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Telegraph
4 hours ago
- Health
- Telegraph
Fat jabs are all over boarding schools. Girls as young as 11 are taking it
If you suspect someone has been taking Ozempic, or Mounjaro, or Wegovy, or yet another fat jab, is it impolite to ask them? A friend went to a dinner party recently and saw a woman she hadn't seen for some time. She was very thin, this other woman. Not that she'd been large to begin with (I know the woman in question too). Maybe a size 10, but now more like a size six. She was clearly very proud of this new slimness, my friend said, so quietly, over dinner, she leant across the table and asked, 'Can I just check, it's Mounjaro, right?' The slim woman looked horrified and embarrassed. 'Yes,' she mumbled back, 'but I'm not really talking about it, because I don't want everyone to know.' This incident provoked an intense debate at another dinner with a gaggle of girlfriends a week later. Should people be more open if they're shooting themselves up with one of these jabs? The majority of my friends are around 40 – some post-children, some peri-menopause, some doing endless weights in the gym because they know this is the age when muscle loss starts kicking in, some of us walking endless miles after our disobedient terriers as they go after yet another duck in the park. Bodies in all sorts of shape, in other words, so the fat jabs have replaced Botox as the topic du jour. I strongly believe people should be honest if they're taking them, because these jabs are – to my mind – creating another eating disorder. To be clear, if you're obese, if you're diabetic, great. But they're increasingly being used by people who aren't remotely obese, and the subterfuge, the lack of honesty and the renewed desperation to be thinner at any cost feels alarmingly similar to being at a girls-only school rife with anorexia in the late 1990s and early 2000s. Particularly because they're now reaching schools. I talked to a friend who works at one of the top girls' boarding schools in the country this week, who told me the jabs are 'scarily prevalent' among her pupils. 'Girls have ready access to money and they're getting hold of these pens or, ironically, I've overheard conversations where girls talk about going to their parents' fridge and just helping themselves to Mum's pens. One of them made a joke about her parents saying: 'Help yourself to anything in the fridge', so she did.' If these teenagers can't get them from home, this teacher told me, they have Apple Pay on their phones, linked to their parents' credit cards, and they're ordering them online. They use AI to manipulate photos of themselves – 'Here's a photo of me, can you make me look 25 kilos heavier?' – to override safeguarding checks on certain websites. 'They arrive in discreet packages, so the school doesn't notice they're coming in,' says my friend, adding that the sixth-form girls have fridges in their boarding houses, so it's easy enough to store them in there. Although, she's also overheard girls as young as 14 discussing using them. Or even younger. This year, a half-Russian, half-English 11-year-old arrived at her school with a prescription for Mounjaro, procured for her by her parents. She was overweight, but because this was a private prescription, my friend says the school had to allow the prescription, instead of – for example – gently encouraging this girl in sports lessons. Just 11, pre-pubescent, but being put on medication which influences her brain chemistry. If this 11-year-old girl turned around to her parents and said she felt like a boy and wanted to take puberty blockers, I wonder whether they'd be so encouraging? This teacher blames social media for encouraging their obsession with physical appearance. 'I heard the 14-year-olds talking about Ariana Grande in Wicked, saying she looks 'really good' in this or that video,' she says, referring to the American singer and actress, whose very slender frame has been much pored over online. Naturally, she says, they then want to be as thin as Grande. But she also points towards 'yummy mummies' with daughters at her school, and their obsession with losing 'half a kilo', thereby raising daughters who are similarly plagued. If you want to feel any more depressed, she says girls are now bringing pens from their parents' fridges and selling them to other girls. One of my brothers, an enterprising if mischievous sort, used to sell cigarettes for £1 a pop during his time at Stowe. This feels quite different. Are the staff at the school having any sort of conversation about what to do regarding this situation, I ask. Not really, she says, because a number of teachers are using the jabs too. I increasingly feel like an outlier writing about this subject, because these jabs are becoming the norm. A weird kind of norm, if you ask me, but a norm all the same. One isn't supposed to criticise anything that anyone does to their body these days, whether they're big, small, tattooed, pierced or whatever. It's not feminist to be unsupportive, many argue. But these drugs are allowing women who've always been unhappily obsessed with their weight to become alarmingly thin. Women who aren't large to begin with. Are we supposed to look the other way and pretend this is healthy? Plenty of men are using these injection pens, too, I should add, but they seem to be particularly dissected and examined and analysed among the women in my friendship group. Isn't it the same as Botox, a friend challenged last week while we discussed this subject (yet again) over dinner. Women don't have to 'confess' if they've had that, she argued, so why should a fat jab be any different? Why should women be continually harangued and criticised for their personal choices? I'm not sure cosmetic treatments are quite the same as injecting oneself with a synthetic hormone, though. I think the jabs are more insidious, because putting on weight is still deemed even more of a 'crime' than ageing. In the past decade or so, we'd supposedly all become so much more accepting of different body shapes than back in the Nineties, when my friends were busy starving themselves or sticking their fingers down their throats at school. Except we haven't. The fat jabs have blown that idea to shreds, and girls are doing it all over again. It's deeply, deeply disturbing.
News.com.au
3 days ago
- Politics
- News.com.au
‘Stop the invasion': Far-right party in Japan gains popularity among locals fed up with foreigners
A growing number of Japanese voters are being drawn to the far-right Sanseito party, with some annoyed by foreigners they claim are ignorant of Japan's social etiquette. The party has used the online space to amplify its 'Japanese First' message — helping it establish a strong foothold in an upper house election on Sunday, becoming the fourth largest opposition party in parliament. Similarities have been made between the US President Donald Trump's 'America First' and the Sanseito party's 'Japan First' slogans, with Sanseito leader Sohei Kamiya sometimes referred to as a 'mini Trump' in the media. Japanese man Yuta Kato is among the Sanseito supporters who obtain their information from YouTube and other social media sites. 'I think a lot of foreign visitors don't know the rules that are obvious to us,' he said. 'Also in Ginza, you see people sitting anywhere — on steps and ledges. It doesn't look good. 'For the Japanese people living in Japan, it's kind of annoying.' Japan's foreign-born residents account for just 3 per cent of the total population, a fraction of the corresponding proportion in the United States and Europe, but record numbers of tourists have made foreigners more visible in major cities. There was 3,768,977 — a record high number — of foreigners living in Japan last year, an increase of about 10.5 per cent on the previous year. As for tourists, Japan had a record 36.9 million international visitors in 2024. About 920,000 of those were Australians — also a new record. The Japan National Tourism Organisation says Japan has been heartened to see the pace at which tourists have returned to the country post-Covid, but urged travellers to consider lesser-known destinations to help avoid 'overtourism' in hotspots – a trend popular cities across the world are grappling with. Many Aussie travellers find the Japanese extremely welcoming of tourists, even if they don't speak the language. One of the Sanseito party's policies listed on its website is to 'stop the silent invasion of Japan by foreign forces'. While Sanseito largely avoids identifying specific immigrant groups, Tokyo-based academic, Romeo Marcantuoni, says it taps into concerns ranging from badly-behaved tourists to conspiracy theories about sneaking Chinese influence. 'People who read newspapers and made their decisions based on that are voting for the traditional parties and people who are reading a lot of, rather, either reading a lot of blogs, reading a lot of social media posts, and looking at a lot of YouTube to make their decisions, they're going more towards these anti-establishment parties,' Mr Marcantuoni said. Sanseito is most popular among 18 to 39-year-olds, with men favouring the party more than women. In contrast, support for the ruling Liberal Democratic Party (LDP), which lost its majority in Sunday's election, is deepest among those aged over 70. Birthed during the Covid-19 pandemic when they spread conspiracy theories about vaccinations, Sanseito has broadened its appeal with its tough immigration policies and pledges to help households struggling with rising prices. The rise of the party has sparked a backlash by those who fear it is normalising xenophobia. Masayuki Nabekura, member of an anti-racism group, said Sanseito incites racial discrimination. 'It (Sanseito) condones violence and advocates nationalism, and it has made campaign promises that could easily condone the suppression of citizens who do not agree with them, so it is very dangerous,' he said. The party did not immediately respond to a request for comment, and its leader has previously denied criticism that it is xenophobic. At a recent rally, supporters said they are here to stay 'I think it is simple, everyone came to the Sanseito because they were all sick with the current political situation,' one supporter said.
The Independent
6 days ago
- Politics
- The Independent
Japan's anti-foreigner politics on the rise as right-wing party wins votes online
Yuta Kato says he is increasingly annoyed by foreigners ignorant of Japan's social etiquette, whether that involves blocking the streets near his work in Tokyo's upscale Ginza district or distracting commuters by playing loud videos on their phones. The 38-year-old hairdresser is among a growing number of Japanese voters drawn to the right-wing Sanseito party, whose warnings about foreigners helped it establish a strong foothold in an upper house election on Sunday. "It is not about discrimination, it's just like, why don't they notice?" said Kato, who, like many Sanseito supporters, obtains his information from YouTube and other social media sites, a space the party has utilised to amplify its "Japanese First" message. Japan's foreign-born residents account for just 3% of the total population, a fraction of the corresponding proportion in the United States and Europe, but record numbers of tourists in recent years have made foreigners more visible in major cities. While Sanseito largely avoids identifying specific immigrant groups, Romeo Marcantuoni, a Tokyo-based academic who has studied the party, said it taps into latent concerns ranging from badly-behaved tourists to conspiracy theories about sneaking Chinese influence. Kato said he believes the Chinese, the biggest cohort of foreign residents in Japan and among the largest visitor groups, are quietly taking over the country. Chinese are also often the focal point for anti-immigrant rhetoric propagated online. Sanseito leader Sohei Kamiya and other party lawmakers and candidates have raised concerns about Chinese buying up land and resources in Japan. One of the party's policies listed on its website is to "stop the silent invasion of Japan by foreign forces". Sanseito's rise has sparked a backlash by those who fear the party is normalising xenophobia. A rally on Monday attracted dozens of protesters who tried to drown out the speakers. "It is people falling for lies and displacing their frustrations - economic hardship, political alienation - onto others," said Miroko Kato, a 42-year-old haiku poet among the protestors. "We're here to say: we're watching you!" The party did not immediately respond to a request for comment and Kamiya has previously denied criticism that it is xenophobic. Sanseito is most popular among 18 to 39-year-olds, with men favouring the party more than women, according to a poll conducted by public broadcaster NHK, a trend increasingly seen among support for right-wing parties in democracies worldwide. In contrast, support for Ishiba's ruling Liberal Democratic Party (LDP), which lost its majority in Sunday's election, is deepest among those aged over 70 with no clear gender divide, the NHK poll showed. Sanseito's presence online has given them visibility among younger voters that the LDP has struggled to reach, Kato said. The party's official YouTube channel has three times as many followers as the LDP's, with engagement in their content far higher than other parties, a study by Asahi newspaper found. "They are the party of YouTube," said Jeffrey Hall, a lecturer at Kanda University of International Studies who has authored a book on right-wing politics in Japan. YouTube did not respond to emails seeking comment on Sanseito's use of the platform. On its community guidelines page, YouTube says it closely monitors content and removes videos it deems to promote "harmful or dangerous behavior". Broader appeal Birthed during the COVID-19 pandemic when they spread conspiracy theories about vaccinations, Sanseito has broadened its appeal with its tough immigration policies and pledges to help households struggling with rising prices. It also wants to scrap Japan's pacifist constitution and restore the Emperor's authority, fringe ideas promoted by other right-wing groups that regularly drive around Japan's cities in black trucks blaring imperial-era military songs. While that megaphone politics has long been largely ignored by the Japanese, Sanseito has set its sights on emulating the successes of other far-right groups in Europe, such as Germany's AfD and Britain's Reform UK. At a rally held outside Tokyo's bustling Shimbashi train station on Monday, crowds clapped and cheered some of Sanseito's newly elected lawmakers. "They're going to get things done," said Eriko Harada, 47, a housewife wearing a kimono and a headband emblazoned with the words 'Samurai Spirit', who said she voted for the first time this year.
Yahoo
13-07-2025
- Lifestyle
- Yahoo
These Habits Separate Sophisticated People From Tacky Ones
Navigating the intricate world of social etiquette can sometimes feel like walking a tightrope. While some people glide effortlessly, others stumble through, making unintentional faux pas. So, how do you distinguish yourself as someone with a sophisticated touch? Distinct habits and behaviors can set you apart in any social setting. Here are 15 habits that separate the sophisticated from the tacky. Being a good conversationalist isn't just about talking; it's about engaging. Sophisticated individuals understand the power of well-chosen words and the importance of listening. Instead of dominating discussions, they contribute meaningfully and encourage others to share. Research by Deborah Tannen, a professor of linguistics at Georgetown University, shows that effective communication involves balancing speaking and listening. This balance allows for a more enriching exchange of ideas and helps avoid the pitfalls of talking just for the sake of it. In contrast, tacky individuals often speak without considering the impact of their words. They might interrupt others or dominate conversations, not allowing room for others to express themselves. Their focus tends to be on themselves rather than the collective experience of the conversation. This approach can come across as self-centered and dismissive, leaving others feeling unheard. The key is to be thoughtful about what you say and attentive to how others respond. Sophisticated individuals have a keen awareness of the unspoken dress code for any occasion. They dress with intention, understanding that what they wear communicates respect for the event and the people attending. Their style is often understated yet elegant, avoiding flashy or overly trendy pieces in favor of timeless classics. They know that dressing appropriately enhances not only their appearance but also their confidence and presence. On the other hand, tacky dressers often miss the mark by either underdressing or overdressing for events. They might choose outfits that draw unnecessary attention or fail to acknowledge the occasion's tone. This can be seen as disrespectful or out of touch with social norms. It's not about wearing expensive clothes but choosing attire that fits the setting. Knowing when to be subtle and when to make a statement is a valuable skill in social settings. Time is a valuable commodity, and sophisticated individuals respect both their own time and that of others. They understand that punctuality is a sign of reliability and respect. Showing up on time, whether it's for a meeting or a social gathering, demonstrates that you value the commitments of others. According to Dr. Linda Sapadin, a psychologist who specializes in time management, punctuality can foster trust and enhance personal and professional relationships. Keeping time is not just about clocks; it's about showing consideration for people's schedules and commitments. In contrast, those who regularly show up late may come across as inconsiderate or disorganized. Tardiness can disrupt plans and create a negative impression, suggesting that you value your own time more than others. This habit can strain relationships and hinder professional success. To improve punctuality, plan ahead and consider potential delays, ensuring that you're always ready to arrive on time. Remember, it's a simple yet powerful way to build a reputation for respectfulness and reliability. Good manners never go out of style. They are the cornerstone of sophisticated behavior and can be the deciding factor in how you are perceived by others. Politeness, saying "please" and "thank you," holding doors open, and acknowledging others' efforts are small gestures that leave a lasting impression. They show a level of awareness and appreciation for those around them. Cultivating these habits doesn't require much effort but can enhance your interactions significantly. On the flip side, tacky individuals might neglect these common courtesies, appearing rude or dismissive. This oversight can create friction in social settings and lead to misunderstandings. Simple acts of kindness and respect can be powerful tools in creating a positive atmosphere. Good manners are a universal language that transcends cultural barriers, making everyone feel respected and valued. The choice is simple: embrace courtesy as a fundamental part of your character. In a world full of distractions, giving someone your undivided attention is a rare and valuable gift. Sophisticated people demonstrate this by putting away their phones and engaging fully in the present moment. They prioritize face-to-face interactions and make a concerted effort to listen and respond thoughtfully. According to a study by Dr. Sherry Turkle, a professor at MIT, meaningful conversations are disrupted by the mere presence of a smartphone. Being attentive shows that you value the person you're with and that their words matter to you. Conversely, those who frequently check their phones or seem preoccupied during interactions can come across as disinterested or disrespectful. This behavior signals that other things are more important than the person in front of you. It can hinder the depth of connections and stifle meaningful exchanges. By being present, you foster stronger relationships and demonstrate empathy and respect. Make a conscious effort to engage fully with those around you, and the quality of your interactions will improve. Sophisticated individuals make an effort to understand and appreciate different cultures. This awareness allows them to engage thoughtfully and respectfully with people from diverse backgrounds. They take the time to educate themselves about customs, traditions, and beliefs, which enriches their worldview and fosters inclusivity. By approaching cultural differences with an open mind and curiosity, they build bridges and create meaningful connections. Tacky behavior often stems from ignorance or disregard for cultural nuances. This can lead to misunderstandings or offend those from different backgrounds. A lack of cultural awareness may result in inappropriate comments or behavior, highlighting a limited perspective. By remaining open and informed, you show respect for others and enhance your ability to navigate diverse social landscapes. Embracing cultural awareness is a sign of sophistication and a commitment to understanding the world more deeply. Empathy is a hallmark of sophistication, allowing individuals to relate to others' feelings and experiences. Sophisticated people listen actively and respond with understanding and compassion, showing genuine concern for those around them. They recognize that everyone has their own struggles and triumphs and offer support where possible. Dr. Brené Brown, a research professor at the University of Houston, emphasizes that empathy strengthens connections by allowing us to be present with another's emotions. With empathy, you foster deeper, more meaningful relationships. In contrast, a lack of empathy can result in insensitive or dismissive behavior. This can alienate others and create barriers to communication. Tacky individuals may fail to recognize the importance of considering others' perspectives, leading to misunderstandings. By cultivating empathy, you demonstrate emotional intelligence and a commitment to understanding others. It's a powerful tool for connecting with people on a deeper level and enhancing your interactions. Sophisticated individuals remain calm and composed, even in challenging situations. This ability to manage emotions and maintain a level head is crucial for effective problem-solving and decision-making. They understand that losing their temper or panicking can escalate issues and hinder resolution. By staying composed, they project confidence and control, which can be reassuring to those around them. On the other hand, tacky individuals may become easily flustered or reactive under stress. This can lead to impulsive decisions and negative interactions, leaving a lasting impression of unpredictability. By learning to manage stress and emotions, you can navigate difficult situations more effectively. Composure is a valuable asset in both personal and professional settings, enhancing your ability to lead and influence others. Practice mindfulness and stress management techniques to cultivate this important habit. Sophisticated individuals welcome feedback as an opportunity for growth and improvement. They understand that constructive criticism can provide valuable insights and help refine their skills and behavior. By approaching feedback with an open mind, they demonstrate a commitment to personal and professional development. This openness fosters an environment of trust and collaboration, where others feel comfortable offering honest input. Conversely, tacky individuals may become defensive or dismissive when receiving feedback. This resistance can hinder growth and damage relationships, as it signals a lack of willingness to learn or adapt. By embracing feedback, you show humility and a desire to better yourself. This attitude encourages others to share their perspectives and contribute to your development. Make an effort to listen actively and reflect on the feedback you receive, and you'll foster a culture of continuous improvement. Gratitude is an essential component of sophistication, reflecting an appreciation for both the big and small things in life. Sophisticated individuals express gratitude regularly, acknowledging the efforts and kindness of others. This habit fosters positive relationships and creates a sense of connection and appreciation. By recognizing the contributions of those around you, you demonstrate humility and respect. In contrast, those who fail to express gratitude may come across as entitled or unappreciative. This can strain relationships and create a negative impression, as it suggests a lack of awareness of others' efforts. By making a conscious effort to say "thank you" and show appreciation, you enhance your interactions and strengthen your connections. Gratitude is a simple yet powerful way to build rapport and create a positive atmosphere. Cultivate this habit, and you'll leave a lasting impression of warmth and sincerity. Sophisticated individuals understand the importance of respecting personal space and boundaries. This awareness allows them to engage comfortably with others, fostering a sense of respect and consideration. They recognize that different people have varying comfort levels and adjust their behavior accordingly. This understanding helps prevent misunderstandings and creates a positive atmosphere where everyone feels comfortable. On the other hand, those who disregard personal space may come across as intrusive or disrespectful. This behavior can create discomfort and tension, as it suggests a lack of awareness of others' needs. By respecting personal space, you demonstrate consideration for others and enhance your interactions. This habit is particularly important in diverse social settings, where cultural norms may vary. Practice mindfulness and sensitivity to ensure that your interactions are respectful and considerate. Body language is a powerful form of communication, and sophisticated individuals are keenly aware of its impact. They use gestures, posture, and facial expressions to convey confidence and openness. By being mindful of their body language, they enhance their ability to connect with others and communicate effectively. Positive body language can reinforce verbal communication and create a sense of trust and rapport. In contrast, tacky individuals may exhibit negative body language, such as crossing arms or avoiding eye contact. This can create barriers in communication and signal disinterest or discomfort. By paying attention to your body language, you can project confidence and approachability. Practice maintaining an open stance, making eye contact, and using gestures to support your words. This awareness can significantly improve your interactions and enhance your ability to connect with others. Sophisticated individuals understand the importance of prioritizing self-care to maintain their physical and mental well-being. They recognize that taking care of themselves is essential for being their best in social and professional settings. By incorporating self-care into their routine, they enhance their ability to manage stress and maintain a positive outlook. This commitment to self-care reflects a level of self-awareness and responsibility for their well-being. Conversely, tacky individuals may neglect self-care, leading to burnout and negative impacts on their interactions. This oversight can result in irritability, fatigue, and a lack of focus, affecting their ability to engage effectively with others. By prioritizing self-care, you demonstrate a commitment to your well-being and a desire to be your best self. This habit enhances your resilience and ability to navigate life's challenges with grace. Make self-care a priority, and you'll improve your interactions and overall quality of life. Sophisticated individuals have a thirst for knowledge and a desire to continuously learn and grow. They embrace new experiences and actively seek opportunities to expand their understanding of the world. This commitment to lifelong learning reflects a curiosity and openness to new ideas and perspectives. By staying informed and educated, they enhance their ability to contribute meaningfully to conversations and interactions. In contrast, those who resist learning may become stagnant and limited in their perspectives. This reluctance to embrace new knowledge can hinder personal and professional development. By cultivating a habit of lifelong learning, you demonstrate a commitment to growth and a willingness to adapt to change. This attitude encourages exploration and innovation, enhancing your ability to navigate an ever-changing world. Stay curious and open to new experiences, and you'll continue to evolve and thrive. Authenticity is a hallmark of sophistication, reflecting a genuine and sincere approach to interactions. Sophisticated individuals value authenticity in themselves and others, recognizing the importance of being true to oneself. They embrace their unique qualities and express themselves honestly, fostering genuine connections with those around them. This authenticity creates a sense of trust and openness, enhancing the quality of their interactions. Individuals who prioritize appearances or conform to social expectations may exhibit inauthentic behavior. This can create a disconnect in their interactions, as others may perceive them as insincere or superficial. By valuing authenticity, you demonstrate self-confidence and a commitment to being true to yourself. This encourages others to do the same, creating a more inclusive and supportive environment. Embrace your authentic self, and you'll foster deeper, more meaningful connections with those around you.
Yahoo
07-06-2025
- General
- Yahoo
20 Unwritten Social Rules That Apparently Everyone Missed The Memo On, And I'm Starting To Think We Need Mandatory Life Skills Training
It's recently come to my attention that some people weren't taught basic social etiquette. I was on an airplane, and the person next to me was watching a video on their phone at full volume. Since when did we stop using headphones? It's not just me who's noticed this — recently, people in one Reddit thread shared the unspoken rules everyone should know but don't follow, and I'm curious to see how many of them you agree with. Ahead, I've rounded up 20 different rules: 1."Cover your mouth when you cough and sneeze." –ajnabee1234 2."Always pick up your dog's poop when walking them in public places." –Twitterthedog2025 3."If you borrow someone's car, bring it back with a full tank of gas." –ikeepsitreel 4."I dont care how friendly you say your dog is, dont let it run up on people without a leash." –chaoticrabbit 5."An opinion, stated strongly and with many people agreeing with it, is still an opinion." –JetKeel Related: I Refuse To Believe These 13 Wild Facts Are Actually True, But Scientists Swear They Are, And Now I'm Questioning Everything 6."Have some spatial awareness. This is a bit broad, including stuff like not taking up the entire grocery aisle, staying in the right-hand lane if you're going slowly (walking or driving), and stuff like that." –Puzzled-teach2389 7."If someone offers to pay for your food, do NOT pick anything too expensive." –Informal_Mix4570 8."Close your mouth when you chew." –TrivialBanal 9."Say 'thank you' when a stranger holds a door for you." –Alarming-Setting-592 Related: 50 People Who Woke Up One Morning Over The Past Month And Accidentally Destroyed Their Entire Lives 10."Flush. The. Toilet. Unless you've been specifically told otherwise. In North America, at least, flush it." –TripTrap24 11."The Golden Rule: treat others as you would want to be treated." –ukexpat 12."If you're walking with your friends on a sidewalk and you meet someone going the other way, move over to share the sidewalk. Signed, the person who usually gets pushed into the grass." –RainyDaysAreLovely 13."Don't comment on a pregnant person's body." –kimtenisqueen 14."Don't cheat, just break up!" –freezinpheonix 15."Keep your feet off public seats and benches." –Competitive-Spring17 16."If an invitation says X time to Y time, it's come and go. Please do not come before X, then stay until after Y. If it just has a start time, then you should be there within minutes of that start time and leave when social cues dictate or the event is obviously over." –Jaynett 17."Trash doesn't cease to exist when it leaves your hand. Don't litter." –StewBrewingWeather 18."When someone is performing an art, or giving a speech from the heart, SHUT UP." –the_moderate_me 19."Do not cut off or interrupt someone while they're speaking." –baras021 20."Don't stand in front of the elevator doors! Let other people off first. Stand to the sides." –isabelladangelo Do you have a rule that belongs on this list? Let me know in the comments! Note: Responses have been edited for length/clarity. Also in Internet Finds: The History We're Taught Is Wildly Sanitized, So Here 28 Disturbing Historical Events Everyone Should Be Aware Of Also in Internet Finds: 18 People Who Took A Picture Of Something That — Oops — Is Super Dangerous Also in Internet Finds: 13 Tweets From Women This Week That Made Me Laugh So Hard I Might Need Medical Attention
