What Is Floodlighting And Am I Guilty Of Doing It?
Ever been on a date where someone trauma dumps their breakups, difficult childhood or mental health struggles all before your entrée arrives? You might've been floodlighted. We hear your experiences of oversharing to test the waters, speed up intimacy, or filter out people who can't 'handle' your shit - and whether this kind of radical honesty is actually just manipulative.
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Floodlighting explained by a psychologist: https://www.forbes.com/sites/traversmark/2025/03/13/gen-zs-new-dating-trend-floodlighting-explained-by-a-psychologist/
Oversharing on social media: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/00332941221122861
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