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22 Extremely Rare, Mind-Blowing Photos From 100 Years Ago That Show How Wildly Different Things Used To Be

22 Extremely Rare, Mind-Blowing Photos From 100 Years Ago That Show How Wildly Different Things Used To Be

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1.This 1925 prescription pill box:
2.This 1920s McDonald's that was built in a colonial mansion:
3.This 1926 driver's license:
4.This 1925 National Geographic magazine:
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5.This 1929 circular playing card deck:
6.This 1923 teachers contract:
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8.This 1922 baby weight certificate:
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9.This 1923 Ford model:
10.These early 1920s $1 coins:
11.This 1923 phonograph:
12.This 1922 college application form:
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13.This 1928 toaster:
14.This 1924 Chevrolet ad:
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19.This 1923 dollar bill:
20.This 1923 high school report card:
21.This 1925 invitation to watch the solar eclipse with glasses:
22.And finally, this 1920s ad to build a house for under $2500:
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