I charge my husband to be a stay-at-home wife – I get £800 a month for one chore alone, people call me disgusting for it
A WIFE has sparked debate online after revealing she charges her husband to be a stay-at-home mum – but many are questioning whether she's serious or just joking.
The woman, known as ' thewoodys6 ' on TikTok, claimed in a video that she is "basically" the breadwinner of the family, detailing how she invoices her husband for household tasks and personal luxuries.
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She claimed to receive £800 a month for washing and ironing, along with £10 a day for mopping the floors.
For home-cooked meals, she said she charges £300, although her husband can opt for microwave meals at a reduced cost.
The mum also claimed she earns £85 for dusting, £20 a day for changing their super king-sized bed, and £250 for fuel so she can treat herself to brunch outings.
In addition, she said she invoices her husband £400 for luxuries such as hair and nail appointments, plus £150 for cooking meals for their children, cheekily adding: 'don't tell him I basically just feed the children chicken and chips.'
The video, which has gained 181.6k views within two days of being shared, has left viewers divided, with some questioning if the arrangement is genuine or simply a tongue-in-cheek joke.
The video also gathered 1,129 comments as many rushed to share their thoughts.
One asked: 'Is this serious?' to which the mum replied agreeing.
A second commented: 'All the wives taking notes like…'
And a third said: 'Only £800 for the washing and ironing babes that needs to go to a £1000 especially if he's in the trade, screws are breaking our washing machine.'
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While someone else wrote: 'I would divorce you in. an instant.
"Definitely not value for money.'
A TikToker added: 'Girl you need to charge more for the cooking!'
Secret to a happy marriage
Six heartfelt chats, three scenic strolls, and the occasional fiery argument – that's what makes a marriage tick, according to research.
The study, which surveyed 2,000 happily married Brits, also highlighted the importance of quality time together, with couples reaping the benefits of two short breaks and two longer holidays each year.
Physical affection plays a big role too, as the happiest couples reportedly enjoy sex five times a week, say 'I love you' 20 times every two weeks, share daily kisses, and cuddle 11 times a week.
The research, commissioned by Warner Leisure Hotels, also uncovered 50 key ingredients for a successful marriage, ranging from pursuing your own passions to embracing each other's flaws and finding joy in being playful and silly together.
Other essentials include being a sounding board for work complaints, openly expressing pride in your partner, and always showing respect when in the company of others.
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Amy Schumer and Chris Fischer: the american comedian actress and celebrity chef tied the knot confirmed their relationship in February 2018 and were married within days. But just a few years later the couple, who share a child, seperated.
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