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UAE Moments
5 days ago
- Entertainment
- UAE Moments
Daily Love Tarot Reading for August 6th, 2025
Daily Love Tarot Reading - 8.6.25 Card of the Day: The World The World is the final card of the major arcana and signifies completion and success. It suggests that you have achieved so much in your life, and you love to share this with your significant other. You bring happiness and joy to your relationships and love to enjoy the wonders of the world with your partner. For singles: Your journey of self-growth is leading you toward fulfillment—embrace new experiences, and love will find you when the time is right. For couples: You and your partner are in sync, celebrating life's victories together—keep nurturing your connection and exploring the world as a team. Pro Tip for the Day: Love flourishes when shared—whether with a partner or yourself, embrace joy, adventure, and the beauty of the present moment.
Independent Singapore
7 days ago
- General
- Independent Singapore
'I have a degree but no job, and toxic parents — is it just me, or is adulthood in Singapore broken?'
A young man seemingly lost and dont know what to do (for illustration purposes only) SINGAPORE: 'I'm still so lost on what to do with my life.' A young man posted on Reddit. According to many, the 'correct path' was to get a college degree in user experience and game design, a practicum that should last for at least a year. He did all that and even secured some freelance work in childcare. On paper, it appears like a rock-hard groundwork, but after graduation, the truth sets in. The job market was vicious. Not a single discussion with potential employers had come through, even for entry-level roles. And soon, the sense of being trapped—not just career-wise, but personally—began to weigh heavily. The silent weight of expectations The poster opened up about his home life, where 'noxious' family outlooks have seriously surfaced. His parents didn't appreciate the value of his chosen field of study and dismissed its significance. Arguments bubbled up, and for the first time, he began to see how deeply his immediate environment had affected his mental health and sense of self. The solution in his mind was clear: 'I need to leave or I will never be able to grow and become stronger.' The post kindled a wave of responses. There were no judgments, just empathy and reassurance. You're not alone in feeling lost One commenter mildly reminded, 'Feeling lost in your early twenties is incredibly common, perhaps more so than you realize.' Others boomed the sentiment: even netizens who are in their thirties admitted they still haven't figured things out. 'Every age can feel lost,' someone noted, 'and it's not unique to Singapore.' The existing job market, more than a few pointed out, is exacting across industries. Even with a 1.5-year practicum under his name—an extensive experience for any fresh graduate—many young professionals are struggling to find a position. It's not about the lack or absence of talent or the non-existence of ambition. It's just the ill-fated reality of a competitive and volatile economy. Redefining success and self-worth What emerged in the responses was a joint call to redefine what achievement and success look like. One netizen said, 'Sometimes knowing what you want to do with your life can be simply accepting the flow… It doesn't have to be something grand.' In a world infatuated with 5-year campaigns and instantaneous success stories, that reminder is like a breath of fresh air. There was also a robust hint of encouragement to make mental well-being a top priority. Many of the Redditors advised the original poster to contemplate moving out if at all possible, knowing the mental and emotional toll of a toxic home atmosphere. 'If given an opportunity, move out at once,' one netizen recommended. 'I think staying with your family is affecting your mental health.' It's okay not to have it all figured out The thread, originating from one individual's candid admission of doubt and indecision, turned into a digital campfire where unfamiliar persons congregated to say, in different ways: 'You're not crazy. You're not alone, and you're not failing.' For anyone in their twenties—or beyond—feeling 'jammed,' behind, or lost — it's normal. It's human, and it's okay. Growth seldom tracks a straight line. From time to time, the boldest thing people can do is acknowledge uncertainty and insecurity. But keep going anyway. () => { const trigger = if ('IntersectionObserver' in window && trigger) { const observer = new IntersectionObserver((entries, observer) => { => { if ( { lazyLoader(); // You should define lazyLoader() elsewhere or inline here // Run once } }); }, { rootMargin: '800px', threshold: 0.1 }); } else { // Fallback setTimeout(lazyLoader, 3000); } });
Arab News
18-07-2025
- Lifestyle
- Arab News
Solo but not sad: Young Saudis embrace freedom of living alone
ALKHOBAR: For decades, the idea of a young Saudi living alone, by choice, was seen as rebellious and met with skepticism and rejection. But today, a new generation is embracing solo life with pride and a sense of personal power. Across major cities like Riyadh, Jeddah and Alkhobar, young Saudis in their 20s are carving out homes of their own — not out of necessity but out of a desire for independence, comfort and self-growth. From students to young professionals, both women and men are stepping into their own apartments, styling their own spaces and redefining what it means to build a life. Sarah Al-Ahmadi, 27, moved into her own apartment in Riyadh two years ago. At first, the silence was unbearable. 'I've lived alone for two years now. At the beginning, I was depressed — I didn't like the lifestyle, especially in Riyadh,' she said. 'I couldn't make friends, and I didn't like the city. But over time, I started to build a life. Now, I can't imagine living any other way.' What once felt isolating became empowering. Al-Ahmadi discovered joy in being the sole decision-maker in her home: What she ate, how she decorated and who she invited, and when. 'It's amazing to be fully independent and responsible for everything in my home,' she said. 'I don't need anyone. It's beautiful when I invite my friends to a space that reflects my personality. Back at my parents' house, I had to host them in the family living room. But here, we can cook together, have sleepovers and enjoy ourselves without a single worry.' • From students to young professionals, both women and men are stepping into their own apartments, styling their own spaces and redefining what it means to build a life. • Waad Al-Marzouq's family lives in the same city, and she sees them often. But the freedom of having her own space has changed how she views. Mohammed Al-Dossari, 26, made the decision to live alone after returning from years of studying abroad. 'After coming back from my scholarship abroad, I decided not to move back in with my family,' he said. 'I had already gotten used to being responsible for myself, for everything — and I liked that lifestyle. I wanted to keep it going.' For Al-Dossari, solo living is not just about space, it is also about ownership: Of time, of priorities and of life itself. Today, he manages his work schedule, home maintenance and meals on his own. He described his home as peaceful, personalized and reflective of who he is — not just as a son, but as a man finding his rhythm. In Jeddah, Waad Al-Marzouq, 19, faced resistance from almost everyone she knew after floating the idea of living alone. 'Everyone was against it. My dad was especially worried about me living alone at such a young age,' she said. 'But I've always been stable and independent in my own room, so I thought — why not? I got myself a studio apartment near my university and moved in.' Al-Marzouq's family lives in the same city, and she sees them often. But the freedom of having her own space has changed how she views adulthood. 'There's nothing scary about it. My parents are nearby. I still see them. But now I have space to focus, to grow. It's not a rebellion — it's a choice.' Al-Marzouq said living alone is important for design: Designing her days, her goals and even designing her tiny studio with candles, plants and her favorite throw pillows. Social shifts have helped normalize solo living. More women are entering the workforce. Young Saudis are studying abroad. New real estate developments are offering studio and one-bedroom units in urban areas. Platforms like Airbnb and online property apps have also made it easier to search, rent and furnish without needing a family member to step in. Psychologist Abeer Al-Shammari told Arab News that the rise in solo living reflects both emotional maturity and social evolution. 'Choosing to live alone can signal a strong sense of self,' she said. 'These young adults are setting boundaries, creating their own routines and building self-reliance. It's not just a lifestyle — it's part of their identity development.' But she warned that solo living also requires emotional preparation. 'The early phase can trigger anxiety or loneliness, especially for those coming from tightly-knit families,' she said. 'But with time and proper coping strategies, many experience a deep sense of fulfillment and confidence.' Interestingly, many solo dwellers say their relationships with family have improved since moving out. 'They don't take me for granted anymore,' Al-Ahmadi said with a laugh. 'When I visit now, it feels special. I'm not just 'around.' I'm someone they wait for.' Al-Marzouq agreed: 'My parents respect my independence now. We talk more meaningfully. There's more mutual understanding.' And for Al-Dossari, solo living has not resulted in isolation. He has become more intentional about friendships — hosting friends for dinner, going out when he wants and setting healthy boundaries. 'It taught me balance,' he said. 'And it taught me how to enjoy my own company.'
UAE Moments
10-07-2025
- Entertainment
- UAE Moments
Daily Affirmation for July 10, 2025 to Kickstart Your Vibe
✨ Today's Affirmation: "I am exactly where I need to be, becoming exactly who I'm meant to be." 💫 Vibe Check: Okay, real talk — some mornings feel like your brain hit snooze five times before you even opened your eyes. You might be wondering, 'Am I doing enough?' But guess what? Existing is enough today. This affirmation is your nudge to breathe deep, let go of the pressure, and remember: growth can happen quietly, too. You're not lost — you're just unfolding. 🧘♀️ Why This Works: This affirmation is all about grounding. It's a cozy reminder that you don't have to hustle 24/7 to be evolving. When you let go of the idea that you need to 'be somewhere else by now,' you make space for peace — and that's when the magic actually kicks in. Let yourself be, and trust that becoming is happening behind the scenes. 🌿 Your Mini Mission: Do a five-minute check-in with yourself. Ask: 'What's one small way I've grown lately?' It could be setting a boundary, drinking more water, or not spiraling when your phone battery hit 1%. That counts. Write it down. Celebrate it. 🎧 Affirmation Vibes Playlist: Tunes for when you want to feel grounded, soft, and powerful all at once: 'Keep Driving' by Harry Styles 'Coffee' by beabadoobee 'Slow Dancing' by Aly & AJ 🔮 Bonus Energy Tip: Take a walk with no destination. Seriously. No podcast, no to-do list — just you and the world around you. Notice how far you've come, even if you're walking slow.
Yahoo
09-07-2025
- Entertainment
- Yahoo
Brad Pitt Gets Real About Making 'Mistakes' And Learning From Them Amid Romance With Ines de Ramon
Brad Pitt has opened up about making mistakes in his life following the recent finalization of his divorce from Angelina Jolie. Speaking during an interview at the premiere of his adrenaline-fueled car action film, the Hollywood star admitted that he has also learned to quickly move on, no matter the mistake. Brad Pitt had previously shared that he was relieved about finalizing his divorce, although he also noted at the time that it wasn't much of a big deal. During the premiere of his "F1" movie in Mexico City, Brad Pitt shared a thoughtful message about the importance of learning from one's mistakes. "No matter the mistake, you know, you just learn from [it] and move on," the actor told Entertainment Tonight. "It'll lead to the next success." Pitt had issued the response after he was asked about what had helped him "feel grounded" amid the challenges and achievements in his life. And while he gave no details about some of the mistakes he has made in his own life, the actor hinted that family was also part of what has helped him navigate these moments. "At my age, I see how important it is to surround yourself with the people you know, the people you love, the people that love you back," the 61-year-old shared further. "Friends, family, and that's it. From there, we get to go make things. It's a pretty simple, I think, equation." The inspiring remarks from Pitt came after he broke his silence about finalizing his divorce from Jolie during a chat with GQ Magazine. The two had been feuding in court over their separation for the last decade, with the actor seemingly feeling "relief" now that it is all over. However, despite how long the battle dragged on and the legal costs he likely incurred, Pitt said the finalization wasn't a huge deal to him, just something that was bound to happen eventually. "No, I don't think it was that major of a thing," the father of six told the outlet. "Just something coming to fruition. Legally." As the superstar he is, whose two attempts at marriage were to two high-profile actresses, Pitt's personal life has long been a fixture in the headlines. Navigating this part of the spotlight media has been a constant "annoyance" to him, and he has made a conscious effort to keep it from consuming him. "It's been in the news for 30 years, bro. Or some version of my personal life, let's put it that way," the "Bullet Train" star said elsewhere in his interview with GQ. "It's been an annoyance I've had to always deal with in different degrees, large and small, as I do the things I really want to do." "So, it's always been this kind of nagging time suck or waste of time, if you let it be that, I don't know. I don't know," Pitt added. Despite it all, the actor thinks his life is "fairly contained," and he "feels pretty warm and secure" with his friends and family as well as his "knowledge" of himself. Following his split from Jolie, Pitt found new love with jewelry executive Ines de Ramon, who was previously married to actor Paul Wesley. The pair began dating in 2022, three years after Pitt's legal separation from Jolie. For a while, they kept their romance under wraps, but later took it public by attending high-profile events together. Since then, their love has continued to blossom, with the duo even recently moving in. Jolie, on the other hand, has seemingly steered clear of romance since her split from Pitt. A source who spoke with Radar Online claimed the trauma from the divorce has left her with trust issues, even though she has moved on from Pitt. Echoing the same sentiments, another insider shared that the actress keeps all of her suitors "at a distance because she's terrified of getting hurt again the way she did with Brad." Jolie initially filed for divorce on September 19, 2016. However, while she and Pitt were declared single in 2019, their legal disputes over custody, assets, and their French estate, Château Miraval, dragged on for years. After intense negotiations, the actors officially signed their divorce papers in December 2024, marking the end of an eight-year battle. A source close to the actor revealed to Page Six in December that de Ramon may have played a role in Pitt's decision to settle his divorce. "He was influenced by Ines to finally settle," the source said. "Ines wants to have a life together — with possibly children in the future — without the albatross that was the eight-year War of the Roses." They added, "She has made [it known that] her opinion is that life would be much more enjoyable with this settled."
