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Victoria Monét Speaks at the BET Awards 2025 Media House in L.A., Plus Robert De Niro, Ben Stiller, Brie Larson and More

Victoria Monét Speaks at the BET Awards 2025 Media House in L.A., Plus Robert De Niro, Ben Stiller, Brie Larson and More

Yahoo08-06-2025
Stars have been everywhere this week. Victoria Monét speaks at the BET Awards 2025 Media House in L.A. Meanwhile, in New York City, Ben Stiller, Robert De Niro and Lily James attend screenings at the Tribeca Festival, and Brie Larson celebrates Super Nintendo World in Orlando, Fla.
Here are the best photos of celebs out and about this week. Come back tomorrow for more of the latest A-list outings!
Victoria Monét speaks during the BET Awards 2025 Media House at Quixote Studios West Hollywood in L.A. on June 7.
Teri Polo, Robert De Niro and Ben Stiller attend the Meet The Parents 25th anniversary screening during the 2025 Tribeca Festival in N.Y.C. on June 7.
Brie Larson attends the opening of Super Nintendo World at Universal Epic Universe in Orlando, Fla., on May 22.
Lily James smiles while on her way to the Relay screening at SVA Theater during Tribeca Festival in N.Y.C. on June 7.
Tyler Perry, BET EVP & Chief Marketing Officer Kimberly Paige, BET President & CEO Scott Mills and Tiyale Hayes attend the Los Angeles premiere of Tyler Perry's Divorced Sistas on June 6.
Shaboozey, Rita Wilson and Tom Hanks hang out backstage on day two of the 2025 CMA Fest at Nissan Stadium in Nashville on June 6.
Niecy Nash-Betts and her wife Jessica Betts (pictured left) make an elegant pair as they attend the Critics Choice Association's Celebration of LGBTQ+ Cinema & Television at Fairmont Century Plaza on June 6 in Los Angeles.
Lucy Liu embraces summer wearing a floral gown and matching cape at the premiere of her film Rosemead at the 2025 Tribeca Film Festival on June 6 in New York City.
Andrew Scott attends the CAA New York Party at Crane Club Restaurant in New York City on June 6.
Miley Cyrus signs autographs for fans at the premiere for her musical film Something Beautiful at the 2025 Tribeca Festival on June 6 in New York City.
Jelly Roll and Faith Hill pose for a photo backstage at the Nissan Stadium in Nashville during day two of the 2025 CMA Fest on June 6.
Shakira and Ozuna give a sizzling performance onstage during Shakira's Las Mujeres Ya No Lloran World Tour on June 6 in Miami Gardens, Florida.
Seth Meyers speaks onstage at the Comedians in Conversation: Comedy Specials FYC event held at AVALON Hollywood in Los Angeles on June 6.
Jennifer Beals is showstopping in pink as she attends the Through Her Lens: The Tribeca Chanel Women's Filmmaker Program event on June 6 in New York City.
Holly J. Barrett, Meg Donnelly, Alan Bersten and Emma Slater pose for a photo together at Disney's Mickey & Friends House of Mouse event on June 5 in Los Angeles.
Parker Posey arrives at Through Her Lens: The Tribeca Chanel Women's Filmmaker Program in a high-fashion fit in N.Y.C. on June 6.
Mindy Kaling smiles as the guest of Paley Media's council conversation in Beverly Hills, California, on June 5.
Olivia Munn opts for a loose shirt tucked into her jeans at Through Her Lens: The Tribeca Chanel Women's Filmmaker Program in New York City on June 6.
Nick Cannon is animated as he speaks onstage at WayMaker Men's Summit presented by BET Experience in Los Angeles on June 6.
Mariska Hargitay shows off her shades at the Through Her Lens: The Tribeca Chanel Women's Filmmaker Program in N.Y.C. on June 6.
Miley Cyrus and her mom Tish match in shades at the Through Her Lens program in New York City on June 6.
Carrie Coon and Celeste O'Connor meet at Chanel's Tribeca Festival Women's Luncheon in New York City on June 6.
Dustin Hoffman and his wife of nearly 45 years, Lisa, watch a men's semifinal match during Roland-Garros in Paris on June 6.
Eddie Redmayne and Hannah Bagshawe are invested in a match at Roland-Garros in Paris on June 6.
Benson Boone snaps a selfie with a fan as he's announced as JBL's global brand ambassador in N.Y.C. on June 6.
Emma Watson keeps it casual as she strolls around Paris on June 6.
Cynthia Erivo shines as she sings during the Today Citi Concert series in New York City on June 6.
La La Anthony arrives at La Placita de Bacardí in New York City wearing a see-through pink gown on June 5.
Wood Harris and Michael Cooper Jr. crack jokes onstage at the WayMaker Men's Summit in Los Angeles on June 5.
Whitney Rose and Heather Gay enjoy a drink at the BMI Block Party during CMA Fest in Nashville on June 5.
BigXthaPlug and Get Engaged's Cam Fordham host a kickback on the roof of Loser's in Nashville on June 4, attended by Shaboozey, Chris Comstock, Ella Langley and more.
Miley Cyrus and her boyfriend Maxx Morando hold hands as they leave an event in New York City on June 5.
Mariska Hargitay appears on the red carpet for the premiere of Kerouac's Road: The Beat Of A Nation at Tribeca Film Festival in New York City on June 5.
Beyoncé performs during the first night of her Cowboy Carter Tour's stop in London on June 5.
The White Lotus' Aimee Lou Wood and Patrick Schwarzenegger smile together at TheWrap's Visionaries Video Series taping in Los Angeles.
Prince William opts for a patterned suit during his visit to the Food and Farming Pavilion in Wadebridge, England, on June 6.
Amanda Seyfried, Olivia Rodrigo, Gabrielle Union and Rachel Bilson beam at Lancôme's Idôle House in New York City on June 5.
Leighton Meester and Rashida Jones hang out at Skäl and Fejre - Urban Jürgensen: The Next Generation in Los Angeles on June 5.
Also at Skäl and Fejre - Urban Jürgensen: The Next Generation, Scout Willis rocks a breezy mini-dress in L.A. on June 5.
Jane Fonda looks radiant at the 2025 Women's Media Awards in New York City on June 5.
Cynthia Erivo delivers a preppy look at The Late Show with Stephen Colbert in New York City on June 5.
Laverne Cox pops in a colorful outfit at the 2025 Fragrance Foundation Awards in New York City on June 5.
Alex Rodriguez wears a suit and tie to the 2025 Forbes Iconoclast Summit in New York City on June 5.
Colin Farrell and Kathy Bates share a sweet moment at the IndieWire Honors Television 2025 in L.A. on June 5.
Ben Stiller looks dapper in a black suit at the IndieWire Honors Television 2025 in Los Angeles on June 5.
Robert De Niro sits onstage during the Tribeca Lisboa Reception in New York City on June 5.
Whoopi Goldberg walks the carpet for the Tribeca Lisboa Reception in New York City on June 5.
Uma Thurman holds a bouquet while filming Dexter: Resurrection in New York City on June 5.
Sydney Sweeney shimmers in a jeweled black gown to chat about Echo Valley on The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon in N.Y.C. on June 5.
Andrew Rannells and Nick Kroll stop by The Tonight Show to promote their film I Don't Understand You in N.Y.C. on June 5.
A casual Emily Ratajkowski has her phone to her mouth while on a walk in New York City on June 5.
Dolly Parton serves swashbuckler at a dinner and show in Panama City, Florida, on June 5.
Elizabeth Teeter, McKenzie Kurtz and Olivia Hardy snap a group picture at a photo call for Heathers The Musical in New York City on June 5.
Kate Hudson grins from ear to ear at Newport Beach TV Fest in California on June 5.
Resident Alien costars Sara Tomko, Alan Tudyk and Alice Wetterlund are all smiles at the season 4 premiere in Los Angeles on June 5.
Kix Brooks and Ronnie Dunn meet up with Lainey Wilson at CMA Fest 2025 in Nashville on June 5.
Deborah Cox and Shoshana Bean meet with Clive Davis at The Apollo's ceremony honoring him in New York City on June 4.
Erin Lichy brings her baby to Bugaboo's Butterfly 2 launch event in New York City.
George Clooney sports a mitt and a softball as he joins the Broadway Show League for a game in New York City on June 5.
Dakota Johnson beams as she exits The Greenwich Hotel in New York City on June 5 during her press tour for Materialists.
Lori Harvey rocks an opulent set of pearls with her striped shirt while in West Hollywood, California, on June 5.
Travis Barker finishes the Rock 'n' Roll Half-Marathon in San Diego on June 1 with a time of 1:55:48.
A chic Sydney Sweeney pairs leather with a structured pastel top in New York City on June 5.
Elle Fanning holds a flute and slice of cake on the set of Margo's Got Money Troubles in Las Vegas on June 5.
Keith Urban proves blue is his color at the Spotify House at CMA Fest in Nashville on June 5.
Noah Cyrus opts for a dramatic frilly outfit while at SiriusXM's The Highway's Music Row Happy Hour: CMA Fest Edition in Nashville on June 5.
Morris Dickerson Jr. Jerry Goldstein, Laurian Miller, Lonnie Jordan, Lee Oskar, Howard E. Scott and Harold Ray Brown receive plaques honoring WAR at their Walk of Fame ceremony in Hollywood, California, on June 5.
Colbie Caillat belts a note at SiriusXM's The Highway's Music Row Happy Hour: CMA Fest Edition in Nashville on June 5.
Pat Benatar and Neil Giraldo perform during WhyHunger's 50th anniversary celebration at the Chapin Awards Gala in New York City on June 4.
Ahead of her Tony Awards' hosting gig, Cynthia Erivo takes in the New York City skyline at Top of the Rock on June 4.
Number 1 Happy Family USA co-creators Ramy Youssef and Pam Brady are all smiles at an FYC event in Los Angeles on June 4.
Piper Perabo rocks matching pants with her dress at the Maje High Summer Capsule Dinner in New York City on June 4.
Sunny Hostin and Forever creator and show runner Mara Brock Akil attend Netflix and Ludlow House's screening of the show in New York City on June 2.
Aimee Lou Wood and Patrick Schwarzenegger have a White Lotus reunion for a Venmo campaign.
Jaime King and Brendan Gabriel Murphy pose together at the Los Angeles premiere of their movie FLUXX on May 29.
Prince William visits the regiments for the first time as colonel-in-chief of the Army Air Corps in Wattisham, England.
Mariska Hargitay and Peter Hermann twin in black at the premiere of the documentary Billy Joel: And So It Goes in New York City on June 4.
Tom Hanks and Robert De Niro reunite at the premiere of Billy Joel: And So It Goes in New York City on June 4.
Sydney Sweeney and Julianne Moore channel their characters' mother-daughter energy at the premiere of their film Echo Valley in New York City on June 4.
Taraji P. Henson gears up for an appearance on The View in New York City on June 4 in New York City.
Shakira whips her hair during her Las Mujeres Ya No Lloran World Tour in Orlando on June 4.
Brianne Howey speaks onstage at an advance screening of season 3 of Ginny & Georgia in New York City on June 4.
Babyface and Monica present during the Apollo Theater Spring Benefit at the Apollo Theater on June 4 in New York City.
Busta Rhymes performs at the Apollo Theater's Spring Benefit on June 4 in New York City.
Ben Fuller brings out Carrie Underwood at his concert in Nashville to debut his song "If It Was Up to Me" on June 3.
Lainey Wilson shows off her cowboy boots at the launch of her new boot line, Golden West Boots, in Nashville on June 4.
Shaboozey and Ella Langley link up at Golden West Boots' launch in Nashville on June 4.
Whoopi Goldberg attends the premiere of the documentary Billy Joel: And So It Goes on June 4 in New York City.
Wendi McLendon-Covey, Abby Elliott and Christa Miller pose for a group shot during TheWrap's Women of Comedy event in Beverly Hills, California on June 4.
Brenda Song looks radiant at TheWrap's Women of Comedy event in Beverly Hills, California on June 4.
Iliza Shlesinger attends TheWrap's Women of Comedy event in Beverly Hills, California on June 4.
Macklemore hits the stage in Dublin, Ireland on June 4.
Margaret Josephs and Dolores Catania of The Real Housewives of New Jersey look ready for summer during an appearance at the SiriusXM studios on June 4 in New York City.
Annie Murphy speaks on the The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon in New York City on June 4.
Benson Boone rocks double denim while on The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon on June 4.
Miley Cyrus poses backstage on The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon on June 4.
Dua Lipa performs onstage during her Radical Optimism World Tour in Amsterdam on June 4.
Jeff Goldblum and his wife Emilie Livingston are a dashing pair as they attend the McKim Medal Gala 2025 in Rome on June 4.
Sydney Sweeney greets fans before an appearance on Good Morning America in New York City on June 4.
Bryce Dallas Howard is all smiles at the Deep Cover premiere in London on June 4.
Katy Perry jams out at the Lifetimes Tour in Sydney on June 4.
Julianne Moore rocks a pantsuit as she heads into Good Morning America in New York City on June 4.
Whoopi Goldberg promotes her new hemp drink, Whoop-Tea, at the Cannabis Means Business Conference in New York City on June 4.
Mary Holland Nader, Sarah Jane Nader, Grace Ann Nader and Brooks Nader pose for a family shot at the Influencer Social Responsibility Pride Dinner hosted by Sarah on June 4 in New York City.
Aaron Taylor-Johnson strikes a quick pose as he arrives at the Cinema MK2 in Paris on June 4.
Halle Berry looks casual while out and about with boyfriend Van Hunt in New York City on June 4.
Iliza Shlesinger poses at an FYC event for her standup special Iliza Shlesinger: A Different Animal in Los Angeles on June 4.
Sasha Pieterse rocks red at the American Heart Association's CPR & AED Awareness Week event in Los Angeles on June 3.
Zoe Saldaña stuns in a monochromatic look in New York City on June 4.
Orlando Bloom attends the premiere of Deep Cover in London on June 4.
Martha Stewart is off hosting duty with Cameron Forbes and Susan Magrino at Magrino's Summer Soiree in New York City on June 3.
Harry Hamlin serves up his Sunday Sauce at Food Bank for New York City's Community Kitchen Family Dinner.
Tyler Perry and Taraji P. Henson have some fun together at the New York premiere of Straw at The Edwardian Room at The Plaza on June 3.
Ciara and her mini-me daughter Sienna Princess Wilson are twinning at the Black Women in Music Dinner hosted by The Connie Orlando Foundation at Audrey Irmas Pavillion in L.A. on June 3.
Ana de Armas blows a kiss at the L.A. premiere of From the World of John Wick: Ballerina on June 3 at TCL Chinese Theatre in L.A.
Joe Jonas steps out in London for the opening of the "To Distraction" exhibition by Rex Southwick with Givenchy Beauty at Unit Gallery on June 3.
Alexandra Grant and Keanu Reeves bring date night to the L.A. premiere of From the World of John Wick: Ballerina at the TCL Chinese Theatre in L.A. on June 3.
Brianne Howey stops by The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon on June 3 in New York City.
Bryce Dallas Howard flashes a smile and a wave while out in London promoting her movie Deep Cover on June 4.
Kaitlin Olson strikes a pose at Disney FYC Fest event for High Potential at the DGA Theater in L.A. on June 2.
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