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Yahoo
a day ago
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- Yahoo
Co-viewing screen time: How watching together makes a big difference
Why what you do with the screen matters more than the minutes on the clock We hear a lot about limiting kids' screen time, how many minutes, how many hours, what's 'too much.' But there's another part of the conversation that matters just as much: how you use that time together. Because screen time isn't just about numbers on a clock. It can be a chance to connect, spark conversations, and help your child make sense of the world they're seeing on-screen. That's where co-viewing comes in. And no, it's not just sitting silently side-by-side while something plays in the background. It's watching together, talking about what's happening, and helping your child connect what they see on-screen to what they experience in real life. What co-viewing is and why it matters Co-viewing is exactly what it sounds like: you and your child watching a show or movie together, interacting along the way. You're seeing what they're seeing, hearing what they're hearing, and joining in on the experience. That gives you a chance to guide the conversation, answer their (many) questions, and clear up any confusion before it sticks. It's also a great way to help them process feelings that pop up, maybe the character is scared of the dark, or a favorite sidekick gets lost, and to link what they're learning to real-world moments. Think of it as story time with moving pictures. And then there's something called 'joint attention,' which means you're both focused on the same thing. If a duck appears on screen, you might point it out, make the quack sound together, or grab their toy duck to compare. These moments help words and concepts stick because your child is connecting them to something real. Research even backs this up. One study found that when parents used high-quality reading strategies while watching videos, kids scored higher on comprehension and vocabulary than those whose parents didn't. How to make co-viewing interactive You don't have to narrate every second or turn every show into a pop quiz. Small, simple prompts make a big impact: Focus their attention:'Do you see the ducks? How many are there? What color are they?' Ask questions about the whys and hows: 'Who is that? Where do they live? Why are they doing that?' Bring it back to real life: 'He fell, remember when you scraped your knee? What did we do to help?' Expand on their responses: 'Daniel Tiger was scared of loud noises. I don't like loud noises either. How do you feel when you hear them?' And here's a pro tip: leave pauses. Even if your child just responds with a sound or a point, they're processing and making connections. If you can't watch together, you can still follow up later with older kids: 'What happened in the show? Who was your favorite character? How did it make you feel?' Why co-viewing works When you're actively part of screen time, you're doing more than filling the minutes. You're: Growing their vocabulary and language skills Helping them think critically and make connections Modeling empathy and emotional regulation Building early literacy skills through exposure to stories, letters, and sounds Plus, you're right there to help them handle any scary or confusing moments, which can turn 'nightmare fuel' into 'teachable moment.' Choosing the right shows Pick things that are age-appropriate and that you can stand to watch. If you're counting the seconds until the credits, you're less likely to engage. Look for shows with positive themes like kindness, teamwork, and problem-solving, and skip ones heavy on violence or mean-spirited humor. I love watching Wheel of Fortune, not because I expect my child to solve puzzles, but because it's fun for both of us and an easy way to introduce letters in a relaxed setting. Balance matters, but so does quality The total hours of screen time matter less than how those hours are spent. Watching alongside your child, talking about what's on-screen, and balancing it with plenty of off-screen play, sleep, and connection helps make screen time more meaningful. It also helps to set boundaries that fit your family, like keeping meals or certain routines screen-free, so co-viewing stays one part of a balanced day that includes sleep, active play, and connection. Screens don't have to be the bad guy. Used with intention, they can spark conversation, build skills, and give you those shoulder-to-shoulder moments you'll both remember, long after you've turned the TV off.
Yahoo
2 days ago
- Entertainment
- Yahoo
Co-Viewing Screen Time: How Watching Together Makes a Big Difference
Why what you do with the screen matters more than the minutes on the clock We hear a lot about limiting kids' screen time, how many minutes, how many hours, what's 'too much.' But there's another part of the conversation that matters just as much: how you use that time together. Because screen time isn't just about numbers on a clock. It can be a chance to connect, spark conversations, and help your child make sense of the world they're seeing on-screen. That's where co-viewing comes in. And no, it's not just sitting silently side-by-side while something plays in the background. It's watching together, talking about what's happening, and helping your child connect what they see on-screen to what they experience in real life. What co-viewing is and why it matters Co-viewing is exactly what it sounds like: you and your child watching a show or movie together, interacting along the way. You're seeing what they're seeing, hearing what they're hearing, and joining in on the experience. That gives you a chance to guide the conversation, answer their (many) questions, and clear up any confusion before it sticks. It's also a great way to help them process feelings that pop up, maybe the character is scared of the dark, or a favorite sidekick gets lost, and to link what they're learning to real-world moments. Think of it as story time with moving pictures. And then there's something called 'joint attention,' which means you're both focused on the same thing. If a duck appears on screen, you might point it out, make the quack sound together, or grab their toy duck to compare. These moments help words and concepts stick because your child is connecting them to something real. Research even backs this up. One study found that when parents used high-quality reading strategies while watching videos, kids scored higher on comprehension and vocabulary than those whose parents didn't. How to make co-viewing interactive You don't have to narrate every second or turn every show into a pop quiz. Small, simple prompts make a big impact: Focus their attention:'Do you see the ducks? How many are there? What color are they?' Ask questions about the whys and hows: 'Who is that? Where do they live? Why are they doing that?' Bring it back to real life: 'He fell, remember when you scraped your knee? What did we do to help?' Expand on their responses: 'Daniel Tiger was scared of loud noises. I don't like loud noises either. How do you feel when you hear them?' And here's a pro tip: leave pauses. Even if your child just responds with a sound or a point, they're processing and making connections. If you can't watch together, you can still follow up later with older kids: 'What happened in the show? Who was your favorite character? How did it make you feel?' Why co-viewing works When you're actively part of screen time, you're doing more than filling the minutes. You're: Growing their vocabulary and language skills Helping them think critically and make connections Modeling empathy and emotional regulation Building early literacy skills through exposure to stories, letters, and sounds Plus, you're right there to help them handle any scary or confusing moments, which can turn 'nightmare fuel' into 'teachable moment.' Choosing the right shows Pick things that are age-appropriate and that you can stand to watch. If you're counting the seconds until the credits, you're less likely to engage. Look for shows with positive themes like kindness, teamwork, and problem-solving, and skip ones heavy on violence or mean-spirited humor. I love watching Wheel of Fortune, not because I expect my child to solve puzzles, but because it's fun for both of us and an easy way to introduce letters in a relaxed setting. Balance matters, but so does quality The total hours of screen time matter less than how those hours are spent. Watching alongside your child, talking about what's on-screen, and balancing it with plenty of off-screen play, sleep, and connection helps make screen time more meaningful. It also helps to set boundaries that fit your family, like keeping meals or certain routines screen-free, so co-viewing stays one part of a balanced day that includes sleep, active play, and connection. Screens don't have to be the bad guy. Used with intention, they can spark conversation, build skills, and give you those shoulder-to-shoulder moments you'll both remember, long after you've turned the TV off.
