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Traveler Says Us Food Is Making Them 'Sick,' Internet Has Strong Opinions

Traveler Says Us Food Is Making Them 'Sick,' Internet Has Strong Opinions

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An American traveler's viral Reddit post about the stark contrast between food in the United States and Italy has ignited widespread discussion about diet, health and food quality in the U.S.
The post, titled "Travel made me realize US food is making me sick," was shared by u/Temporary-Night-275 in the r/Vent subreddit. The post, which details the traveler's experience after returning from a trip to Italy, has amassed 30,000 upvotes and hundreds of comments since it was posted on June 4.
The poster, who is in their 20s but did not share their name, told Newsweek that they live in the Midwest and work in health care.
"I'm just so mad at the food in the US," the poster wrote. "I left for two weeks to Italy. My mood was better, my awareness was better. I could eat wheat (I'm extremely gluten intolerant and it messes with my autoimmune disease if I eat it among a multitude of other symptoms) with gluten pills with minor bloating.
"I had some of the best food, best health feelings—other than muscle soreness from walking so much—I've ever had in my life. It's made me have so much resentment for U.S. food. I mean even my skin cleared up quite a bit overseas."
Dr. Sandip Sachar, a New York City dentist with a background in nutrition studies, told Newsweek: "It is quite possible the Reddit poster's experience was accurate and has validity."
Sachar explained: "Italy does not add fluoride to its public water supply. Unlike countries such as the United States, where water fluoridation is a public health measure to prevent tooth decay, Italy has never implemented artificial water fluoridation programs.
"Despite not adding fluoride to its water supply, Italy does not have significantly higher caries [tooth decay] rates compared to the U.S. within similar socioeconomic populations."
She added that diet and culture likely play a role: "Food isn't rushed or eaten on the go."
A 2018 study in the American Journal of Lifestyle Medicine highlighted broader concerns about American dietary habits. The study said "that most chronic diseases that afflict Americans are predominantly lifestyle induced; and the belief is that the vast majority of heart attacks and strokes could be prevented if people were willing to adopt healthy lifestyle behaviors."
The study noted: "Over the past 50 years, the health of Americans has gotten worse, and now 71 percent of Americans are overweight or obese…today, eating processed foods and fast foods may kill more people prematurely than cigarette smoking."
Stock image of a table spread with various American-themed foods, including hot dogs, burgers and potato chips.
Stock image of a table spread with various American-themed foods, including hot dogs, burgers and potato chips.
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The traveler explained in the viral post: "I eat pretty healthy—I love snacking on veggies. It just makes me so mad that having any kind of sugar is just too much here [the U.S.]. Sugar and wheat and whatever else is just so much harder on my body here than Italy."
The poster told of how was initially "too nervous" to try gluten while abroad, after not having had it in 10 years. However, when they did, the reaction was mild.
The poster told Newsweek: "I didn't wake up the next day feeling like I got hit by a bus. I didn't have the skin irritation. I didn't have massive weight gain, just bloating and cramping.
"When I took my gluten enzymes, it basically resolved the effects in a couple hours. And this was after eating pizza, bread and pasta. Everything I ate just tasted not only better, but just better quality. It's really hard to explain. I just could tell it was cleaner."
Reflecting on life back in the U.S., the poster said: "Overall, since [my travels], I have adopted some foods from overseas and try to buy organic and imported [foods]. I have continued to feel better, but there's only so much I can do when organic costs more…all I can say there is definitely a difference in quality, taste and overall feeling from the foods I had [abroad]."
Food in Italy vs. the US
Sachar told Newsweek: "Italy's traditional Mediterranean diet is low in added sugars. It is high in fiber, healthy fats, like olive oil, and antioxidants. Generally speaking Italian food is based on more real, minimally processed food."
She added: "In the U.S., high sugar and salt is found in everything from cereals to sauces. Sugar is fuel for Streptococcus mutans, the bacteria most responsible for tooth decay. Sugary foods also cause rapid glucose spikes, triggering a strong insulin response.
"Over time, this can contribute to insulin resistance, fat storage, type 2 diabetes, heart disease, obesity and increased inflammation. Excess sugar also disrupts the gut microbiome."
Comparing breads, Sachar said: "Italian bread is usually made with just three to four ingredients—flour, water, salt, and yeast." In contrast, much of American bread contains dough conditioners (e.g. azodicarbonamide), emulsifiers, added sugars or high-fructose corn syrup, preservatives to extend shelf life and synthetic vitamins (fortified), she said.
Sachar noted that traditional Italian and European breads often undergo long fermentation (12 to 48 hours), making them easier to digest and reducing the glycemic index. "Most commercial breads in the U.S. do not go through this long fermentation process because speed is prioritized."
Cultural attitudes toward food also differ significantly. "Meals in Italy are slower, social, and often cooked at home. Food isn't rushed or eaten on the go. Lunch breaks are usually one to two hours long. Children grow up learning better eating habits. Portions are smaller too. In the U.S., convenience and speed is considered a priority. Processed foods and takeout are therefore widespread," Sachar said.
'The Quality of Our Food Is Garbage'
Reddit users responding to the viral post shared their own experiences of struggling with American food.
"When I first moved to the U.S. I gained 60 whole ass pounds," wrote u/Ok_Profile_9278. "My habits didn't actually change much, but everyone I know who's come here from a different country has a similar story to tell."
U/Platypus_31415 echoed this: "I spent three weeks in the U.S. and it took me three to four months to recover. It's the land of the free: free to sell crap to the customers."
Another commenter, u/SureAd5625, pointed to a deeper problem: "The issue isn't even the type of food. It's what's in our food. Other countries have diets that are extremely carb heavy and you'll still see people that are skinny…and relatively healthier. The quality of our food is gaaaaarbage."
Another noted that lifestyle plays a role. "It's also our very sedentary and car-dependent lifestyles," said u/Corguita. "When you walk and move more to get to places naturally, there's a whole lot of things that come with that. When you just drive from one place to another, you don't burn as many calories, you don't digest as well."
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The doctor wanted to try me on some new meds, and I told her I just wanted to be on my old ones, and she said, 'Well, since you're newly married, you might want to try something new and stronger since depression and anxiety normally cause problems in marriages. You wouldn't want to ruin your new marriage, would you?' I never went back to that doctor again." "The guy really WANTED my symptoms to be fake because that was the conclusion he'd already drawn and he was really pissed off when a few things in my tests turned out to be slightly elevated enough that he couldn't deny me care. He gave this big, frustrated sigh and said, 'Look, you're [blah blah] levels are slightly elevated, so I'm going to admit you, but...' and then he trailed off because I think he realized he'd get in trouble for whatever he planned to say next. It's good he did too because it turns out I was totally right and we caught something that could have been VERY dangerous very early." "'Migraines aren't a real thing.' This was after I'd just had a bad one that lasted three days with me in bed, unable to tolerate lights or sound. Yep, I found a new doctor." "When I told my pediatric psychologist that I was seeing things that I was pretty sure weren't real, she told me, 'Well, some people are just more attuned to the other side.' When I moved, I finally got a new psychologist who recognized that I was having manic episodes with hallucinations and put me on a mood stabilizer." "Over the course of 20 years, I've often had my pain dismissed as period cramps. The last doctor told me he'd send me to a psychiatrist if I came back because he didn't think my pain was real. By the time they found the issue, I had an ovarian mass the size of my head in my abdomen and pelvis. It had already developed into cancer. Had any one of the dozens of doctors I went to over the course of 20 years even done a simple ultrasound, this would have been caught before it was cancer." "Someone I know was explaining that she has an iron deficiency but was afraid to watch her diet too much (to manage this deficiency) because it could make her fall back into anorexia (for which she's had hospitalizations in the past), especially at the moment when she was very stressed (new job, break-up, etc.). The doctor looked her up and down and said, 'Oh, it's okay. You don't seem to be at risk of anorexia.' Not only is this a ridiculous remark (and very dangerous given the situation explained), but she was just at her ideal weight and was a size 8 (US size). I can't imagine what it must be like for people with eating disorders who are actually overweight." "I went to see a specialist about my endo (diagnosed via laparoscopy) because I was having some worrying symptoms. My MRI scan came back normal (pretty common for endo not to be visible on the scan). He told me I should think myself lucky I didn't have something like cancer, and that he didn't want to refer me on until I was in 'real' pain. Turns out my deep infiltrating endo that was left untreated had now caused adenomyosis and spread to my bladder and bowels. I WISH I had made a complaint at the time." "'Seven weeks of bleeding is normal. Our first availability is in another seven weeks. Come back then.' He also rolled his eyes at me and huffed with annoyed exasperation, like a bratty/moody teenager does. I had been bleeding for over seven weeks already. As this provider told me the above statement, blood had started literally gushing down my legs. It was summer, and I was wearing white shorts, so he could very clearly see blood pooling down my legs. I waddled off to the closest bathroom, cleaned myself up, and called my primary care doctor to explain the circumstances. My primary care usually doesn't handle gynecologic issues, but he was (literally) stunned into silence when I explained to him what had just happened at my usual gynecology clinic, so much so that he responded: 'I've got a buddy on duty at the ER at [hospital across town]. I'll contact him directly and let him know you're en route.'" "I once had a cardiologist tell me he didn't recognize me with my shirt on." "'It must be caused by what's between your ears.' That's what a doctor said when my girlfriend's kidneys were literally failing. This went on for years." "I was living in two rooms with two small children, going through a stressful and unpleasant divorce at 25. I went to the doctor, saying I thought I was depressed, and she said, 'You don't look depressed.' I was too depressed and defeated to argue." "During a routine women's wellness exam, including a breast exam, a male doctor told me, 'You know, you can fix your asymmetrical breasts with plastic surgery.' He then proceeded to tell me what all the options were, including different-sized implants, fat transfer, etc. The young female medical assistant who was required to be in the room looked absolutely horrified." "I was trying to get a referral for a new OB-GYN for a hysterectomy after bleeding nearly every day for two years, and my female PCP says to me that I didn't need one. Since I had not had kids, my uterus was 'hungry' and I just needed to drink celery juice instead of coffee." And: "I was having severe pain and digestive issues, undergoing a lot of medical tests. It turned out I had gall bladder disease, and a gallstone was cutting into the duct. I was hospitalized for the third time, and my kidneys were shutting down (along with other systemic failures), and they sent a psychiatrist to talk to me. He accused me of making everything up, not having friends, and generally causing problems. The next day, they did an exploratory surgery and found the problem with my gall bladder. I was angry and hurt that the doctor accused me of basically lying. For the record, I'm female. My story happens to a LOT of women." Have you ever dealt with a condescending or dismissive doctor who ended up being totally wrong about your condition? What happened? Tell us in the comments or share anonymously using this form. Note: Submissions have been edited for length and/or clarity.

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