Pregnant maid of honour kicked out: Bride fears stolen spotlight
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We all know brides usually want their wedding day to be all about them, but sometimes, that desire for the spotlight can go a bit too far.
A bride has sparked outrage on Reddit's infamous 'bridezillas' page after she removed her pregnant best friend as maid of honour, claiming the baby bump might draw too much attention on her wedding day.
The Redditor, who is a mum to a three-year-old and four months pregnant with her second, shared the shocking news.
She'd been asked to be her best friend's maid of honour two years ago and was thrilled.
"I've been invited to my best friends wedding (as maid of honor) since she got engaged 2 years ago and I've been so excited for her," she wrote.
Even though her friend doesn't have kids, they were very close, often popping round to each other's houses and constantly texting.
"She's over at my house multiple times a week, we're always texting, etc and we've been talking about the wedding even in the past week," she explained.
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Woman was shocked when her best friend told she can no longer be in the wedding.
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Then, out of the blue, things took a sudden turn while they were chatting about the upcoming October wedding.
"This morning she came over and I asked a question about the wedding and she paused for a minute so I was like ???? and then she said 'yeah about that, I've decided I don't think it's best for you to be there'."
Naturally, the maid of honour was stunned and asked why.
She said: "Although she's happy for me being pregnant, she thinks that having a pregnant woman right at the alter will take a lot of the spotlight off of her and even just being at the event might cause people to direct their focus on me and not the married couple."
The jaw-dropping moment left the Reddit user "floored."
This post quickly gained traction, with comments pouring in, mostly from people furious at the bride's incredibly self-centred move.
One user commented: 'You need to take a break from this friend. She's evolving into a bridezilla! She may have already asked someone to be MOH. If you hang out with her, the wedding is what she'll talk about. No shower, no gifts, no attendance, I'm sorry your friend is treating you this way.'
'What a narcissistic thing to say. This person is not your friend and never really has been. Do you want these selfish jealous people around your family, no. Get her out of your life and rest assured you'll never have to feel this way again about having a family,' another responded.
'Sometimes the trash takes itself out. If someone is so insecure that they're afraid they'll be upstaged at their own wedding, they have serious problem, and you don't need her in your life,' said another.
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