Asking Eric: Partner doesn't greet neighbors
Dear Eric: My partner and I (35 years) are fortunate to have multiple residences. We have always 'lived together apart.' It's unconventional, but it works for us. My primary residence is in a large urban condominium building and his is rural in a small town. We're always together on weekends (we alternate the destination) but apart during the week.
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