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Women Are Sharing The Things In Dating They Simply Won't Put Up With Anymore, And Honestly, Good For Them
Dating can be complicated and messy, but with each experience, ideally, you learn what you want and don't want in a future relationship. In r/AskWomen, a Redditor asked, "What's something you used to put up with in dating that you would never tolerate now?" The lessons were fresh and insightful. Here's what people had to say: 1."The silent treatment." —hhhaaaiii17 "No more begging to talk things through. Silence is also a message." —ScoreBusy4259 2."Low emotional intelligence." —plaid-blazer 3."The persecution complex. Every time I tried to talk through a conflict, he would implode with, 'So you think I'm a bad guy?' I will never tolerate that again. Either meet my concerns with equal concern as a partner or spill your insecurities to a therapist. I'm done comforting men who regularly hurt my feelings with their callousness." —oldmanpuzzles 4."Lack of effort." —gagirlpnw 5."Letting 'small' red flags of a person's character slide. When a guy makes snarky, sarcastic comments, or is passive-aggressive (whether to me or a server, etc.) I used to try to give them the benefit of the doubt, laugh it off, or ignore it. Only to find out later that the guy was holding back on those first few dates and is really an insecure, sarcastic asshole. Now, I have zero tolerance for that, and a red flag is a red flag no matter how small." —glitterglamandguts 6."Having to beg and fight for his attention and time." "In high school, I dated a lot of guys who would go days or weeks without texting or calling me, even on my birthday, or who I'd only see once a month. Then, I met my now-husband in college, and he was actively excited to spend time with me and talk to me. Sure, we have our own individual hobbies and spend time by ourselves, but we also genuinely enjoy being with each other." —Belle0516 7."Poor financial or business decisions." —themostresponsible 8."Never being willing to bend, and always doing things on his terms." —Immediate-Pool-4391 9."Going through the list of lessons learned from every ex..." "1. Cheating. Silent treatment. 2. Untreated mental illness. Shitty potential in-laws. Instability, both financially and emotionally. Bad housekeeping. Vaping. Poor boundary maintenance. Lack of friends outside of the relationship. He was a sweet guy and is a decent human being, but he had some serious issues that I was not equipped to handle. Never again. 3. Being an option, not a priority. Unbalanced effort and financial contributions. Weed. Bad oral hygiene. Schrodinger's jokes, especially at my expense. 4. Lack of responsibility for himself and his actions. Conspiracy theories. Questionable hygiene in general. Lack of ambition and direction. 5. Lack of commitment." —EcuaGirl21 10."Binge drinking/constant drinking." —copperandcrimson 11."Being criticized and judged for no good reason and having a competitive partner." —liquidnight247 12."Someone who is really insecure. My last two exes were like this. One of them constantly asked if I liked him while the other flirted with every girl he could." —babyangel21 13."Not being able to plan or make decisions. I used to date people like that. I was always the one deciding what to do, where we would go to eat. It's exhausting, and the 'I don't know, I don't care, you decide,' now gives me goosebumps. It should be shared." —applecakeandunicorns 14."Pestering me for sex after I said no." —Office_Warm 15."Situationships. If you don't like me enough to date me properly, then you don't like me enough." —Playful-Refuse-3824 16."Anyone who raises their voice and acts aggressively towards me, regardless of the situation." —Vivid_Economics_1462 17."Jealousy and insecurity, and a man not cleaning up after himself and living in a dirty place." Manuel Milan / Getty Images, Vovashevchuk / Getty Images —RedRose_812 18."Lack of self-awareness." —eloav 19."Badly managed mental illness. I have my own problems, I don't need a partner who treats me like their mommy and therapist in one." —PMmeBirdPics 20."Not being able to meet me halfway." "Like, I am chill with emotional baggage. You're insecure? Have trust issues? Struggle to assert yourself? Aren't good at expressing your emotions? That's fine. I am more than willing to do things differently to help you and make you feel comfortable, because I care about you. But I'm not going to sit here and reassure you or support you over and over and over again while you continue to keep doing those behaviors. I expect you to meet me halfway and to actually work on those issues. I'm not going to sit here and be villainized just because you'd rather react instead of act." —Sea_Client9991 21."I used to be so anxious when I was dating a new person. I used to stress over every single word I used in texts, and wonder if they thought I was annoying or that I wasn't good enough. I wasn't used to guys telling me they were interested, and I would feel like it was one-sided. My partner now made it clear from the get-go that he was interested in me, that he liked me, and that he wanted to get to know me and wanted to date me. There was never any confusion or worry. I never felt like I wasn't being too much or annoying." —efairchild97 lastly, "Being treated like I was lucky to have them. Now, I know I'm the prize." Any dating lessons or deal breakers to share? 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Woman Considers Ending Her Marriage Over a Bowl of Spaghetti
The woman says it's less about the spaghetti and more about not feeling considered in her relationshipNEED TO KNOW A woman shared that she's considering ending things with her wife over a bowl of spaghetti The woman says it's less about the spaghetti and more about not feeling considered in her relationship People online told her that she needs to communicate with her wifeA bowl of spaghetti may be "the straw that broke the camel's back" for one couple. On Reddit, a 35-year-old woman revealed that she's considering leaving her 34-year-old wife over a not-so-simple pasta dinner. The woman began her post by noting that she and her wife "usually cook separately." While the poster prefers meal prepping so she doesn't have to cook during the week, her wife likes to cook fresh meals every night, as she doesn't like eating the same meal consecutively. "Occasionally, we'll make dinner and eat together, but it's just not often," the Redditor writes. However, before dinner one night, the woman told her wife that she was "going to heat up some frozen fish" and asked if she wanted any, which she did. The poster then went for a 30-minute walk and planned on cooking when she got home, as neither of them was hungry yet. When she came back, she saw her wife was making spaghetti. "She said she was starting to get hungry, so started cooking," she writes. "I just assumed she was making some for both of us, since I was going to make something for her." However, her assumption was incorrect. "She literally made a single plate of spaghetti for just herself," the poster writes. "I don't even know how you do that. Any time I make pasta, I always end up with way more than I thought." Despite feeling "really hurt and uncared for," the poster didn't say anything and convinced herself that she was just "being overdramatic." However, a week has passed, and it's "still bothering" her. "I'm realizing this event is really just a metaphor for our whole relationship," the woman shares. "Stuff like this happens all the time and this is just the straw that broke the camels back." The woman then asked Reddit if she is "being too dramatic" about the situation. Most commenters suggested she may be blowing things out of proportion and encouraged her to communicate with her wife. "That seems annoying, but you're overreacting if it's not part of a pattern of behaviour. Talk to her," one person commented, to which the poster replied, reiterating, "No, it totally is part of a pattern, it's the straw that broke the camel's back kind of thing." Another person wrote, "I think you may be overreacting to the situation, but it sounds like you guys have deeper issues. Maybe try to steer the relationship towards more intimacy and partnership. But if the status quo is you are each responsible for your own food usually and you expressed you wanted fish, left, and she ended up hungry and making herself food. I don't see being upset about it." Read the original article on People Solve the daily Crossword
