Bride's Wedding Dress Sparks Family 'Drama' as Mother-in-Law 'Flipped Out' and Groom 'Felt Disappointed'
A recent bride asked Reddit users if she was in the wrong for wearing her "dream" white wedding dress even though it meant breaking the groom's family tradition of wearing "blush-colored" gowns
The woman's husband told her he "felt disappointed when [she] walked down the aisle in white" and her mother-in-law "flipped out"
Most Reddit users commented that the bride could wear whatever she wanted, but noted that it would have been nice to give a warning that she wouldn't be following tradition before the weddingA bride's "dream" wedding dress was a nightmare for the groom and his mother.
In a post on Reddit's "Am I the A------" forum, the bride, 31, said that her wedding was "a dream come true" until it wasn't. "One big drama" clouded the special day.
"My MIL (mother-in-law) flipped out over my wedding dress," she wrote.
The groom's side of the family has a "longstanding tradition" where brides wear "blush-colored" wedding dresses. All the women have followed this tradition for as long as they can remember, so when the Redditor got engaged, she was requested to wear a blush-colored wedding dress too.
"When they first mentioned it, I politely said I'd consider it but ultimately would go with whatever color my perfect dress happened to be," the bride explained.
When it came time to wedding dress shopping, the bride invited the groom's mother to join her. It didn't take long for her to find her dream wedding dress — but it was white.
"MIL immediately asked me if they could dye or alter it to blush," the bride recalled. "I promised I'd ask, but also made it clear if alterations weren't possible, I wouldn't be choosing another dress."
The bride followed through with her promise, and asked for alterations. However, she was told that dying the gown could potentially "ruin" it. The bride didn't want to take any chances, so she decided that it wasn't worth the risk and left the dress as it was.
What the bride didn't do was inform her future husband, 32, and mother-in-law before the wedding that she wouldn't be following their family tradition after all.
"It was my day, my dress, my choice," she said.
When the bride made her way down the aisle in her white dress, her mother-in-law was "visibly angry the whole time." After the ceremony at reception, she even "cornered" her and "demanded an explanation."
"I calmly told her they couldn't alter my dress, and I didn't want to choose another one," the Redditor said. "She said she was disappointed I broke their family tradition, and, to my surprise, even my now-husband mentioned later that he felt disappointed when I walked down the aisle in white."
"Hearing that my husband was disappointed seeing me on our wedding day just broke me," she added.
The bride asked fellow Redditors whether or not she was in the wrong for sticking with her wedding dress instead of following tradition. In the comments section, the majority of users said that the bride was NTA (Not the A------) for wearing a white wedding dress.
"YOU wore the dress so the only opinion that matters is yours," one person said.
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Another user wrote in part, "Your mother-in-law is allowed to be sad that the tradition wasn't upheld, but she needs to understand that it [is] your day and your choice. She should have kept her opinions to herself. If the color of your dress was that important to your husband, he should have communicated that to you before you went dress shopping."
A handful of commenters argued that it would have been more considerate for the bride to have at least given a heads up that she wasn't going to be following tradition before the ceremony, so that it wouldn't have been as jarring or disappointing for the groom and his mom.
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