The sex position & tips that will keep you cool whilst you're getting heated
Sure, cracking open the windows and cranking up the fans can help, but let's be honest - it might also have you scooting as far away from your partner as humanly possible.
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Annabelle Knight has revealed her top sex positions to help you keep cool
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She believes that you don't have to sacrifice your sex life because it's hot
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And the last thing on your mind is getting heated in the sheets.
But sexpert
She says: 'With another sizzling spell of sunshine heading our way, it's not just our factor fifty that'll be working overtime.
'When temperatures rise, so can passion, but getting steamy when there's soaring temperatures can be more sticky than sexy.
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'But, you don't need to sacrifice pleasure just because the sun's out.
'With the right positions, props, and a bit of creativity, you can stay cool while still getting hot and heavy…'
Here, she tells YASMIN HARISHA her top eight sex positions that'll save you from being a sweltering mess at home.
The Lazy Spoon
This is a super sensual low-effort, side-by-side position.
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It's ideal for conserving energy…as the receiving partner lies on their side the other partner can simply slip in from behind.
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It's gentle, intimate, and requires little movement - perfect for when temperatures soar.
Edge of Glory
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Sometimes the no contact sex positions are the best in the heat
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One partner lies flat on the edge of the bed while the other person stands or kneels on the floor.
Because only one person is on the mattress, there's less trapped body heat, meaning you'll stay cooler.
Plus, this particular position allows for deep penetration without full-body contact.
Shower Power
Skip the bedroom entirely and take the
Water helps regulate body temperature and keeps things slippery in all the right ways.
In my opinion it's best for standing positions like facing each other or from behind.
Just be careful with your footing… non slip mats or suction cup shower handles are your friend here.
Ice, Ice, Maybe
Temperature play isn't just kinky… it's cooling, too.
This adds a shock of sensation and cools the skin at the same time.
You can even incorporate chilled massage oils or edible lubes by keeping them in the fridge for a refreshing twist.
Fan Club
If you don't have air con, position a fan near the bed and experiment with airflow.
Try angling it so it hits your bodies directly, or place a damp towel in front for a DIY cooling effect.
Sensation-wise, the breeze heightens touch and makes everything feel just a little more sensitive as it encourages more awareness of your body as the breeze hits you.
Flat Out
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Get creative with the different types of positions
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Lying flat on your backs side-by-side allows for mutual masturbation without touching.
This helps to keep the intimacy high and is also a great way to explore fantasies,
If you're stuck for ideas, try a little erotic fiction as inspiration, such as Fifty Shades of Grey, Tell Me To Stop, or my novel,
Cool Down Quickies
When it's hot, long sessions can feel more like a workout than a romp.
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Annabelle Knight holding a riding crop at a Fifty Shades of Grey event
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Instead, enjoy shorter, more intense encounters rather than marathon sex sessions.
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Chill Out Aftercare
The post-sex glow can easily become a post-sex sweat in summer.
Keep a cold flannel, cooling body mist and a glass of ice water by the bed to freshen up afterwards.
It'll help you feel refreshed, reconnected and ready to go again… once you've cooled off of course.
What your sexual fantasies say about you
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Raucous Role Play:
If your partner enjoys dressing up for fun, it shows creativity and a desire to keep things exciting. However, it might signal that he struggles with responsibility.
Multi-Partner Fantasies:
Craving variety doesn't always mean he wants to cheat. However, it could indicate deeper feelings of unfulfillment.
Power & Control:
A little dominance is normal, but if it's always about control, it may hide insecurities.
Adventure:
Men seeking thrills may push boundaries, so be sure your comfort zone is respected.
Passion:
If he's romantic, he's emotionally tuned in—though occasionally avoiding tough conversations.
Flexibility:
Openness to new experiences is great, but constant novelty-seeking could mean avoiding emotional connection.
Red Flag:
If control is his ultimate fantasy, it may signal a deeper struggle with power dynamics.
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