Local dads share joys and challenges of fatherhood
Rekord this year sat down with a diverse group of fathers to peel back the layers of what it truly means to be a dad today. In their views, whether it's countless sacrifices, teaching their children how to ride a bicycle, attending school meetings or offering comfort after a hard day, fathers play an essential role in the well-being of their families.
Here is what Pretoria dads shared and reflected on their different experiences in fatherhood:
William Lebudi (29) from Silverton said the most exciting part about being a father is seeing your child grow in your presence.
'Although I have one biological child, I am a father of many. Being a protector, provider, and dream maker to children is fulfilling.'
He said being there for children gives him a bigger purpose in life.
'Attending those school meetings and dance classes means a lot for your child.
'It's no longer the same as when we grew up, where our fathers would just buy us school shoes and a uniform, then they've played their part,' he said.
Just like any leader, being a pillar of strength and holding together a family has its ups and downs, which is why they need all the support they can get from their loved ones and the community.
Wesley Petersen (40) from Eersterust shared the challenges he faced as a father.
'My wife and I struggled to have children for some time before we had our now 11-year-old daughter. We went through two miscarriages.'
He said it was the toughest challenge he faced in his life, which is why he wants to provide the best life for his daughter.
'I want to raise my daughter the way my father raised me, with love and by being there at all times.'
Some dads feel that the most challenging part about being a father is not knowing whether you're good enough for your children.
Andries Van Der Walt (52) from Meyerspark said being a father is not always as easy as the way people make it seem, but it is the biggest blessing from God.
'Sometimes you feel tired, stressed, and unsure whether you're good enough or not for your family.
'You only realise when you see your child smile that, 'No, you're doing just fine'.'
He said it feels good to know that he tried his best to raise his children, even through hardships, and he stuck around.
Morgan Simelane (64) from Mamelodi West said the pathway to a happy family is taking responsibility and being there for your family in all aspects.
'I am not just there financially for my family. I provide emotional and mental support as well.'
He said using an 'iron fist' to build a family never works.
'I am in a partnership with my wife. I also help with chores in the house like everyone, and this has set a good example for my children.'
Simon Sibanyoni (31) from Danville shared how his life transformed for the better after he had his first child.
'Having a child made me realise that I could be a better person than I was then. I used to not care about life, I was irresponsible and wasted my years on useless things.'
He said his children are a blessing in his life.
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