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Straits Times
13-07-2025
- Health
- Straits Times
Where are the men in boys' lives?
Sign up now: Get ST's newsletters delivered to your inbox Jobs working with children are largely done by women, leaving many boys, especially in low-income areas, with few men as role models. NEW YORK – The importance of role models for girls seems irrefutable. Efforts since the 1990s to provide female role models have had great success opening doors for girls and young women, who now outpace boys in education, outnumber men in law and medical schools, and excel in male-dominated fields like tech and politics. At the same time, boys have many fewer male role models in their daily lives. While men still fill most positions of power across American society, the people who interact with children are largely women. Occupations like paediatrics have switched to mostly being done by women, while those that were always female-dominated, such as teaching, have become more so. At a crucial time in their lives, boys are increasingly cared for by women, especially the many boys whose fathers are not a regular presence. This lack of male role models, say researchers, parents, young men and those who work with them, is contributing to their struggles in school and employment – and the overall feeling that they are adrift. Working with children has long been considered women's work, and as a result, has been undervalued, with low pay and a stigma against men doing it. The share of professional men in children's lives has decreased even more in recent decades. Over roughly the same period, single-mother households became more common. Mentorship groups say they struggle to find as many male volunteers as there are boys who need them. Top stories Swipe. Select. Stay informed. 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Some researchers and people working to support boys say there needs to be more of a focus on recruiting and training men to work with children. 'While women, I believe, are doing their very, very best to raise boys, I believe until men become part of that process, we're not going to make a huge dent in this issue,' said Tony Porter, chief executive of A Call To Men, a group that provides training on healthy manhood and violence prevention. Face-to-face role models matter Girls continue to need more role models, especially in areas once closed off to women, such as leadership. Boys have many examples of men in power – and of course, boys also learn from female role models. But research suggests that it is the adults whom children personally know – and who share their gender or race – who have the biggest effect. They influence children by representing what is possible, modelling behaviour and empathising from shared experience. And their presence has been found to improve educational performance, career decisions, motivation and relationships. Much academic research on the role model effect has been about girls, but some studies have shown how having men in their lives helps boys. Black boys do better in neighbourhoods where there are more fathers around, even if not their own. Coaches, one of the few male-dominated jobs working with children, can play a formative role in shaping children's outcomes. Growing up without a father at home, as one in five children do, particularly disadvantages boys, several studies have shown. In interviews and written responses sent to The New York Times' Upshot as part of the newspaper's reporting project on young men, several said the need for role models was more crucial than ever. This is because they thought society no longer had shared values about what being a good man means. Boys in poor areas are the least likely to have male role models, which can contribute to achievement gaps by family income and gender, researchers have found. Ms Michaela Kiger teaches at an alternative high school in New Castle, Delaware, where most of her students are boys from low-income families. The girls often have clear career plans, she said – mostly being health aides or cosmetologists – while the boys do not. They cling to traditional gender roles, she said, believing they should provide for and protect their families, yet being unwilling to seek fast-growing healthcare jobs because they are considered women's work. 'We tell them that they have a future and can pursue a different kind of life for themselves than what they were born into, but they don't see enough concrete examples of that actually happening for men in their community,' Ms Kiger said. A big role for coaches and teachers Many men said that male mentors can make all the difference. Mr Tristan Armstrong, a 26-year-old engineering graduate student in Salt Lake City, grew up in rural Utah, where he said he was surrounded by male role models – his grandfather, father, uncles, neighbours, teachers, Catholic priests and coaches. When he was having a hard time in junior high, the football coach noticed, and recruited him to play. The coach ended up being pivotal in Mr Armstrong's life, 'reaching out and helping me through that and finding the thing I excelled at and took pride in', he said. 'He really looked at it like he was teaching us to be good, healthy, functioning young men.' Mr Tim Gruber, 31, who teaches kindergarten and first grade in Driggs, Idaho, said he hopes his students see in him a full version of manhood. 'They see me as a guy amid a sea of women,' he said. 'I would like to believe that I'm exhibiting different notions of masculinity. Yes, I'm a hard worker. Yes, I'm going to be strict and hold them to high expectations. But also, I will willingly share, I'll cry with the kids, I will show my emotional side too.' Public support for activities outside school, in the arts or sciences or athletics, is important to ensure that children, especially those from low-income backgrounds, have a range of caring adults in their lives, said Jean Rhodes, a psychology professor and director of the Center for Evidence-Based Mentoring at the University of Massachusetts Boston. And, she said, men who interact with children, even informally, could recognise their role in boys' lives and receive training to become effective mentors. NYTIMES
Sky News
26-02-2025
- Sky News
MP demands clampdown on 'ghost' number plates
People are using 'ghost' number plates to avoid getting caught for dangerous driving, according to an MP who is attempting to change the law. Sarah Coombes, who represents West Bromwich, wants the penalties increased to tackle illegal licence plates which are being used by some motorists to run red lights and ignore speed limits. Motorists can buy so-called 'ghost' or 'stealth' plates for as little as £30. They reflect light back, preventing the registration number from being clearly seen by Automatic Number Plate Recognition (ANPR) cameras. The Labour MP wants the fine for being caught with a non-compliant number plate increased to £1,000 and at least six penalty points. Currently, drivers caught with one can be fined £100. That compares to the minimum penalty for speeding which is a £100 fine and three penalty points. "There are a select minority of people who think they are above the law. The behaviour of a few reckless drivers is putting us all at risk. The punishments need to be tougher," she said. The scale of number plate misuse is unclear but one estimate suggests around 1 in 15 plates could be modified in some way. One police exercise conducted in London found that 40% of taxi and private hire vehicles had coatings applied to their plates that made them unreadable to ANPR cameras. Tony Porter, the UK's former surveillance camera commissioner, said: "ANPR and the humble number plate is hot-wired into the UK's road safety. "If people think, by doctoring their plates, they can speed, drive without due care or without insurance to evade prosecution - then we need to remove this temptation. Innocent members of the public are being put at risk." Ms Coombes is putting forward her plan in the Commons on Wednesday using a 10-minute rule motion. But unless it gets government support the idea is unlikely to progress into law. Jack Cousens, head of roads policy for The AA, said: "Drivers manipulating their number plates in any way is a serious offence. "While steps are needed to tackle the root cause of the problem, some feel that a lack of traffic police increases their chances of getting away with such activity." A government spokesperson said: "This government takes road safety seriously. We are committed to reducing the number of those killed and injured on our roads. "Since the general election, the Labour government has begun work on a new road safety strategy, the first in over a decade. Ministers will share more details of the strategy in due course."
