
Parents must know what schools are teaching about sex
Transparency helps to reassure sceptical parents. Those who are shown worksheets and lesson plans in advance are four times more likely to say they are comfortable with what is being taught than parents who are kept in the dark. Most schools get this right and understand the importance of talking to parents but from next year there will be no wriggle room.
Across the relationships and sex education curriculum parents should be shown what is being taught and displayed in class: this is a nudge in the right direction towards transparency and is a welcome development for parents.
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Requiring some sort of consent from parents, even if they don't have a veto, acts as an emergency brake on sex education they think is inappropriate. If a parent is uneasy with what a school is planning to teach, they have the right to withdraw their child as a last resort. Department for Education edicts make it clear this should only ever be done after speaking to the school, a sensible position that strikes the right balance and protects parents.
Good communication with parents reassures them and makes 'sex ed' less contentious. Most schools do a good job but according to a recent poll of parents published by Parentkind, the charity I run, a quarter of parents say there has been a breakdown of trust between parents and teachers. This means parents are more likely to be worried about what is being taught or shown to their children.
In the battle over who decides what is suitable material for our children we should always side with parents. They are the best judges of what is age-appropriate for their children, which is why we need an unambiguous expectation of transparency when it comes to sex education. In backing these new rights, Bridget Phillipson, the education secretary, has shown she is on the side of parents.
Jason Elsom is chief executive of Parentkind, the UK's largest parenting charity
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