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The Sun
a day ago
- Entertainment
- The Sun
Watch moment reality star VOMITS after being told partner must sleep with another man in racy TV show
THIS is the moment a reality star vomited after being told he must let his girlfriend sleep with another man on Channel 4 show. On Friday's episode of Open House: The Great Sex Experiment, Tom and Lauren joined the show in a bid to spice up their relationship. 4 4 4 Non-monogamy expert Effy Blue suggested they give intimacy a go with other people, other than their partner. Speaking to the camera, she told viewers: "Today is about challenging Tom to be independent. "I'm curious to see how that will affect the dynamics they have between them. "Lauren needs to be a partner to Tom, not a caretaker." After returning to their room, Lauren told Tom: "Don't be nervous. "You absolutely got this." Lauren admitted it was her idea to take part on the show - saying she felt like they had been "thrown in at the deep end". She told the camera: "But to be able to have him to have the confidence that we can go off, have our fun, come back to each other at the end of the night and it's absolutely insane." But it looked like things had got too intense for Tom, who retreated to the bathroom to be sick. Overwhelmed husband wipes away tears after partner romps with another woman in Open House The narrator then said: "But the thought of flying solo entirely naked isn't sitting well with Tom." Tom could be heard vomiting in the toilet and looking distressed. A distraught Tom confessed: "This is going to be horrible,' to which Lauren replies: "I just want to cuddle you." Tom added: "I feel absolutely petrified and sick." Lauren is then seen hugging her man from behind. Trying to reassure him, she told him: "All that anyone can ask is that you just try, okay?" Last week one man was left in tears after watching his wife romp with a woman during a threesome. Alana and Alex took part on the show, which sees couples explore the idea of an open relationship. The couple were in their bedroom preparing to be visited by female resident Georgie. They hoped they could take the next step towards their ultimate goal of engaging in a couple swap by having a threesome first. Alana confessed: "I don't know how this is going to go seeing Alex with another woman." Alex then opened up to the camera and said he was worried about how Alana might feel to see him with someone else. He said: "I think I felt overwhelmed because it went from a zero to a hundred. "And it caught me off guard really. "I can't quite match that just now." Later, after Georgie left, his wife said she had loved every single minute. She then asked Alex if he enjoyed it to which he replied: "I loved seeing you enjoy it." After his wife snuggled up under the duvet to go to sleep, Alex was left musing. And as he sat up in bed tears streamed down his face as he admitted he was unsure if an open relationship was what he wanted. 4
Daily Mail
a day ago
- Entertainment
- Daily Mail
EXCLUSIVE Man VOMITS after being told he has to let partner sleep with another man in jaw-dropping first look at Open House: The Great Sex Experiment
A man vomits after being told he has to let partner sleep with another man in a jaw-dropping first look at Friday's episode of Open House: The Great Sex Experiment. The saucy Channel 4 show will return to our screens tonight (13 June 2025) and follow the lives of a number of other couples as they open up their relationship. One couple who appear on the instalment, Tom and Lauren, are keen to spice things up a bit in the bedroom. After a chat with non monogamy expert Effy Blue, the expert said that she wanted the dynamics to 'change a bit' and the pair should both have experiences without each other. Effy tells viewers: 'Today is about challenging Tom to be independent. 'I'm curious to see how that will affect the dynamics they have between them. From A-list scandals and red carpet mishaps to exclusive pictures and viral moments, subscribe to the DailyMail's new Showbiz newsletter to stay in the loop. Tom (pictured) is heard being sick in the toilet after he is told that he has to have a separate experience away from Lauren 'Lauren needs to be a partner to Tom, not a caretaker.' As they return to their room, Lauren tells Tom: 'Don't be nervous. 'You absolutely got this.' Lauren tells the camera: 'It was my idea. It was my idea from the start. 'Yes it's throwing me and Tom in the deep end... 'But to be able to have him to have the confidence that we can go off, have our fun, come back to each other at the end of the night and it's absolutely insane.' The voiceover says: 'But the thought of flying solo entirely naked isn't sitting well with Tom.' Tom can then be heard being sick in the toilet and Lauren runs to him with some water. 'This is going to be horrible,' Tom confesses. Lauren replies: 'I just want to cuddle you.' Tom says: 'I feel absolutely petrified and sick.' While hugging him from behind, Lauren tells him: 'All that anyone can ask is that you just try, okay?' It comes after viewers saw a couple completely U-turn on monogamy after they embark on a shocking fivesome. A week prior, Johnny, 43, and Sarah, 37, clashed about 'swapping partners' just moments before they both began smooching another woman in the jacuzzi But in the next episode they got up close and personal with three other residents. As viewers will remember, Johnny had to take a breather and confessed he was feeling 'anxious' after getting to know eight other people. Sarah confessed: 'If we don't do it now, I don't think we are ever going to. 'He's naturally going to be a bit nervous but we need to crack on and get it done.' But after having their first ever fivesome, Sarah shouted: 'We want more!' Johnny adds: 'This is just the first step. This is the first step. 'And what we needed to do because this is what we want to do. We want to enjoy each other. 'We want to share it. That's just an amazing experience!'
The Sun
17-05-2025
- Entertainment
- The Sun
My boyfriend wants to film himself having sex with my best mate & for me to watch it – our non-monogamy has gone too far
1 DEAR DEIDRE: OPENING up our relationship has been thrilling and better than I expected, until my boyfriend's latest suggestion - that he sleeps with my childhood best friend. Non-monogamy made our sex life far more exciting as we shared our adventures with each other. I've had three different partners, he's had two and we always talk about our experiences after. It's such a thrill. But now he's been making a move on a friend of mine and it feels too close to home. And instead of just talking about their adventures after, he wants to record it and 'enjoy the footage together'. His request feels like he's overstepping the mark. I almost thought we didn't need to say it but surely we shouldn't be bringing in people we know already - let alone people we are close to. And it's one thing talking about our escapades and another thing being confronted with the evidence. My boyfriend and I met three years ago in London, after I moved from the south coast. I'm 27 and he's 28. Dear Deidre After Dark- Understanding open relationships We've been living together for just over two years and everything has been great. It was my suggestion to try polyamory. Although at first he was cautious, after we both researched how to open up your relationship, he agreed to give it a go. We've been non-monagamous for over a year now and make sure that we keep checking in with each other. Our rules are simple, that we tell each other who we are seeing, and that we let the other person know our relationship status. People warned me it would wreck our relationship but I'd say it's done the opposite - up until now anyway. Our sex life is so much better and we talk about our sexual exploits with others which is so erotic. I look at friends in long term relationships and can see they are getting bored staying in together night after night. There is always so much going on in London, and I've loved exploring all the different areas when I've been on different dates. I've seen three different guys regularly and my boyfriend has two regular women he hooks up with. I've never felt a twinge of jealousy before, but I could tell when he came back to my home town with me at Christmas he'd taken a shine to my friend. Not long after we returned he told me he's started messaging her and was going to ask her out. He seemed surprised when I got upset. He'd be making a big effort to see her as he'd have to travel over an hour and a half to get there. Am I being over sensitive or does he want to go too far? The Different Types of Non-monogamy There are many types of non-monogamous relationships. All of them allow sex with more than one person but the expectations for things like emotions, priority and lifestyles are very different. Open Relationship/Monogamish A committed couple that allows each other to have sex with other people. Polyamory Multiple emotional and sexual relationships at the same time, with the consent of everyone involved. Hierarchical polyamory A 'primary' couple prioritise each other, but each has multiple romantic, sexual relationships too. Non-Hierarchical Polyamory Individuals engage in multiple romantic, sexual relationships without assigning priority. Polyfidelity (also known as Triads, Couples or Quads) Three or more people involved in an exclusive relationship. Solo Poly Having multiple intimate relationships with people while otherwise living a single lifestyle. Swinging A couple who have sex with other people, usually simultaneously. Casual sex, casual dating, friends with benefits Dating or having sex with multiple people, while remaining uncommitted to anyone. Relationship Anarchy Doing away with some or all of the traditional 'rules' applied to romantic relationships. Polygamy Polygamy is being married to more than one spouse. Polygamy isn't legal in the UK. DEIDRE SAYS: You've researched how to make non-monogamy work so will know the first rule is that you both have to be 100% happy with the arrangement. The moment one of you feels unhappy or even unsure is the time to pause and reevaluate. Talk to your boyfriend about your reservations. He won't appreciate your position unless you explain. This potential liaison isn't solely about your boyfriend and his extra partner, it's also about a pre-existing relationship between you and your childhood friend. While you are totally at ease with your open relationship in London, bringing it closer to home, where you grew up and your family is, understandably feels different. And as you say, your boyfriend would have to make a big effort to meet your friend, which could mean he's getting emotionally involved. Opening up your relationship for sexual relationships is one thing, but multiple romantic relationships can be much harder to navigate. Again you both need to be clear about what you want from non-monogamy - is this about multiple sexual partners, or are extra emotional relationships okay? My support pack Non-Monogamy explains more. Dear Deidre's Non-Monogamy Files Deidre's mailbag is bursting with open relationship problems. One reader was cut off by her best friend after finding out about her polyamorous relationship; another from a different subscriber who struggled with the reality of telling his family about his throuple, while one man was asked to open his relationship to hide his wife's true sexuality. Every problem gets a personal reply from one of our trained counsellors. Sally Land is the Dear Deidre Agony Aunt. She achieved a distinction in the Certificate in Humanistic Integrative Counselling, has specialised in relationships and parenting. She has over 20 years of writing and editing women's issues and general features. Passionate about helping people find a way through their challenges, Sally is also a trustee for the charity Family Lives. Her team helps up to 90 people every week. Sally took over as The Sun's Agony Aunt when Deidre Sanders retired from the The Dear Deidre column four years ago. The Dear Deidre Team Of Therapists Also Includes: Kate Taylor: a sex and dating writer who is also training to be a counsellor. Kate is an advisor for dating website OurTime and is the author of five self-help books. Jane Allton: a stalwart of the Dear Deidre for over 20 years. Jane is a trained therapist, who specialises in family issues. She has completed the Basic Counselling Skills Level 1, 2, and 3. She also achieved the Counselling and Psychotherapy (CPCAB) Level 2 Certificate in Counselling Studies. Catherine Thomas: with over two decades worth of experience Catherine has also trained as a therapist, with the same credentials as Jane. She specialises in consumer and relationship issues. 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