24-05-2025
‘Toxic positivity' denies real feelings. Here's how to do better.
I was recently texting with a friend when he paused for a moment before writing back:
Him: 'Full disclosure here. I'm having a biopsy next week for a growth on my bladder.'
Me: 'Thanks for telling me. … You know I had testicular cancer? One of my hard-won mantras in life: wait to worry.'