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Rakshabandhan: Tips and remedies to strengthen the brother-sister bond

Rakshabandhan: Tips and remedies to strengthen the brother-sister bond

Time of India6 days ago
Rakshabandhan represents the sacred thread of love, protection, and spiritual bonding that connects a brother and sister. Beyond the emotions and family traditions,
Rakhi 2025
can be commemorated with simple Vedic and astrological remedies that help heal, protect, and energise the brother–sister relationship.
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Here are some beneficial remedies and intuitive rituals to bring you an enchanting and transformative Rakhi celebration.
Vedic Remedies to Heal and Strengthen the Sibling Bond
1. To Heal Misunderstandings Between Siblings
If you've experienced conflict, emotional detachment, or strain in your relationship with your sibling:
In the morning, write your sibling's name on a piece of white paper.
Place this paper in your Rakhi puja thali in front of Lord Krishna.
After tying the Rakhi, burn the paper in a desi ghee diya.
Let the ash fly away in the air or bury it in clean soil.
Outcome:
This ritual helps eliminate negativity, promote peace, and heal emotional wounds.
2. For a Brother Facing Financial Struggles
If your brother is going through career or financial challenges:
Tie him a yellow Rakhi (yellow is linked with wealth and Jupiter).
Donate one rupee or a copper coin to a poor Brahmin or in a temple in your brother's name.
Outcome:
This helps remove obstacles and negativity, attracting abundance and new opportunities.
3. For a Sister Facing Delays in Marriage
If a sister is experiencing delays in marriage:
Tie the Rakhi to your brother while sitting beside a Tulsi (Holy Basil) plant.
After the Rakhi ritual, offer sweetened water (with jaggery or sugar) to the plant.
Outcome:
This invites the blessings of Lord Vishnu and Goddess Lakshmi, harmonising marital energies and attracting suitable proposals.
Astrological Remedy Using Salt for Happiness and Peace
On
Rakhi 2025
(9th August):
Take a small pinch of rock salt or sea salt and mix it in a bowl of water.
After completing the Rakhi ritual, sprinkle this salty water at your home's entrance and windows.
You can also mop the house floor with a spoonful of salt in the water (avoid the kitchen and puja room).
Outcome:
This ancient Vastu and astrological remedy removes the evil eye, wards off negative energy, and invites happiness, peace, and family harmony. It becomes even more powerful when performed after the Rakhi puja with mantras.
Bonus Tip: Mantras to Increase the Energy
While tying the Rakhi, you may chant the following for spiritual blessings:
Protection from Lord Vishnu:
'ॐ नमो भगवते वासुदेवाय' — Chant 11 or 21 times.
'ॐ नमो भगवते वासुदेवाय' — Chant 11 or 21 times. To Invite Auspiciousness and Well-being:
'सर्वमंगल मांगल्ये शिवे सर्वार्थ साधिके।
शरण्ये त्र्यंबके गौरि नारायणी नमोऽस्तुते॥' — Chant 11 times.
All these easy, spiritual remedies require no elaborate arrangements, what matters most is your
intention, purity of heart, and faith
. Vedic wisdom, when combined with sincerity, can deeply strengthen the brother–sister bond and fill the festival with divine blessings.
This article is written by Tarot Pooja Verma, Tarot Card Reader & Numerologist.
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