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Yahoo
7 hours ago
- Yahoo
Dear Abby: My mom changed our family vacation date and didn't tell me
DEAR ABBY: Two years ago, my mom invited all of my family on an international trip during the month of October. One year ago, my sister called me asking if I could 'cover some things' for her. When I agreed and asked why, she said she and our parents were going on the international trip four months early. I was shocked. No one had said the departure date was being moved up. When I asked my other sister about it, she was also still under the impression we were going in October. When I brought it up to my mom, she got very defensive and said we were all invited to come. No, we were not! The plans changed, and only one sister and her family were included. They are on the trip now, and I don't want any part of it. They are posting pictures to our family group chat, and I have decided not to look at them. I'm not sure how to move forward from here. I'm sad and frustrated over this, while they are pretending everything is fine. — LEFT BEHIND IN COLORADO DEAR LEFT: When your mother and sister return from that trip, there needs to be a frank 'family discussion' about what went wrong and why neither felt it was necessary to inform you that you and your other sister were excluded and why. Pretending something that happened never happened never works out, and if it isn't repaired, the fallout can be long-lasting. DEAR ABBY: My son is a loving husband, father, and son. He coaches his 12-year-old son, my grandson, in various sports and sometimes is just a spectator. I'm worried because he often berates his son's playing ability. He has yelled at him during and after games, whether he is coaching or not. He yelled and screamed at him in front of everyone and later at home. I have told my son, to no avail, that it's OK to give constructive criticism but without the yelling. I have also told him how it crushes my grandson each time he does this. My daughter-in-law is also at a loss for how to change his behavior. My husband coached my son in sports when he was young, and he was hard on him, too. I love my family dearly, but I don't know what to do in this situation. Abby, what do you think we should do? — 'HEARTACHING' GRANDMA IN NEW JERSEY DEAR GRANDMA: Your son may be a loving husband, but he could use some coaching as a father. Someone should point out to him that when a parent bullies a child about his poor athletic performance, it rarely produces a positive result. It makes him lose interest in the sport and damages the youth's self-esteem, and the effects can sometimes last a lifetime. After your grandson has had enough of the verbal abuse, don't be shocked if he drops out of the sport. Your son should have learned from the terrible example his own father set that this kind of 'coaching' usually doesn't produce the desired result. He should take out his aggression elsewhere. Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.
CTV News
2 days ago
- General
- CTV News
Experts warn of ticks and Lyme disease dangers, which a Bear Canyon family knows all too well
Albertans should be on the lookout for ticks when outside. As a mom tells CTV, getting Lyme disease devastated her daughter's health.
Yahoo
4 days ago
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- Yahoo
Woman Tells Boyfriend His Mom Can't Come to Her Birthday Dinner. His Response Ends Their Relationship
A Reddit user was stunned when her boyfriend asked if he could bring his mom to her birthday dinner hours before the big event The poster declined, resulting in a poor reaction from both her boyfriend and his mom After asking for advice from Reddit, she decided to end the relationshipShould I have to let my boyfriend's mom come to my birthday dinner? That was the question posed by a Reddit user in need of advice. The 20-something-year-old woman explained that she was planning to celebrate her birthday at a rooftop restaurant with her friends and her boyfriend, whom she'd been with for over two years at the time of the post. Two hours before the dinner, her boyfriend texted her, 'Hey, my mom's coming with me, cool?' The woman noted she didn't even know her boyfriend's mom was in town. While the poster didn't have any major issues with his mom, she explained that she 'calls him multiple times a day, shows up unannounced, and makes comments about how no woman will ever take care of him like she does.' The user texted her boyfriend back saying, 'I'd prefer if it was just us tonight, babe. This is something I planned with people I'm close to.' The boyfriend responded by saying, 'Wow, seriously? It's just dinner. She wanted to come support you.' Never miss a story — sign up for to stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from celebrity news to compelling human interest stories. The user held firm and wouldn't let her boyfriend's mom come, resulting in him skipping the celebration altogether. Meanwhile, his mom posted passive-aggressive things online like 'Some people don't know how to appreciate others who genuinely care for them' and 'God don't like ugly.' Many Redditors sided with the poster, agreeing that she made the right call and should reevaluate the relationship she had with her boyfriend, noting that it feels like he's putting his mom above her. 'If he can't go to a birthday dinner without dragging his mom along like an emotional chaperone, he's not ready for an adult relationship. OP made the right call, she needs a partner, not someone who needs mommy's approval to function. Time to level up to a man, not a man-child,' wrote one user. Another added, 'Just run, this is never going to get better.' In an update, the poster added that after reading the advice of commenters, she "decided to break up with him." "I called him and let him know that things aren't going to work out," she wrote. "He cried, and I felt sad, but I had to let him go.' To which one person replied, 'Good update. He's already in a primary relationship and it isn't with you.' Read the original article on People
Yahoo
4 days ago
- General
- Yahoo
Woman Tells Boyfriend His Mom Can't Come to Her Birthday Dinner. His Response Ends Their Relationship
A Reddit user was stunned when her boyfriend asked if he could bring his mom to her birthday dinner hours before the big event The poster declined, resulting in a poor reaction from both her boyfriend and his mom After asking for advice from Reddit, she decided to end the relationshipShould I have to let my boyfriend's mom come to my birthday dinner? That was the question posed by a Reddit user in need of advice. The 20-something-year-old woman explained that she was planning to celebrate her birthday at a rooftop restaurant with her friends and her boyfriend, whom she'd been with for over two years at the time of the post. Two hours before the dinner, her boyfriend texted her, 'Hey, my mom's coming with me, cool?' The woman noted she didn't even know her boyfriend's mom was in town. While the poster didn't have any major issues with his mom, she explained that she 'calls him multiple times a day, shows up unannounced, and makes comments about how no woman will ever take care of him like she does.' The user texted her boyfriend back saying, 'I'd prefer if it was just us tonight, babe. This is something I planned with people I'm close to.' The boyfriend responded by saying, 'Wow, seriously? It's just dinner. She wanted to come support you.' Never miss a story — sign up for to stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from celebrity news to compelling human interest stories. The user held firm and wouldn't let her boyfriend's mom come, resulting in him skipping the celebration altogether. Meanwhile, his mom posted passive-aggressive things online like 'Some people don't know how to appreciate others who genuinely care for them' and 'God don't like ugly.' Many Redditors sided with the poster, agreeing that she made the right call and should reevaluate the relationship she had with her boyfriend, noting that it feels like he's putting his mom above her. 'If he can't go to a birthday dinner without dragging his mom along like an emotional chaperone, he's not ready for an adult relationship. OP made the right call, she needs a partner, not someone who needs mommy's approval to function. Time to level up to a man, not a man-child,' wrote one user. Another added, 'Just run, this is never going to get better.' In an update, the poster added that after reading the advice of commenters, she "decided to break up with him." "I called him and let him know that things aren't going to work out," she wrote. "He cried, and I felt sad, but I had to let him go.' To which one person replied, 'Good update. He's already in a primary relationship and it isn't with you.' Read the original article on People
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Travel + Leisure
5 days ago
- Business
- Travel + Leisure
My Mom Has Been to 40+ States for Work, and This $15 Carry-on Hack Is the Most Genius Tip She's Taught Me
It's safe to say my mom is a travel expert. After visiting 45 states and over 15 countries, she's learned a thing or two about packing the perfect bag and getting through TSA security with ease. I thought I knew all her tricks, but during her last visit to New York, I noticed something new. Instead of simply placing her personal item bag on top of her carry-on suitcase, she fastened them together . Apparently, she's been doing this for years . In 2016, my mom discovered the Travelon Bag Bungee on Amazon and hasn't traveled without it. The handy contraption, which is a longtime-favorite travel accessory for flight attendants and frequent fliers, keeps her personal item bag off her shoulders, allowing her to navigate the airport with ease. It's no wonder she always beats me to the gate. Thanks to its low-profile design, the luggage strap blends in seamlessly with her luggage while keeping her items protected. Plus, the mechanics are simple. You just have to attach the cord to your luggage handle, then place your personal item on top, and lock it in place. The rope is made with a flexible material and can stretch to accommodate anything from a small purse to a large carry-on. It can even hold up to 40 pounds, and with some careful maneuvering, you can position it to hold multiple bags in place. According to my mother, buying this device has saved her from spending money on new luggage. It's especially helpful for business travel. 'Some of the travel bags that are out there aren't stylish for work,' she said. 'I don't want to come into a meeting with a backpack, so having the bungee allows me to keep my work tote.' Rest assured, this item is perfect for a vacation too. If you tend to overpack (like me), the bungee-cord system will prevent your items from spilling out. Whether you're hoping to free up your hands while traveling or want to ensure your luggage is safe, the Travelon Bag Bungee is sure to come in handy. If you're interested in trying this hack, you can grab one on Amazon before your next trip. Scroll down for even more genius luggage straps to add to your travel day repertoire, starting at just $7. Love a great deal? Sign up for our T+L Recommends newsletter and we'll send you our favorite travel products each week.
