Top baby names hated by grandparents includes Scottish title with link to nature
Parents have recounted their experiences of arguing with their parents or in-laws over their children's names
Deciding on a name for your baby is one of life's toughest decisions. Expectant parents may be ready to throw the A-Z baby name book out the window, agonising over what has the easiest spelling or the most beautiful meaning.
Impressing family may also be on the minds of parents -to-be. Although choosing a moniker is down to personal preference, many would be lying if they said they didn't care what their own parents thought of their child's name.
This week, an eyebrow-raising survey of 2,000 grandparents and parents conducted by Gransnet, alongside sister site Mumsnet, found that one in five grandparents have struggled to come to terms with a grandchild's name.
A whopping sixty nine per cent of grandparents think that it's fine for them to give their opinion on their grandchild's name, while fifteen per cent of parents admit that a parent or in-law dislikes their baby's name.
Sadly, four per cent of grandparents say that they still have not accepted the name, even over time. Two per cent say that they have fallen out with the parents over their baby name choice.
Shockingly, six per cent even say that they temporarily fell out of contact because of the disagreement.
Grandparents' objections to their grandchild's name included the name being ugly (28 per cent), the name was 'too weird' (17 per cent) and it reminded them of someone they dislike (11 per cent).
The study listed the top names hated by grandparents, and one Scottish name with a link to nature is among them.
The top names hated by grandparents
Aurora
Charlotte
Elijah
Finn
Jack
Lindsay
Noah
Sally
Tabitha
The name Lindsay is of Scottish origins ad carries a significant meaning attached to it. Lindsay is derived from the old Scottish Gaelic word lind-saigh or lind-seaig, which translates to from the lake settlement island.
"This etymology suggests a connection to the geography of the Scottish landscape, implying a strong association with its natural beauty and mystique," ancestry.co.uk explains.
"Lindsay came to be associated with various noble families and clans in Scotland... participating in battles, politics, and holding prominent positions in society.
"Their affiliation with the name Lindsay solidified its place in historical records and elevated its status within Scottish culture."
Another name thrown under the bus is 'Finn,' which is an Irish boy's name, meaning 'fair,' or "blessed".
The title is connected to a long line of Irish mythology
Coming from the Irish Fionn, Finn was the anglicised name of a mythical Irish warrior and folklore hero.
ITV This Morning viewers were let in on the findings on Thursday (May 1) and shared their own experiences of run-ins with parents and in-laws over their name selection, which some have to come to regret.
One woman wrote: "We wanted to call our son Loki, but my mother-in-law kicked off and said she wouldn't use it. Ever. She said she would call him 'baby' instead and knowing her, she would have.
"I had a horrendous pregnancy with him and couldn't be bothered with the argument so we picked a different name. He's nearly 16 now and we love his name anyway, but grandparents really should mind their own business."
Another chimed in: "When my mum was pregnant with me, she wanted to call me Sky (from Neighbours). My nan said absolutely not... when I found out I was gutted, I loved the name.
"Fifteen years ago I had my first daughter and named her Sky... my nan loved her name."
A third recounted: "My mum hated my fourth son's name, my husband's grandmother hated my third son's name. I don't care, they are their names and they are pretty normal names."
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