'Entitled friend blocked me online after I didn't help her move home'
Moving home can be an incredibly stressful experience but, if you're lucky, friends and family are on hand to help. One man had a "brilliant" response to an old friend's "entitled" moving request
A man has been praised for his 'brilliant' response after an old friend got in touch with him not to reconnect but to take advantage of his van while she moved house. Moving home is a stressful, emotionally taxing experience that requires a lot of patience and admin, on top of exhaustive fees and additional expenses.
Typically, friends and family are on hand to help load and unpack boxes but this isn't always a guarantee and, in some cases, professional movers have to be hired. If you know someone with a van or other large vehicle, it can be tempting to reach out and ask them to help - something one man knows all too well.
On Reddit, the man explained how an old friend had recently got in touch with him only to request his help as she was in the process of moving house. After realising things weren't going to go the way she had hoped, she took steps to end their friendship entirely.
In a post titled, 'My friend asked me to help her move then got mad I didn't bring my truck', the man explained he has a pickup truck which is 'old but reliable'.
Because of this he's learned many people will reach out to him only when they're planning to move house, or they're in need of a large van for other reasons.
He said: 'This 'friend' from college DMs me [out of] nowhere like, 'Hey!! You free this Saturday? Need help moving. You're the besttt!''
The man told the woman he could pop round 'for a bit', but he showed up in his trusty Honda Civic and not his van, as she was expecting.
Upon seeing the car, she looked him 'up and down' and asked where his van was. The man told her it was at home and stressed: 'You didn't ask for the truck. You asked for help.'
The woman was unimpressed and scoffed at him before asking: 'Well what good is your help without your truck?'
But the man had a quick response. He told her: 'Same energy as asking someone to help paint, then getting mad they didn't bring a whole-a** ladder.'
This made the woman immediately get 'quiet', while he helped move 'three light boxes' before telling her 'good luck with the rest' and promptly leaving. He added: 'She unfollowed me that night.'
In the comments section beneath his post, fellow Reddit users were keen to share their thoughts. One person simply said: 'Brilliant!'
Another added: '[For real though], people act like owning a truck means you signed up for free U-Haul duties'.
A third, who alluded to similar demands from people, shared: 'I had a truck in England. I had soooo many friends I didn't even know about!'
While someone else observed: 'It helps you stay in touch with relatives, like once every five years when they need something, like they are moving.'
Sharing a similar experience, someone else commented: 'I displayed an aptitude for computers as a child, the random tech support requests haven't stopped since. I'm in my forties.'
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