BREAKING NEWS Wayne Carey outs himself as the footy star in 'wine bar toilet' viral video everyone in Melbourne is talking about - as he furiously slams women who filmed it: 'S**t shaming'

Daily Mail​

16-07-2025

Footy great Wayne Carey has confessed he is the man shown in a viral video that allegedly featured a man and woman emerging from a bathroom after a sexual encounter in a trendy Melbourne bar.
The North Melbourne premiership winner said he has contacted police in an effort to have the people who filmed and distributed the video held accountable.
The footage, which was taken at the Toorak Cellars bar in Armadale - shows Carey and the unnamed woman walking into view around 20 seconds apart.
A woman's voice is heard saying 'we've got you on camera' as the woman walks past, before asking 'What's he doing in there?' and remarking, 'She looks embarrassed.'
Carey and the woman depicted in the clip - which has been doing the rounds on social media over the last few days - have lashed out furiously over the video, with the ex-AFL star branding it 's**t shaming' and cyberbullying and both parties insisting there was no 'tryst' in the toilets.
'Annoyed is the wrong word, I've gone through about 10 different emotions in the last three days,' he said on the You Cannot Be Serious podcast.
'I've gone through disbelief, sadness, I've gone through anger.
'This woman has been thrown into this just because I could kick a footy.
'And you've got two vile, disturbing, probably p**sed women who want to do this to another woman.
'That's all they were doing, they were s**t-shaming another woman.
'If two men had done that they would be raked over hot coals, it would be the biggest story going around.
'But because it's two women doing it to another woman … you don't know what's going on, this other woman has had all sorts of stuff going in her life, I've since found out.
'You talk about vile and disgusting, what they've done and who they have affected by a few sh**s and giggles drinking their chardonnay, sitting up there, doing whatever.
'Once again, I'm not going to name them because that would be as pathetic as what they are. I'll let the law take care of it.'
The AFL great (pictured with Jessica Paulke) revealed he has contacted police about the footag and is now going to 'let the law take care of it'
Carey also said his partner Jessica Paulke had spoken to the woman in the footage to support her in her efforts to have the people who filmed the video held accountable.
Paulke also messaged the people behind the filming and distribution of the video, warning that she and Carey had 'contacted esafety commission to have this content removed'.
The woman shown in the footage also lashed out on social media.
'Shame on you women, we are better than that,' she wrote.
'It [a tryst] did not happen, but that's not the point. It's time that narrative changed.'
Carey added that one of the women's claim that she heard people 'grunting like pigs' just before the video was taken is 'completely made-up crap' and said they were warned not to post the video on social media.
'This other woman has had an horrific few months. She's lost her parents, she's split up from a partner and these two women think it's OK to film her and slut shame her online and post it online,' he said.
'What sort of penalty should these two women get?
'We [he and the woman in the video] are speaking and we will follow this through to the nth degree.
'I'm blown away that women in their 40s could think this was a good idea.
'How would they explain this to their children?'