A wild confession: watching my Dad's grief tapes
Life in the family home was like an ongoing circus, orchestrated by his wildly extroverted Dad, who loved to record family life on home video. In an earlier life Richard was an acclaimed photographer, and he continued to document the beautiful and ordinary moments in the Crawley family as James grew up.
His dad was relentlessly positive and so when Carol became very ill, Richard struggled to accept the diagnosis.
Some years after Carol's death, at Christmas, James sat down and watched 35 hours of tapes of his father talking to the camera alone about his grief. The tapes were a record of the devastating, surreal and sometimes transformative nature of grief.
James then decided to make his own documentary about grief, his charismatic Dad and his family's life before and after Carol's passing.
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