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Forbes
3 days ago
- General
- Forbes
When Parents Of College Students And Their Rules Are Over Controlling
Starting college is often an important transition within the relationships between students and their parents. A 2024 report on discussed three ways that parents can have unique impacts on college students and highlighted how supportive parents can help students reduce stress and burnout. However, some students present to campus counseling centers and report stressful relationships with their parents. Common examples of these stressful relationships are 'helicopter parents.' According to a 2025 report by Boston University, the term helicopter parent emerged as the baby boomer generation had more money and time to spend on their children than previous generations. This resulted in a tendency to be highly active as parents of college students, which included some parents micromanaging their students. As members of Gen X and Millennials became parents, the general trend of having more money and time for children continued, resulting in elaborations of the concept of helicopter parenting. For example, a 2023 report on summarized the potential harmful effects of 'snowplow parenting,' which describes a tendency of some parents to remove all stressors or challenges that their children might experience. Regardless of the term used to describe these behaviors, or the reasons why these behaviors exist, having parents who are over controlling can have detrimental impacts on students. Over Controlling Parents Can Hinder Development And Opportunities The traditional college-aged years are formative for the development of personal values. Instead of specific rules, such as who a child can spend time with outside of school, what time is curfew, and when to do homework, college is a place to establish values such as lifestyle choices, personal development, and academic performance. According to a 2025 study in the journal of Brain Sciences, the establishment of personal values is associated with individual decision-making. Thus, over controlling rules which limit students' ability to make decisions can hinder the development of long-term values. Furthermore, many colleges and universities have thousands of students on campus. If a student enters the campus community with a set of rules that are more strict than other students, then it's expected that the student will miss opportunities, such as attending certain social events that could result in having more friends, participating in extracurricular activities that could lead to future internships, or attending campus events that could result in being more excited about college. Over Controlling Parents Often Have Limited Influence As detailed in the report on parents generally have significant influence over college students. This influence is mostly experienced by students as parents being positive role models and giving practical advice; however, such influence can last a lifetime. On the contrary, over controlling rules can influence the behavior of college students, but this type of influence is time limited. As students proceed through their academic careers, most of them will obtain financial independence, and this independence will minimize the impact of any parental rules. A 2020 study in the journal of Psychological Reports found that parent-child attachment can also impact the social relationships of college students, including factors such as social anxiety. Consistent with these findings is the fact that many students with over controlling parents attempt to put rules and expectations on peers. This usually has limited influence on peers and can result in these students being rejected by others. In turn, many of these students will start resisting or rejecting their parents, which could produce a vicious cycle of attachment problems and difficulty connecting with others. Over Controlling Parents Often Reap What They Sow According to a 2025 report on rules often represent boundaries to children. As such, over controlling rules to college students often represent an over reliance of boundaries during a time of independence. It's often beneficial for parents to ponder that college students eventually reach a point in lifespan development in which they put boundaries on their parents. Examples include relocating after graduation, getting married, and starting a family. The boundaries that students place on parents later in life often reflect their feelings about the boundaries that parents once placed on them. In closing, it's important to note that there's no consensus on what constitutes an over controlling parent. Furthermore, students need rules while in college, and some students need more rules than others. However, it's usually obvious when a student is burdened with rules that are excessive and don't match the general experience of being in college. Most parents want their children to succeed in college, and they can help foster student success by setting appropriate and normative expectations.
CBC
24-06-2025
- Science
- CBC
Nobody likes to take exams — but they might be more valuable than you think
As high schools across Canada wind down for the academic year, students are entering the final stretch of their exams — a period marked by both anticipation and anxiety. At Castlebrooke Secondary School in Brampton, Ont., science teacher Jason Bradshaw watches the pressure build. For many of his students, he says, the emotional toll is visible. "They are very stressed, and I think it's largely because of the emphasis that we put on grades and marks in school, and the final exam is obviously going to be a significant part of that," Bradshaw told The Current's Matt Galloway. "It's a very high-stakes task for them and that puts enormous stress on them." For teenagers juggling study schedules and extracurriculars with the looming pressure of acting upon their ambitions for the future, exam season can feel like a make-or-break moment. In fact, some educators in Canada have also questioned whether the traditional testing model is worth the anxiety it generates. But others see a different side. Kelly Gallagher-Mackay, an associate professor and educational researcher at Wilfrid Laurier University in Waterloo, Ont., says that tests offer a valid form of assessment, measuring learning in ways that are distinct from other methods, such as projects. "There is a point of testing," she said. What do exams distinctly tell us? Exams play a crucial role in gauging how well students have grasped the core concepts of their courses, says Gallagher-Mackay. Furthermore, she says that exams also help educators assess not only what their students have absorbed but how effective their teaching methods have been throughout the year. "It's particularly important for going forward. The test might tell you that you want to go and teach that differently next year, if there's one unit that they really didn't get," she said. "It gives you a sort of overall snapshot of the extent to which the content and the teaching were effective." Tasha Ausman, a science and mathematics high school teacher in Gatineau, Que., and a professor in the faculty of education at the University of Ottawa, says exams are more than just a measure of content knowledge. She says they're also tools for evaluating literacy — both general and subject-specific. "They're testing, fundamentally, a literacy and deciphering skill in relation to content where you may or may not know it," said Ausman. In addition to comprehension, she says exams help solidify memorized, factual knowledge — especially critical in subjects like science and math, where understanding core concepts is essential. "I try and emphasize as a teacher, 'Hey, listen, you're living in this body, you should probably know where all your bits are [and] how your organs work,'" she said. However, Ausman remarks that today's students — raised in a digital-first world — often question the need to remember facts when information is readily available online. "I had a few students say, and it might not be just this generation, but like they're more apathetic about, 'Why do I even need to know this? I can just Google it,'" she said. Yet Ausman believes exams serve another vital function: preparing students for the pressures and expectations of adult life. She points to the practical life skills that emerge from test-taking. Facing a timed, high-pressure scenario — like completing an exam within three hours — mirrors real-world responsibilities where deadlines matter. "Life is full of deadlines, it doesn't matter what job you're doing," said Ausman. Test-taking, she says, teaches more than curriculum content. "Reliability, commitment, obligation, organization, all those things come through schooling as well," she said. Strategies to manage test anxiety Back in Ontario, Bradshaw acknowledges that tests are "not going anywhere in the immediate future." So, alongside fellow educators, he is putting a spotlight on the need to help students manage the anxiety that often comes with test taking. Regarding final exams, Bradshaw advocates familiarizing students with testing throughout the semester. By incorporating lower-stakes assessments, he believes students can gradually build confidence and ease the intense pressure that final exams often bring. Louis Volante, professor of education at Brock University, also says there are practical ways both teachers and students can address general test anxiety. From a teaching perspective, Volante encourages educators to offer clear test-taking strategies such as reading questions carefully, previewing the entire exam before you start, skipping difficult questions initially and managing time effectively. For tests to be fair and supportive of student learning, Volante says teachers should design exams that 90 per cent of students can finish with 15 minutes to spare, allowing enough time for everyone to complete them. They should also include a mixture of selected-response questions like multiple choice, true or false and matching, alongside constructed-response questions such as those that require short answers. "We want a mixture of questions that we're asking students because it's tapping into different types of knowledge and skills they would have learned and can apply," said Volante. Content-wise, he says tests should have a good match between what's taught and what's tested. "What you often hear from students is, 'I studied everything that was taught in class, but the test asked me a bunch of questions that we didn't really cover,' and obviously, that's going to create anxiety for anybody." Finally, Gallagher-Mackay says that parents also play a key role in keeping the pressure in perspective. "When parents and teachers are more or less giving consistent messages, kids do feel better about school and they do better at school," she said. That message is this: "Tests are not the end all and be all — they are not a measure of who you are as a person, they are a valid way of assessing what you learn in a particular course."
Irish Times
13-06-2025
- General
- Irish Times
Carl O'Brien: ‘A secret weapon to defusing exam tension at home: the Dad joke'
Yes, the Leaving Cert is a sadistic rite of passage – but sometimes you do have to laugh. As we know, all laws of household behaviour have been suspended. Students communicate in sighs. Discarded mugs are signs of academic focus. Any attempt to vacuum is 'sabotaging their future'. Tension is everywhere. Thankfully, our exam parent Damian Cullen has found an important mood-breaker in the past few weeks: the Dad joke. No situation is too tense for a simple, pun-based joke – the cornier the better. READ MORE We liked his advice to his Junior Cycle and Leaving Cert daughters as they headed off to sit their English papers; – 'Best of luck today, girls. Remember to avoid cliches like the plague.' Two sets of eyes roll. – 'Ughh, goodbye.' Be sure to read Daman's latest dispatch – it is well worth it. Damian Cullen with his wife and daughter at a recent school graduation ceremony After eight days of State exams, a much-needed weekend of respite stretches ahead. We've had quite a response from readers on the physical and mental toll these exams have been had on students. Stress In a report which didn't gain anywhere near as much publicity as it should have, the OECD took a critical look at the Leaving Cert in 2023. . It noted how the CAO points system is unusual in the degree to which it is 'particularly competitive' and 'every single mark can be critical' for entry into college. It concluded that the exams were a period of 'intense stress and pressure' which was 'limiting space for development of broader skills that are 'critical for young people's lifelong learning'. At least Leaving Cert reforms are now on the horizon with a much greater focus on continual assessment and project work – but the CAO system is, in many ways, the tail that wags the dog. As long as it remains brutally competitive, the pressure will be transferred into the assessment process. Pathways On that note, we'll be dedicating our newsletters next week to looking at the latest information and advice available for school leavers on further education, apprenticeships, new tertiary degree options without CAO points and, yes, the CAO itself. Hopefully, it will be a reminder to exam-addled students – and parents – that there are more pathways than ever to pursue your career dreams. Have a great weekend. How are we doing? If you are a parent/ guardian of a Leaving Cert student, we'd love to hear from you. Maybe you have a personal story to share, have a burning question or want to comment on the exams, CAO and further education applications process. Please click the link below to send us your questions or feedback: ingCert But they have been a very important mood-breaker over the past few weeks. No matter how cool and unfazed a teenager normally is, the Leaving Certificate is an imitating beast – a shadow keeping thousands of students in the shade even on the sunniest of June days.
Washington Post
20-05-2025
- Business
- Washington Post
Colleges revamp career services to address Gen Z's work-life expectations
WINSTON-SALEM, N.C. — Ally Wilkinson did not plan to spend her senior year at Wake Forest University doing something strikingly stressful: juggling a full-time job with a global consulting firm while also taking classes to finish her degree. Like many in her generation, Wilkinson demands that her job allow for life balance and overall wellness, she said, including time for exercise and socializing. When she tells her bosses she has a class or a meeting outside of work, for example, they tell her to do what she needs to do. Even so, she said, 'they honestly get annoyed.'
