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What gives gardeners the ‘ick'?

What gives gardeners the ‘ick'?

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I am forcing myself to live with the garden I inherited when I moved to Kent last November. Everyone (including me) says that you need to do this to avoid making major mistakes. It's a universal law of gardening and yet — oh my — it requires a level of self-control that most of us do not possess. And alas, this is very much the case with me.
It's not the big stuff, by which I mean the trees and the overall structure. My experience when I moved all those years ago to my last garden, in Bakewell, taught me that. I've written before about how my first instinct, when faced with a front garden dominated by a majestic weeping birch, was that the tree needed to go. Actually, it didn't (the tree man told us). We took his advice and, gradually, fell in love with the very thing we had wanted to remove. It even provided copious twigs for my wreath-making.
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