This polyamorous couple has a ‘sex calendar' — it keeps things ‘organised and balanced'
One polyamorous couple has a calendar solely for them to figure out when each of them could get it on with their partners.
Kel Macettare, 41 and Bruno Cordisco, 42, were high school sweethearts who are now happily married with two sons — Henry, 19 and Hector, 13, according to Jam Press.
3 Kel Macettare, 41 and Bruno Cordisco have known each other since they were in high school.
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They sound like any other regular family of four — except for the fact that each of the parents has a significant other with whom they schedule sex for.
Macettare and Machado opened their marriage after checking out a swingers' club — which led them to meet Diego Machado and Jennifer de Faria.
Machado lives in the family's home in Florianópolis, Brazil, while Fairia visits regularly on the weekends — and the clan is one happy group.
3 The couple has since opened up their relationship to include other people.
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To keep things organized, the group has a family calendar on the fridge that shows everyone's daily chores and responsibilities.
And of course, the adults have a separate schedule just for their eyes that outlines their sexy time.
Monday through Friday, Macettare and Cordisco focus on their relationship — and on the weekends, the couple spends time with each of their partners.
3 The group has a 'sex calendar,' which keeps things organized and balanced.
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'Kel and I have an intense chemistry and we're intimate every day,' Cordisco told NeedToKnow.
'Since we dedicate weekends to our other partners, it builds up the anticipation and desire between us during the week.'
When Macettare started to feel left out — the two couples decided to split all of their time equally, and that's how the idea of the 'sex calendar' came to be.
'In the beginning, Jennifer was spending a lot of time with Bruno, and I felt like we were losing our private connection,' Macettare explained.
'That's when we came up with the sex schedule, so everyone could stay organised and things could feel more balanced.'
She said the idea helped improve their communication and sex life.
Sometimes, each of the couples will leave the house to stay at a motel or even rent a home to have their alone time.
'When all four of us are home, we split into separate rooms,' Macettare said.
This group isn't the only ones who schedule sex — an Upper West Side couple, Jay and Sofia Lyons, also admitted to doing this and loving it.
'It's made our relationship one million times better,' Jay, an Emmy-winning director and producer, told The Post. 'It's the glue that keeps your marriage close — it's very difficult to have a bad marriage when you're regularly having sex.'
The duo has been marking their calendars for some hanky panky shortly after they got married and had two kids in the 1990s.
'It makes your spouse feel appreciated and special,' said Sofia, a professional singer.
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So if you need a break from the festivities, stop by the restaurant to order from their specially curated menu, which includes guacamole and tortilla chips for $12, wild shrimp tacos for $18, a Paloma cocktail for $14 and specific wines for $12. Yes, access to Spinning Sunset is free, but you'll want to RSVP for the chance to win an array of prizes including a one-night stay and breakfast for two at the Mondrian, along with drinks for two at the hotel's Skybar. Other prizes include gift cards to WeHo restaurants like the buzzy Dialog Cafe and Katana, and complimentary bottle service and entry to Keys nightclub. Guests will be required to take a photo at the fair and tag @thesunsetstrip to complete their entry for the giveaway. Winners will be selected via the Instagram page within 24 hours of the event. Attendance is required to claim your prize. 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