Western leaders condemn Israel — yet their armies ask it for advice

Times

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No military is more publicly condemned today than the Israel Defence Forces. Yet behind closed doors, few are more studied. Western generals and defence officials routinely seek Israeli briefings, request access to doctrine and tactics, and pursue cooperation on training and technology.
These efforts continue even as their political counterparts issue statements of moral outrage and condemnation. The contradiction reflects more than a double standard. It reveals a deeper divide between political perception and military reality, between external messaging and internal understanding, between illusion and experience.
Since the war in Gaza began, Israel has hosted dozens of foreign delegations. Military officers and defence officials observe Israeli operations firsthand. They ask technical questions about targeting processes, coordination between air and ground forces, real-time intelligence integration and how combat units distinguish between civilians and combatants under fire.
Some return weeks later to formalise cooperation on areas ranging from tunnel warfare to hostage recovery to civilian harm mitigation. Meanwhile, many of their political counterparts deliver rehearsed remarks emphasising restraint, proportionality and civilian protection, often with little connection to the operational context or ground realities they were just briefed on.
This is not just political inconsistency. It is strategic dissonance. War is never clean. Urban warfare against a hybrid enemy embedded in civilian areas is among the most complex challenges modern democracies will face. Yet the public discussion is often dominated by expectations of precision and perfection that no military force can guarantee. In many capitals, political performance overrides professional understanding.
In Gaza, Hamas constructed more than 300 miles of fortified tunnels beneath civilian infrastructure. It operates from hospitals, schools and mosques — by design, not necessity. Early in the war, the IDF learned a simple rule: if you want to find a tunnel, look beneath a school. If you are searching for an enemy headquarters, start under a mosque. If you suspect an arms depot, check the basement of a hospital.
This is not coincidence; it is a consistent, deliberate tactic. Hamas has blocked evacuations, placed command centres inside humanitarian zones and taken hundreds of hostages. These are not side-effects of war. They are deliberate features of a strategy built to paralyse democracies, provoke condemnation and weaponise civilian suffering. The targeting of civilians is not incidental. It is essential to Hamas's operational concept.
Many political leaders respond by invoking past conflicts. They reference battles in Aleppo, Fallujah or Raqqa, assuming these comparisons provide meaningful precedent. But most of these conflicts did not involve an adversary intentionally preventing civilians from leaving combat zones. Most did not involve hundreds of hostages dispersed across a dense urban battlefield. Most involved insurgencies, not foreign-backed terrorist armies. Many involved military forces that did not follow the same standards of precision and accountability expected of Israel.
These differences matter. Failing to account for them leads to flawed analysis and unrealistic policy prescriptions.
These dynamics are not limited to Gaza. Across the region, similar tactics are emerging. In southern Syria, President Sharaa's regime has carried out atrocities against the Druze population while embedded within civilian areas. These acts of cruelty follow the same playbook used by Hamas.
Yet few international voices draw consistent lines between them. This silence reflects another gap: the unwillingness to apply standards evenly when the political costs differ. Condemnation is directed at those who can hear it. Those who operate beyond the reach of democratic norms often face no scrutiny at all.
While calls for humanitarian concern grow louder, few political leaders press for solutions that would actually reduce civilian harm. Egypt continues to keep its border with Gaza closed, despite being the sole neighbouring country uninvolved in the conflict and capable of providing immediate relief to civilians seeking safety. Evacuation routes remain blocked.
Temporary refuge for civilians is politically possible but diplomatically ignored. Not a single major European government or United Nations body has mounted sustained pressure on Cairo to open the Rafah crossing, or to establish a displaced persons or humanitarian zone a few miles into the Sinai. Instead, criticism centres on Israel, the only actor conducting both combat and humanitarian operations in the same battlespace. The imbalance distorts both perception and policy.
This is not the first time democracies have confronted hard choices. The wars of the 20th century were waged with heavy costs. Civilian casualties were tragically high. But the principle of civilian protection was strengthened over time, especially with the Geneva Conventions adopted after the Second World War. Those conventions remain the foundation of the modern laws of war.
They prohibit intentional attacks on civilians and impose a duty to take feasible precautions to avoid civilian harm. But they do not demand perfection, nor do they outlaw war itself. When adversaries exploit civilians to provoke condemnation and delay operations, the responsibility lies with those who commit the violations — not those who attempt to respond within the law.
The numbers bear remembering. Two million civilians died in the Korean War, averaging more than 50,000 per month. More than 10,000 were killed in the liberation of a single city, Mosul. Hundreds of thousands died during military operations in Iraq and Afghanistan.
Cities were flattened in the campaign against Isis. These are not historical footnotes. They are reminders of what war has always entailed, especially in dense urban environments. Today, only one military — the IDF — is expected to achieve battlefield success without error, without civilian harm and without criticism, even as it faces enemies who deliberately try to make this impossible.
Despite this, militaries around the world continue to seek Israeli knowledge. Governments initiate formal cooperation agreements. Officers train in Israeli facilities. Procurement programs focus on Israeli defence technologies developed through experience in real combat conditions.
These are not isolated interactions. They are serious, structured engagements based on the recognition that similar wars may lie ahead. European and Nato militaries understand that future threats may look more like Hamas than like conventional armies. They are preparing accordingly.
This is not a blanket condemnation of all political leaders. Many do understand what modern war demands and the reality Israel is confronting. Nor is the political-professional divide a one-way street. War is ultimately the pursuit of political objectives, and in a democracy, those objectives are set by political leaders based on the best advice of their military advisers.
At the same time, senior military leaders must understand the domestic, international and geopolitical factors that frame and constrain the use of force. Political leaders cannot speak about war without accounting for context, history, strategy, tactics and operational reality. And military leaders cannot speak about war without understanding the political environment that defines it. The tension between political and professional perspectives is not a flaw. It is a feature of democratic governance. But it must be informed, mutual and honest.
Unfortunately, that equilibrium is too often lost. Political leaders too often avoid difficult truths. Some present war as inherently unjust. Others suggest that all violence can be avoided with diplomacy or restraint. Few acknowledge that, in extreme cases, force may be both necessary and lawful. This avoidance does not strengthen democracy. It weakens it. It misleads citizens, erodes deterrence and gives adversaries greater freedom of action.
In Israel, such illusions are not possible. Conflict is measured in metres — the distance of homes from hostile territory. Missiles arrive in seconds. Tunnels turn rear areas into front lines. Civilian buildings become military objectives by design. This is not theoretical. It is a daily reality.
On October 7, Hamas killed 1,200 Israelis, many through direct atrocities. Adjusted for population, that would be the equivalent of more than 40,000 Americans, or 8,000 Britons, killed in a single day. International law permits self-defence, even in war.
Proportionality accounts for the presence of civilians, even when they are unlawfully put at risk by those who violate the laws of war. It requires that civilian harm not be excessive in relation to the anticipated military advantage and that every feasible precaution be taken to minimise that harm. Israel has done both.
Democracies must regain strategic clarity. They cannot afford to treat war as a morality play while military officers prepare for reality. They must explain to their populations that war, when necessary, is not only legal but at times morally required. They must recognise that the expectations placed on allies today may become the burdens they bear tomorrow. The next war will not wait for consensus. It will demand readiness, resolve and truth.
If democratic leaders continue to separate what they know privately from what they say publicly, the result will not be greater morality. It will be greater suffering and failure. Silence will not deter enemies. Illusion will not protect civilians. And condemnation, without context or consistency, will not produce peace.
The hard lessons of war must be faced, not avoided. Military professionals understand this. It is time for political leaders to do the same.
General Yoav Gallant, former Israeli minister of defence and decorated IDF commander, has spent nearly five decades at the forefront of Israel's national defence.
John Spencer is executive director of the Urban Warfare Institute and co-author of Understanding Urban Warfare. He has advised senior US army leaders through strategic roles from the Pentagon to West Point. You can follow him on X.