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The Guardian
2 days ago
- General
- The Guardian
Trust your gut and fail bravely: seven influential women on the advice they would give their 30-year-old selves
If you could go back in time and give your younger self some advice, what would it be? (Mine: always hire a professional to do your taxes and just accept you look best with a side part.) It's tempting to imagine what we might have done differently. Unfortunately, wisdom tends to be hard-earned, and often only arises after a series of mistakes – like parting your hair in the middle for five years even though it makes you look like a potato. While personal wisdom takes time and patience to cultivate, we can always listen to what other astute people have learned over the years. For our series The joys of ageing, we asked seven influential women what advice they would give their 30-year-old selves if they could go back in time. I'd tell my 30-year-old self to write morning pages: three pages of longhand, morning writing, done daily. The pages provoke, clarify, comfort, cajole, prioritize and synchronize the day at hand. They guard – and guide – the writer. I would have told my 30-year-old self that all the things I sought from the world – respect, safety, love, esteem – were not out there, and that experiencing those was going to be an inside job. I wasn't going to be able to achieve, own, lease, marry well enough to feel fulfilled for any length of time. That I could stop dancing as fast as I could trying to fill up on all the prizes and rewards and glitter that the world had to offer – because it was outside of me, it was not of lasting value. I would have told myself to do everything I could do to make myself stronger, keep fit and be the best of what I could be. And we're not all going to be the same. Don't even think that you're going to look like or do the same things as everyone else. Just do what you can do. Sign up to Well Actually Practical advice, expert insights and answers to your questions about how to live a good life after newsletter promotion I would tell my 30-year-old self to trust my gut. Don't overthink. If only we could go back and lend wisdom to our younger selves. But life doesn't work that way. We earn our wisdom, year by year. Yes, I wish I had the overwhelming gratitude for our blue jewel of a planet at age 30, as I do now, at age 75. I wish I had been more forgiving of myself and my blunders. I wish I had been more tolerant of others' blunders. We, all of us, are on an arc of personal evolution. Wisdom can't be rushed. The only goal we can strive for is to eventually arrive at becoming the person we can admire. The understanding that would have been most helpful would have been something like: 'When a door closes, another one can open.' No, I won't go to journalism school after all – a long-held, quiet aspiration – but I've learned a lot contemplating the role of truth-telling, wise detachment and compassionate witnessing. I won't still traipse around Asia as I began doing when I was 18, but I can have a vibrant sense of adventure, a strong love of learning and an ability to not excessively rely on creature comforts. I may not have so many firsts – like I've already had with my first book, my first recording, my first public talk to crowds of people. But you know what – I just might. What's ahead will take courage, but you are ready. Do not shrink to belong. Stand boldly, fail bravely, grow fully and move forward with peace of mind and heart. Start every day with kindness. That's your superpower.
The Guardian
2 days ago
- General
- The Guardian
Trust your gut and fail bravely: seven influential women on the advice they would give their 30-year-old selves
If you could go back in time and give your younger self some advice, what would it be? (Mine: always hire a professional to do your taxes and just accept you look best with a side part.) It's tempting to imagine what we might have done differently. Unfortunately, wisdom tends to be hard-earned, and often only arises after a series of mistakes – like parting your hair in the middle for five years even though it makes you look like a potato. While personal wisdom takes time and patience to cultivate, we can always listen to what other astute people have learned over the years. For the final installment in our series The joys of ageing, we asked seven influential women what advice they would give their 30-year-old selves if they could go back in time. I'd tell my 30-year-old self to write morning pages: three pages of longhand, morning writing, done daily. The pages provoke, clarify, comfort, cajole, prioritize and synchronize the day at hand. They guard – and guide – the writer. I would have told my 30-year-old self that all the things I sought from the world – respect, safety, love, esteem – were not out there, and that experiencing those was going to be an inside job. I wasn't going to be able to achieve, own, lease, marry well enough to feel fulfilled for any length of time. That I could stop dancing as fast as I could trying to fill up on all the prizes and rewards and glitter that the world had to offer – because it was outside of me, it was not of lasting value. I would have told myself to do everything I could do to make myself stronger, keep fit and be the best of what I could be. And we're not all going to be the same. Don't even think that you're going to look like or do the same things as everyone else. Just do what you can do. Sign up to Well Actually Practical advice, expert insights and answers to your questions about how to live a good life after newsletter promotion I would tell my 30-year-old self to trust my gut. Don't overthink. If only we could go back and lend wisdom to our younger selves. But life doesn't work that way. We earn our wisdom, year by year. Yes, I wish I had the overwhelming gratitude for our blue jewel of a planet at age 30, as I do now, at age 75. I wish I had been more forgiving of myself and my blunders. I wish I had been more tolerant of others' blunders. We, all of us, are on an arc of personal evolution. Wisdom can't be rushed. The only goal we can strive for is to eventually arrive at becoming the person we can admire. The understanding that would have been most helpful would have been something like: 'When a door closes, another one can open.' No, I won't go to journalism school after all – a long-held, quiet aspiration – but I've learned a lot contemplating the role of truth-telling, wise detachment and compassionate witnessing. I won't still traipse around Asia as I began doing when I was 18, but I can have a vibrant sense of adventure, a strong love of learning and an ability to not excessively rely on creature comforts. I may not have so many firsts – like I've already had with my first book, my first recording, my first public talk to crowds of people. But you know what – I just might. What's ahead will take courage, but you are ready. Do not shrink to belong. Stand boldly, fail bravely, grow fully and move forward with peace of mind and heart. Start every day with kindness. That's your superpower.
CBC
22-07-2025
- Entertainment
- CBC
Rock trailblazer Ozzy Osbourne dead at 76
John Michael 'Ozzy' Osbourne, the lead singer of Black Sabbath, has died at 76, his family confirmed Tuesday. Alan Cross, host of the Ongoing History of New Music podcast, says he will be remembered as 'one of the most influential musicians of all time.'
UAE Moments
16-07-2025
- Entertainment
- UAE Moments
♐ Sagittarius Daily Horoscope for July 16, 2025
Your curiosity is in overdrive today — ride the wave, but don't forget to land. July 16 is handing you a big cosmic permission slip to explore, question, and dream out loud. Your Sag soul is craving adventure, even if it's just a mental escape during your lunch break. The challenge? Keeping one foot on the ground while your head reaches for the stars. Career: You're brimming with bold ideas, but try not to pitch ten things at once. Focus on one wild idea and back it up with action. Someone influential might be paying attention — don't miss the chance to impress with both vision and follow-through. Love: Single Sags, someone from a totally different background could spark your interest — stay open-minded. Coupled Sags, your partner may not be vibing with your need for space today, so reassure them it's about self-discovery, not detachment. Body: Your energy feels scattered. A grounding activity (like yoga, hiking, or even walking barefoot in grass) could help pull you back into your body. Hydration is also key — don't skip water in your hunt for iced coffee. Mental Health: Your brain is buzzing with possibilities, which is great — but it can lead to overwhelm. Journal your thoughts to clear mental clutter. You'll be surprised at what patterns emerge when you slow down enough to listen.
UAE Moments
30-06-2025
- Entertainment
- UAE Moments
♊ Gemini Daily Horoscope for June 29, 2025
You're not riding the wave, you're starting it. Gemini, June 29 is giving 'genius in motion' energy. Your thoughts are faster than 5G, and your vibe is contagious. You've got just the right mix of clever comebacks, bold curiosity, and spontaneous brilliance to shake things up, in the best way. Don't underestimate how magnetic your ideas are today. 🧠 Energy Check: Bright, Buzzy & Unapologetically You You're sharp, expressive, and just chaotic enough to make every conversation memorable. Today is about flow, not force. Follow the conversation, the inspiration, and the random YouTube rabbit hole, it might lead to something big. Gemini Tip: Your vibe is your value today. Don't tone it down for anyone. 💼 Career & Money: Speak, Spark, Shine This is a high-visibility day. Present your idea. Jump into the brainstorm. Or finally hit 'send' on that bold pitch. Your words carry extra weight right now and your timing? Flawless. Someone influential might be paying attention. TLDR: Confidence = currency. Cash in your cleverness. 💖 Love & Friendship: Talk Flirty to Me If you're single, sparks could fly through a witty exchange, yes, even via meme. Coupled up? Let curiosity lead the way. Ask questions, tell jokes, reminisce about your weirdest shared memory. Your charm is peaking. Flirt cue: 'Be honest, what's the most Gemini thing about me?' 🧘♀️ Mood & Vibe: On Fire (But Fun) You're full of ideas, energy, and probably 12 open browser tabs. Just make sure your body keeps up with your mind, hydrate, stretch, and breathe. You're not a machine (even if you are faster than one today). Lucky Color: Sky Blue Lucky Numbers: 5 & 17 Cosmic Playlist Song: 'Break My Soul' – Beyoncé Affirmation of the Day: 'I channel curiosity into action, and every word I speak sparks momentum.' 💭 Gemini Thought for June 29: You don't need permission to shine. Just a moment and you'll make it iconic.
