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Yahoo
2 days ago
- Yahoo
Experts reveal the obvious sign someone is cheating — that most people don't catch: ‘That's a breadcrumb worth following'
Turns out, evidence of a cheater might not be hidden in their texts, tucked in their DMs or whispered on a late-night phone call. It could be sitting right there on their bank statement. Forget lipstick on the collar — suspicious ATM withdrawals might be the real smoking gun. 'We're basically a cashless society these days, so if your partner has always been about tap-and-go, using a credit card for reward points, and suddenly starts doing ATM withdrawals — that's a breadcrumb worth following,' private investigator Cassie Crofts explained on TikTok. Why? 'Cash doesn't leave a trail,' Crofts said. 'If they go to a restaurant and spend $200, you can be pretty sure they weren't dining solo. But $200 cash withdrawal? You've got no idea what happened.' Brothel manager Catherine De Noire says the location — and the timing — of those withdrawals can be even more damning. 'The first thing is that a lot of guys don't carry enough cash. So then they go and withdraw money from an ATM, which is usually somewhere near the brothel or inside the brothel,' she said on Instagram, as reported by the Tab. 'This is very suspicious, especially when you see that your partner withdraws a lot of money at 4 a.m. in this area, and the account is a shared one.' Bottom line: If your joint account suddenly starts hemorrhaging $20s in the wee hours, it might be time for a serious talk. And while money might be the most obvious tell, it's not the only household item that can turn snitch. As The Post previously reported, one woman discovered her husband's alleged infidelity thanks to a very unlikely source — their digital scale. In a now-viral Reddit post, a wife using the handle throw-Doubt303 claimed she uncovered late-night weigh-ins on their shared scale — while she was out of town and her husband was supposedly home alone. 'I checked the digital scale's memory out of curiosity and it showed two 'unassigned' weigh-ins at exactly 120 lbs, logged at 12:25 a.m. and 12:26 a.m. back-to-back,' she wrote. 'For context, I do not weigh 120 lbs, and I was not there on that date, just my husband.' Redditors didn't mince words. 'Pro tip — don't tell him you know there was a female there. Get in touch with attorneys to make a game plan,' one advised. 'This is two back-to-back weights. This is pretty simple. He has moved on and is already hooking up with other women. No need to overthink this,' another said. One commenter praised the find: 'This is expert-level sleuthing. Men underestimate our level of intuition. When you confront him, he'll probably try to paint you as crazy or paranoid. You're not.' In other words: If you're looking for clues, don't just follow the money — follow the pounds. Solve the daily Crossword
Daily Mail
15-05-2025
- Entertainment
- Daily Mail
Shock moment mummy blogger thought her husband was cheating interstate after bizarre bank statement appeared on her phone - and it could to anyone
An Aussie influencer has revealed the embarrassing moment she mistakenly thought her husband was cheating on her after receiving a bizarre bank statement. Mummy blogger Sarah Kearns, 35, shared the cringeworthy ordeal with her social media followers, revealing it happened while her husband Brad was on an interstate trip. 'Let me set the scene for you. It's 8:20pm on a school night, and Brad is interstate at a work conference,' Sarah began. 'He had texted me earlier to let me know they were all going out after the conference for drinks - the afterparty if you will.' She said the misunderstanding occurred after she received a confusing bank notification on her phone, which did not reveal the whole picture. 'So there I am. Snuggled up in bed, loving the alone time, reading my book... All-in-all the perfect night when my suddenly my phone went off,' she exclaimed. 'It's the bank. An automatic notification to let me know money was spent from our account. An annoying but clever feature. $36 spent at… wait for it… "Forever Seduced Ho".' Sarah revealed the business name initially caused some confusion as she didn't realise it was an abbreviation for a restaurant trading under Forever Seduced Hospitality Group. 'What in the work event drinks is this place?? What kind of establishment is old mate at? How many partners sent the exact same message, "work drinks, hey?",' she quipped. Sarah then revealed her embarrassment after realising she had jumped to the wrong conclusion and sent her husband text messages accusing him of cheating. 'So I did what any rational wife would do. I googled "Forever Seduced Ho Docklands". Turns out it's the company that owns the club near the convention centre,' Sarah explained. 'Four stars. Great vibe. Questionable branding. Would recommend for post conference drinks if you enjoy explaining the receipt to your partner next day.' Sarah and Brad have one of the strongest marriages in the business. Her husband of 14 years Brad, also known as 'DadMum' online, went viral on Facebook back in 2016 when he penned a scathing post after a man passed judgement on his wife for being 'just' a stay at home parent. She said the misunderstanding occurred after she received a confusing bank notification on her phone, which did not reveal the whole picture 'We went to a wedding the other week. We were on a table which was half half. Half us and half them. It wasn't too bad and we all got along. They started that awkward conversation which we all have when we meet new adults,' he wrote at the time. '"So what do you do with yourself?" 'I don't know why this f*****g conversation happens. It's almost like a passive game of "who's the richest" or "guess my lifestyle".' Brad said when he explained what he did for a living nobody 'batted an eyelid' but when a male guest started to question his wife Sarah it was a different story. 'And then he looks at Sarah. He says: "oh so you just stay home and look after the kids?"' Brad sniped. 'I don't know how this has become a generalisation but it f***ing stinks.' Brad then urged his followers to stop judging and making assumptions about other parents.
