm focused on that, and, of course, the recovery and rebuild that people deserve,' she said. HOLLYWOODLAND LIGHTS, CAMERA, TAX CREDITS — Top Hollywood brass who spoke at Milken on Wednesday said they are not exactly clamoring for the national film tariffs Trump proposed in a somewhat inscrutable fashion earlier this week. At 'The Future of Filmed Entertainment,' CNBC's Julia Boorstin asked an array of execs about Trump's trial balloon, and more broadly if the increase of filming abroad was a problem for the industry. While the studio bosses deftly avoided commenting directly on the president's proposal they all largely agreed declining production is a Golden State-specific woe, contrary to the president's claim that overseas film shoots amount to a threat to 'national security.'. 'While it's true a lot of production has left the United States, it's even worse for California,' said Ravi Ahuja, president and CEO of Sony Pictures. The execs laid the blame on the state's film tax credit, which is substantially less than the perks offered by other states, such as Georgia, as well as other countries. Part of the issue is that California's available tax credits are capped, meaning that productions aren't guaranteed access to the incentives. 'Because it's capped, you can't plan,' said Casey Bloys, who runs HBO and Max Content. 'You have to get into a lottery, and you're not sure if your show is going to get the tax break or not. That uncertainty makes it very difficult, when you're looking at that versus Atlanta, versus Canada and others [where] you're guaranteed the incentive.' Newsom and top Democrats have been working to double the tax break from roughly $330 million annually to $750 million. Negotiators have already hammered out a number of proposed changes to the existing program. But given the state's dire budget straits, an uncapped tax break is not in the cards, meaning it will be hard to match the largesse offered elsewhere. 'Certainly our credit, as proposed, will not be as competitive as a couple of the other jurisdictions. At the end of the day, we're going to lose production to Georgia, Vancouver and elsewhere,' acknowledged state Sen. Ben Allen, a Democrat from Los Angeles. 'We did know we had to make this work, we needed to increase the amount. It will bring a significant amount of work back, but do so in a way that makes everybody feel comfortable.' Allen along with Assemblyman Rick Chavez Zbur and Newsom's chief economic adviser Dee Dee Myers delved deeper into the effort to keep Hollywood closer to home at a Wednesday afternoon panel that was, alas, off limits to reporters and off the record. But Allen gave us a broad sense of the tone of the conversation, which he said centered on the urgency of getting an expanded California tax credit done — regardless of the curveball thrown by Trump about some federal-level help for the industry. 'The national conversation is intriguing and important. ... Especially everyone agrees on a national incentive [though there are] mixed reviews about tariffs, he said. 'But even if we do the most robust national program in the world, there's still going to be a challenge for California to keep work here vis-a-vis the Georgias and New Yorks and other parts of the country.' TRADE STARK WARNING — Citadel founder Ken Griffin used his conference-closing Q&A with institute Chair Michael Milken to reaffirm concerns that tariffs were 'contrary to the promise the president made to the American people' to ease inflation and improve cost of living concerns. While plenty of Wall Street heavyweights on the conference's main stage raised concerns about how trade policies could weaken markets, Griffin was one of the few to frame his criticism through the lens of the American consumer. Griffin — a billionaire and powerful voice for the pre-Trump GOP orthodoxy — expanded on his concerns in an interview with our colleague Sam Sutton. 'Tariffs open the doors to crony capitalism. The government starts to pick winners and losers,' Griffin warned. Read more in today's edition of Morning Money. ON THE GROUND QUOTE OF THE DAY: 'Some of us have felt, in the last few years, there's no win being the president of a university.' — Michael Milken, as he posed a question to Dartmouth President Sian Beilock during the closing plenary session about … happiness. PUPPY THERAPY — During the same panel, Franklin Templeton Investments CEO Jenny Johnson brought her bulldog on the stage. When Milken inquired about her 'financial adviser' on the stage, Johnson had a one-liner ready to go: 'The fact is, when you come home, your spouse or partner might be happy to see you. Your kids might be happy to see you. But your dog is ALWAYS happy to see you!' The camera panned to her canine companion as the audience laughed and cheered. SPOTTED AT THE BEVERLY HILTON: DAY FOUR — former California Gov. Gray Davis walking through the hallway … California Community Foundation CEO Miguel Santana chatting with Snap CEO Evan Spiegel and Mayor Karen Bass in the lobby … Golden Globes President Helen Hoehne, picking up her paper name plate outside the invite-only LA session … Warner Bros. Discovery CEO David Zaslav milling in the hallway … Sony Pictures chief Ravi Ahuja having a one-on-one meeting with Bass … Assemblymember Rick Chavez Zbur ordering a to-go lunch in the Hilton lobby bar … Allen chatting in the lobby bar with Jonathan Nolan, the screenwriter and producer who made Westworld and Memento
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27-01-2025
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I Became Friends With A White Woman. Then 1 Cringeworthy Conversation Changed Our Relationship Forever.
Kim (not her real name) and I bonded when our sons played on the same travel basketball team. For years, we spent weekend after weekend together in loud, testosterone-filled gyms, rife with the smell of boy sweat and breakfast sandwiches. We always sat in the same place on the unforgiving bleachers, midway up in the center, and picked up our conversation from where we left off at the previous practice or game. Sometimes we lightly trashed the coaches, chastising them for how they ignored our respective son's potential and didn't give them enough playing time. But mainly we gossiped about the other parents (quietly and sometimes in code). And when we were out of earshot, we discussed our love lives: new relationships (hers) and divorces (mine). Kim had dated several men, but she seemed to be smitten with this latest one, a single dad and a former University of Iowa college basketball player. I saw Evan for the first time when he showed up at practice to bring her wallet. I grinned when she leaped up and shrieked at the sight of his 6-foot-something frame filling the gym's doorway. She was so tiny next to him that they reminded me of Isla Fisher and Sacha Baron Cohen, if they were both blond. To me, Kim was the only thing that made those practices bearable. So when she missed two in a row, I called her in a panic. 'I'm Evan's plus one at a wedding in San Jose!' She was yelling over Montell Jordan's 'This Is How We Do It.' 'Sorry, didn't I tell you? Anyway, I'll be back in time for tomorrow's practice. I can't wait to process everything with you.' Process? When Kim arrived the following day, I felt my shoulders relax as she sat next to me. Another mom had been vying for Kim's spot and I didn't know how much longer I could hold her off without being rude. 'So what happened?' I whispered, sneaking a glance at her left hand to see if maybe she'd gotten engaged. We were sitting with our heads together conspiratorially, like teenagers in homeroom. 'I couldn't wait to see you. I thought about you the whole time I was there.' 'About me? Why?' 'It was a Black wedding.' I watched Kim's mouth continue to move while my stomach turned to jelly. Oh no. As someone who grew up Black in white spaces, I'm accustomed to white people seeking me out to marvel at their experiences with Black people and culture. Once, at a school board meeting, a white man crossed the room just to let me know that he'd tried collard greens for the first time. Another time, an older white woman at a party informed me (without prompting) that she's started going to Black salons because they know how to do curly hair. Whenever I have braids, white women have no problem asking if it's my 'real' hair. And white men can't wait to tell me about their Black girlfriends to illustrate how 'down' they are for knowing about locs and shea butter. Most of the time, I see that the offender is actually attempting to bond with me, and I try not to discount that. But I'd never pegged Kim as one of those 'well-intentioned white people.' I'd let my guard down with her and I was about to find out what a mistake that was. 'Girl, Evan and I were the only white people there. It was crazy! I mean, don't get me wrong, the wedding was beautiful.' Why do you sound surprised that the wedding was beautiful? 'They jumped the broom like in 'Roots,' did you ever see that TV show?' Of course, everyone who was alive in the 1970s saw 'Roots.' 'It was so cool. The whole buffet was soul food, I tried fried catfish and I never ate so much mac and cheese.' OK, you really need to stop. 'Everyone was singing along with the music during the ceremony; they had this gospel choir! And the woman next to me yelled, 'Go head, y'all' when the bride and groom kissed.' Don't EVER do that. Imitate Black people. 'And at the reception, they did something called the Cupid Stumble.' 'Shuffle,' I said through gritted teeth. 'It's the Cupid Shuffle.' I felt my chest heating up. Does she know how many white weddings I've been to with a smile pasted on my face? What if I went to Kim after one of them and said, 'Wow! I went to this white wedding and I was the only Black person there, isn't that crazy? Oh, and they had flavorless mashed potatoes and dry, skinless chicken breasts, have you ever had that?' Or, 'I couldn't believe how stiff and silent everyone was during the ceremony.' With one wedding, I'd transformed from Kim's friend to Kim's Black friend, and I knew our relationship would never be the same. According to the Public Religion Research Institute, 75% of white people have no friends of color, a statistic I find both startling and consistent with my experience. Typically, building interracial friendships means that both parties need to put in work. Both need to step outside their respective comfort zones to learn and embrace a culture with which they may not be familiar. Ideally, that means my white girlfriends and I would spend equal time in each other's worlds, acquainting ourselves with things like the other's music, food, news and fashion. But that's rarely how it goes. Mostly, it's just me, meeting my white friends at white restaurants, discussing white TV shows on our group texts, and going to white book events in white parts of town. Rarely do they choose films like Ava Duvernay's 'Origin' or suggest going to a reading by a Black author like Ashley C. Ford. And as the Black, female TikTok creator @bannebean posted recently on this topic, 'I'm getting tired of having to be in white spaces to maintain the friendship.' Facts. Like the old adage about the tree falling in the forest, I wonder if an interracial friendship that takes place only in white spaces is a true friendship. The assumption is that your Black friend is comfortable everywhere you are, when they may just have more practice at being comfortable with being uncomfortable. Being Black in white spaces comes at a cost, and it seems Black people are always expected to foot the bill. I met Lilah almost 15 years ago. 'You are stunning,' she said to me, looking me up and down. We had just arrived at a mutual friend's baby shower. 'I want your skin. It's amazing.' I studied her, sizing up her large green eyes and waist-length light brown hair, and decided that I should lightly and politely remove myself from the conversation. I didn't feel like being fetishized for my skin or hair or anything else. I didn't want to be the Black friend at this baby shower. I just wanted to be. But Lilah didn't just let me be. During the party, Lilah sat with me on a love seat and talked like we were old friends. She spoke about current events like my Black friends do, outraged by the same policies and politicians, sympathetic to the same causes. When the shower givers asked someone to lead the limbo, Lilah went first, dancing like she was born in Trinidad instead of Orange County. As time went on, I discovered that Lilah is no ordinary white woman. First of all, she'll be the first to tell you that she's mixed race, with a Swedish mother and an Armenian father. Secondly, she is 100% down for going 'culture-halfsies' where our friendship is concerned. I don't think it would ever occur to her that we only go to white restaurants, white concerts or parties filled only with white people. She's always down to see what's new on the menu at Keith Corbin's Alta Adams here in LA, or accompany me to see Tyla at The Wiltern. She insists on a balance, making sure our friendship isn't one-sided. Obviously, one shouldn't ever walk up to a stranger or even a new Black friend and offer to share a hot new restaurant with them just because it's 'Black.' (Otherwise you risk coming off like Kim or the gentleman with the collard greens.) Over the last 15 years, Lilah has proved over and over again that her enthusiastic interest in everything that makes me me, including my Blackness, comes from a place of friendship and not 'festishship.' During these times of political conflict in our highly segregated society, true interracial friendships are rare. And interracial romantic relationships might be even rarer. I'm not talking about someone dating outside of their race; there's plenty of that. I'm talking about a true romantic partnership, where, for instance, a white man steps out of his comfort zone to embrace his Black partner's family, food, sports, music and entertainment. Yes, I'm talking about my boyfriend. Scott and I met nearly 16 years ago. At the time, he lived in Utah and he was the whitest man to whom I'd ever been attracted. Because of that, I thought it would never work between us. But, as time went on, I became besotted with him, which was both thrilling and terrifying. Because I agreed with Tina Turner when she said, 'What's love got to do with it?' — I had no faith that love could bridge our cultural divide, even a love as great as ours. Scottie comes from a quiet, three-person home, just him and his parents, who have now both passed. My family is loud. And when the 10, sometimes 15, of us get together (every week), there are spirited, sometimes raucous debates about everything from WWE to the race for the White House. At first, Scott would just kind of drift away during the chaos and watch TV in another room. Later he stayed in his seat during these verbal rows and listened to each person's (emphatic) point. He told me recently that the most important lesson he's learned from being around my family is listening, really listening. But over the years, he started participating in the debates and voicing his opinion. It's hard to get a word in edgewise in my family, but somehow he manages. When it comes to seeing Black theater or movies, he's gone from 'going along' to surprising me with tickets to shows like 'Slave Play' and 'Raisin in the Sun.' It's not that he's changed who he is. But instead of asking me to change who I am by giving up my Blackness, he loves me all the more for it. Halfsies. The Kim of it all aside, I think that I am better because of my interracial relationships. Lilah and I are not only besties, but we are also allies and advocates for each other's cultures. And I think that my relationship with Scott challenges the status quo and demonstrates that race need not be a barrier to love if both parties are willing to work. When I'm out in the world, everywhere I look I see people gravitating toward the familiar. But the payoff for intentionally widening your friend circle can be immense. I'd love to see our society normalize transracial friendships that allow each person to live authentically. My relationships with my non-Black friends, while sometimes hard-earned, have been some of the richest of my life. There is so much to be gained by knowing and loving someone different from you. Laura Cathcart Robbins is the bestselling author of the Atria/Simon & Schuster memoir 'Stash, My Life in Hiding' and host of the popular podcast 'The Only One in the Room.' She has written recent articles on the subjects of race, recovery and divorce. Find out more on her website, or you can look for her on social media. Do you have a compelling personal story you'd like to see published on HuffPost? Find out what we're looking for here and send us a pitch at pitch@ A White Woman Told Me She Doesn't 'Think Of' Me As Black. Here's How I Reacted. I'm A Black Mom. Here's What White Parents Need To Understand About Critical Race Theory. I Have A White Boyfriend. Does That Make Me Any Less Black?
