'Irrational' mum returns puppy to breeder just one day after adoption
A woman has sparked a debate on social media after confessing she made a "big mistake" by buying a cockapoo puppy, only to return him to the breeder the following day.
Mum Becky expressed her sorrow at having to give back the puppy, whom she had intended to name Blue, admitting she "hasn't made the right decision" in getting the young dog.
"I've been so lucky that the breeder has agreed to take him back," she shared tearfully while embracing the puppy in a TikTok video.
"I just don't think it's the right timing. I've got work to do, and I just made a really irrational decision and it's one that I'm not going to be able to live with. I'm about to take him back. Lesson learned I think."
In the widely viewed clip, which has attracted over 200,000 views, Becky explained that she "needed to be free" and believed the puppy would "fill a void".
"Before I get attached and before the kids get attached, he's got to go back," she stated. The video creator later disabled comments following criticism for her actions, reports the Mirror.
One individual commented: "This proves that not everyone should be allowed to have pets and there should be stricter regulations for people that buy dogs off breeders. A dog is forever not a day."
Another questioned: "Why on earth would you decide this after one day?".
To these remarks, Becky responded: "I had thought long and hard about getting a puppy. I thought I was ready to have this dog. What should I have done? Should I have kept him and pretended everything was fine?"
Despite facing criticism, the woman received a wave of encouragement from many who believed she had made the correct decision. One supporter commented: "Good for you making such a hard decision. As a breeder, I always say please return if you are not happy."
Another remarked: "What a wonderfully selfless and compassionate thing you did taking that puppy back to the breeder. Recognising that you are not in the right place to give him what he needs is refreshing."
Welcoming a pup into the home can be delightful for some, but as pet experts note, the phenomenon of "puppy blues" is commonly experienced by new owners. Animal Friends Pet Insurance defines this as "the unexpected negative emotions triggered after bringing home a new puppy."
These feelings often stem from the overwhelming reality of newfound responsibility to the exhaustion due to disrupted sleep and demanding training routines.
Symptoms You Might Be Suffering from Puppy Blues
For those who are finding themselves battling these emotions, there is encouraging news that this period is usually short-lived. The insurance firm points out that "the first few weeks are the most challenging," and it is quite standard to experience some regret after acquiring a puppy initially.
A representative from Dogs Trust, the UK's leading dog welfare charity, informed The Mirror: "Whilst we'd always encourage people to consider adopting a dog, we know that some people will choose to buy a puppy, particularly if they have their heart set on a particular breed.
"The first few weeks after you bring your new puppy home is such an exciting time, they bring such joy and are bound to put a smile on your face. However, looking after any dog, particularly a young dog, is a huge responsibility which requires time, energy, patience, and money.
"There is information on the Dogs Trust website on what to consider before getting a dog or puppy, and the charity also has a free Behaviour Support Line for any dog owner, not just those who adopt from Dogs Trust, who have any concerns about caring for their dog."
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