Romance concierge reveals five tips for a memorable marriage proposal

Daily Mail​

2 days ago

A marriage proposal is widely considered one of the most magical moments of a person's life - and, for many couples, a destination proposal at a romantic location only elevates the landmark occasion.
According to Simone Visconti, Romance Concierge at Four Seasons Resort Seychelles and Four Seasons Resort Seychelles at Desroches Islan, the moment isn't just about the setting, it's about creating something that outlives the proposal.
He tells Daily Mail: 'Whether you've been carrying the ring for weeks or just starting to plan your moment, here's what you really need to know before asking the most important question of your life in paradise.'
Do: Plan ahead - but keep room for spontaneity
Simone insists on 'thoughtful planning' as this helps lay the foundation for a unique and memorable proposal - but it's equally important to leave room for unexpected magic.
He explains: 'Maybe it's proposing a day early because the sunset is too perfect to miss or switching locations for a more intimate setting.
'Flexibility not only allows you to embrace the magic of a destination but ensures the experience feels authentic rather than scripted.'
Don't: Try to do it all yourself
When planning a marriage proposal, especially in an unfamiliar place, its important to not try to do everything yourself.
According to Simone, enlisting help in a professional planner can alleviate stress and ensure a more memorable and personalised experience.
He adds: 'Let the concierge team take the logistics off your plate, handle the unexpected and ensure every detail aligns with your vision.
'They know the location best so allow them to guide you with their expertise so you can focus on what truly matters.'
Do: Let the setting tell part of your story
Visconti encourages couples to choose a proposal location based on its ability to be an integral part of their love story.
This not only reflects the significance of the moment, it elevates the general mood of the occasion.
He explains: 'Whether it's a mountaintop at sunrise because you both love hiking or a candlelit dinner under the stars with our favorite meal, let the setting do some of the storytelling.'
Don't: Get too caught up in perfection
A genuine marriage proposal, even if not perfectly executed, will be cherished and favored over a meticulously planned but impersonal one.
According to Simone, it's important to focus on creating a moment that is authentic to your relationship rather that trying to make it flawless.
He adds: 'Everything will fall into place if you focus on connection over choreography and trust your instincts.'
Do: Create a memory that lasts beyond the moment
To make a marriage proposal memorable and create a lasting memory, focus on pausing and appreciating the moment after the 'big yes'.
Simone suggests making a memory with something mutually meaningful and enjoyable.
This could be anything from a floating breakfast the following morning to a romantic spa experience, or a helicopter ride over the ocean.
He adds: 'And never underestimate the joy of returning to your villa to discover a thoughtful surprise waiting for you, whether it's a drawn bath with petals, a personalised dessert, or a handwritten note that seals the memory.'