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New York Post
4 days ago
- Health
- New York Post
French woman's homemade dinner sparks fury with boyfriend who just wanted a burger
A French woman's homemade dinner sparked fury from her American boyfriend who wanted a burger instead, according to a viral post. The woman said she moved from France to the U.S. two years ago and has dealt with digestive issues since, according to her Reddit posting. 'For some reason, the food here makes me sick,' she wrote. 'My body seems to struggle to digest it.' 'Whether it's takeout or fancy restaurant food … I can't go to the bathroom for days, or I'm violently vomiting,' the woman added. The expat consulted medical professionals and, after multiple tests, was told that her body was probably 'not used to the amount of salt and preservatives' in American food. After incorporating more whole foods into her diet, her health improved, she said. She wrote that she began meal-prepping and cooking meals from scratch. 'My dad is actually a chef back home, so he was more than happy to send me some recipes to keep my diet interesting,' she said. 4 After incorporating more whole foods into her diet, she began to feel better, she said in the post. Reddit/r/AmITheAngel But one of her recipes – a 'delicious' vegetarian lasagna made from scratch – caught the ire of her American partner. When he asked what was for dinner, the boyfriend 'rolled his eyes' when he found out it was lasagna, the woman wrote. '[H]e was sick of 'that organic crap' and wanted a cheeseburger,' she recounted. 'The comment hurt.' She said he told her that 'it was unfair to 'make' him eat my diet.' The woman also clarified that she intended no ill will toward Americans and said she enjoys living here – and those who shared comments mostly sided with her. 4 Her boyfriend 'rolled his eyes' when he found out it was a vegetarian lasagna and not a burger, the woman wrote. ViDi Studio – 'You are not responsible for feeding a grown man because he doesn't want to put in the effort,' one of the top comments read. While most commenters supported her, some questioned whether the post was even real. 'Because this totally happened, what in the world have you been eating since you've been in the U.S.?' one person questioned. 'In today's America, it is not compulsory for the woman to cook her boyfriend or husband a meal every night.' 4 'You are not responsible for feeding a grown man because he doesn't want to put in the effort,' a supportive commenter wrote. LIGHTFIELD STUDIOS – Carole Lieberman, M.D., a psychiatrist based in Beverly Hills, California, told Fox News Digital the Reddit poster appears to have 'excellent taste in food, but bad taste in boyfriends.' She added, 'In today's America, it is not compulsory for the woman to cook her boyfriend or husband a meal every night – and certainly not a meal that the woman can't eat herself. Many couples share meal preparation duties and even enjoy it.' Lieberman, who lived in France for years, also attested that the food is generally better than what most Americans eat. 'The problem is that your boyfriend has come to expect home-cooked meals every night because you have spoiled him,' she observed, speaking to the woman who shared her story. 4 According to Carole Lieberman, M.D., a psychiatrist, the woman has 'excellent taste in food, but bad taste in boyfriends.' Rafael Ben-Ari – 'He feels entitled to dictate the menu as well.' 'Perhaps you should remind him that there are many American men who would be delighted to have a French girlfriend cook for them.' Lieberman encouraged the Redditor to reevaluate her relationship. 'Perhaps you should remind him that there are many American men who would be delighted to have a French girlfriend cook for them, regardless of whether she's making vegetarian lasagna or veal escalope.'
New York Post
08-08-2025
- General
- New York Post
Woman berates her boyfriend of five years over his reaction to her home-cooked meals
A woman received an outpouring of support after revealing that her boyfriend of five years rarely compliments her home-cooked meals – yet gushes over takeout and leftovers from work. It caused a huge blowout between them, she said on Reddit, and sparked a debate online, too. 'Yesterday, I made a meal from scratch and, as usual, he ate it silently and only said it was good after I asked,' the woman wrote on the platform recently. 'Then, today, we had a meal he brought from work and immediately reacted with an enthusiastic, 'Mmm.'' 'That hit a nerve,' she admitted. 'I blew up.' In the midst of the argument, the boyfriend claimed he tries to compliment her cooking but often forgets. That only made her more upset, the woman shared. 'Why does he have to try so hard?' she wrote. 'I don't want forced compliments. I just want him to be honest.' 3 It caused a huge blowout between them, she said on Reddit, and sparked a debate online, too. DragonImages – The 25-year-old woman, who also shared that she is Slavic, described herself as an accomplished home cook. 'Everything you can name, I can cook,' she said in the comments section, adding that she prepares dishes from their shared cultural background, as well as Chinese, Thai and more. Her boyfriend, she noted, grew up in a household in which home-cooked meals were the norm and takeout was a treat. 'Now I'm wondering if I overreacted,' she wrote. 3 Melanie Williams, a Baltimore-based psychotherapist, said it boils down to one of the most common relationship problems she sees. ViDi Studio – Most users sided with her. 'Cooking is a labor of love,' one commenter wrote. 'Your guy doesn't understand that, but he needs to learn.' Said another person, 'My [significant other] thanks me and compliments me even if it doesn't turn out that great. He's not just complimenting the food, he's grateful for my time and effort.' Keep up with today's most important news Stay up on the very latest with Evening Update. Thanks for signing up! Enter your email address Please provide a valid email address. By clicking above you agree to the Terms of Use and Privacy Policy. Never miss a story. Check out more newsletters Melanie Williams, a Baltimore-based psychotherapist, said it boils down to one of the most common relationship problems she sees. 'It's entitlement,' she told Fox News Digital. 'She was right to speak up because if she didn't address it now, his entitlement would likely have continued and worsened.' But not everyone agreed. One person said the girlfriend was being too 'touchy.' Another said, 'Cook for him either because you enjoy it or because you've mutually determined it's your fair share of the household labor. Not something to start a fight over.' Other people said compliments can't be forced. 3 But certified life and parenting coach Randi Crawford of California said it's all about being seen. Prathankarnpap – 'She's pouring energy into this relationship, and he's acting like dinner magically appears from the kitchen staff.' 'Otherwise it's performative and what's the point of that?' one person wrote. But certified life and parenting coach Randi Crawford of California said it's all about being seen. 'She's pouring energy into this relationship, and he's acting like dinner magically appears from the kitchen staff,' Crawford said. The woman should sit her boyfriend down and tell him she is hurt, Crawford said. 'Say, 'I don't need a production every night, but I do need you to notice me, not just the DoorDash guy,'' she advised. 'And if he can't do that? Stop bending over backwards and let him know: 'Appreciation isn't optional in this relationship – it's the bare minimum,'' Crawford added. 'And if he still doesn't get it? Let's see how quiet he gets when your kitchen is closed for business.'
New York Post
24-07-2025
- Business
- New York Post
Viral TikTok video sparks online debate over common coffee act
Few rituals are as sacred to Aussies as the coffee run. Whether you're ducking into your work's cafe before tackling the 9-5 grind or taking a quick break with colleagues for a 3 p.m. pick-me-up. Advertisement Yet, why, for something so central to our daily lives, do we never quite know how to handle that awkward little negotiation with friends about who pays? In an era where every dollar counts, how should we deal with the humble coffee buy? 6 People are weighing in on when to pay for a friend's coffee. ViDi Studio – Advertisement There are three main approaches: 1. Spot your friend and expect nothing in return. This is the classic act of generosity, and considering coffees are around $5-$6, many believe it's a small price to pay to avoid having to talk about it. 2. Take turns paying. This method depends a lot on trust and works best when you catch up regularly and know it'll balance out over time 3. Just pay for your own coffee. No fuss, no tracking, no IOUs – just pay for your own and move on. Advertisement 6 Some people pay their own way for their coffee, and other friends take turns paying. Aleksandrs Muiznieks – A recent TikTok has blown this debate wide open. The short clip, which has over 8.8 million views, shows a woman in her 20s sitting in a cafe sipping an iced latte: 'I don't know what friend gave you PTSD but you do not have to pay me back for a coffee'. Clearly striking a chord, thousands of cafe-goers commented to share their thoughts. Advertisement 6 A TikTok video sparked the debate on social media. @miminourii/TikTok 6 'I don't know what friend gave you PTSD but you do not have to pay me back for a coffee,' the clip said. @miminourii/TikTok Some believed keeping tabs was essential. 'You ALWAYS have to pay back,' insisted one. 'It's not even about friends giving you PTSD. It's financial PTSD from parents,' added another, touching on the fact that money anxiety can stem from a person's upbringing. Others agreed with the poster, but with some exceptions. 'Yes, until they start to take advantage,' said one. 'It's all fun and games until every time you go out, you're the one paying,' another commented. Many, however, echoed her selfless approach. Advertisement 'The whole point is DO NOT give with the expectation of reciprocity,' said one. 'If someone owes me under $10, I wouldn't ask for it,' said another. 'It doesn't even count'. The video was shared by a content creator in London, making me wonder what people think about this issue in Australia, where coffee prices have risen 37 percent from pre-pandemic levels and now average $3.63 USD. So, I conducted some very serious, peer-reviewed research by polling my Instagram followers. Advertisement 6 Coffee prices in Australia have risen 37 percent from pre-pandemic levels and now cost on average $3.63 USD. amenic181 – Out of 80 responses, 23 percent said 'I shout [buy], no need to pay back,' 61 percent said 'We take turns,' and 15 percent said 'We pay for our own'. Less than one per cent responded 'Other,' and that person explained their simple rule: 'Whoever is closest to the register pays'. To add a touch more credibility, I consulted an etiquette expert – the only one in the world with a Master's thesis on modern manners – no less. Advertisement 6 According to an Instagram poll of 80 people, 23 percent said 'I shout [buy], no need to pay back,' 61 percent said 'We take turns,' and 15 percent said 'We pay for our own.' EdNurg – Jo Hayes, founder of told that for a simple coffee, it's actually best to shout. 'As a general rule, if it's just a coffee, no extras like brunch or snacks, one of the duo should shout [pay] the other,' she said. 'This small gesture of kindness doesn't break the bank but fosters friendship, kindness, and goodwill.' Advertisement She also mentioned that if you're both ordering at the same counter, most reasonable folk agree it's 'a bit tight' for both to pay for a coffee separately. The key to pulling off this move in a classy way, as many commenters suggested, is expecting nothing in return. 'This is what gifting is,' she added. A simple, discreet 'I've got it,' with a friendly smile, is the best way to handle it. 'Don't make a big deal of it, and quickly switch the topic,' she advised. 'One doesn't want to dwell on money talk longer than necessary.' She also noted that with regular coffee catchups, you should take turns paying. 'Most of us remember who paid last time and, wanting to show mutual generosity, step up to offer the shout [buy],' she explained. If you notice you're always covering your friend's coffee and they never reciprocate, Hayes warns this is a serious breach of etiquette. 'I would reconsider that friendship,' she said. 'Such stinginess raises questions about their character and shows a lack of social courtesy'. If that feels too harsh, try subtle cues next time, like hanging back when it's time to pay or letting them order first. She reminds us that a golden rule applies here, and in all areas of life: 'We reap what we sow'. If we're generous, we'll see generosity return, if we're stingy, that's what we'll get back. Continue the conversation, follow me on Instagram @el_katelaris
New York Post
30-06-2025
- Business
- New York Post
'Tacky' bride slaps shocked guests with absurd $500 fee
She's saying 'I Do' — to taking your dough. Ahead of getting hitched, one ballsy bride-to-be is arranging an 'absurd' marriage between her wedding guests' money and her personal bank account, hitting invitees with a steep attendance fee — as well as a GoFundMe gift request. 'Bride [is] renting a large estate for five days for a destination wedding,' ranted a Redditor of the unnamed nearly-wed. 'We were told, 'accommodations were taken care of,' and that we only needed to book flights/transportation.' 3 Bride branded as 'tacky' after shadily charging wedding guests with a $500 accomodations fee for her five-day wedding celebration. ViDi Studio – 'Two months before the wedding she tells us that we each need to [send] $500 per person for accommodation costs,' the virtual complainer carped. Unfortunately, the grabby bride's surprises didn't end there. 'I checked the website,' added the sleuthy invitee. 'The venue fee includes access to the entire grounds, and the number of guests I've been told are coming [times] $500, [which] actually means she'll be making more than what the venue fee is.' On top of pocketing a tidy profit via wedding day well-wishers, the unabashed bride and groom are, too, urging guests to gift them with cash toward their post-nuptial bash. 3 Stunned social media skeptics urged the anonymous Redditor against attending the for-profit fete. Anton Pentegov – 'They've also started GoFundMe's for their honeymoon and sent the links out to us,' the Reddit user groaned. 'They have five honeymoon options, each with a $10k goal.' The shameless sweeties are certainly leading the charge in big day audacity. But they're not alone. Owing to the high cost of hosting a wedding — especially in the U.S., where the average price of a ceremony exceeds $26,000 — penny-pinching pairs have grown accustomed to slamming folks with a cover charge at wedding chapel doors. Big Apple lovebirds Nova and Reemo Styles proudly told The Post they had guests pay $333 per person to witness their June 2023 holy matrimony. It's a controversial trend that haters on Reddit are calling 'sneaky, tacky and cheap.' 'Tell her that you're allergic to brides making a profit off their weddings,' a sickened social media slickster said in response to the $500 digs demand. 3 Since wedding costs have skyrocketed over the past few years, cash-conscious couples have grown comfortable asking big day attendees to pay for their seats. zimmytws – 'If it was just the accommodations you were paying for, you'd be paying the hotel directly,' another 'grossed' out naysayer noted. 'She is literally planning a wedding to her standards, and then having her guests pay for it. That's sneaky, tacky, and cheap.' 'That is beyond tacky,' an equally disturbed commenter chimed. 'I would never attend if I was expected to 'pay to play' for a wedding.' 'Honestly,' said another, '[this is] psycho behavior.'
New York Post
27-06-2025
- New York Post
‘Destination dupes' are this summer's hottest low-budget vacation hack, travel experts say — here's how it works
If you can't go with the flow, go with the faux. Rather than breaking the bank, visiting voguish vacation locations, a staggering 63% of pennywise sightseers are taking cost-friendly trips to 'destination dupes.' 'With travel prices soaring, many Americans are rethinking how and where they vacation,' explained study authors for CouponFollow, a discount travel hub, in a recent report. Advertisement 6 The 'destination dupes' movement is rising as a cost-cutting trend among travelers on a budget. ViDi Studio – 'Instead of chasing the usual bucket-list destinations, they're turning to designation dupes,' said the experts, 'affordable alternative locations that deliver similar charm without the hefty price tag or large crowds.' Insiders surveyed 1,000 U.S. adults, ranging in age from 18 to over 55. The poll revealed that frugal folks have saved an average of $2,262, exploring less popular lands, like Liverpool and Croatia, as reasonable substitutes to haute hotspots such as London and Italy, respectively. Advertisement So long, Lake Cuomo, hello Schitt's Creek. The money-saving movement is picking up steam among travel enthusiasts worldwide, as chichi cities like Venice have started hitting tourists with entry fees, and residents in Barcelona have begun attacking outsiders. So, to avoid the drama and the trauma, tightwads are doing the dupes. 6 Thrifty globetrotters are forgoing expensive trips to Italy for wallet-friendly alternatives. travnikovstudio – Advertisement 6 The study found that 63% of frequent trippers prefer destination dupes to luxury vacations. Pixel-Shot – 6 Croatia has been hailed as an affordable alternative to Italy. puhhha – The top knockoff spot of 2025 is the Azores. It's a group of volcanic islands belonging to Portugal that's become the next best thing to a costly escape to Hawaii, per CouponFollow. Taking the second-place slot for the best second-rate stay is Liverpool, England. Rather than blowing big bucks to visit London, jet-setters can soak in Liverpool's similarly rich cultural scene, historic landmarks and vibrant nightlife. Advertisement Third in the ranking is Croatia as a make-do swap for Italy. The humble country reportedly offers stunning coastlines, historic architecture and Mediterranean charm with fewer crowds and more cash-conscious accommodations — which is of utmost importance to globetrotters. 6 According to CouponFollow's report, travelers expect to spend 20% to 30% less on a destination dupe than the original hotspot. Andrii Iemelianenko – 'The biggest factor driving this trend was affordability, with 73% of travelers saying lower costs were the top reason why they chose a dupe,' said the researchers. 'Over half (53%) also went to these destinations to enjoy fewer crowds. More than 1 in 4 believed these swaps were trendier and cooler than traditional luxury trips.' But a destination dupe can't be a dud. 6 Destination dupe enthusiasts prefer taking low-cost trips over high-priced getaways. Guajillo studio – A whopping 61% of respondents preferred their cut-rate experiences over the oohs-and-ahhs they might have had on a pricier holiday. But to make the downgrade worthwhile, roughly 4 in 10 travelers said the bargain retreat needs to be at least 20% to 30% cheaper than the original location. 'For anyone looking to stretch their travel budget, the perfect trip might not be the most obvious one,' the travel masters advised. 'It could be a well-chosen alternative that offers more for less.'
