The Golden Rule – in business and life

New Straits Times

2 days ago

The saying "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you" is widely known as the Golden Rule because it expresses a foundational principle of ethical behaviour: treating others with the same respect, kindness, and fairness that you wish for yourself. Across cultures, religions, and philosophical traditions, this idea has been recognised as a moral touchstone — a guiding rule for living harmoniously with others.
Origins and Universal Appeal
The Golden Rule appears in many religions.
Islam includes the saying: "None of you truly believes until he wishes for his brother what he wishes for himself."
Christianity has it that Jesus says: "So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets."
Confucius (500 BCE) framed it as "Do not impose on others what you do not wish for yourself."
Buddhism teaches compassion and the idea that one should treat all beings kindly.
Judaism (in the Talmud) includes Rabbi Hillel's famous line: "What is hateful to you, do not do to your neighbour."
The universality of this idea gives it enduring power. Across time and place, people recognize that ethical living often begins with imagining ourselves in others' shoes.
Why It's Called "Golden"
It's called golden because it is considered a supreme or precious moral rule — something of high value, like gold itself. Philosophers and theologians over centuries have praised it as a simple yet profound guide that can apply in nearly every situation. It distils moral thinking into a clear, actionable formula: ask yourself how you'd want to be treated and extend that behaviour to others.
Unlike rules based on external authority or complex systems of laws, the Golden Rule asks for internal reflection. It requires self-awareness and empathy. You become your own ethical guide, using your preferences and experiences to shape how you treat those around you.
Strengths of the Golden Rule
There are several reasons why the Golden Rule has been held up as a moral gold standard:
Simplicity
The rule is easy to understand and remember. It doesn't require formal education, legal training, or religious study. Even children can grasp its meaning.
Universality
Because it appeals to shared human experience, it crosses cultural and religious lines. Most people know what it feels like to want kindness, fairness, honesty, or respect.
Empathy-Building
It encourages people to put themselves in someone else's position, imagining how their actions affect others emotionally or practically.
Flexibility
It can apply in personal relationships, workplaces, schools, politics, and even international relations. It scales from one-on-one interactions to societal norms.
Foundation for Reciprocity
The rule supports the idea that when we treat others well, we're more likely to be treated well in return. While not transactional, it fosters mutual respect and trust.
Criticisms and Limitations
Despite its strengths, the Golden Rule isn't perfect, and philosophers have raised thoughtful critiques.
Different Preferences
The rule assumes that others want the same treatment you do. But what if their values, needs, or tastes differ? For example, you might value blunt honesty, but someone else might prefer gentle feedback. Applying your standard without considering their perspective can lead to misunderstandings.
Cultural Differences
What is polite or kind in one culture may be offensive or puzzling in another. For instance, direct eye contact is respectful in some places but rude in others.
Limited in Complex Moral Dilemmas
The Golden Rule works well for many day-to-day interactions but doesn't provide answers to more abstract or large-scale ethical questions, such as how to distribute societal resources or balance competing rights.
Need for Broader Ethical Principles
Ethical systems often include duties, rights, justice, fairness, and compassion — all of which sometimes require more than just asking how you would like to be treated.
Because of these challenges, some thinkers propose refining the Golden Rule by adding an informed perspective, such as "Treat others as they would want to be treated" (sometimes called the Platinum Rule), which emphasizes understanding and respecting differences.
Why It Endures
Despite critiques, the Golden Rule remains influential because it taps into a deep human intuition about fairness. It's a tool that nudges people away from selfishness and cruelty and toward cooperation and harmony. It makes ethics personal — not just a set of imposed rules but a daily, living practice.
In modern life, where people interact across vast cultural and social divides, the Golden Rule reminds us to slow down and reflect before we act. It's not about achieving perfect moral outcomes but about cultivating a mindset of respect and goodwill.
"Do unto others as you would have them do unto you" is called the Golden Rule because of its enduring value, simplicity, and moral richness. While it has limits and must be applied thoughtfully, it offers a timeless foundation for ethical behaviour. By inviting us to reflect on our own desires and apply them outward, it helps build a world that is kinder, fairer, and more humane.
*The writer is a former chief executive officer of Minority Shareholders Watch Group and has over two decades of experience in the Malaysian capital market.