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Daily Mail
8 hours ago
- General
- Daily Mail
EXCLUSIVE I had a premonition about how my grandad would die - no one believed I'd seen the future...but then it came true
In the summer of 1977, 12-year-old Andy Thomas watched from the window to see his mother approaching in floods of tears. At that moment, Mr Thomas knew that the bad news they'd be expecting was coming: his grandad was dead. As the family's holiday was interrupted by their sudden loss, Mr Thomas sat back and watched his grieving relatives, trying to process what had just happened. Then, without warning, Mr Thomas woke up back in his bed, relieved to discover that it had all been nothing more than a bad dream. 'It was one of those moments when you just think "thank god for that",' Mr Thomas told MailOnline. However, Mr Thomas's relief proved to be short-lived when he looked out of the window and saw his mother walking towards the house, once again in floods of tears. And much to his disbelief, he found that his premonition had come true - his grandad really had died. Mr Thomas says: 'Every single thing unfolded just exactly as I just dreamt it. Not even just slightly, it was the same thing, and I just re-lived it twice. I tried to tell people, but in all the chaos they just didn't want to hear it.' Mr Thomas, now a prolific paranormal investigator and author of STRANGE: Paranormal Realities in the Everyday World, says that even as a child he knew something was wrong. He says: 'I knew this wasn't normal, this wasn't right. I was watching everything unfold in front of me and I knew what everyone was going to say, who was going to do what, and who was going to walk across the room. 'It was exactly the same, everybody was just the same. The only difference was that I knew what was about to unfold.' This might sound a lot like déjà vu - a peculiar sense of familiarity for something you haven't experienced before. However, Mr Thomas insists that what he experienced that morning was something far more profound than a sense of familiarity. 'This wasn't just a passing feeling of "hang on, haven't I done this before", this was very precise,' Mr Thomas says. 'Déjà vu tends to occur for a few seconds, we're talking about something that went on for several minutes here.' Likewise, Mr Thomas says that he could accurately predict his family's actions, while studies have shown that experiencing déjà vu does not help you predict what will happen next. What is déjà vu? Déjà vu is a very common condition, with studies suggesting that about two-thirds of people experience it at least once in their lives. Scientists still aren't exactly sure what causes this strange feeling, but the explanation is decidedly not paranormal. The best theory is that déjà vu is caused when something goes wrong in a region of the brain called the medial temporal lobe, which controls creating memories and giving you the feeling of recalling something. When the brain gets overexcited it's possible that this region starts to signal that you're recalling a memory even while the memory is being formed. As the rest of the brain catches up with this false signal you get the strange sense of confusing similarity that characterises déjà vu. Whatever the cause, that strange morning turned out to be a pivotal point in his life that would forever change how he thought about brushes with strange phenomena. Mr Thomas says: 'This stuff gets rubbished and you're always told that it's a hallucination, but I've experienced enough myself to know that I have to be open-minded about it.' Now a full-time paranormal researcher and author, Mr Thomas says he has spoken to 'hundreds' of people at events across the country who report similar experiences. While he says that ghost sightings are the most common paranormal experience people report, many others have had similar moments of what Mr Thomas calls 'precognition'. In one incident reported to Mr Thomas, a woman named Janet Tucker was woken the night before a car trip by a terrible nightmare in which she saw her mother being pulled through a window by paramedics. The next day, the family campervan was struck by a car at a crossroads and veered off the road into a brick wall. As emergency services arrived and Janet climbed from the wreckage, she looked back in horror to see paramedics pulling her mother through the campervan's sliding doors - just as she had seen in her dream. Mr Thomas believes that precognitions may be far more common than is openly acknowledged as people hide their stories due to the fear of being seen as crazy. Mr Thomas says: 'This is happening on a really everyday basis to somebody somewhere. 'I think the more we speak openly about this, I think the more people are going to come forward, and we're going to discover that actually, this kind of stuff is going on a far more regular basis than we know.' However, even though Mr Thomas is a staunch believer in the supernatural, he still believes that a scientific explanation is possible. 'On one level there is no such thing as the paranormal, it's just something that science hasn't explained yet,' says Mr Thomas. 'I love science, but it needs to apply itself to things that have previously been assumed to be not worth consideration. Mr Thomas currently believes that the scientific explanation for his premonitions of death could come from the world of quantum physics. Cutting-edge research is now showing that, in quantum physics, the future can affect the past in a process called 'retrocausality'. In some experiments, researchers have found that a pulse of light can sometimes appear to spend 'negative time' passing through a material - emerging before it enters the other side. For some researchers, this has called into doubt the fundamental assumption that time moves in one direction with cause always preceding effect. Some scientists even believe that ditching the idea of time as a one-way street is the only way to solve some of the fundamental problems of quantum physics. Mr Thomas believes that these quantum concepts could explain how some people seem to access information from the future. He says: 'If you look at what quantum research is suggesting, time doesn't run from A to B; it can go in either direction. I suspect that there's a general flow of time but if you chuck a stone, a big event sends ripples back and you just briefly pick them up when time gets stuck in a groove.' It is important to bear in mind that retrocausation has only been observed in extremely specific experiments under laboratory conditions and scientists don't think it would allow for memories to travel backwards in time. Likewise, retrocausation only affects the measurable states of quantum scale particles like photons, not big objects like human brains. However, for Mr Thomas, the goal is not necessarily to provide a definitive explanation for these experiences but, rather, to encourage scientists to consider them something worth trying to explain. He says: 'We are brought up with certain attitudes and told, this is the way the world works but can we, just for a minute, put aside the sceptical thing and ask: "What else could be going on here".' WHAT IS QUANTUM ENTANGLEMENT? In quantum physics, entangled particles remain connected so that actions performed by one affects the behaviour of the other, even if they are separated by huge distances. This means if you measure, 'up' for the spin of one photon from an entangled pair, the spin of the other, measured an instant later, will be 'down' - even if the two are on opposite sides of the world. Entanglement takes place when a part of particles interact physically. For instance, a laser beam fired through a certain type of crystal can cause individual light particles to be split into pairs of entangled photons. The theory that so riled Einstein is also referred to as 'spooky action at a distance'. Einstein wasn't happy with theory, because it suggested that information could travel faster than light.
The Sun
2 days ago
- Entertainment
- The Sun
I only have one dress to wear to my grandad's funeral but worry it's too booby – trolls agree & say I'm ‘disrespectful'
SHE thought she had the perfect LBD to wear for her grandad's funeral. But when Amber tried it on, she was more than a little concerned that it was "too booby" and "inappropriate" to wear in a church. 4 4 4 The dress featured lace panels down the side and a flattering V-neck. However, the cut of the neckline was very low cut, although Amber insisted she didn't remember it being that revealing. "It's my grandad's funeral today and this was actually the only dress that I bought," she said in a video on her TikTok page. "But now I'm a bit worried that it's a bit like booby for a church and it's the only dress that I've got like. "Is that disrespectful?" She questioned whether or not she should wear a jumper over the top for the funeral, but said she was looking forward to seeing long-distance family at the service. "But this dress - I've just got a feeling this is gonna be really inappropriate," Amber added. "I wore this dress before and I never remembered it being like (this). "Oh my God is it okay? I don't know!" "Please help me guys, is this dress inappropriate for a funeral?" she wrote in the caption. I'm a size 18 and tried to find a black dress for a 'funeral' but all that's died is my confidence And there were more than a couple of comments from people insisting the dress was far too revealing to wear to a funeral. "No way for a funeral. Honestly, take it off!" one wrote. "Nooooo, too much flesh - it's disrespectful," another insisted. "Put 'em away!" a third agreed. "Disrespectful." "Take it off," someone else said. How to find the perfect DD+ dress for summer Looking for the perfect summer dress to fit your bigger bust? Deputy Fashion Editor Abby McHale has the perfect solution. Looking for the perfect summer dress to fit your bigger bust? Deputy Fashion Editor Abby McHale has the perfect solution. Finding a dress that flatters your bigger bust can be hard, often dresses can leave your bra showing, squash your bust and just be ill fitting in general. However, there are a few things you can look out for that will make dress shopping easier. A V-neck is a really flattering neckline as it gives your chest some more space, however, don't discount a square neck also, not only is this a trendy neckline, but will also give your bust the room it needs. Empire line fits are also super flattering, you just need to make sure they fall underneath the bottom of your bra, that way your bust will sit nicely before the rest of the dress skims your body. Wrap style dresses are also a great option but just make sure to look for an added popper detail, so that you don't have to use a safety pin to hold the dress in place and stop your bra from showing. Extra shirring detail on the back will also give the dress more room for stretch around your chest. And if you're looking for a backless dress then make sure there is one with a tie detail at the back that means you can still wear a bra. If all that sounds like something you're interested in then here at Fabulous we have created a collection specifically designed for DD+ boobs that ticks all of these boxes. Check it out here at "Why ask - you know it's inappropriate." "Please don't wear this to your Granddad's funeral," another commented. "Totally disrespectful. "Put a cardigan on over it or change all together Amber. Wear navy if nothing else. "DO NOT WEAR THAT DRESS!!! " "Girl I'm all for supporting girls, but no way for a funeral," someone else wrote. However, others were in favour of Amber's dress, with one sighing: "She can wear it to a funeral, they are just breasts!" "Wear what you're comfortable wearing, I'm sure your grandad would approve," another agreed. "Whatever you choose, just be you." "Stunning and it's fine babe, you wear what you feel comfortable in," a third wrote. "I went to a funeral and one of the granddaughters had a tight fitting backless dress on," someone else said. "Times have changed. As long as you feel comfortable!" "You look perfect, my darling," another commented.
Daily Mail
2 days ago
- General
- Daily Mail
Miracle moment grandpa survives heart-stopping 9,000ft paragliding plunge in the French Alps
A grandad captured the moment he survived a paragliding fall after his wing collapsed while flying 9,000ft above the French Alps. Click above to watch the full video.
The Independent
05-06-2025
- Business
- The Independent
Best deals on Father's Day gifts for 2025
It's that time of year again, Father's Day is just around the corner and we all know the struggle of trying to find the perfect gift. Whether you're buying for your own dad, a gift from the kids or something special for grandad, there's still time to pick up a great present without breaking the bank. Father's Day 2025 falls on Sunday 15 June, and with most online retailers offering express or next-day delivery, there's a good chance your gift will arrive in time. If you're looking for ways to keep costs down this Father's Day, we've got you covered with our pick of the top offers. Our team of deal hunters has been scouring the web for the best deals on Father's Day gifts. We've also tested every promo code, so you can be sure they'll help you to save. From days out to cooking or gardening, there's something for every kind of dad. Keep reading to see our favourite deals that you can shop right now. Save 15 per cent at VistaPrint Best for personalised Father's Day gifts What do you buy a dad who already has everything? Something personalised, of course. Whether it's a first father's day gift or you've simply run out of ideas, Vistaprint has a great selection of photo gifts and personalisation options to choose from. There's everything from mugs and desk calendars to blankets and acrylic photo blocks that can be delivered in as little as two days with the 'rush' delivery option. Plus, you can save 15 on your first order by using the VistaPrint discount code below. Exclusive 10 per cent off Goldsmiths orders Best for sentimental keepsakes If you're treating the man in your life to something special this year, look no further then Goldsmiths. Whether it's cufflinks, a designer watch or jewellery, its Father's Day gift collection has something for every budget. You can save even more with our 10 per cent voucher code, exclusive to The Independent readers. There's also next-day delivery available seven days a week, which is ideal if you're panic buying. See the latest promotions on our Goldsmiths discount codes page Get 10 per cent off at Crocus Best for garden enthusiasts For green-fingered dads, Crocus is the place to go. There's already a pre-selected collection of Father's Day gift ideas for plant lovers and garden enthusiasts alike. Whether he's a seasoned gardener or a beginner, you'll find everything from potted plants and tools to gardening hampers. Next-day delivery is available on selected items if you order by midday, Monday to Thursday. Plus, if it's your first time shopping with Crocus, you can save 10 per cent with the discount code below. Join the B&Q Club to save £5 Best for DIY dads Father's Day and DIY go hand in hand, and B&Q needs no introduction when it comes to home improvement. Whether your dad's into home projects, gardening or simply needs a tool kit upgrade, you're guaranteed to find it. Plus, most items are available for same-day collection, which is ideal for last-minute shoppers. B&Q Club members can currently save £5 on orders more than £30. It's free to join and you'll benefit from exclusive discounts and member-only prices all year round. Enjoy 10 per cent off designer brands at Harvey Nichols Best for luxury gifting If you're buying for a fashion lover, head to Harvey Nichols for all the best designer and high-end brands. Father's Day is the perfect excuse to treat them to something special, whether it's a Tom Ford cologne or a Ralph Lauren polo shirt. If fashion isn't his thing, there's also the luxury food and drinks selection – think indulgent hampers, fine spirits, artisan chocolates and more. We've also got a handy tip to save you 10 per cent on your order. Register for the newsletter via the link below, and you'll be emailed your unique code to add at checkout. There's next-day delivery available on orders placed before 3pm, Monday to Sunday. Our Harvey Nichols deals page has more great offers and saving tips Subscribe and save 10 per cent off at Ninja Kitchen Best for foodies If dad is a dab hand in the kitchen (or behind the BBQ), Ninja is one of our tried and tested favourites for the latest kitchen gadgets. From electric BBQs and pizza ovens to sleek knife sets, you won't be short for inspiration. Plus, free next-day delivery comes as standard on orders over £30. With this gift option at the higher budget end, a saving won't go a miss. Sign up for the Ninja newsletter and you'll get a 10 per cent promo code sent straight to your inbox. Save 20 per cent on top brands at Footasylum Best for trainer lovers You can't go wrong with a fresh pair of trainers. Footasylum has all the latest styles from big brands, including Nike, New Balance, Asics and more. Whether you're buying practical hiking shoes from Salomon or classic sambas from adidas, you'll be sure to find a pair to suit. There's also 20 per cent to be saved on selected footwear and clothing right now – just apply the below Footasylum promo code at checkout. Our Footasylum deals page has all the latest promo codes and offers £10 gift card with National Trust memberships Best for making memories If you're looking for something a little more meaningful this Father's Day, a National Trust membership is worth a look. Instead of a one-off present, you're giving a whole year of days out and memory-making with unlimited access to hundreds of sites across the UK. Joint membership is £160.80 a year, while a family membership is £168.80. Both come with a free £10 National Trust gift card, which is perfect for a coffee and cake after a long walk or a browse in the gift shop.
Times
22-05-2025
- General
- Times
Róisín Lafferty: ‘I never thought I'd live outside of Dublin, now I might never go back'
I grew up in Goatstown, south Co Dublin. It was a pretty ordinary 1950s-era semi-detached house. For some reason, in every house I've lived in I've lived in the attic. I prefer being at the top of the house, like a cat — it feels nice and tucked away. My mum still lives in my childhood home. She's lived in it her whole life because my grandad lived there previously, and I grew up with him. I've actually redone the house for her since to make it function better. We knocked down a few walls and changed the configuration. I think in some cases I put aesthetics over function, which she never lets me hear the end of. I was always the girl in school
