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Carolyn Hax: One daughter's wedding slips through cracks of another's divorce

Carolyn Hax: One daughter's wedding slips through cracks of another's divorce

Washington Post18-07-2025
Dear Carolyn: I have five children, two daughters. 'Lynn' is 40, and 'Emma' is 29. Lynn got married 15 years ago, and since she was the first bride of the younger generation, a big fuss was made over her wedding by me, my two sisters and especially my mother.
Emma is getting married next month, but since she is the fifth and last bride in our family, it's not as big a deal. That's the way it was in the previous generation, too, because this happened to my sister, the sixth bride that time around.
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