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‘Untied' with Relebogile Mabotja: South African women share their powerful divorce journeys

‘Untied' with Relebogile Mabotja: South African women share their powerful divorce journeys

IOL News10-06-2025
Relebogile Mabotja is the host and associate producer of "Untied", a new Showmax Original. Picture: Supplied
Award-winning presenter Relebogile Mabotja is stepping back in front of the camera as the host of a bold new talk show.
The new Showmax Original 'Untied' sees Mabotja sit down with some of South Africa's most recognisable women who have been through a divorce.
Businesswoman Norma Mngoma, whose high-profile marriage and public fallout shocked the country, is the first guest. Mngoma was previously married to former Minister of Finance Malusi Gigaba and their split was headline-making.
The emotional resonance deepens as each episode spotlights stories from public figures including reality stars Beverly Steyn and Nonku Williams, celebrated actresses Dawn Thandeka King, Mona Monyane, and Palesa Madisakwane, iconic media personality Zandi Nhlapo, and model and social entrepreneur, Sonia Booth.
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