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Only in an election year would a lover's spat turn into a political hit job

Only in an election year would a lover's spat turn into a political hit job

Boston Globe22-05-2025

So why is Idowu's name even out there?
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If you ask me, it feels like a political hit job.
Well, Huang worked in the city department Idowu runs, though he did not report directly to Idowu. According to the police report, Huang confronted Khudaynazar, accusing her of going 'on a date with my boss.'
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Segun Idowu, the city's chief of economic opportunity and inclusion, has drawn fire from critics of Mayor Michelle Wu for his alleged role in a domestic dispute between two City Hall staffers.
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Here's what really happened, according to people who've talked to Idowu. It's true Khudaynazar and Idowu were out together one night last week at Hue, a Back Bay restaurant-lounge. But they were not out on a date; Idowu is a regular at Hue, and they ran into each other. There was friendly social banter, but not much more than that, according to people briefed by Idowu.
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Thirty-six and single,
Idowu eats out about five nights a week, sometimes alone, at a rotation of Boston restaurants where he holds 'office hours' to give people a chance to talk to him about the city, according to Imari Paris Jeffries, a longtime friend and Boston nonprofit leader.
When
'He's such a square guy,' said Jeffries.
That's my impression of Idowu too. He's always in a suit and tie. I first got to know him as the
president of the
Jeffries is speaking out to defend Idowu and tamp down on the innuendo that has the city rumor mill running amok.
'I know that it's not rooted in any truth,' said Jeffries. 'It's rooted in political motivation trying to advance a story or an agenda.'
A letter in support of Idowu is also making the rounds. It has already been signed by Black leaders including John Barros, Herby Duverné, Malia Lazu, Colette Phillips, Richard Taylor, and Teri Williams.
'As Black business leaders, we stand firmly with Mayor Wu and Chief Idowu. We urge all leaders — public and private — to remain focused on progress, not division,' they wrote. 'At a time when equity is under attack across the country, we must protect and uplift those doing the work to ensure Boston is a city where everyone can thrive."
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Here's another reason why the political knives are out for Idowu. He's a
potential future mayoral candidate
himself.
City Councilor Ed Flynn, left, has called for a full investigation into a domestic incident involving two City Hall staffers last week.
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So is it any surprise that the first shots came from City Councilor Ed Flynn, who himself harbors
Flynn went on
I called Flynn to question his motivation, and he said his intentions are pure. He said he's concerned about workplace culture at City Hall and called on the mayor to conduct an independent investigation.
'This incident where two people were recently fired represented a toxic work environment through many city departments,' Flynn said. 'I realize this is very controversial. I do believe I have the obligation to address difficult issues. The last thing on my mind is politics.'
On Tuesday morning, the city issued a statement saying that after completing an internal review, that two
That means Idowu was cleared of any impropriety. The city's code of conduct does not prohibit employees from dating one another, though employees must ensure their actions do not pose conflicts of interest such as a supervisor being in a romantic relationship with a direct subordinate.
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Idowu and Khudaynazar did not work together. And even
if the two were out on a date, how do we know Idowu knew she was in a relationship with Huang?
Based on what I know, I don't see an ethics violation here. At most, it is a case of poor judgement on Idowu's part, not a fireable offense.
Another thing I know is that salacious details in the police report have imaginations on overdrive,
which may be what Wu's political opponents are after.
According to the police report, Khudaynazar called 911 after Huang allegedly took her phone and car keys. Huang had confronted Khudaynazar accusing her of cheating on him with his boss and told police 'they booked a hotel room and she came here to rub it in my face.'
Chulan Huang, center, was a neighborhood liason for Chinatown until he was fired this week in the wake of a domestic dispute with another City Hall staffer.
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When cops arrived at 2 a.m. at Huang's apartment, they found Khudaynazar drunk and
slurring her words. They also found bite marks all over Huang. Khudaynazar alleges that Huang restrained her wrists so she bit him in self defense. When the cops told Khudaynazar to leave Huang's Chinatown apartment, she refused and hit a police officer.
It's an ugly quarrel for two young lovers who, yes, both work at City Hall. But is this a
I don't think so. Trust me, no one would be calling for one
Shirley Leung is a Business columnist. She can be reached at

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Fear of "gay blood" and "confused minds": Virginia Republican touts support from anti-gay preachers
Fear of "gay blood" and "confused minds": Virginia Republican touts support from anti-gay preachers

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Fear of "gay blood" and "confused minds": Virginia Republican touts support from anti-gay preachers

Lt. Gov. Winsome Earle-Sears helped make history this week when she was named the Republican gubernatorial nominee, ensuring that no matter who wins in November, Virginia's next governor will be a woman. But that win is also drawing increased scrutiny to Earle-Sears, an ultraconservative Marine veteran, and her touting of endorsements from a slew of clergy who have espoused anti-LGBTQ+ views. The state's first Black and female lieutenant governor has listed on her campaign website, as well as boosted on social media, the endorsements of at least four Virginia clergymen who have made anti-LGBTQ+ remarks or whose religious institutions promote anti-LGBTQ+ beliefs. Earle-Sears herself has also come under fire for anti-LGBTQ+ comments carried out in the name of religious freedom and has had to apologize to a state lawmaker for misgendering her. With public opinion polls showing that the majority of Virginians support LGBTQ+ equality and freedoms, Earle-Sears' anti-LGBTQ+ stance raises questions about her viability in a general election campaign and how she would govern if she were to win. Earle-Sears' campaign did not respond to emailed requests for comment. Earle-Sears, now the state GOP's first Black and female nominee for governor, has since last fall touted endorsements from religious leaders in the state who espouse views on LGBTQ+ Americans that are out of step with the majority of Virginians. Craig 'The Hatchet Man' Johnson, a self-described reverend, the founder and president of educational advocacy organization First Amendment, Inc, and the host of conservative radio program 'The REALLY, Real, Deal,' is one such endorser. In a 2016 Facebook post, an account with the name Craig Johnson, and with his picture as the profile's image, posted: "The gays and their defenders always claimed that it was unfair to lump them in with pedophiles, but the slippery slope that many warned of now has the psychology racket removing pedophilia from the list of mental disorders the same way they did for homosexuality years ago.' In another post from 2015, that same account reposted an article arguing against allowing "gay blood" to be used for transfusions in hospitals following reports that the Food and Drug Administration lifted its lifetime ban on accepting those blood donations. 'Common Sense RIP,' the account wrote at the time. Johnson did not respond to emailed requests for comment. In the post Earle-Sears shared to X announcing his endorsement, he's quoted as saying, 'I've known Winsome for over 20 years. She still maintains the common touch. She's REAL.' Another endorser named on Earle-Sears campaign website is Don Blake, president and chairman of the Virginia Christian Alliance. On Friday, Blake, from what appears to be his account, bemoaned in a Facebook post that 'reality is no longer in fashion. The Culture says ' Be whatever you feel you are' and be Proud.' He posted the comment in response to what's described as a satirical video shared on the platform, in which a male character tells peers they want to be called Loretta and to be a woman. The same account, in a 2022 Facebook post about an article on Gov. Glenn Youngkin addressing the state's LGBTQ+ advisory board, also suggested that LGBTQ+ community leaders have 'confused minds' while criticizing LGBTQ+ Americans for what he described as self-identifying with who they have sex with. 'It's worth knowing what the LGBT community ' leaders ' are thinking and saying about Virginia's Governor [sic],' Blake wrote. 'And, it will be interesting to see how our Governor responds to this group of radicals who's whole self identity is who they have sex with. These people don't want to be identified as say a 'teacher' but as ' gay teacher ' or as a ' gay athlete ' or as a ' gay artist ' or as a ' drag queen ' or as a ' Trans '. Whatever?' 'And they want ' Special Rights',' he continued. 'I believe that God says Those who turn against Him, then they will be given confused minds. It's self evident that many have 'confused' minds and that some have ' very confused minds'.' Another post from 2013 saw the account call the country's National Cathedral a "national disgrace" for ringing its bells to celebrate the Supreme Court decision allowing for same-sex marriage. That post also questioned whether a church can be a Christian church if it "celebrates homosexuality marriage [sic]?" Blake did not respond to emailed requests for comments. Minister Bill Wines and Pastor Nate Clarke are also among Earle-Sears' listed clergy endorsements. Both clergymembers lead a church — The Gethsemane Church of Christ and Oasis Church, respectively — that condemns homosexuality and transgender identity in the belief statements on their websites. The Gethsemane Church of Christ stated on its site that "rejection of one's biological sex is a rejection of the image of God within that person." It has included "homosexual behavior" and "bisexual conduct" in a list of acts it considers sexually immoral, "sinful and offensive to God" and has stated that it's "imperative that all persons employed by Gethsemane Church of Christ in any capacity, or who serve as volunteers, agree to and abide by this Statement on Marriage, Gender, and Sexuality." Oasis Church's belief statements have a similar message. Under "Biblical Marriage," the website says marriage 'has only one meaning and is clearly defined in scripture as a covenant, a sacred bond uniting one man (born a man) and one woman (born a woman) in a single, exclusive union for life." Clarke did not respond to emailed requests for comment. Wines told Salon that he would review the request but did not provide a response. Earle-Sears shared posts lauding Clarke and Wines' endorsements in September 2024. Earle-Sears' own views on LGBTQ+ rights align with those of her endorsers. In May, she made headlines for including a handwritten note on a 2024 law making it unlawful to deny a couple a marriage license based on sex, gender or race, stating that she was 'morally opposed' to the 'contents of the bill.' As the president of the state Senate, her signature was required to show it had been passed into law. When asked last month about the note, Earle-Sears denied that her comment was an indication that she was opposed to the bill. 'No, it wasn't that,' she told 8News' Tyler Englander. 'I merely wanted everyone to understand that I want that someone of faith would not be forced to perform a marriage, but a civil union, fine.' Most recently, Earle-Sears celebrated the Supreme Court's Wednesday decision in U.S. v. Skrmetti, which allowed a Tennessee ban on gender-affirming care for minors to stand, as a 'huge victory today for common sense.' Former U.S. Rep. Abigail Spanberger, Earle-Sears' Democratic rival for the governor's office, 'wants to make the government your child's parent instead of you—I won't let that happen,' Earle-Sears wrote in a Wednesday post to X. 'As Governor, I will protect parents' rights, not infringe on them.' Last year, Earle-Sears came under fire for misgendering Virginia state Sen. Danica Roem as 'sir' during a legislative session in response to the lawmaker's question about the number of votes needed to pass a bill with the emergency clause. Though she initially refused to, Earle-Sears later apologized after two recesses, according to The Guardian. She added, however, that she didn't intend to upset anyone. In May, the Jamaica-born official also spoke at the commencement ceremonies of two Virginia schools whose policies or stated beliefs deride homosexuality: her alma mater, Regent University, from which she graduated in 2003, and Atlantic Shores Christian University, per its student handbook, describes "homosexual conduct" as prohibited "sexual misconduct," which it also says includes "lewd, indecent, or obscene conduct or expression.' Atlantic Shores Christian School states on its website that it believes homosexuality and bisexuality are "sinful and prohibited." For her part, Earle-Sears' stance on same-sex marriage has been consistent throughout her career and spans decades. In a 2004 Daily Press op-ed, published during her campaign for Congress, she wrote that 'society has gone immeasurably beyond almost all standards in accommodating the homosexual community over the last couple of decades' and called for a constitutional amendment 'preserving the institution of marriage to be between a man and a woman.' Similarly, Earle-Sears staunchly opposes abortion, having written similar notes voicing moral opposition on two reproductive rights bills passed in 2024 and Virginia's recently passed constitutional amendment enshrining reproductive freedom. She has also previously told reporters she considers abortion 'genocide,' opposes it especially for Black Americans, and that she thought abortion should be illegal in all cases except to save the life of the pregnant person. Earle-Sears recently tried to distance herself from some of those views, denying in her interview with 8News that she said she wanted to limit access to reproductive care. For her part, Earle-Sears' campaign also told News4 Washington in a May statement regarding her note on HB 174 that the lieutenant governor 'has already shown she will always be a governor for all Virginians. She has always been open and honest with the people of Virginia about her values and her unwavering commitment to both respecting and upholding the law."

How the LAPD's protest response once again triggered outrage, injuries and lawsuits
How the LAPD's protest response once again triggered outrage, injuries and lawsuits

Los Angeles Times

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  • Los Angeles Times

How the LAPD's protest response once again triggered outrage, injuries and lawsuits

Bridgette Covelli arrived near Los Angeles City Hall for last Saturday's 'No Kings' festivities to find what she described as a peaceful scene: people chanting, dancing, holding signs. No one was arguing with the police, as far as she could tell. Enforcement of the city's curfew wouldn't begin for hours. But seemingly out of nowhere, Covelli said, officers began to fire rubber bullets and launch smoke bombs into the crowd, which had gathered to protest the Trump administration's aggressive immigration enforcement campaign. 'No dispersal order. Nothing at all,' she said. 'We were doing everything right. There was no aggression toward them.' Covelli, 23, grabbed an electric bike and turned up 3rd Street, where another line of police blocked parts of the roadway. She felt a shock of pain in her arm as she fell from the bike and crashed to the sidewalk. In a daze, she realized she was bleeding after being struck by a hard-foam projectile shot by an unidentified LAPD officer. The young tattoo artist was hospitalized with injuries that included a fractured forearm, which has left her unable to work. 'I haven't been able to draw. I can't even brush my teeth correctly,' she said. She is among the demonstrators and journalists hurt this month after being targeted by LAPD officers with foam projectiles, tear gas, flash-bang grenades and paintball-like weapons that waft pepper spray into the air. Despite years of costly lawsuits, oversight measures and promises by leaders to rein in indiscriminate use of force during protests, the LAPD once again faces sharp criticism and litigation over tactics used during the past two weeks. In a news conference at police headquarters last week, LAPD Chief Jim McDonnell promised 'a comprehensive review when this is all done,' while also defending officers he said were dealing with 'a very chaotic, dynamic situation.' Police officials said force was used only after a group of agitators began pelting officers with bottles, fireworks and other objects. At least a dozen police injuries occurred during confrontations, including one instance in which a protester drove a motorcycle into a line of officers. L.A. County prosecutors have charged several defendants with assault for attacks on law enforcement. Behind the scenes, according to communications reviewed by The Times and multiple sources who requested anonymity because they were not authorized to speak publicly, tensions sometimes ran high between LAPD commanders and City Hall officials, who pushed for restraint in the early hours of the protests downtown. On June 6 — the Friday that the demonstrations began — communication records show Mayor Karen Bass made calls to LAPD Capt. Raul Jovel, the incident commander, and to McDonnell. In the days that followed, sources said Bass or members of her senior staff were a constant presence at a command post in Elysian Park, from where local and federal officials were monitoring the on-the-ground developments. Some LAPD officials have privately grumbled about not being allowed to make arrests sooner, before protesters poured into downtown. Although mostly peaceful, a handful of those who flooded the streets vandalized shops, vehicles and other property. LAPD leaders have also pointed out improvements from past years, including restrictions on the use of bean-bag shotguns for crowd control and efforts to more quickly release people who were arrested. But among longtime LAPD observers, the latest protest response is widely seen as another step backward. After paying out millions over the last decade for protest-related lawsuits, the city now stares down another series of expensive court battles. 'City leaders like Mayor Bass [are] conveniently saying, 'Oh this is Trump's fault, this is the Feds' fault.' No, take a look at your own force,' said longtime civil rights attorney James DeSimone, who filed several excessive force government claims against the city and the county in recent days. A spokesperson for Bass didn't immediately respond to a request for comment. McDonnell — a member of the LAPD command staff during an aggressive police crackdown on immigrant rights demonstrators on May Day in 2007 — found himself on the defensive during an appearance before the City Council last week, when he faced questions about readiness and whether more could have been done to prevent property damage. 'We'll look and see, are there training issues, are there tactics [issues], are there less-lethal issues that need to be addressed,' McDonnell told reporters a few days later. One of the most potentially embarrassing incidents occurred during the 'No Kings' rally Saturday, when LAPD officers could be heard on a public radio channel saying they were taking friendly fire from L.A. County sheriff's deputies shooting less-lethal rounds. Three LAPD sources not authorized to speak publicly confirmed the incident occurred. A spokesperson for the Sheriff's Department said in a statement that the agency 'has not received reports of any 'friendly fire' incidents.' Some protesters allege LAPD officers deliberately targeted individuals who posed no threat. Shakeer Rahman, a civil rights attorney and community organizer with the Stop LAPD Spying Coalition, said he was monitoring a demonstration snaking past LAPD headquarters on June 8 when he witnessed two colleagues who were demanding to know an officer's badge number get shot with a 40mm less-lethal launcher at close range. In a recording he shared of the incident, Rahman can be heard confronting the officer, who threatens to fire as he paces back and forth on an elevated platform. 'I'm gonna pop you right now, because you're taking away my focus,' the officer is heard saying before raising his weapon over the glass partition that separated them and firing two foam rounds at Rahman, nearly striking him in his groin. 'It's an officer who doesn't want to be questioned and knows he can get away with firing these shots,' said Rahman, who noted a 2021 court injunction bans the use of 40mm launchers in most crowd-control situations. Later on June 8, as clashes between officers and protesters intensified in other parts of downtown, department leaders authorized the use of tear gas against a crowd — a common practice among other agencies, but one that the LAPD hasn't used in decades. 'There was a need under these circumstances to deploy it when officers started taking being assaulted by commercial fireworks, some of those with shrapnel in them,' McDonnell said to The Times. 'It's a different day, and we use the tools we are able to access.' City and state leaders arguing against Trump's deployment of soldiers to L.A. have made the case that the LAPD is better positioned to handle demonstrations than federal forces. They say local cops train regularly on tactics beneficial to crowd control, including de-escalation, and know the downtown terrain where most demonstrations occur. But numerous protesters who spoke with The Times said they felt the LAPD officers were quicker to use violence than they have been at any point in recent years. Raphael Mamoun, 36, followed the June 8 march from City Hall to the federal Metropolitan Detention Center on Alameda Street. Mamoun, who works in digital security, said his group eventually merged with other demonstrators and wound up bottlenecked by LAPD near the intersection of Temple and Alameda, where a stalemate with LAPD officers ensued. After roughly an hour, he said, chaos erupted without warning. 'I don't know if they made any announcement, any dispersal order, but basically you had like a line of mounted police coming behind the line of cops that were on foot and then they just started charging, moving forward super fast, pushing people, screaming at people, shooting rubber bullets,' he said. Mamoun's complaints echoed those of other demonstrators and observations of Times reporters at multiple protest scenes throughout the week. LAPD dispersal orders were sometimes only audible when delivered from an overhead helicopter. Toward the end of Saturday's hours-long 'No Kings' protests, many demonstrators contended officers used force against crowds that had been relatively peaceful all day. The LAPD's use of horses has also raised widespread concern, with some protesters saying the department's mounted unit caused injuries and confusion rather than bringing anything resembling order. One video captured on June 8 by independent journalist Tina-Desiree Berg shows a line of officers on horseback advance into a crowd while other officers fire less-lethal rounds at protesters shielding themselves with chairs and road signs. A protester can be seen falling to the ground, seemingly injured. The mounted units continue marching forward even as the person desperately tries to roll out of the way. Several horses trample over the person's prone body before officers arrest them. At other scenes, mounted officers were weaving through traffic and running up alongside vehicles that were not involved with the demonstrations. In one incident on June 10, a Times reporter saw a mounted officer smashing the roof of a car repeatedly with a wooden stick. 'It just seems like they are doing whatever the hell they want to get protesters, and injure protesters,' Mamoun said. Audrey Knox, 32, a screenwriter and teacher, was also marching with the City Hall group on June 8. She stopped to watch a tense skirmish near the Grand Park Metro stop when officers began firing projectiles into the crowd. Some protesters said officers fired less-lethal rounds into groups of people in response to being hit with flying objects. Although she said she was well off to the side, she was still struck in the head by one of the hard-foam rounds. Other demonstrators helped her get to a hospital, where Knox said she received five staples to close her head wound. In a follow-up later in the week, a doctor said she had post-concussion symptoms. The incident has made her hesitant to demonstrate again, despite her utter disgust for the Trump administration's actions in Los Angeles. 'It just doesn't seem smart to go back out because even when you think you're in a low-risk situation, that apparently is not the case,' she said. 'I feel like my freedom of speech was directly attacked, intentionally.' Times staff writers Julia Wick, Connor Sheets and Richard Winton contributed to this report.

I'm exhausted by attempts to pretend discrimination doesn't exist in America
I'm exhausted by attempts to pretend discrimination doesn't exist in America

USA Today

time3 hours ago

  • USA Today

I'm exhausted by attempts to pretend discrimination doesn't exist in America

Mary-Frances Winters defined the term 'Black fatigue' in her book of the same name, describing it as a form of psychological and emotional exhaustion from persistent racism and microaggressions. You know what I'm tired of? The MAGA movement twisting and co-opting language used to help Americans cope with racism and turning it back on them. The latest example is "Black fatigue." In 2020, author Mary-Frances Winters defined the term in her book of the same name, describing it as a form of psychological and emotional exhaustion from persistent racism and microaggressions. This fatigue can impact one's mental and spiritual well-being, and if left unaddressed, it could also affect physical health and shorten life expectancy. Today, the term has been co-opted by the right – and even people unwittingly using it against themselves. For instance, when five girls attack a woman at the opening night of the Milwaukee Night Market, it is labeled "Black fatigue." When some boys drive recklessly in a stolen car, it is also called "Black fatigue." When a 39-year-old man is arrested in the shooting of a Milwaukee police officer, you guessed it. I reached out to Winters, 74, who said she was not surprised to learn the MAGA crowd had co-opted the term. However, she is disheartened that some are using it against their fellow African Americans. Opinion: I remember my first Juneteenth. It's more than a Black holiday. While it's understandable for people to feel frustrated and speak out when they witness something bad happen, it's important to recognize that no single group has a monopoly on bad behavior. The bigger question is why do Black people often find themselves under greater scrutiny? I believe we know the answer to that. Real 'Black fatigue' gives voice to microaggressions, systemic racism This disparity is precisely why Winters coined the term in the first place, capturing the struggles faced by the Black community in a world that is quick to pass judgment. Ironically, the movement co-opting the term is the one inflicting the pain by pretending bigotry doesn't exist by President Donald Trump's attempt to erase diversity, equity and inclusion programs. Opinion: Trump worries more about South Africa's nonexistent genocide than real US racism When Winters' book was released, America was grappling with a global pandemic and confronting systemic racism after the death of George Floyd at the hands of Minneapolis police officer Derek Chauvin, who sparked nationwide protests. When she was writing the book, many expressed to Winters, the founder and CEO of The Winters Group, Inc., a 40-year-old global organization development and DEI consulting firm, that they felt exhausted by microaggressions, conveying a sense of pressure to excel at work but thought they were only making minimal progress. Think of it as constantly walking on a new carpet. Over time, you don't realize how the fibers are worn down until you compare before-and-after pictures and see how your repeated steps have diminished the carpet's beauty. That's what racism does. Since Trump took office again, Winters noted that real Black fatigue has intensified due to his rhetoric and policies, which have escalated racial tensions and eroded civil rights protections, further compounding a long history of unacknowledged, unaddressed racism and discrimination. 'He's hurting people. Just think about all the government jobs that have been eliminated," Winters said. "A lot of those employees were Black men and women who now must figure out what they want to do." MAGA uses concept to perpetuate negative, racist stereotypes There are dozens of videos online featuring people discussing the co-opted concept of Black fatigue, and to be honest, it makes me angry. It's not surprising, though, as there are even more videos and websites seemingly dedicated to showcasing the worst behaviors. Sites like and 'Ghetto Fights' often highlight instances of fighting, or just being unkind to each other. Given that our country is so hypersegregated, it's no wonder that people watch these clips and conclude this is representative. And the thing that is so tiring is how the term has been twisted so silently. Dynasty Ceasar, a local community activist who has studied race and racism, was unaware that the definition had changed. She described the issue as 'complex and sensitive,' making it difficult to grasp. 'We need to be mindful of the impact of such statements and avoid language that reinforces negative stereotypes or internalizes racism,' Ceasar said. It's important to clarify that I'm not suggesting that Black people should avoid accountability for their negative actions. What I mean is that everyone, regardless of their race, should be held accountable for their actions but should not be subjected to a different standard than anyone else. It's easy to fall into the trap and use the term incorrectly When I spoke to Winters, I had to be entirely transparent and shared with her that I had inadvertently fallen into the trap. I shared an incident I witnessed while shopping at Plato's Closet, a resale shop in Greenfield. I was about to buy some shoes when I noticed an elderly White woman with her grandson. She was purchasing a pair of sunglasses for him, and I let them skip ahead of me in line because her grandson was very antsy. While we were waiting, a Black woman was selling some shoes and seemed unhappy with what was being offered to her. When the cashier called for the next customer, the older woman accidentally bumped into her, which sparked a verbal altercation. The Black woman began cursing, expressing her frustration about people who bump into her without saying "excuse me." Although the older woman apologized, it only seemed to escalate the situation, as the woman continued to curse and insult her. After both women left the store, several employees asked what had just happened, and I felt compelled to explain the situation. After the incident, I called my cousin and mentioned that I had experienced "Black fatigue" because I felt that the woman's behavior was out of line. My cousin told me that I was misusing the term. Winters and Ceasar both agreed that racism is rarely the result of a single action; it is much more complex than that. While they did not condone the actions of the woman for shouting, Ceasar acknowledged that her outburst might have stemmed from the many times she had been ignored, overlooked as if she did not exist, or made to feel devalued. If Black fatigue can negatively impact on a person's mind, body and spirit, it can also lead to diminished emotional well-being, sometimes manifesting as outbursts to seek acknowledgment. If you find yourself using the term to express disappointment about something bad happening in the world, take a moment to consider how you express that. If your feelings are not specifically related to race, then your fatigue may not be about racial issues at all. It might be about human nature. However, if you believe that only Black people are capable of negative actions and continue to use the term in that context, it might be necessary to reflect on your own biases. That's what I'm tired of. James E. Causey is an Ideas Lab reporter at the Milwaukee Journal Sentinel, where this column originally appeared. Reach him at jcausey@jrnhttps:// or follow him on X: @jecausey

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