Why I ditched the US in my fifties and moved to this colourful European city
In 2023, Cheryl Orlov sold or gave away most of her possessions, including her home and vehicles, packed eight suitcases and made the 'life-changing' decision to move to another part of the world.
Having spent more than over 32 years running a furniture store in the South Bay region of California, Orlov admitted she lived a 'comfortable' life surrounded by loved ones, but felt an insatiable 'pull' toward travel.
But despite visiting over 40 countries across all seven continents over the years, there were a a number of destinations that hadn't yet reached the business owner's radar - such as Albania.
Following a relationship break-up in March 2022, she decided to take the opportunity to start afresh and move to Albania's capital, Tirana.
Writing for International Living in March, Orlov explained she first discovered the country whilst reading articles and watching videos about far-flung destinations.
She began researching the holiday hotspot, and was left impressed by its slower-paced lifestyle, its diverse, natural beauty and the unmatched hospitality of its local people.
In September 2022, Orlov organised a scouting trip to Albania, where she was left awestruck by breathtaking views of the country's 'rugged' landscape and 'sparkling' shores.
She added: 'It reminded me of the California I had always wished to see before rapid development took over. I saw a different quality of life.'
Drawn to its delicious cuisines, warm hospitality and proximity to other European destinations on her bucket list, Orlov decided to make Albania her new home the following year.
Since moving to Tirana, the seasoned solo traveller now enjoys a 'vibrant' social life, opts to 'walk everywhere' instead of driving, and pays significantly less for rent in comparison to California.
She said: 'I rent a two-bedroom apartment in Tirana for €500 per month - a price unthinkable in Los Angeles. The affordability extends to every aspect of life: groceries, dining out, and even healthcare.'
By regularly attending meet-ups with local community-minded groups, Orlov has managed to create a tight network of friends, which include fellow expats and native Albanians.
Away from the bustle of the city, she often spends her time touring agrotourism farms and wineries in the countryside, where she indulges in fresh cheese and seasonal wine.
On weekends, she noted the simplicity of being able to take a quick flight to nearby hotspots, such as Greece, North Macedonia and Italy.
Orlov also stressed she feels 'incredibly' safe in Albania, more so than she 'ever did back home.'
Since moving to Tirana, the seasoned solo traveller now enjoys a 'vibrant' social life, opts to 'walk everywhere' instead of driving, and pays significantly less for rent (Pictured: Air Albania (Arena Kombetare) in Capital of Tiran)
She added: 'There is a strong sense of security. People look out for one another. I can walk through the city by day or night without worry. That kind of peace of mind is something I never realised I was missing until I found it.'
For Orlov, relocating alone to the other side of the planet has not only enriched her life culturally, but it's given her the opportunity to 'create the life she's always imagined.'
She urged those considering a similar move to plan a scouting trip before packing up their belongings.
Orlov added: 'Albania isn't for everyone, and it's important to explore different areas in person. I thought I wanted to live by the sea until I visited Tirana. Then I knew I had found my home.'
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